• What would be the first thing you eat in New York City if you've never been there?

    Okay, so, my friend went to NYC. The first thing he decided to do was eat at a Japanese restaurant...you can get that where we live now.... I would have gotten a slice of NYC pizza, honestly come on...….
    Okay, so, my friend went to NYC. The first thing he decided to do was eat at a Japanese restaurant...you can get that where we live now.... I would have gotten a slice of NYC pizza, honestly come on...….
    27 answers · 3 days ago
  • Small girls?

    I’ve had enough of being so short, I’m 19 and around 5ft, I’m female so I guess it isn’t so bad, most guys compliment me on my height but then pretty much everywhere I go I get comments including nasty ones about how short I am, I’m f*cked off with it. It’s fine if it’s from friends or done in a harmless way and... show more
    I’ve had enough of being so short, I’m 19 and around 5ft, I’m female so I guess it isn’t so bad, most guys compliment me on my height but then pretty much everywhere I go I get comments including nasty ones about how short I am, I’m f*cked off with it. It’s fine if it’s from friends or done in a harmless way and occasionally, I’ll throw jokes back at them for it, but when you get called midget, it triggers me, I want to literally kill them for that word, some girl who’s an inch taller than me says it and one day I will smack her, can’t stand how vile she is and others are. It doesn’t help that I’m looking 16 either, I’m not fat and not skinny. I’m the smallest in my college and there is like 30 of us. Secondary school I rarely had comments about it, primary school I was bullied for it, 1st and 2nd college I rarely had comments and the one I’m in now I get comments all the time
    18 answers · 4 days ago
  • My father doesn’t seem to understand?

    I’m 18 years old and i dropped out of college because when i started going the friend groups had already been made and i couldn’t relate to anyone and no one had the same interests. No one in class even had a smartphone, they all had nokia phones still. I couldn’t make friends so i never wanted to go to the class... show more
    I’m 18 years old and i dropped out of college because when i started going the friend groups had already been made and i couldn’t relate to anyone and no one had the same interests. No one in class even had a smartphone, they all had nokia phones still. I couldn’t make friends so i never wanted to go to the class but my father doesn’t understand this at all. He’s saying that I don’t go to the college to make friends i should just study and come back home it doesn’t matter if i have friends or not. But it’s really hard to spend time there alone when i have no one to talk to but my father says it’s good that I don’t have anyone to talk, that way i can concentrate in class better. It sounds completely dumb to me. He clearly doesn’t understand how friendships work and he doesnt Have any friends either so.. idk any opinions?
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is it wrong to visit friend at their workplace?

    I used to work in a clothing department store near my college. Since now I'm not working there anymore, is it okay if once in a while I visit my former mentor who's my friend now at there?
    I used to work in a clothing department store near my college. Since now I'm not working there anymore, is it okay if once in a while I visit my former mentor who's my friend now at there?
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • I'm bored. What should I do today?

    8 answers · 9 hours ago
  • He keeps stalking me by sending friends to keep an eye on me?What does that means?

    Best answer: It means he wants to know if you're already having sex with someone else.
    Best answer: It means he wants to know if you're already having sex with someone else.
    11 answers · 2 days ago
  • Should I let this girl come to my birthday party?

    So for my upcoming 21st I’m taking a trip to nola with about 15 of my closest friends. When I was probably drunk, I invited this girl who a lot of people in my dislike. I had forgotten that I had invited her and these people flipped over the fact that she was coming and I had to uninvite her. I personally do not... show more
    So for my upcoming 21st I’m taking a trip to nola with about 15 of my closest friends. When I was probably drunk, I invited this girl who a lot of people in my dislike. I had forgotten that I had invited her and these people flipped over the fact that she was coming and I had to uninvite her. I personally do not give a flying **** who comes to nola with me, as I am not cheif of the city it’s not like I can barricade the walls and not allow certain people in on the premise that it’s my birthday. I’ve already told her she can’t come but honestly if she gets her hotel I don’t care if she’s there, but there’s a possibility she’d piss a lot of people off. And then there’s the little fact that I’ve already uninvited her. So is it too late? What the **** do I do
    7 answers · 13 hours ago
  • Would it be bad if i did this?

    So im still a virgin and in my second year of college so its pretty embarrassing at this point. For some reason, guys at my college hate me and i hate them right back. I was planning to lose it to this kid i used to like in high school. Hes what you might call a f*ckboy but i am attracted to him and used to be... show more
    So im still a virgin and in my second year of college so its pretty embarrassing at this point. For some reason, guys at my college hate me and i hate them right back. I was planning to lose it to this kid i used to like in high school. Hes what you might call a f*ckboy but i am attracted to him and used to be friends w him so i trust him in a sense. However, recently he suggested a threesome with my best friend who also went to high school with us. I shut down the idea and felt kind of hurt that i wasnt enough. However, i have no more options - never have and probably never will. Should i still have sex with him?
    9 answers · 2 days ago
  • Would you be annoyed if your roommate kept putting their dirty clothes on top of your towel?

    Best answer: When you find her things on your rack, drop them on the floor. She'll get the message.
    Best answer: When you find her things on your rack, drop them on the floor. She'll get the message.
    10 answers · 3 days ago
  • Close friend is doing drugs and alcohol (please read details), what should I do?

    Hello, I have a very close friend and she is 14 years old. She is now doing many drugs as well as alcohol. At school yesterday she threw up fireball whiskey everywhere, and she was also high. They found weed in her coat and now she's going to court. She is completely out of control! Her parents have the... show more
    Hello, I have a very close friend and she is 14 years old. She is now doing many drugs as well as alcohol. At school yesterday she threw up fireball whiskey everywhere, and she was also high. They found weed in her coat and now she's going to court. She is completely out of control! Her parents have the alcohol laying around everywhere, as well as the weed. They seem to not care one bit and will discipline her more for not doing the laundry or the dishes more than this! Her parents are frequently gone, and are very irresponsible in the care of their 3 children. I have tried all that I could to talk to her and support her but she is just not listening to anything, I just don't know what to do. I can't sit back and watch her throw her whole life away! Thank you for any helpful answers and for taking the time to read this :)
    5 answers · 5 hours ago
  • Have you been held captive in a room?

    6 answers · 1 day ago
  • ASAP RESPONSE PLEASE: i betrayed a really amazing friend by telling her best friends her personal stuff?

    Best answer: You should not ignore it like that makes it look worse. Call her and tell her you are so sorry and you did not mean to hurt her. Just be honest and say I just thought your besties would know. I am so sorry I got it wrong and ask her forgiveness. Do it now as the longer you keep stum it will look really bad.
    Best answer: You should not ignore it like that makes it look worse. Call her and tell her you are so sorry and you did not mean to hurt her. Just be honest and say I just thought your besties would know. I am so sorry I got it wrong and ask her forgiveness. Do it now as the longer you keep stum it will look really bad.
    5 answers · 10 hours ago
  • Is it rude to always talk about your dad to someone whose dad died?

    I’m 14 and have a close friend the same age as me who unfortunately lost her dad when she was in third grade. So I’m always talking about my dad around her and I always feel kind of bad cause I’m not sure if talking about him makes her feel uncomfortable or sad.. what do you think?
    I’m 14 and have a close friend the same age as me who unfortunately lost her dad when she was in third grade. So I’m always talking about my dad around her and I always feel kind of bad cause I’m not sure if talking about him makes her feel uncomfortable or sad.. what do you think?
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • Am I being petty for being mad with my best friend for not calling me on the phone whilst my mum was in the ICU?

    So I'm going to try to condense this into a short story but my mother constantly has bad asthma when she gets an infection which is common but this time round it was so bad that no medicines were working when the doctors were trying to open up her airways hence they took her to the ICU. I am 18 and so is my... show more
    So I'm going to try to condense this into a short story but my mother constantly has bad asthma when she gets an infection which is common but this time round it was so bad that no medicines were working when the doctors were trying to open up her airways hence they took her to the ICU. I am 18 and so is my best friend. I sent my two friends a picture on social media in the hospital saying my mother is not well and they opened it and ignored , that really made me annoyed because if it was the other way round I would've asked a million questions. Then my mother became even worse and I posted it on social media telling people to pray for my mum and then they messaged me saying hope she gets well soon. But not asking anything more. She said shes there for me but she really wasn't. Then when my mother was taken to the ICU I told people to keep praying and she replied with something basic cant remember. And for the next few days she probably messaged "hows your mother" only a few times not everyday. Furthermore she continued to post things on social media of her being happy etc. usually we text not facetime or whatever but with her other friends she does which I obviously do not mind as I choose not to video chat however in this circumstance she should've got off her social media and called me on the phone. I cried so much it was horrible. If it was the other way round I would've visited her mother if she was that bad but she didn't even call me. My family were angels though they
    5 answers · 12 hours ago
  • Why does no one ever have any interest in being my friend or spending time with me?

    Best answer: its their loss, nnaybe youre hanging around with the wrong people, inn having a hard tinne with that too, thought of doing stuff like volunteering in nursing honnes and visiting people that had noone to visit with either or getting a pet to keep nne connpany
    Best answer: its their loss, nnaybe youre hanging around with the wrong people, inn having a hard tinne with that too, thought of doing stuff like volunteering in nursing honnes and visiting people that had noone to visit with either or getting a pet to keep nne connpany
    11 answers · 5 days ago
  • Done making friends. How to get used to being alone?

    Friends come and go so much in my life, I am tired of starting over with friendships. I'm tired of the same questions: "Are you from around here?" "Do you have siblings?" "What are your hobbies?" etc. I'm just done. I just wish I could have just 1 friend who can stay in my... show more
    Friends come and go so much in my life, I am tired of starting over with friendships. I'm tired of the same questions: "Are you from around here?" "Do you have siblings?" "What are your hobbies?" etc. I'm just done. I just wish I could have just 1 friend who can stay in my life. I've reached out to so many people within my age group in-person and online, but no one ever stays my friend. I've come to realize my life purpose is to be alone. What are some ways I can accept that fact?
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • My mom has her guys friends spend the night and I don’t feel comfortable with it.?

    My parents got a divorce almost a year ago and she has a lot of guy friends, but they are just friends trust me. She often has them over and I will kinda just stay in my room and ignore them. I’ll say hi and stuff but that’s it. There is one friend tho that she might be staying a business with and he stays the... show more
    My parents got a divorce almost a year ago and she has a lot of guy friends, but they are just friends trust me. She often has them over and I will kinda just stay in my room and ignore them. I’ll say hi and stuff but that’s it. There is one friend tho that she might be staying a business with and he stays the night sometimes, and sometimes multiple nights. He sleeps in the guest bedroom. I don’t feel comfortable with him around and usually when he’s been around a day or two I will get a little snippy and my mom doesn’t understand why I won’t come downstairs and talk and doesn’t understand why I am uncomfortable and try’s to make me feel like I shouldn’t be and I am being dramatic and rude. I just don’t like him being here it’s weird to me. Am i being over dramatic and rude? And how do I explain to her in a way that will make sense?
    21 answers · 6 days ago
  • I spread a rumor about my friend?

    ok i know i’m a terrible person and whatever i get it i’m an idiot. but i need some advice to figure out how to get all of this cleared up. so a girl who i don’t really like but am “friends” with went on a cruise and i overheard her say how she had sex with some random guy and i didn’t believe it and thought it was... show more
    ok i know i’m a terrible person and whatever i get it i’m an idiot. but i need some advice to figure out how to get all of this cleared up. so a girl who i don’t really like but am “friends” with went on a cruise and i overheard her say how she had sex with some random guy and i didn’t believe it and thought it was funny so i told my other friend that my “friend” had told me about the guy. i kind of told her like she was lying and i bet she made it up since she always makes these stories up when she’s away traveling or something and there’s no proof. the friend i told accidentally let it slip to the friend that my “friend” actually told. and then she asked my “friend” if she ever told me that and she said no. and now it’s an awkward situation and i don’t know how to explain it to the girl i spread the rumor to and my “friend”. i was just going to tell “friend” that it was just a joke because u always say u hook up with a bunch of guys on these cruises and my friend thought i was being serious. it’s such a messy situation and it’s one of those times where u just wish you could turn back time and remake your choices i’m a bad person i get it but i need some advice please
    13 answers · 4 days ago