• I avoid my mother because she is mentally insane and obsesses over her disorders. Is that wrong?

    My mom has schizophrenia, bi polar, OCD, PTSD, whatever else u can think of and she is OBSESSED. She has made her problems her and not just a part of her. She posts nothing but things about her disorders on Facebook that bluntly say she's a victim of this and that and it's annoying. She's never worked... show more
    My mom has schizophrenia, bi polar, OCD, PTSD, whatever else u can think of and she is OBSESSED. She has made her problems her and not just a part of her. She posts nothing but things about her disorders on Facebook that bluntly say she's a victim of this and that and it's annoying. She's never worked and spends her husband's money on stupid stuff. When I'm around her I feel uncomfortable. Her house is always messy and smells like pee and she does nothing but sleep and play on her laptop. She has an autistic daughter who doesn't know how to read and her husband is a little off too I feel like she could've done a lot more to help with her kid and she doesn't manage what she eats and let's her just sit in front of the computer too all day she's only like 9 but she acts like she's 4 and I feel like there's more my mom can do like with her weight and hygiene. My mom has showed up at my door before with out asking (she has no vehicle she'll just walk). I just don't really want much to do with them because it's just depressing and they kinda smell. I have nothing to do with any of my family really and I think my mom neglected me as a child. Also anytime I'm around her, all she does is talk about past things and abuse and stuff. I have bi polar but at least I try to not harp on it and try to eat healthy and just try to do things to make me happy. The least she can do is try to help herself but she swims in hopelessness. Wtf to do?
    31 answers · 2 days ago
  • Can I call the police?

    My mom and dad has been drinking , everytime they drink together my dad brings up old stuff and sometimes new stuff and makes a big deal out of the little things and accuse my mom of cheating when she has been nothing but faithful , she has been taking hits and punches from him for years , I really want my mom to... show more
    My mom and dad has been drinking , everytime they drink together my dad brings up old stuff and sometimes new stuff and makes a big deal out of the little things and accuse my mom of cheating when she has been nothing but faithful , she has been taking hits and punches from him for years , I really want my mom to leave him and I tell her everytime to but she keeps letting him back into the house knowing me or my siblings doesn’t like him , he hasn’t done anything for me or my siblings he eats up all of our food and uses our soap and lays in my mom bed and all he does when he’s sober is just keep his distance from us but when he’s not sober he’s horrible he’s a downer , today my dad hit my mom on the side of her neck and I wanna call the police but they both been drinking and I’m afraid they both will go to jail what should I do ? Especially considering the fact that she keeps just forgiving him and letting him back in .
    17 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is it right to hate my parents for being short ?

    Best answer: Why would you hate someone for something they can't control? Your only other alternative would be not existing at all. Your parents are the only reason you exist.

    So no, it isn't right.
    Best answer: Why would you hate someone for something they can't control? Your only other alternative would be not existing at all. Your parents are the only reason you exist.

    So no, it isn't right.
    13 answers · 1 day ago
  • Where do I go to help my parents ?

    My mother has been unwell with various ailments for the past 4 years. She spends all day every day laying on the bed. She visits the doctor at least 2 to 3 times per week and he has no answers for her. My problem is she is completely unreasonable and demands that Dad sit on the bed next to her all day every day.... show more
    My mother has been unwell with various ailments for the past 4 years. She spends all day every day laying on the bed. She visits the doctor at least 2 to 3 times per week and he has no answers for her. My problem is she is completely unreasonable and demands that Dad sit on the bed next to her all day every day. His mental health is slowly erroding as he's bored silly. He spends all his time on his iPad to keep himself entertained. The minute he goes outside to do something she gets angry with him and says he's not looking after her. We are at our wits end with her and no matter how much we try to talk to her and tell her that its completely unreasonable to expect Dad to sit on the bed all day she won't listen. She tells us its his duty. Im not sure where or who to turn to for advice. Any suggestions please
    6 answers · 1 day ago
  • How to become vegetarian when your family isn't?

    I'm a 16 year old girl so I'm still living at home. My family and I have always been huge meat eaters and honestly I love meat and find it a struggle to imagine my diet without it. However as I'm getting older I'm starting to come to my own conclusions about things more than just following my... show more
    I'm a 16 year old girl so I'm still living at home. My family and I have always been huge meat eaters and honestly I love meat and find it a struggle to imagine my diet without it. However as I'm getting older I'm starting to come to my own conclusions about things more than just following my parents "just don't think about what you're eating" attitude. Whilst on the computer the other day I found a presentation about how immoral eating meat is, followed by the most repulsive snapshot from an abbatoir. This video paired with my own feelings helped consolidate how I feel about eating meat. I really don't want to eat it any more for moral reason and also for the health benefits. My parents are against me going vegetarian as they think it's just a phase and it's too much hassle to make me separate meals and they believe this diet won't provide me with the necessary nutrients. Can anyone help me out?
    30 answers · 4 days ago
  • My sister walks around naked how do I tell her to cover up a little?

    Best answer: Perhaps you should do as the Romans and start walking around naked too.
    Best answer: Perhaps you should do as the Romans and start walking around naked too.
    20 answers · 4 days ago
  • My husband installed a camera in my daughter's bedroom?

    So my husband and I have been married for 8 months now, but he didn't officially move in with me until just recently. I also have a teenage daughter from my first marriage who lives with me for most of the year. Up until yesterday, he and my daughter have gotten along great and I really enjoyed having a real... show more
    So my husband and I have been married for 8 months now, but he didn't officially move in with me until just recently. I also have a teenage daughter from my first marriage who lives with me for most of the year. Up until yesterday, he and my daughter have gotten along great and I really enjoyed having a real family unit again. However last night when my daughter was doing laundry she discovered some kind of recording device with a little camera lens taped under one of the shelving units in her bedroom closet. We have no idea how long it's been there or if it's even functional. We weren't too alarmed at first, but over the course of the night she became increasingly panicked at the thought of somebody watching her in her sleep. I texted my husband (he's currently out of town) and asked him if he knew anything about it. At first he denied knowing anything, but after a couple of hours he called me and admitted that he put it there. He claimed that he only put it there to "keep tabs" on her and that it was "for her own safety". It's true that she was HAS gotten into trouble recently for drinking and she DOES have a history of sneaking out. Even if he did put it there for those reasons, this is still way over the line, right? I want desperately to believe his reasoning, but I'm starting to suspect that he probably has other motives for putting it there. He won't be home for another two days. How should I handle this until then and what should I do when he gets back?
    11 answers · 9 hours ago
  • How do I get my parents to stop being so sexist?

    I'm a 16 year old girl and my parents still check my phone every night, I'm not allowed to have any social media, I'm not allowed to go out with my friends, I can't watch anything rated higher than PG, or listen to any music with even one swear word in it. My brother on the other hand is 13 and he... show more
    I'm a 16 year old girl and my parents still check my phone every night, I'm not allowed to have any social media, I'm not allowed to go out with my friends, I can't watch anything rated higher than PG, or listen to any music with even one swear word in it. My brother on the other hand is 13 and he can do all of that and even more. One time, my parents and I accidentally walked in on him masturbating to porn, and I'm not even joking when I say that they didn't even care and just said that "he's a guy and it's natural for guys". I was actually so done at that point. If that was me, I don't even want to imagine what they would do. They are so sexist and act like girls are supposed to be so innocent and perfect, and it's so annoying! I'm 16 and they act like I'm 6!
    14 answers · 2 days ago
  • Should I slap my aunts for gossiping or hurt them?

    They been doing it for years, they never disagree that they say negative stuff is the worse par, they lie. MY father helped them and are very nice to them for no reason. They still take advantage and talk crap
    They been doing it for years, they never disagree that they say negative stuff is the worse par, they lie. MY father helped them and are very nice to them for no reason. They still take advantage and talk crap
    9 answers · 4 hours ago
  • Should I talk to my mom about her drinking every single day?

    And being drunk before 10 AM
    And being drunk before 10 AM
    8 answers · 4 hours ago
  • Is it ok for 3 brothers in a same family to marry 3 sisters in another family?

    So the 3 brothers will become brothers-in-law also And the 3 sisters will become sisters-in-law also Is this incest
    So the 3 brothers will become brothers-in-law also And the 3 sisters will become sisters-in-law also Is this incest
    26 answers · 4 days ago
  • Is it right to be mad about this?

    So I drive a car that my stepdad bought a year ago for himself. He doesn’t really use it because he works and he has his own truck for his job . So my point is the only reason I’m allowed to use it is because I drive to where I work and my mom convinced him to let me use it . I only use it for a couple minutes a... show more
    So I drive a car that my stepdad bought a year ago for himself. He doesn’t really use it because he works and he has his own truck for his job . So my point is the only reason I’m allowed to use it is because I drive to where I work and my mom convinced him to let me use it . I only use it for a couple minutes a day and when he uses it he takes it for more than a hour . So he’s basically using up all the gas . I’m just saying, yeah sure he pays for the car insurance. The car is pretty old cause it’s from 1998 . So he paid it off. I get mad cause when I use it and use up all or half the gas I refill it and he doesn’t seem to care about wasting the gas he leaves it to almost empty. But I mean he is using his car so why have to be mad about refueling your own car . I use it to get to where I need to be and I still will refuel it to use it again. I’m just mad cause he thinks that because I work or earn money, I may have all the money in the world. I don’t know wheather I should confront him or just let it be .
    62 answers · 6 days ago
  • Depressed I can't afford college. How do I cope with depression?

    So I'm 19, and working 2 jobs to help pay save up for school. I come from a poor family. I'm dyslexic, so I didn't get the best grades in high school. I graduated with a 3.2 gpa, so I didn't get a ton of scholarships. I can't afford any type of school. Neither one of my parents can cosign my... show more
    So I'm 19, and working 2 jobs to help pay save up for school. I come from a poor family. I'm dyslexic, so I didn't get the best grades in high school. I graduated with a 3.2 gpa, so I didn't get a ton of scholarships. I can't afford any type of school. Neither one of my parents can cosign my student loans because of their own irresponsible decisions. My mom and dad also saved up a small college fund for me.... only to have my dad gamble it all away.. completely. My grandma also left me a very small amount of money for school... and my dad gambled that away as well. Not being able to afford school, and scrubbing toilets for minimum wage is really messing me up mentally. I'm constantly depressed... I cry all the time... I have screaming matches with my dad... I'm suicidal. I just don't know anymore. I feel like my future was ripped away from me. I was going to be the first person to go to college in my family. my dad is a janitor... and I'm currently cleaning toilets too... I'm so depressed. I can't even afford my in state tuition schools. I'm working 2 jobs and don't even have nearly enough for my first semester. Any advice? I've wanted to make movies ever since I was little... and now I feel like my dreams are stupid. I have all of this rage built up in me. I didn't want a single dime from my parents!!! I just wanted them to cosign my student loan for my first year!!! They didn't have to give me a single penny!! Any advice? how do I deal with this depression??
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why do I want to hurt people that gossip?

    I just don't like gossiping. Like my aunt always talks crap with the other aunts about my mom for no reason. Its like she doesn't even say anything to deserve this. Its been since I was 6 when I see them getting jealous and talking crap. Now i'm older, I hate it
    I just don't like gossiping. Like my aunt always talks crap with the other aunts about my mom for no reason. Its like she doesn't even say anything to deserve this. Its been since I was 6 when I see them getting jealous and talking crap. Now i'm older, I hate it
    7 answers · 4 hours ago