• Do you think this could help a marriage?

    Best answer: you already know you should cut contact with this person because you are attractive to that person, sounds to me that you are looking for reinforcement but also sounds to me that you know clearly what to do as well, stay away and focus on working on your marriage if that is what you want to do, otherwise you know... show more
    Best answer: you already know you should cut contact with this person because you are attractive to that person, sounds to me that you are looking for reinforcement but also sounds to me that you know clearly what to do as well, stay away and focus on working on your marriage if that is what you want to do, otherwise you know better you are asking for trouble., Best of luck
    6 answers · 7 hours ago
  • Should I spend my bday with my husband alone or include friends and family ??

    We’ve been married since August 2017. My birthday is coming up next month and I told my husband I want to spend it with him, friends and family. He’s not happy about it because he wants me to spend it just with him. We talked about it and I explained to him my bday is not a romantic day like valentines. I want... show more
    We’ve been married since August 2017. My birthday is coming up next month and I told my husband I want to spend it with him, friends and family. He’s not happy about it because he wants me to spend it just with him. We talked about it and I explained to him my bday is not a romantic day like valentines. I want our friends and family to be included. But I still couldn’t reason him and it continues to be an issue so much so that I’m not looking forward to the day anymore because I don’t know what to do. He behaved this same way over Christmas and New Years and refused to include anyone else and we ended up spending both days on the sofa watching Netflix and sleeping while everyone else was out with their loved ones enjoying the festivities. I don’t want my bday to be like that.
    14 answers · 18 hours ago
  • My husband seems upset, what to do?

    So I have a son from a previous relationship. Tomorrow my son has a appointment to a new place and his father is going to go to the appointment too. My husband sayd that the father needs to stop inviting himself to my sons appointments. And that i need it written in our visitation agreement. He only goes to... show more
    So I have a son from a previous relationship. Tomorrow my son has a appointment to a new place and his father is going to go to the appointment too. My husband sayd that the father needs to stop inviting himself to my sons appointments. And that i need it written in our visitation agreement. He only goes to doctor appointments and school awards. And this is the first appointment for our son to see a therapist. So I can understand him going to this one. But it should be the only one he attends unless he is the only one taking him. I don't feel I have the right to say to his dad he can not go to things dealing with his child. But is my hudband wrong for saying this? Should i express that I couldn't tell my sons father he can't go?
    14 answers · 22 hours ago
  • Was this ignorant?

    My wife's friend called with washer problems and asked if we knew someone who could repair it. I had a little personal experience and offered to go over and look at it for free. The washer was contained in a small closet-sized room in the basement with a trash bin beside it. It was so small that I had to... show more
    My wife's friend called with washer problems and asked if we knew someone who could repair it. I had a little personal experience and offered to go over and look at it for free. The washer was contained in a small closet-sized room in the basement with a trash bin beside it. It was so small that I had to lean against it to work on the washer. Upon entering the room I got a really putrid smell that I started gagging. The trash bin was full of dirty diapers. I tried to work through the smell and my wife's friend said "sorry about the smell, but u have kids so I figured u are used to it". I didn't complain and concealed my gagging for the sake of not creating a rift between my wife and her friend. I spent over an hour in the room and not once did she attempt/offer to move the bin out. I went home after and told my wife (as politely as possible) not to ask me to go over there to help anymore and explained why. She was offended
    16 answers · 2 days ago
  • Do women divorce their husbands because of their sex drive?

    I have a beautiful lady friend that was married to a man and now she is divorced. She is married to another man. Now I'm sure her first husband probably thoroughly enjoyed having sex with her. Now if I where in his shoes I probably would of been rough with her from enjoying her so much. I could understand how... show more
    I have a beautiful lady friend that was married to a man and now she is divorced. She is married to another man. Now I'm sure her first husband probably thoroughly enjoyed having sex with her. Now if I where in his shoes I probably would of been rough with her from enjoying her so much. I could understand how certain women wouldn't like the way their husband is having sex with them.
    10 answers · 20 hours ago
  • Is this weird ?

    Best answer: That's pretty common. Women tend to be tired at night- especially if they have children to deal with. Men want to have sex to help them go to sleep, but women prefer to have sex when they're rested.
    Best answer: That's pretty common. Women tend to be tired at night- especially if they have children to deal with. Men want to have sex to help them go to sleep, but women prefer to have sex when they're rested.
    8 answers · 6 hours ago
  • Hubby takes days off to be alone?

    I work two days a week (M and W) as a nanny and I bring our 8 month old with me. The other days I just stay home with our baby. My hubby works a normal M-F 8-5 job. He occasionally takes days off on my working days (M and W) to have alone time at home. I still take our son to work with me so he can have his day off... show more
    I work two days a week (M and W) as a nanny and I bring our 8 month old with me. The other days I just stay home with our baby. My hubby works a normal M-F 8-5 job. He occasionally takes days off on my working days (M and W) to have alone time at home. I still take our son to work with me so he can have his day off because he says he wants to be alone. I’m starting to get upset about it that he takes his vacation time by using it on a day that me and his son aren’t even home so he can be alone. I wish he would want to use that time to be with us more. Am I wrong for feeling upset about this? He’s a great dad and hubby but I just feel like his vacation days should be used as more family time...not so he can have the whole day to himself while we’re working?
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • As a man if you work (afternoon) and take care of the kids in the morning while your wife works in the morning do i have a right for me time?

    Best answer: Are you giving your wife equivalent time to do whatever she wants to with her friends on the weekend? After all, you are sharing the childcare duties and you are both working, so you are no more entitled to "me time" than she is.
    Best answer: Are you giving your wife equivalent time to do whatever she wants to with her friends on the weekend? After all, you are sharing the childcare duties and you are both working, so you are no more entitled to "me time" than she is.
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • Spicing up sex life = cheating?

    My husband bought bondage, a booty plug, lingerie and other various stuff from the sex shop. It was a bit random to me since we havent talked aboit trying new things out. He has seemed a little different in the bedroom, does this indicate he is possibly cheating?
    My husband bought bondage, a booty plug, lingerie and other various stuff from the sex shop. It was a bit random to me since we havent talked aboit trying new things out. He has seemed a little different in the bedroom, does this indicate he is possibly cheating?
    19 answers · 3 days ago
  • Should I allow my Wife to look at my Check?

    Yesterday my wife picked up my check, looked it over and said "you make a nice bit." Something about that made me angry like she was invading my privacy. When I told her not to just pick up my check looking at it, she said "I'm your wife, I'm allowed to look at it to see how much you're... show more
    Yesterday my wife picked up my check, looked it over and said "you make a nice bit." Something about that made me angry like she was invading my privacy. When I told her not to just pick up my check looking at it, she said "I'm your wife, I'm allowed to look at it to see how much you're bringing in." I don't really agree with with that but should I just allow her to do it? Is there any harm in it?
    28 answers · 4 days ago
  • If a woman works in a marriage does it make the man look weak?

    I've wanted an honest opinion out of this. In a marriage if the wife works and the husband works does it emasculate the man? I've heard people say before if your wife works "it's not a marriage you are roommates". My cousins husband does all the work in their household even though he is... show more
    I've wanted an honest opinion out of this. In a marriage if the wife works and the husband works does it emasculate the man? I've heard people say before if your wife works "it's not a marriage you are roommates". My cousins husband does all the work in their household even though he is stressed all the time I admire him for being a strong man and taking one for the team. Yes I'd rather be stressed and angry than emasculated as well as strange as that may sound. What are your opinions?
    18 answers · 3 days ago
  • I'm at a loss with my husband please help!?

    He was fired from his nice paying job. It seems like everytime he gets a really good job it's to hard for him. He is NOT dumb just lazy. You'd think my husband was the Prince of whales. He cannot comprehend how he is but he's just lazy. I'm so frustrated and feel like it's always something with... show more
    He was fired from his nice paying job. It seems like everytime he gets a really good job it's to hard for him. He is NOT dumb just lazy. You'd think my husband was the Prince of whales. He cannot comprehend how he is but he's just lazy. I'm so frustrated and feel like it's always something with him. He has had an emotional affair, gambling addiction, been fired frkm.jobs before... He had 2 children from a previous marriage. I'm sick of it he says he has anxiety or depression. I can't take anymore. After he was laid off he didn't tell me high blood pressure was super high and he either abused his anxiety med or has an atypical seizure... wrecked into a stop sign and kept driving all the way home dragging the sign. Our son was in the car and I was screaming at him - he doesn't remember it. This is how i feel all the time he is driving crashing into things and he's acting like he can't hear me because he doesn't care. He is weighting me and his son down from so much and I am starting to feel like he's ungrestful he doesnt deserve me. If i express my feelings he says im attacking him. I feel like he's just bringing me and his son down and does not even care. I'm tired of excuses. He wants me to make his resume again and be his little.secretary. I don't even know if he's applied to any jobs yet. I hate him for the emotional.affair a long time ago too. I love him but he disgust me too. The worst part is in his mind I treat him bad... I just react to his behavior. Any advice?
    17 answers · 4 days ago
  • At a crossroads.?

    My wife and I have been together for eleven years. We both in our late 20s and have two kids. Suffice it to say, our sex life has seen better days. You can imagine that after eleven year, we've done almost everything, toys, random places, restraints. We stop short of seeing other people. Most of our issue... show more
    My wife and I have been together for eleven years. We both in our late 20s and have two kids. Suffice it to say, our sex life has seen better days. You can imagine that after eleven year, we've done almost everything, toys, random places, restraints. We stop short of seeing other people. Most of our issue comes from keeping my wife in the mood, simply stopping to change positions can be enough to put her out of the mood. When this happens she'll cry and apologize, she says she doesn't what's wrong with her. I'm open to advise, suggestions, at this point anything that might help. Thanks for any input you can offer.
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • Am I greedy for wanting more than just a card for Valentine’s Day?

    My husband says he only wants to do cards for valentines. Now I don’t need the most expensive present ever, but I think it would be nice to know he put more thought into it than just “here’s a 99 cent card I got you today”. I made him a handmade card and his gift was this:... show more
    My husband says he only wants to do cards for valentines. Now I don’t need the most expensive present ever, but I think it would be nice to know he put more thought into it than just “here’s a 99 cent card I got you today”. I made him a handmade card and his gift was this: https://www.thinkingcloset.com/2014/01/2... He commented that he wanted to choose when the dates were and didn’t like the idea of having to do the dates in a specific month so I don’t think he liked it very much. But he did like the card. Anyways, this year I asked him to make his card and for it to be more than just “I love you” written on a piece of paper. Am I greedy?
    25 answers · 5 days ago