• Husband going out late at night and on thanksgiving?

    Please tell me if this is okay for husbands to go out late at night from 9pm-1am and smoke pot with his friends while I wait at home and am pregnant with his baby. He told me he was going to his store just so his friend can get his PlayStation out of it and now he’s been gone over an hour, store is 10 minutes away... show more
    Please tell me if this is okay for husbands to go out late at night from 9pm-1am and smoke pot with his friends while I wait at home and am pregnant with his baby. He told me he was going to his store just so his friend can get his PlayStation out of it and now he’s been gone over an hour, store is 10 minutes away as he said he’s going to hang out a while once he already left. I’m tired of waiting at home like this and his pot head friends are more important to him. He tells me I’m over reacting and that I ruined thansgiving when his friends showed up as we pulled into our place and we’re going to have our first thanksgiving together as a family... he fed them and then left with them while I stayed in my room. I hate him more everyday. Please tell me if you would be okay with this and if I’m over reacting or not.
    20 answers · 20 hours ago
  • Gender Studies, what do you think should replace marriage?

    In many cultures, marriage is considered a way to stop people from recklessly having sex. However, in modern times, feminists and MGTOWs dislike marriage, because: * it is oppressive to women (feminists) * it is costly and oppressive to men (MGTOWs, some Men's Rights activists) So, if ever marriage is... show more
    In many cultures, marriage is considered a way to stop people from recklessly having sex. However, in modern times, feminists and MGTOWs dislike marriage, because: * it is oppressive to women (feminists) * it is costly and oppressive to men (MGTOWs, some Men's Rights activists) So, if ever marriage is finally abolished, how do you think society should change? Should people simply be absent parents, or should there be only free love (or free sex)?
    4 answers · 11 hours ago
  • My wife says that while I satisfy her monetarily, I don’t satisfy her sexually?

    She cheats on me and demands I be okay with it. Should I just turn the other cheek? She’s the love of my life and my childhood sweetheart. She used to call me a weirdo be a creep and she would have her various thug boyfriends beat me up all through middle school and high school. I pursued an education and now I... show more
    She cheats on me and demands I be okay with it. Should I just turn the other cheek? She’s the love of my life and my childhood sweetheart. She used to call me a weirdo be a creep and she would have her various thug boyfriends beat me up all through middle school and high school. I pursued an education and now I finally make a big enough salary for her to love me. I can’t lose her. Not after everything I’ve gone through to win her approval. But it would kill me to let her cheat on me
    28 answers · 2 days ago
  • How to cope with rude step son?

    I married my husband who was divorced with two kids when we met. I have since become their step mother. I get along with the youngest well however his oldest has always been very rude and snooty towards not only me but others. It has gotten to the point where I dread being at home. His stepson will call me ugly and... show more
    I married my husband who was divorced with two kids when we met. I have since become their step mother. I get along with the youngest well however his oldest has always been very rude and snooty towards not only me but others. It has gotten to the point where I dread being at home. His stepson will call me ugly and other names. He is also cruel to his sister and grandmother. He also has few manners and doesn’t pick up after himself. What should I do?
    14 answers · 18 hours ago
  • My wife is pregnant?

    How is that even possible? I always wear a condom. And she claims that she was using birth control. The odds of that happening are like 0.01/100. I think she cheated. There is no other way to explain this. I can’t believe she would do such a thing. What to do? I’m so confused right now. I’m anxious. I can’t even... show more
    How is that even possible? I always wear a condom. And she claims that she was using birth control. The odds of that happening are like 0.01/100. I think she cheated. There is no other way to explain this. I can’t believe she would do such a thing. What to do? I’m so confused right now. I’m anxious. I can’t even sleep at night.
    15 answers · 1 day ago
  • My wife had a fling but came home bruised on her breasts and private parts How on earth do I handle this?

    She came home last Thursday very late and so upset. She broke down weeping and said she had not been to her sisters but had seen a guy from her work. I am devestated because when I became angry she said she was badly bruised all over and he had hurt her. Then fury took over but with such mis placed blame? What do... show more
    She came home last Thursday very late and so upset. She broke down weeping and said she had not been to her sisters but had seen a guy from her work. I am devestated because when I became angry she said she was badly bruised all over and he had hurt her. Then fury took over but with such mis placed blame? What do I do she let him have her but he went wild, I won’t describe what he did it is too raw. I am so mixed up, sad and mad at my wife furious and dangerously revengeful against him. What do I do and how come this sht comes my way
    41 answers · 5 days ago
  • I am 37 year old woman and I haven't been physically intimate with my husband since the past six years?

    Best answer: You aren't going to like this. But it is the truth. You and he need to make some decisions together. Consider the following with him. The rest will depend upon your decisions as a couple and as individuals. Life/relationships are about choices/consequences. There are ALWAYS consequences. Life/relationships... show more
    Best answer: You aren't going to like this. But it is the truth. You and he need to make some decisions together. Consider the following with him. The rest will depend upon your decisions as a couple and as individuals.

    Life/relationships are about choices/consequences. There are ALWAYS consequences. Life/relationships are NOT about feelings. Feelings come and go while choices/consequences remain long after the feelings have changed. Courtship/dating is about learning about a potential spouse/mate while revealing something about yourself. What are you revealing about YOURSELF? What are you learning?

    You choose a spouse/mate based upon mutual goals, values and priorities. Do you share goals, values and priorities? You do not choose your likes/dislikes. Nobody chooses to like catfish or chocolate ice cream. But you do choose your loves/hates as demonstrated by racism, friends and spouse/mate. You choose to love and respect your chosen spouse/mate. You choose to meet the needs and some of the wants of your spouse/mate. And you expect your spouse/mate to choose likewise regarding you for you.

    Can you make the choices and live with them? Can you reasonably expect this man or woman to make these choices and live with them?

    Learn to ask the right questions. Then you will get the answers you seek. Remember that there are ALWAYS consequences.

    There are no short-cuts. There are no magic tricks. Life is hard. Life is worth the effort.

    Choose wisely.
    15 answers · 2 days ago
  • What's considered porn addiction?

    So I've been married less than a year, and together almost 3 years. I always thought my husband had a low libido, he would turn me away often and it would cause issues. However, I recently discovered by accident that he has been watching porn once a day before work - leaving little for me. I tested him one day... show more
    So I've been married less than a year, and together almost 3 years. I always thought my husband had a low libido, he would turn me away often and it would cause issues. However, I recently discovered by accident that he has been watching porn once a day before work - leaving little for me. I tested him one day after he came home and tried to initiate but he turned me down once again. It's really starting to take a toll on my self esteem and confidence. Not only that, but he's been treating me like a porn star in bed. No affection after. Just last night he couldn't even finish. Then this morning when he thought i was asleep he was back at it again. I've tried to talk to him three times but he always gets defensive and says I'm accusing him. What do I do?
    18 answers · 2 days ago
  • Ex wants to take 9 year old son on vacation during my time after never allowing parent time flexibility for me. How do I respond?

    My ex and I have a son who is 9. Ex has primary custody during the school year and I have summer. Ex never works with me and always refuses to give me extra time when I ask. Ex just sent me an email. His in-laws (he's married and he and his wife have three kids - 13, 4 and 1). They are doing a family vacation... show more
    My ex and I have a son who is 9. Ex has primary custody during the school year and I have summer. Ex never works with me and always refuses to give me extra time when I ask. Ex just sent me an email. His in-laws (he's married and he and his wife have three kids - 13, 4 and 1). They are doing a family vacation out of state for a week in the summer. The inlaws are paying for everything I guess. The issue with the trip is: My ex doesn't have our son during that time. So ex is asking me if I'll switch a week with him. He'll give me a week during the school year for that summer week. I asked why a different vacation time wasn't chosen - ex said he's not the one who planned the trip. It's irritating that my son's schedule wasn't factored into this decision. If I don't say yes, ex plans to go anyway. If I say yes, I'm going to be angry that I have to bend for a guy that won't work with me at all. Ex can't give me an hour when I ask, but expects me to switch weeks with him during the summer - which is the only time I really get to see my son. If I say no, I'm a mom that wouldn't let her son go on vacation. There's a chance that son wouldn't know. But at 9, he'd probably find out. Either way is very upsetting.
    25 answers · 3 days ago
  • My Marriage feels more like a close friendship?

    My wife never wants to have any fun I can't joke around with her at all and when it comes to sex she never wants it so I turn to porn Instead now when ever we try to do anything I don't get excited down there anymore my genitals don't care for her anymore i also secretly drink alot more now and have... show more
    My wife never wants to have any fun I can't joke around with her at all and when it comes to sex she never wants it so I turn to porn Instead now when ever we try to do anything I don't get excited down there anymore my genitals don't care for her anymore i also secretly drink alot more now and have also secretly taken up smoking I kinda just stopped giving a f.u.c.k. all together because I feel like she dosnt give a flying f.u.c.k
    9 answers · 15 hours ago
  • When you get married are you obligated to take care of his children ?

    So I asked a question the other day and was asking what should I do about the fact the my child’s fathers wife does more for his 3 year old than are 1 year old because she had a better relationship with his other child’s mother. The reason we don’t have that relationship is because I found out he was sleeping with... show more
    So I asked a question the other day and was asking what should I do about the fact the my child’s fathers wife does more for his 3 year old than are 1 year old because she had a better relationship with his other child’s mother. The reason we don’t have that relationship is because I found out he was sleeping with her behind my back now I’ve let that go because he married her and my child has to be around her so I don’t need the tension but she still feels like he wants me so she has Ill feelings towards me. Anyways a lot of answers were saying she’s not obligated to take care of his kids it’s his job she doesn’t owe the kids anything. Now is my thinking wrong because me I believe when you marry someone his kids become your kids and your kids become his kids. She married him knowing he had small children and she has 6 of her own. I’m just not understanding how people can say that I wouldn’t necessarily use the word obligated but I just feel when you marry a man your taking on everything he comes with and vice versa So i need opinions on what others thinks
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • Is it wrong to kick out my friend that has a crush on my wife?

    I have a childhood friend that I let move in with me, my wife and 9 month old son. I heard through another friend that him and possibly my wife have a crush on each other and it's bothering me. In order to protect my marriage I feel like I have to kick him out but I feel bad because he has no place to go. What... show more
    I have a childhood friend that I let move in with me, my wife and 9 month old son. I heard through another friend that him and possibly my wife have a crush on each other and it's bothering me. In order to protect my marriage I feel like I have to kick him out but I feel bad because he has no place to go. What to do about the situation?
    30 answers · 4 days ago
  • Should we bring our kid on our honeymoon?

    My husband and I just got married and no later than a week after, I found out that I’m pregnant! We planned a cruise to The Bahamas and unfortunately we can’t go because of the Zika virus. So basically we have to plan another honeymoon after the baby is born. My question is, should we bring the baby on our... show more
    My husband and I just got married and no later than a week after, I found out that I’m pregnant! We planned a cruise to The Bahamas and unfortunately we can’t go because of the Zika virus. So basically we have to plan another honeymoon after the baby is born. My question is, should we bring the baby on our honeymoon? We plan to take a road trip Texas (and stop in national parks to camp) and to The Lava Springs resort in Utah. I know having a baby will be a little difficult camping, but we love the outdoors and I want our children to love it to! Is it a bad idea? Anyone who has previous experience taking their kids on their honeymoon please let me know how it went!
    19 answers · 3 days ago
  • I’m a bad shopper and my husband is fed up with it?

    When I go shopping I go for food or clothes I’ll admit I take longer than the average. If I’m going for one thing I come back with ten over a two to three hour period . I don’t think it’s a big deal but my husband does. We have three kids and he works from home unless he has to go out. When he does the shopping... show more
    When I go shopping I go for food or clothes I’ll admit I take longer than the average. If I’m going for one thing I come back with ten over a two to three hour period . I don’t think it’s a big deal but my husband does. We have three kids and he works from home unless he has to go out. When he does the shopping he’s really quick about it and comes back home. I like to just take my time and have fun. So right now I took an hour to go to buy shoes for a friend (X Mas Gift) and toys for her sons. I told my husband I’d be quick but I wasn’t. Now he’s mad at me calling me selfish and inconsiderate when I knew he had work to do. I honestly don’t care I think he’s overreacting. He’s with the kids more than I am..who’s wrong ?
    17 answers · 3 days ago
  • How come Donald Trump had unstable marriages?

    Multiple divorces.
    Multiple divorces.
    7 answers · 1 hour ago
  • Are people who exclude their spouse from their social media looking to cheat?

    If you are married but your spouse has no photos of you on their Facebook or instagram but has photos of themselves and their kids, friends, pets etc. but none of you what do you think the reason is?
    If you are married but your spouse has no photos of you on their Facebook or instagram but has photos of themselves and their kids, friends, pets etc. but none of you what do you think the reason is?
    7 answers · 5 hours ago
  • Question for married Christian women?

    So, this is awkward for me to even read but I'm gonna go for it anyways. I'm a teenage girl and I don't believe in sex before marriage. Now, being in a public high school, I have heard many a jokes about 'beef curtains, hanging ham, tuna blinds', all being crude terms to refer to longer than... show more
    So, this is awkward for me to even read but I'm gonna go for it anyways. I'm a teenage girl and I don't believe in sex before marriage. Now, being in a public high school, I have heard many a jokes about 'beef curtains, hanging ham, tuna blinds', all being crude terms to refer to longer than usual inner labia. I have these. I hate them. Now, being that I don't believe in sex before marriage, I keep having this horrible thought that I'll marry the man of my dreams, and he'll wind up hating me from the wedding night onwards or flat out leaving me because he'll see me naked for the first time and realize that he has to enjoy a gross looking vagina for the rest of his life. On top of this, I play volleyball and I'm always worried that people can see their outline in the tiny shorts we wear. Is is normal for me to feel like this? Could this happen and do men really care as much about this as I'm freaking out about it- is it really that big a deal?
    14 answers · 3 days ago
  • Why am i Not sexually attracted to my wife anymore...?

    One day I just woke up just like i always do but this time felt different it took a minute to settle in... i looked over at my wife and thought gee i sure do love you so much and I'm glad to have you in my life you really do make me happy i feel complete with her! But the attractiveness part just went away just... show more
    One day I just woke up just like i always do but this time felt different it took a minute to settle in... i looked over at my wife and thought gee i sure do love you so much and I'm glad to have you in my life you really do make me happy i feel complete with her! But the attractiveness part just went away just gone "poof" no more I don't want sex from her anymore i used to beg her for it and she'd only give it to me once in a blue moon like 3 times a year is all I got, now I'd rather just take care of my needs myself and get on with the day I honestly don't want that kind of love from her anymore i just want like a best friend kind of love some one to be there for me vise versa and to talk to when I get home from work its sad it's come to this but why whould you think I feel this way? I also feel like i just wanna go out and party on my own or hit the bar by myself..... whats become of our marriage? Please help.
    7 answers · 16 hours ago