• My whole family heard my porn on the bluetooth speaker?

    I'm in my room chilling before dinner. I have 2 sets of aunts and uncles and a bunch of cousins staying here. They are all downstairs with my parents. I put on some porn on my laptop but it was connected to the bluetooth speaker in the living room.... and they heard it for at least 30 seconds. What would you do?
    I'm in my room chilling before dinner. I have 2 sets of aunts and uncles and a bunch of cousins staying here. They are all downstairs with my parents. I put on some porn on my laptop but it was connected to the bluetooth speaker in the living room.... and they heard it for at least 30 seconds. What would you do?
    19 answers · 1 day ago
  • My dad has diabetes and keeps eating pizza. How do I stop him?

    I m becoming extremely frustrated with my father where he keeps buying pizza from Little Caesars everyday. From this point, he is in a state of denial, refusing to believe that he has diabetes. At this rate, my father is not going to live very long and it is stressing me the **** out. Countless arguments with my... show more
    I m becoming extremely frustrated with my father where he keeps buying pizza from Little Caesars everyday. From this point, he is in a state of denial, refusing to believe that he has diabetes. At this rate, my father is not going to live very long and it is stressing me the **** out. Countless arguments with my father hasn t helped and only led to drama. The more I try to harass my father about it, the more he gets furious and shuts me off. No matter what I say, he won t listen. I went to the Little Caesar store where he usually buys the pizza to talk to the manager and I requested the manager to stop selling my dad pizza, however, the manger told me that they are not allowed to refuse service to anyone and have done nothing to help my situation. I really don t know what to do. Does anyone have any useful advice on how to deal with this situation?
    40 answers · 3 days ago
  • How do I explain to my 9 year old son why I don't feel comfortable with him going to a friend's house?

    He plays with a little girl whose father has a history of having sexual relationships with children. I already felt uneasy about this girl being vulnerable to him (especially DURING the time he was caught). It's my job to protect my child. This man was involved with a few other kids, but not his daughter nor my... show more
    He plays with a little girl whose father has a history of having sexual relationships with children. I already felt uneasy about this girl being vulnerable to him (especially DURING the time he was caught). It's my job to protect my child. This man was involved with a few other kids, but not his daughter nor my son. At 9 years of age, it seems too young to be exposed to this stuff. He's been told about the basics that he is always to tell an adult if someone makes him uncomfortable. I'd rather he not go to places where those risks are present. How do I tell him in an understandable, age suitable way?
    11 answers · 21 hours ago
  • No Thanksgiving This Year :(?

    Best answer: I think your mother did overreact quite a bit and could have handled it better. Instead of punishing the whole family, she should punish the ones who didn't wash the dishes
    Best answer: I think your mother did overreact quite a bit and could have handled it better. Instead of punishing the whole family, she should punish the ones who didn't wash the dishes
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • Is it rude for my in laws not to help with marriage expenses ? home furnishing etc?

    I paid for my new apartment in full; and im buying all the necessary furniture, carpets etc by myself. When i met my fiancee's parents and told them that we wish to get married etc i expected them to sort of help out with the expenses somehow; at least toss in a kitchen or a bedroom. After all i own the... show more
    I paid for my new apartment in full; and im buying all the necessary furniture, carpets etc by myself. When i met my fiancee's parents and told them that we wish to get married etc i expected them to sort of help out with the expenses somehow; at least toss in a kitchen or a bedroom. After all i own the apartment and we won't be paying rent = financial stability. Times are rough and i really dont see why her parents don't want to chip it. She just graduated from college so she'll be working soon. I find it very rude from my in laws not to chip in the home furniture; yet they will spend money for her daughters wedding ceremony and their guests. Is that rude ?
    14 answers · 11 hours ago
  • We buried my mother s ashes?

    So my mom passed away August 2013 (i was 16)we had her cremated and buried, but with all the grief and shock of her death we just did a normal burial and never had the chance to even think about keeping the ashes. The thought never came to me until about a month after her death. Unfortunately this is something I... show more
    So my mom passed away August 2013 (i was 16)we had her cremated and buried, but with all the grief and shock of her death we just did a normal burial and never had the chance to even think about keeping the ashes. The thought never came to me until about a month after her death. Unfortunately this is something I think about often and I ve been very upset about not keeping her ashes and I regret it every day. There was nothing I wanted more than to dig up her ashes (as terrible as that sounds) but I never knew how to go about it until I got to the point I m at now of googling it. Better late then never I guess! I always thought about it as something that shouldn t be done, you should never dig up a grave as it s disrespect and other things, which is also very hard because we had her buried over my pops casket. But like I said, I googled exumption and tried to get as much info as I could but I m honestly wondering if anyone else has ran into this issue or has had a similar experience.
    26 answers · 4 days ago
  • My mom went out to a "friend's" house all night?

    Best answer: Cheating is never okay, despite what "anonymous" advised you. It causes pain to everyone concerned. You don't know that she hasn't done anything like this before, it may be that she just hasn't been caught up until now. I think that since it troubles you, you should have a talk with her,... show more
    Best answer: Cheating is never okay, despite what "anonymous" advised you. It causes pain to everyone concerned. You don't know that she hasn't done anything like this before, it may be that she just hasn't been caught up until now. I think that since it troubles you, you should have a talk with her, and let her know that you are both worried and concerned about this. And you should be. both for yourself ,for her, and for your father, as well. She and your father need to deal with this, perhaps with the help of a licensed counselor, in order to resolve things, and it may mean that they will part company. Its not your job or role to become further involved, however, other than to express how it affects you, how concerned you are, and what you hope will be the outcome. Good wishes and good luck,
    16 answers · 3 days ago
  • My dad keeps sending money to someone he doesn't know?

    My dad has been sending money to a woman who lives far away from here. He has been sending her money for the flight so she can come to my father's house. But every time she say she will come, she will make an excuse like "i got robbed" "something bad happened". My dad doesn't understand... show more
    My dad has been sending money to a woman who lives far away from here. He has been sending her money for the flight so she can come to my father's house. But every time she say she will come, she will make an excuse like "i got robbed" "something bad happened". My dad doesn't understand that she's making fun of him and wasting his money?
    12 answers · 1 day ago
  • My dad was drunk yesterday for Thanksgiving and made everybody miserable. How should I confront him before Christmas so he doesn't ruin it?

    Best answer: I can promise that confronting him will achieve nothing. The "child" of an alcoholic has no leverage to issue an ultimatum. He might temporarily feel bad about wrecking it, but this has ZERO impact on how he'll behave at Christmas. I know it sounds illogical, but it's how this disease... show more
    Best answer: I can promise that confronting him will achieve nothing. The "child" of an alcoholic has no leverage to issue an ultimatum. He might temporarily feel bad about wrecking it, but this has ZERO impact on how he'll behave at Christmas. I know it sounds illogical, but it's how this disease works.

    Your mom is the one with the power here, but she's not using it. Interventions can be helpful, but they're hardly the only way to achieve results. She could research nearby rehabs, find a good one and then give him an ultimatum: he goes into that rehab today (and completes the program) or she's leaving him. Alcoholics don't care about words; it's actions that get their attention.

    Also, other adults in the family like his parents or sibs should refuse to be around him. Again, this is easier said than done, but the reason his drinking is getting worse is he's not experiencing consequences of it. When people act like it's expected, they're enabling him to keep doing it. And every day he gets a bit sicker.
    10 answers · 12 hours ago
  • Can my parents take things from me that I bought with money I earned from MY job?

    For example: laptop. I bought it with money I earned from MY job.
    For example: laptop. I bought it with money I earned from MY job.
    155 answers · 7 days ago
  • How do I handle my sexist cousin at Thanksgiving?

    He always says things like "after dinner the men can watch football while you ladies clean up" despite the fact that I have told him many times that I enjoy football and asking women to clean up is inappropriate. He also comments on female family members appearances and even their bums. He told me I have... show more
    He always says things like "after dinner the men can watch football while you ladies clean up" despite the fact that I have told him many times that I enjoy football and asking women to clean up is inappropriate. He also comments on female family members appearances and even their bums. He told me I have great legs last year. He gets drunk and acts this way every time. How do I handle this? P.S. I do not want to involve my husband as they are pals.
    22 answers · 3 days ago
  • Why is my mom so ******* crazy?

    Best answer: Upbringing.
    Best answer: Upbringing.
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • Does incest make retarded children?

    8 answers · 12 hours ago
  • 16 and mom won’t let me date?

    i asked my mom to go see a movie with a boy WITH my aunt, but my mom won’t allow it because she says i’m too young and she doesn’t trust me. i really like this boy and i’ve never asked her before now to date meanwhile all of my friends have for years now. another big reason as to why she won’t let me is because she... show more
    i asked my mom to go see a movie with a boy WITH my aunt, but my mom won’t allow it because she says i’m too young and she doesn’t trust me. i really like this boy and i’ve never asked her before now to date meanwhile all of my friends have for years now. another big reason as to why she won’t let me is because she has a negative view towards him, who she has NEVER EVEN MET or know anything about, she just knows that he goes to an alternative school and so she calls him a thug and tries to compare him to my aunts drug dealer scumbag husband who recently just caused a giant scene in the family. so they literally have nothing in common, she’s just bitter over that and trying to relate it to me. she also doesn’t have any reason not to trust me except for a few instances in which i’ve gotten in trouble for, for example, having social media behind her back, or cussing in text messages. she’s super strict and religious and talks down on me as if i’m some awful child because of these things, and it’s not like i’m out here smoking meth or getting pregnant. i am a good kid, i make really good grades, just recently got a really good ACT score as a sophomore, passed my permit today. i haven’t given any trouble or reason for her to not trust me in months, but all she’s focused on is past actions i’ve made that clearly define me as ‘not old enough to date’, and her negative view of him from the recent situation in my family that he has no reason to be compared to. idk what to do.
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why my dad is hiding this from mom. Should i tell my mom? Please read the details?

    My dad's friend just divorced his wife. So his wife always call my dad to seek some advice. My mom told my dad not to talk to her but he still talks to her but i have read their texts! She calls my dad "brother" and always seeks some advice. Should i tell my mom or should i stay out of it
    My dad's friend just divorced his wife. So his wife always call my dad to seek some advice. My mom told my dad not to talk to her but he still talks to her but i have read their texts! She calls my dad "brother" and always seeks some advice. Should i tell my mom or should i stay out of it
    7 answers · 3 hours ago
  • Do any of your family members use Yahoo Answers?

    Best answer: Not that I know.
    I'd start blocking if I found any of them here.
    They'd be the only ones on my list.
    Best answer: Not that I know.
    I'd start blocking if I found any of them here.
    They'd be the only ones on my list.
    27 answers · 4 days ago
  • My parents don't like to travel but I really want to?

    I'm sixteen and have always been passionate about traveling around the world. That's one of my goals in life but my parents hate it. They just take me to places near my city or rarely to a nearby state. I want to travel to a different continent(Europe or Asia) and have saved up money. My parents keep... show more
    I'm sixteen and have always been passionate about traveling around the world. That's one of my goals in life but my parents hate it. They just take me to places near my city or rarely to a nearby state. I want to travel to a different continent(Europe or Asia) and have saved up money. My parents keep telling me no, we can't go because it'll be a waste of time. I have two months of during the summer and I've even searched for cheap flights. I just wanna see how people around the world live, not just over here in America. I don't know how to convince them. I promise to save money but they keep saying no.
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • My brother was hitting my mom, I tried to save her and he punched me in the arm, what should I do?

    I came home and my brother who is 21 was hitting my mother, she was screaming and yelling, None of my other sisters tried to help her. When I told him to stop he punched me really hard twice in the arm. My mother told me to run, and I had to close my door to protect myself from him. Later when I told my brother I... show more
    I came home and my brother who is 21 was hitting my mother, she was screaming and yelling, None of my other sisters tried to help her. When I told him to stop he punched me really hard twice in the arm. My mother told me to run, and I had to close my door to protect myself from him. Later when I told my brother I was going to report him, my mom called me and said he wasen't hitting her, and everything that HAPPENED WAS MY FAULT!. How do I handle this situation? Please help.
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • Should I abandon my parents since they failed to provide me with a decent life?

    Basically, both of my parents are immigrants and both work minimum wage. I was on welfare for most of my childhood since my mom struggled with some illness that prevented her from working. Growing up, I always wondering why the heck my parents had me since they couldn't provide me a decent life. I couldn't... show more
    Basically, both of my parents are immigrants and both work minimum wage. I was on welfare for most of my childhood since my mom struggled with some illness that prevented her from working. Growing up, I always wondering why the heck my parents had me since they couldn't provide me a decent life. I couldn't live my life like a normal child and teenager because I was always poor as dirt. I am 21, about to graduate college soon, and my plan is to move out soon (hopefully I get a job offer at other state) and have no contact with the fools who raised me.
    9 answers · 1 day ago