• I think my friend is freaking lesbian, should I stay friends with her?

    To be honest, homosexual people kind of freak me out. I seem to feel comfortable having a friendship with lesbians, sadly. I can’t, I was just raised like this. we’re both just 15. I don’t want her to act weird with me, but she’s my friend, what should do I?
    To be honest, homosexual people kind of freak me out. I seem to feel comfortable having a friendship with lesbians, sadly. I can’t, I was just raised like this. we’re both just 15. I don’t want her to act weird with me, but she’s my friend, what should do I?
    47 answers · 3 days ago
  • I'm shocked to discover that two friends of mine are racist 😭. How do I teach them indirectly that racism is bad?

    They don't like hindus, muslims etc. They easily influenced, what strategies can I take to teach them that race and religion don't matter, only the personality of the person?
    They don't like hindus, muslims etc. They easily influenced, what strategies can I take to teach them that race and religion don't matter, only the personality of the person?
    41 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why do my friends make me feel awful?

    They never include me in things, tell me to just "get over" my depression because "other people have it worse" and "everyone has bad days", give me looks of disappointment, have their own little inside jokes, look annoyed when I talk to them, never text me first or initiate... show more
    They never include me in things, tell me to just "get over" my depression because "other people have it worse" and "everyone has bad days", give me looks of disappointment, have their own little inside jokes, look annoyed when I talk to them, never text me first or initiate conversation in any way... I just wish I had better friends. How do I make new friends, or should I just stick with these ones because I have no one else to rely on?
    6 answers · 5 hours ago
  • Why do I always feel people hate me?

    I'm a 26 year old male, I feel like everyone hates me. Every time I try and talk to someone they will find any excuse to get away from me. I've always been a shy person but I'm not as shy as I used to be - in fact I am a lot better in social situations than say 4 or 5 years ago but it seems this... show more
    I'm a 26 year old male, I feel like everyone hates me. Every time I try and talk to someone they will find any excuse to get away from me. I've always been a shy person but I'm not as shy as I used to be - in fact I am a lot better in social situations than say 4 or 5 years ago but it seems this doesn't really change anything. I feel like people are always very cynical as if no one ever believes that I'm genuinely interested and that I'm only out to get them or something. It hurts when people act like you're in the way, or they think you're trying to make them uncomfortable. It makes me really angry inside when people act like they are some kind of victim for all the wrong reasons. I really hate it when people say "you just have to get out there and talk to more people" yet every time I try this, I make little to no progress. They will do everything to make you think you are bothering them. It always seems the best thing to do is to avoid people and leave them alone but at the same time, it's not healthy to do that either. I have tried being a confident person, sometimes it feels good to be confident - then other times it feels so wrong. Like, I sometimes feel as if people know I'm trying too hard and that hurts. And every time I feel hurt by something or someone, I step back.
    16 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is my roommate being unreasonable?

    her boyfriend spends almost every night at our apartment when he has an apartment directly across the hall from us. i didn't know when i signed up to live there that he was going to be staying over every night. i wouldn't mind a couple of nights a week, but almost every night and them never going to his... show more
    her boyfriend spends almost every night at our apartment when he has an apartment directly across the hall from us. i didn't know when i signed up to live there that he was going to be staying over every night. i wouldn't mind a couple of nights a week, but almost every night and them never going to his place seems excessive. my boyfriend comes over to spend the night usually about once or twice a week. it's uncomfortable because our rooms are right next to each other and my roommate often tells us to be quiet, and we can sometimes hear them having sex. it's just not an ideal arrangement. me and my boyfriend would like to have the apartment to ourselves for an evening. i think that if two roommates are friends, they should be able to work that out and not have it be a big deal. i would gladly let my roommate have the apartment to herself for an evening every once in a while if she wanted it however, when i suggested this to my roommate, she was very opposed and got angry for me even asking. her boyfriend lives across the hall and doesn't have a roommate!!! i don't understand why they can't hang out there! am i being unreasonable, or is she? quite frankly, not having the apartment to myself for an evening is annoying, but i understand she pays rent there and has the right to be there whenever she wants. but she is being difficult about it in my opinion. however, her boyfriend does not pay rent and he either needs to start, or spend less time at our apartment
    43 answers · 4 days ago
  • Should I feel guilty about drinking at 14?

    Where I live most girls and boys drink at party’s and do even worst like smoking weed, I haven’t done any of that yet but I have a party coming up and there will be drinks there and you can bring your own (I will never smoke). I would like to have a drink obvs not a lot I don’t want to look trampy and get drunk but... show more
    Where I live most girls and boys drink at party’s and do even worst like smoking weed, I haven’t done any of that yet but I have a party coming up and there will be drinks there and you can bring your own (I will never smoke). I would like to have a drink obvs not a lot I don’t want to look trampy and get drunk but a small bit of vodka etc but my Bestfriend is strongly against it and always goes on about how girls are so trampy who drink at this age. I really want to join in because she’s going to end up doing it eventually when she’s 16 going to parties it’s what everyone does. I don’t want to feel guilty about doing it with my other friends and I don’t want to get into a argument with her what do I do. Sorry that was long
    13 answers · 5 hours ago
  • I got detention for no reason? (it’s ISS detention)?

    I saw a girl that I was interested in and I wanted to be friends with her but Im a shy girl so I sent one of my friends to go talk to her for me and she yelled in our face SHE WAS LOUD AND PEOPLE WERE STOPPING AND STARING I was going to fight her but she walked away so I got mad and went down stairs and I scratched... show more
    I saw a girl that I was interested in and I wanted to be friends with her but Im a shy girl so I sent one of my friends to go talk to her for me and she yelled in our face SHE WAS LOUD AND PEOPLE WERE STOPPING AND STARING I was going to fight her but she walked away so I got mad and went down stairs and I scratched her picture ( my school has pictures of students posted around the building) then she saw that her face was scratched off and snitched on me (this all happened during lunch). After lunch I got called down to the principals office from my math class and I went downstairs and they told me that I have five days of ISS (I also have to attend school during the thanksgiving break and do work) and I tried to explain to them why I scratched her face off I told them that i tried to be nice to this girl but she decided to be all rude about it they did tell her that she should be more nice but she didn t get a consequence for what she did even though she deserved it ( they were talking about how her feelings were hurt and they even said that she could be going through a difficult time!!! But there s no excuse for that I don t care about your feelings or if you’re dying you still need to respect me no matter what) I tried to convince them to lift the punishment but they didn’t they made me apologize to her even though she was the one that needed to apologize to me she deserved to have her ugly disgusting face scratched off she looks better that ways. I want to fight her now.
    8 answers · 6 hours ago
  • My life is ruined?

    Im 16. I have 0 friends apart from one who sleeps with everyones boyfriends and what if I fall in love with a guy and she finds him hot she would sleep with him no doubt! shes sleeping with her cousins husband so i doubt she cares about me! I get homeschooled due to bullying I got beat up the other week for no... show more
    Im 16. I have 0 friends apart from one who sleeps with everyones boyfriends and what if I fall in love with a guy and she finds him hot she would sleep with him no doubt! shes sleeping with her cousins husband so i doubt she cares about me! I get homeschooled due to bullying I got beat up the other week for no reason Ive fallen out with most of my friends even though my so called friends were using me for my money and were always horrible to me anyway. The friends who want to know me dont want to anymore because i never use to stay round their house and they live so far away and its so difficult to get there and back and I have anxiety. Because I got beat up and fallen out with everyone im worried about leaving the house incase it happens again or worse as i fell out with my mate and she got her friends to contact me. Im using guys just so I can get some attention in my lonely life and sleeping around just so I dont feel useless. I sit at home doing NOTHING all day apart from message a few lads who just want to use me and i have no real friends to hang out with and do things with! I get homeschooled but I dont even revise because im so lazy and feel so stupid! I did have job but I quit after 2 days because it was so far now im worried about getting another one incase people from school or my 'ex' friends see me and want to beat me up! My family are great but I feel so trapped in my house here and I cant wait to move out but I have nowhere to go its just no motivation here.
    21 answers · 3 days ago
  • I keep hearing my parents have sex and it’s really bothering me?

    it’s happened at least 5 times sense schools started. the worst part is, they aren’t even married yet. last night he said “we should stop, i’m sure sophie can hear us” and my mom was like “no please keep going i wasnt being loud!” but trust me i heard everything sense our rooms are so close. i’m not super close... show more
    it’s happened at least 5 times sense schools started. the worst part is, they aren’t even married yet. last night he said “we should stop, i’m sure sophie can hear us” and my mom was like “no please keep going i wasnt being loud!” but trust me i heard everything sense our rooms are so close. i’m not super close with them but if this i might text them and tell them that i’m hearing them.. suggestions?? please don’t say “it’s just bc they love each other” bc that isn’t going to help. im 13 by the way and don’t say i’m being childish.thx
    13 answers · 3 days ago
  • Is Hillary Clinton and Al Franken best buddies?

    Best answer: not sure and don't care
    Best answer: not sure and don't care
    7 answers · 3 days ago
  • This girl is ruining my life, What can i do???

    Best answer: If you want a short term answer that may win you a reputation as a scrappy little punk, fight her. If you want a legit answer that will help you mature into a better person and help you understand life in the long run, ignore it. If your friends are so quick to believe and spread rumors and jump ships they really... show more
    Best answer: If you want a short term answer that may win you a reputation as a scrappy little punk, fight her.
    If you want a legit answer that will help you mature into a better person and help you understand life in the long run, ignore it. If your friends are so quick to believe and spread rumors and jump ships they really never were your friends. Sure, you have fun together, I myself have people like that. We meet up, go out to dance and drink, but I wouldn't trust them with my secrets or fears or personal life. That's just how life is. There will always be people who cannot mature past the high school level drama fixation, and you don't need that in your life, now or otherwise.
    Sure, it feel's like the end of the world now because right now, your whole world is school. I assure you, that will pass and you'll realize how trivial worrying about it is. If you want some new friends, maybe some real friends, pick a hobby you really enjoy and join a club or group and make friends there. I've found that the best of friends always come when you are embracing and empowering yourself, because they are drawn to you as you are, not the you as the world tells them to view you.
    As far as the rumors go, if people come to you about it and ask why it doesn't seem to phase you, my sri taught me a lesson once that has stuck with me through ages: "What other people think of you is none of your business, and therefore none of your baggage." All that matters in the end is that you are doing what is best for you and makes you happiest. People come and go, but you will always be there for yourself, so you need to fortify the bond with yourself.

    This person is a steretyopical bully, and the best way to deal with them is to ignore them and never let them see that they are getting to you. She is snickering and pointing from down the hallway in your direction? Slap on a smile and walk past her like she doesn't exist. She sends friends to talk **** to your face? Giggle with them, suck it up, and move on. Eventually they will find new prey, because when they stop getting a reaction from you, picking on you is no longer fun.

    And I suggest that when they do move on to try and destroy someone else's high school life because that's what they think is cool now, you remember this moment and reach out to that person and offer them tips to get around it and maybe build a true friendship.
    15 answers · 4 days ago
  • Do you consider this bullying?

    So this girl in my class is always staring at me with a grin on her face. (I'm a girl)She stares while smiling before whispering in someone's ear then they both laugh. Everytime she sees me she stares and whispers to whoever she's hangs with and whispers to them while looking at me then laughs. Then... show more
    So this girl in my class is always staring at me with a grin on her face. (I'm a girl)She stares while smiling before whispering in someone's ear then they both laugh. Everytime she sees me she stares and whispers to whoever she's hangs with and whispers to them while looking at me then laughs. Then she'll continue to stare for a long time. I remember one time she was walking with one of her friends and they were pushing each other to go sit by me. They were laughing really hard too.
    7 answers · 12 hours ago
  • Will somebody be my Friend?

    8 answers · 1 day ago
  • If a guy has pictures and videos of you and you decide to break things off with him will he blackmail you?

    I'm 30 and I've been having sex on and off with this guy who's 43. He and I aren't in a relationship and we live in different states. I've only hooked up with him about three times. . He's currently going through a rough time financially and he is living out of his car. So I told him I would... show more
    I'm 30 and I've been having sex on and off with this guy who's 43. He and I aren't in a relationship and we live in different states. I've only hooked up with him about three times. . He's currently going through a rough time financially and he is living out of his car. So I told him I would help him financially for his services sometimes he helps me with my studies and I've been sending him money. But now I'm not sure if I want to anymore but he has pictures and videos of me I also have videos of him as well too I'm just wondering if I should be worried. He's kind of weird so I'm not sure what he might do.
    6 answers · 6 hours ago
  • What’s going on with this girl?

    She’s a friend but hides absolutely everything. Last week she deleted a **** ton of Instagram pics, the other day removed her friends list entirely on Facebook, now today she is removing a bunch of her followers on Instagram?
    She’s a friend but hides absolutely everything. Last week she deleted a **** ton of Instagram pics, the other day removed her friends list entirely on Facebook, now today she is removing a bunch of her followers on Instagram?
    8 answers · 1 day ago
  • Im a muslim Woman and i watch other girls masturbate on porn and it turns me on. And i masturbate to it. Is thst considered homosexuality?

    Is that an act of homosexuality? If i like looking at other girls bodies while they masturbate am i commtting an homosexual act? Or being homosexual???
    Is that an act of homosexuality? If i like looking at other girls bodies while they masturbate am i commtting an homosexual act? Or being homosexual???
    15 answers · 3 days ago
  • What do you guys think about my computer desk?

    What do you guys think about my computer desk?

    Best answer: Let's just say you would be able to fit a whole bank of computers on it.
    Best answer: Let's just say you would be able to fit a whole bank of computers on it.
    6 answers · 9 hours ago