• What is th best kind of a dog for a feminist to get? I hate cats?

    Best answer: German sheppards
    Best answer: German sheppards
    24 answers · 1 week ago
  • Which is worse--being a homosexual or being a racist?

    Best answer: Being a Democrat...which covers both categories.
    Best answer: Being a Democrat...which covers both categories.
    55 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Why are trans women called real women?

    Preop they are men that look like women, have a penis you are a man biologicaly, postop you still have mans genes and biologically still a man but with no penis, right or wrong?
    Preop they are men that look like women, have a penis you are a man biologicaly, postop you still have mans genes and biologically still a man but with no penis, right or wrong?
    38 answers · 1 week ago
  • How should we deal with sissy boys?

    Best answer: Not the fault of society that you seem to be attracted to these people.
    Go get some counseling.
    Best answer: Not the fault of society that you seem to be attracted to these people.
    Go get some counseling.
    45 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • What is your sexuality?

    20 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Is anyone else not afraid to party with a Gay friend even if they are not Gay themselves?

    Best answer: The age-old lesson is "If you tolerate a homosexual, you ARE one, yourself." That's how the guys at the top of your local male pecking-order manage to STAY ON TOP - by enforcing that rule. So, depending on where you are and who you are, there might be good reason to be afraid. But good for you, if... show more
    Best answer: The age-old lesson is "If you tolerate a homosexual, you ARE one, yourself." That's how the guys at the top of your local male pecking-order manage to STAY ON TOP - by enforcing that rule. So, depending on where you are and who you are, there might be good reason to be afraid. But good for you, if you aren't.

    Guys will tell you "You better watch out - he'll roofie you and then fu ck you, and then you'll be gay for life!"

    Of course, ANY guy you "party" with might do that - straight or gay - but the probability in both cases is so close to zero, it doesn't bear thinking about...but naturally they'll try to make you believe it's MORE likely with a gay dude. Bullsh!t. FAR more likely with a straight dude, in fact - because he can deny it, and people will believe him, whereas the gay dude wouldn't have a chance of being believed, and so is NEVER going to try something like that. So the truth is, you're safer to party one-on-one with a gay friend.

    Of course, if you actually get excited at the thought of sex with a guy...well, that's a different deal. Then you MIGHT get his attention. But there's nothing harmful in that, and you can always explain "No...I'm not interested in you, that way." Fair enough, and that's all there is to it - and your friendship is none the worse for wear.

    So, good on you for overcoming the fear of repression by the "straight male establishment"! No small thing!
    13 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Is the Bible against gays? then why are there gay churches ?

    Best answer: The Bible is NOT "against gays". The Bible, (more correctly, the teachings in the Bible) instruct the reader on the nature of sin, and encourage the reader to avoid it...among other things. Homosexuality is a sin. The "Old Testament" names it as a sin, and preachers in the "New... show more
    Best answer: The Bible is NOT "against gays".

    The Bible, (more correctly, the teachings in the Bible) instruct the reader on the nature of sin, and encourage the reader to avoid it...among other things. Homosexuality is a sin. The "Old Testament" names it as a sin, and preachers in the "New Testament" (preachers other than Jesus) refer back to the "Old" when they mention it.

    BUT, to answer your question about gay churches, same-sex weddings, and the like - you first have to "get" the Bible's message about sin: ALL PEOPLE SIN. Everyone who goes to church with you sins. If the mere fact that you have sinned - or perhaps that it is your HABIT to sin or your PREFERENCE to sin (as is the case for many, many of us) - if that fact should result in you being barred from God's grace and the sacraments & community of a church, well... That would mean that, after you've committed your first sin, you might as well forget it, because you are damned. Game over. Of course, if that were the case, NOBODY but NOBODY would escape hell. And heaven would be completely devoid of humanity.

    Fortunately, that's not what the Bible says. It is emphasized in the "New Testament" in particular that being sin-less is NOT the way to heaven. No,- that pathway is followed EXCLUSIVELY by becoming a Christian and accepting the forgiveness offered through Christ. That means that all sinners (all humans, including you, your mom, the Pope, and all the saints) have the opportunity to escape hellfire...ALL of them. BUT ONLY if they take that opportunity.

    And THAT, in turn, means that it is the PURPOSE and DUTY of ALL Christian congregations to welcome sinners...even HABITUAL sinners...and to minister to their spiritual needs. How can you do that if you don't let them in the front door?

    The reason there are gay churches, frankly, is because the OTHER churches have FAILED in this obligation, leaving the few ACTUAL Christians to open their doors to gay people - thus becoming what you call a "gay" church. (It may surprise you to learn that most congregants in on of these "gay" churches are as straight as you are. It's not a church full of gays - it's a regular church, just like yours, except that it doesn't throw the few congregants known to be gay OUT.) Of course, if you are going to minister to sinners, you have to address whether sinners are welcome to partake of the sacraments...which include communion...and MARRIAGE. But, really - that doesn't take much consideration: Nowhere in the Bible does it say sacraments should be denied to sinners. Clearly, that would be counter-productive, illogical, and un-Christian. After all, YOU take communion, don't you? Despite the fact that you sin. So the sacraments are NOT rewards, to be granted or taken away depending on your behavior. Centuries of Popes and priests using such things as tools of power and repression have taught us some very un-Christ-like habits.
    25 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Do you think god can heal the homosexuals?

    Best answer: The cure is already there, why do you think God created cliffs ?
    Best answer: The cure is already there, why do you think God created cliffs ?
    26 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Is it common to be transgender?

    Best answer: No. It is uncommon.
    Best answer: No. It is uncommon.
    14 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Is it wrong to be against homosexuality?

    52 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Why do I feel ashamed to be white?

    Is there a reason why I feel ashamed? I feel uncomfortable in my own skin, and I just don't know why.
    Is there a reason why I feel ashamed? I feel uncomfortable in my own skin, and I just don't know why.
    23 answers · 1 week ago
  • Why is incest considered wrong in modern day society?

    I ve been asking this question to people I know for years, everyone seems to think consensual incest between two adults is wrong, but they never list valid reasons as to why it is... Everyone just says it s weird, but I m curious as to why everyone thinks this. I ve heard about potential birth defects, if there s a... show more
    I ve been asking this question to people I know for years, everyone seems to think consensual incest between two adults is wrong, but they never list valid reasons as to why it is... Everyone just says it s weird, but I m curious as to why everyone thinks this. I ve heard about potential birth defects, if there s a risk for birth defects than I d say breeding with your relatives would be wrong, but I still don t have an issue with having sex with a relative without impregnating them. Not saying I have sex or want to have sex with anyone in my family, people always think I do when I ask this question, I ve just always thought it was an interesting thing to ask people.
    15 answers · 2 weeks ago