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The divorce rate is 50% for a reason. If everyone truly married their true love, the divorce rate would be a lot lower. You see women marrying average joes with addiction issues, bad jobs, uneducated, etc etc, guys with criminal records, bad morals, cheated before, etc. when there are millions of men who don’t do any of those bad things, who are millionaires, doctors, engineers, lawyers, nice men, good values, handsome who are single that they could have decided to date instead, but they didn’t. They decided to date the guy who sold drugs and beat women. That’s like choosing between 2 airplanes to board, one with only 1 wing and no windows and a drunk pilot, and the other 1 that is perfectly functional and working and has an amazing pilot. Yet women still choose to board the airplane with only 1 wing and malfunctioning parts14 Answers21 hours ago
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I'm really thinking about having 5 kids with my babys father. But my family think I'm dumb for wanting that many kids with him considering we always need a baby sitter or money. Like OK? Lol Isn't that what family is for? I mean, yeah, he may not pay child support, is living with and driving my car. But, I don't mind! because I can always ask my sister to take me to work or get on the bus. Or, If he doesn't want to help with our kids, I'll get my parents to do it. Is this bad that I want 5 with him?🤔 my doctor did recommended that I get on Birth control because they said, he, my baby's father doesn't look responsible enough for kids (which made me mad) lol because he is irresponsible - that's why he has me to help him become a better man 😁23 Answers2 days ago
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So it's been a month and a half since I found out my husband had affairs for a month (that I'm aware of). For the first month things were getting better communication was great and we made some real progress on things between us. Things started declining going back to how they were before the discovery of the affairs 2 weeks ago and then he started a new job last week. Which has basically crumbled everything back to the way it was. He doesn't communicate he's in a bad mood all the time he's making assumptions about what I'm going to say. And no matter what I do or say it ends up with him getting a temper even when I'm being cheerful and accommodating to what he wants.
What does this mean?
What am I supposed to do?
I feel lost.8 Answers1 day ago
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I am so confused because I want to be with my husband but sometimes my mind tries to convince me I want to be with his brother. I don’t want to leave my husband but I am getting sick of dealing with the obsessive thoughts of his brother, mind you I have OCD as well. Should I tell him?25 Answers4 days ago
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My boyfriend said if we ever got married he’d want a prenup which is reasonable if it’s just me and him.
But we want kids which I would be out of work staying at home raising for the most part , if we then break up I get the short straw I don’t have a lot saved because I’ve been sat at home raising and birthing his kids whilst he’s continued working.
Do I have a right to be annoyed17 Answers2 days ago
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husband boring but reliable and a good provider. I took a lover for excitement. My lover is broke and doesnt work but has a boat and loves to sing in clubs. i don't have small children. who do I choose?23 Answers3 days ago
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I know I will get trashed for this but I'm hoping someone may be kind. I'm in a sexless marriage. Long story. Adult kids in 20s. I'm 47. Hubby 70. Affair partner 49. Affair partner and I never had intercourse. We know what we are doing is wrong. Going on 9 years. We are business partners. Iv had to have therapy as iv been in a dark place over this. Hes very sweet to me. In 9 years we heavy Petted 3 times. After each time iv felt very very low. Like a piece of trash. Yesterday was 3rd time. He didn't ring me today but dropped by tonight unexpectedly. I was so angry with myself. I feel so used
I'm in love with him. Deeply. We talk every day and he seems to really like me. I'm angry because he didn't check in with me after intimacy. Am I unreasonable. I know I'm not entitled to anything as this is all wrong. I'm not proud. Do you think he should have called?11 Answers4 days ago
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The expectation that you should be calling everyone daily for an update is too much, inappropriate. They become more of a burden than a help. Be glad that she's not talking...its a favor ! You have terrible inlaws ! Avoid them, unless they can behave like proper grown ups. Your wife needs to confront them, its her family.7 Answers10 hours ago
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The company she works for recently returned to working in-person, and now she'll bring back stuff from the office- pens, post-its, sometimes cupcakes if people bring them in. But recently she's started hauling in whole-*** computer chairs, monitors, computer towers- pretty soon I found out this company is MORE than going out of business. They're having a goddamn auction. She's apparently been bidding big bucks for the furniture, computers, even a coffee machine! I ask where she's getting the money for this, she says she's been dipping into her 401k! It's her money, but damn, it seems irresponsible- and now our house is cluttered with office furniture! She says she's gonna sell it, but she seems to be in no rush. What the hell do I do?7 Answers10 hours ago
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What do you think about him ?
What does it mean when a husband gifts his wife laptop worth £1000 and take her to holiday worth £4000?7 Answers16 hours ago
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when the gov recently passed money it went all to his banc acc he just gave me my part, knowing I have about 2000 medical bills in debt he said he was going to handle it all because he is the one that pays all bills which is true. I was unemployed but I recently found a job. So anyway he is getting to keep that money plus whatever the gov gives us for taxes. Well of the money that was left there were about 500.00 which he told me he would give me, but because of his way of treating me I told him I had to think about if I stayed in this relationship, so he decided not to give me anything and he said that he was not going to give any money if I was going to walk out of this relationship. What was I going to do with 500.00??? buy a brand new house with furniture included?? change my car?? anyway the thing is he says things like you pay for daycare because those are expenses YOU are generating because of you working. and because I asked him that money for medical expenses his boss told him I was acting like a piece of garbage, when he is the one who was about to walk out of the house telling me you figure out who to pay the mortgage now or go homeless.11 Answers4 days ago
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My bf wishes he could get a gf with the “ideal body type” who goes to the gym. sometimes he wonders can do better? why is never satisfied?Favourite answer:
You're with a wrong bf.
He's telling you that you're not enough for him.
It simply means he doesn't love or value you for who you are. He wants you to be a different person in order for him to consider you.
He's not good for your mental health.9 Answers2 days ago
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I'm so embarrassed by him. When we first started dating, he told me he wants me to be a stay at home mom. I agreed to do just that. But a month after our wedding, he lost his job. I was the only one working. All he does is laze around and depend on everyone to get things done for him. He won't do anything unless you grab his hand and guide him to where he needs to be. This is a grown 30 year old man by the way. All he does is play victim. He always says how he had it hard in life and no one ever gives him an opportunity. But he literally does nothing with his time. He doesn't even try for himself. He keeps depending on his dad to send him money, so even his dad is sick of him. My husband is a very nice man and I never had someone love me the way he does. But I'm completely tired of him being so useless most of the time. It's been 2 years of patience and dedication and I see nothing happening. He plays victim and blames everyone except getting out there and trying for himself. I talk to him all the time but its always the same thing, victim blaming. When I tell him I will leave him, he tells me to go right ahead if I don't love him anymore. The problem is, I do love him but he never wants wants make things work. No amount of talking ever does anything and it's literally been 2 years and 6 months of trying. On top of all this mess, he's wanting a child and tells me that we should have one and he will find a job as soon as I'm pregnant. It's exhausting dealing with my husband6 Answers17 hours ago
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I kept everything a secret with my girlfriend at work. We always shower after sex and make sure there is no mess. We keep everything professional at work. All the evidence is deleted so her husband won't find out. My girlfriend always goes in separate vehicle because it would look obvious if we carpool. I don't think anyone catch me heard them talk but they were talking about how nasty we are for cheating. How the **** did they find out? What if one of the tells her husband?13 Answers4 days ago
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What does it mean when a woman doesn’t share her marriage problems with other people? Meaning she doesn’t talk about fights with her husband to others13 Answers4 days ago
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I found out my husband had an short affair with a former co worker ( who happens to live a house down) in December 2020. The affair happened in 2018-2019. It came out when I found inappropriate text that he was sending to the woman. I confronted him about it and he told me the truth about everything. He was also texting 2 other women, but that was it ( there was nothing physical, just inappropriate texts. I asked him to stop all communication with the woman he had an affair with, as well as stop communicating with the 2 women he was sending flirty and inappropriate texts to. He said that he would. We are now in counseling to get past the affair. He has stop communicating with the woman he had an affair with (this I know for sure), but he and the two other women are still texting each other from time to time. I check the phone bill so I know ( he doesn't know that I check). I confronted him about this and he said that they are just friends. He's known them a long time and they are just texting. That they are not being inappropriate anymore. I dont know what they text, but if they have a history of it, I would think that is what's still going on. I'm trying my best, but I am up to here!!! Am I being insecure or overreacting?10 Answers3 days ago