• My Dad is an alcoholic. All he does is drink. How do we put a stop to it?

    Best answer: The other pieces of advice are good, but can you add a bit (Perhaps in a comment responding to this or in an Answer that you write to yourself?) about what sort of behavior is disturbing your life with him? While you may feel really badly about his alcoholism, the drinking is, ultimately, his choice and only his... show more
    Best answer: The other pieces of advice are good, but can you add a bit (Perhaps in a comment responding to this or in an Answer that you write to yourself?) about what sort of behavior is disturbing your life with him? While you may feel really badly about his alcoholism, the drinking is, ultimately, his choice and only his choice … and really not yours to control unless he actually becomes dangerous in some way.

    You might want to concentrate on ways to reduce his negative impact on you first. If it’s truly impossible for you to do that, then it moves the question to a different level, perhaps needing a different Question that would give you different sorts of answers. Alcoholism in a loved one is difficult and painful, but different people and different cases call for different sorts of responses and interventions.
    15 answers · 17 hours ago
  • Men, would you have sex with a She-Male to get ahead at work?

    We all have to compromise and get ahead. Sometimes we my not like it but to climb the Social Mountain is worth it. I’ve done one and would do another She-Male.
    We all have to compromise and get ahead. Sometimes we my not like it but to climb the Social Mountain is worth it. I’ve done one and would do another She-Male.
    11 answers · 20 hours ago
  • Heartbroken suicidal?

    it’s been a week and I have found out my ex is sleeping with someone new already and happy with her... I have never been so hurt in my life and I feel like I want to die right now. Idk how to get passed this anxiety attack and heart ache
    it’s been a week and I have found out my ex is sleeping with someone new already and happy with her... I have never been so hurt in my life and I feel like I want to die right now. Idk how to get passed this anxiety attack and heart ache
    34 answers · 3 days ago
  • Why would anyone in their right mind want to be heterosexual? I mean YUK .... having s e x with the opposite gender?

    Should heterosexuality be outlawed?
    Should heterosexuality be outlawed?
    12 answers · 2 hours ago
  • Why are prisons stuffed to the gills with men?

    Men are sick?
    Men are sick?
    17 answers · 2 days ago
  • Are some woman attracted to criminals?

    52 answers · 6 days ago
  • If you were blocked by an Anon would you stop answering all questions posted by Anons? ;-)?

    Best answer: No. I would just move on and not bother. Personally I think the anon option should be removed. It's an open invitation for people to troll, spam, and be abusive behind the blue mask of shame.
    Best answer: No. I would just move on and not bother. Personally I think the anon option should be removed. It's an open invitation for people to troll, spam, and be abusive behind the blue mask of shame.
    23 answers · 3 days ago
  • What's the difference between "jerking off" and "jacking off"?

    Best answer: No difference at all- both are slang for masturbation, just like choking the chicken or beating the meat, other various terms.
    Best answer: No difference at all- both are slang for masturbation, just like choking the chicken or beating the meat, other various terms.
    9 answers · 18 hours ago
  • Why do i feel like life is not worth living?

    What am i even alive? i think its all just an endless shallow vain and painful thing. even when im happy i think i need a reason to exist to live. and nothing is worth the pain. not even my parents or family.
    What am i even alive? i think its all just an endless shallow vain and painful thing. even when im happy i think i need a reason to exist to live. and nothing is worth the pain. not even my parents or family.
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • What are some reasons to stay alive?

    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • Do girls expect u to shave?

    do girls expect guys to shave their pubes? or do girls not care
    do girls expect guys to shave their pubes? or do girls not care
    10 answers · 21 hours ago
  • I am sad all the time. How do I cheer up?

    Best answer: You don't say what you are sad about so it is difficult to advise. If you are sad about something that has happened in your life then remember the good times before whatever is making your sad happened. If there is nothing in particular causing this feeling then it sounds like you are clinically depressed.... show more
    Best answer: You don't say what you are sad about so it is difficult to advise.

    If you are sad about something that has happened in your life then remember the good times before whatever is making your sad happened.

    If there is nothing in particular causing this feeling then it sounds like you are clinically depressed.

    I have been through both.

    I was sad when my girlfriend died but time healed that. I still feel sad when I think about her, but then happy when I remember what a brilliant person she was and how lucky I was for the time we had together.

    A few years later I felt down and simply could not be bothered about anything. It had nothing to do with her I just did not know why I felt that way.

    My family convinced me to see my doctor and he diagnosed me with depression, With the help of the medication he prescribed my mood lifted and now I am fine and no longer need medication.

    If there is a reason for your feelings it does get better but it takes time. Earlier this year my mum died so the whole family is sad, it is taking time but is gets easier every day.

    If you don't have an explanation then see your doctor.
    20 answers · 4 days ago