• How do people afford weddings?

    I never understood how people pay for these things. The rings alone (engagement & wedding) could cost well over $10,000 al l together. The ceremonies themselves go cost well into the $20,000s. How do people do it? Do they take out loans, save up?
    I never understood how people pay for these things. The rings alone (engagement & wedding) could cost well over $10,000 al l together. The ceremonies themselves go cost well into the $20,000s. How do people do it? Do they take out loans, save up?
    29 answers · 3 days ago
  • Help! Bridezilla ! Is it my sister or I being selfish?

    So my sister is getting married next year. We have an off-and-on relationship the whole sister sibling rivalry thing. Well I m extremely happy for her success in finding a partner who can finally treat her the way she deserves, she s been telling me from day one to do things for her such as traveling for 3 days to... show more
    So my sister is getting married next year. We have an off-and-on relationship the whole sister sibling rivalry thing. Well I m extremely happy for her success in finding a partner who can finally treat her the way she deserves, she s been telling me from day one to do things for her such as traveling for 3 days to another city and leave my animals behind, set up and take down everything at the wedding and be in charge of planning decorations. She recently told me that I must wear makeup including foundation and false eyelashes, along with getting my hair done. While I am okay with this and compromising, I asked her if I could refrain from wearing foundation, false eyelashes, and hairspray due to allergies and asthma. She then told me that she will just replace me as a bridesmaid if I didn t do as she asked. I was hurt knowing that I could be so easily replaceable, but fired back with a I don t care attitude. In a way I would love to be a part of my sister s wedding even if it were just sitting in the back and watching it as if I was part of a family, but my family and my sister are expecting we should do more than I think I can handle with no compromising. I think my main question to ask is if I m the one being selfish when putting my foot down about the makeup and hairspray, as I know there s many other people live there that I ve gone through so much worse. Should I withdraw from being a bridesmaid in her wedding or should I just suck it up?
    22 answers · 4 days ago
  • It's early Saturday night, you and I are here. What were your options? I passed on a bridal shower with my wife. Why do men get invited?

    Best answer: I think it's a new thing that men are invited to showers now .. just guessing - I suppose showers are turning into a family affair.
    Best answer: I think it's a new thing that men are invited to showers now .. just guessing - I suppose showers are turning into a family affair.
    9 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is this dress too bridal for a grooms attendant?

    My partner and I have settled on having our femal friend Emily as our grooms attendant rather than having a best man as she’s out closest friend. If it wasn’t for her, we wouldn’t have been introduced at university. Finding dresses for has been a little difficult as she’s super short and very skinny. I kinda see... show more
    My partner and I have settled on having our femal friend Emily as our grooms attendant rather than having a best man as she’s out closest friend. If it wasn’t for her, we wouldn’t have been introduced at university. Finding dresses for has been a little difficult as she’s super short and very skinny. I kinda see why she used to shop in the kids section. I’ve found this dress that’s almost perfect, it just needs hemming about an inch for her. However she thinks it looks too bridal and is worried some people might mistake her for a bride. Though I think she’s being silly, no one is going to attend a gay wedding, see her in this dress and assume suddenly she’s a bride and we’ve “become straight”. I just want to put her mind to rest. Is it too bridal? https://www.asos.com/asos-petite/asos-de...
    7 answers · 5 hours ago
  • Should the bride wear white if it’s her 4th wedding?

    Best answer: It's her wedding, she can wear whatever she wants whether it's white or not
    Best answer: It's her wedding, she can wear whatever she wants whether it's white or not
    29 answers · 5 days ago
  • What songs should i play at my wedding?

    im not getting married im 13 but what are some 2000s bops i could play when i do eventually get married
    im not getting married im 13 but what are some 2000s bops i could play when i do eventually get married
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • Boyfriend proposed with an engagement ring he previously gave an ex-girlfriend.?

    I don't know whether to be upset or not, My boyfriend proposed with an engagement ring he gave an ex-girlfriend. i dont feel as happy as i should, because of the ring reminds me of her. It is a family ring that has been passed down. But the ring is tainted to me now, what do i do?
    I don't know whether to be upset or not, My boyfriend proposed with an engagement ring he gave an ex-girlfriend. i dont feel as happy as i should, because of the ring reminds me of her. It is a family ring that has been passed down. But the ring is tainted to me now, what do i do?
    6 answers · 27 mins ago
  • Can my dad make us attend his wedding even if we’ve said we don’t want to go?

    My brother and i have both expressed that we don’t want to go to our dad’s wedding. My brother and I are 16 and 14. Mum has said that we have to go if we don’t want to, she’s not going to force us to go. However dad says we have to go as it’s on his weekend. He’s even told us to stop being selfish as with lunch... show more
    My brother and i have both expressed that we don’t want to go to our dad’s wedding. My brother and I are 16 and 14. Mum has said that we have to go if we don’t want to, she’s not going to force us to go. However dad says we have to go as it’s on his weekend. He’s even told us to stop being selfish as with lunch it’s only 2 hours out of our weekend. Neither of us like his partner, I suppose she’s nice and all but he’s completely changed since he’s been with her and they’ve had a baby. He’s always with her and the baby, she’s got some depression thing since having the baby; so he’ll cancel coming to something we have on last minute if she’s bad. He missed my brother’s rugby game because he wanted to take her to counselling. He’ll freely tell us to stop being selfish when he’s the one being selfish. Can he really make us go?
    6 answers · 5 hours ago
  • How to stop my bridesmaids complaining about the dresses?

    Best answer: Option 1: Pick a designer that offers multiple options in the same color/fabric/length, and let them each pick their own style. Option 2: Your fiancé (not you) can tell them, “These are the dresses we’ve chosen. If you’d rather wear what you want and sit in the audience as a guest, we will understand.” If your... show more
    Best answer: Option 1: Pick a designer that offers multiple options in the same color/fabric/length, and let them each pick their own style.

    Option 2: Your fiancé (not you) can tell them, “These are the dresses we’ve chosen. If you’d rather wear what you want and sit in the audience as a guest, we will understand.”

    If your fiance's ex is giving him crap about allowing the daughters to attend the wedding when it’s his custody weekend, then your fiancé needs to consult his lawyer. And you need to stay out of it.
    11 answers · 4 days ago
  • My wedding day?

    I have a small wedding someone backed on my wedding today so i not only.have a small wedding nut my family does not want to attend my wedding i dont have anyone yo walk down the ile do you think its to small of a wedding
    I have a small wedding someone backed on my wedding today so i not only.have a small wedding nut my family does not want to attend my wedding i dont have anyone yo walk down the ile do you think its to small of a wedding
    12 answers · 4 days ago
  • Is it wrong to propose with the same ring I gave my ex wife?

    Best answer: sounds just wrong to me. but, I also never liked the idea of passing rings for marriage down the family line
    Best answer: sounds just wrong to me. but, I also never liked the idea of passing rings for marriage down the family line
    25 answers · 7 days ago
  • My boyfriend hasn't proposed yet and my boyfriend's mom is already planning the wedding.?

    My boyfriend and I have dated for 1 1/2 years and I know a proposal is coming within the next 6 months because we have talked about it for months now and he's took me to look at rings I like, has bought a ring, we've talked about marriage timeline. So we're all excited, our families know it's... show more
    My boyfriend and I have dated for 1 1/2 years and I know a proposal is coming within the next 6 months because we have talked about it for months now and he's took me to look at rings I like, has bought a ring, we've talked about marriage timeline. So we're all excited, our families know it's getting close. I really love his mother, we get a long great. But ever since he told his mother 3 months ago that he knew proposal was close (she told me about the conversation), she has been pre-wedding planning. She had me try on her dress, which was beautiful but as a couple we want a dress that is something we share alone so I politely declined. She has told everyone she knows in her small town that he is proposing any minute now (we've had friends of his mother come up to us asking when the wedding is and that they expect a personalized invite), pulled old flower girl's dresses out of the closet, asked me constantly about my color pattern plan for flowers / bridesmaid dresses, has been looking for decorations, venues, food vendors and has even tasted cupcakes... without me or my boyfriend being there.
    43 answers · 1 week ago
  • Do you exclude family members from your wedding?

    Best answer: If it's you getting married you're in charge. Invite who YOU want to to make your day special
    Best answer: If it's you getting married you're in charge. Invite who YOU want to to make your day special
    7 answers · 3 days ago
  • Please help - I'm best man for wedding in a few days and I'm completely panicked about giving the toast in front of 100 people.?

    I get really bad anxiety, and I have to give a toast this weekend at my brother's wedding as his best man. I thought I could handle this, but I am in a complete panic at this point (I have already written a speech, which is like a minute long). Any way others have gotten through this under similar... show more
    I get really bad anxiety, and I have to give a toast this weekend at my brother's wedding as his best man. I thought I could handle this, but I am in a complete panic at this point (I have already written a speech, which is like a minute long). Any way others have gotten through this under similar circumstance? I feel like a baby, but I can't calm down.
    15 answers · 6 days ago
  • How should I propose? (With a wedding ring or engagement ring)?

    Best answer: Any kind of ring can be an engagement ring. Or no ring can be an engagement ring. If you propose with a wedding ring (band) and your partner wears it, people will likely assume you are married. If you don't care about that, do what makes you happy.
    Best answer: Any kind of ring can be an engagement ring. Or no ring can be an engagement ring. If you propose with a wedding ring (band) and your partner wears it, people will likely assume you are married. If you don't care about that, do what makes you happy.
    16 answers · 7 days ago
  • My sister wants a Doves 🕊 release at her wedding but I was unable to find any Doves?

    Best answer: No, of course not. Turkeys, owls and doves look exactly alike so there’s not problem with that.
    Best answer: No, of course not. Turkeys, owls and doves look exactly alike so there’s not problem with that.
    8 answers · 6 days ago
  • Can't remember the design number of Morilee Wedding gown.?

    It's a lace a-line gown with an illusion back. It has satin buttons in the back. The lace has a leaf design with flowers embroidered. It has a small train. The front is a sweetheart neckline with an added illusion neckline. I tried it on a couple weeks ago and lost the paper with design number on it. Please help!!
    It's a lace a-line gown with an illusion back. It has satin buttons in the back. The lace has a leaf design with flowers embroidered. It has a small train. The front is a sweetheart neckline with an added illusion neckline. I tried it on a couple weeks ago and lost the paper with design number on it. Please help!!
    6 answers · 4 days ago