• Does the idea of causal sex with a virgin freak guys out?

    I'm 26 years old, still a virgin, and have been really wanting to lose my virginity for over 5 years now. I don't really care about wether I'm in a relationship or not. I would be happy to just have someone to have casual sex with. However, guys frequently reject me and try to discourage me from wanting... show more
    I'm 26 years old, still a virgin, and have been really wanting to lose my virginity for over 5 years now. I don't really care about wether I'm in a relationship or not. I would be happy to just have someone to have casual sex with. However, guys frequently reject me and try to discourage me from wanting sex by telling me that I'll become addicted to sex after I lose my virginity or that I'll get pregnant, yet, they hit on other women that have had sex before. I've even dated two different guys that have discouraged me from wanting to to have sex with them by suggesting we have sex in public. There have also been guys that have told me that they dislike condoms or are allergic to latex. One time, I answered an ad a guy posted on Craigslist for casual sex. I let him know in my response that I was a lonely 26-year-old virgin and that I was feeling undesirable and excluded. He asked me for my number, I gave it to him, and we started texting each other. Then, all of a sudden, possibly in an attempt to scare me, he sent me a picture of his penis so that I could see that he was pretty well-endowed followed by a text saying that I wouldn't be able take it. I told him I could take it, buy he stopped texting me. Is it that guys are freaked out by the idea of having causal sex with a virgin? Or is the male population somehow being convinced to withhold sex from me just so that I'll have to suffer from with prolonged sexual frustration and resent women that are actually getting laid?
    33 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • Cousin is mooching off my parents and sharing my room. What do I do?

    so my cousin has been living with us for about year. And because I have the biggest room (the basement), he shares the room with me. This was supposed to be a 6 month thing and ended up being a one year thing. He hasn’t been looking for a new place, he hasn’t made an effort to save money, he spends way too much... show more
    so my cousin has been living with us for about year. And because I have the biggest room (the basement), he shares the room with me. This was supposed to be a 6 month thing and ended up being a one year thing. He hasn’t been looking for a new place, he hasn’t made an effort to save money, he spends way too much money on weed and just plays video games all day. It’s really stressful for me because I’ve never had my own room and when I finally got my own room he moved in. My parents are very fed up with him but don’t want to ruin their relationship with him. Him and I fight all the time mostly becuase he doesn’t clean up after himself and I am physically tired of cleaning up after him all the time. Recently we got into a big argument because he’s angry that I tell my mom how dirty he is becuase she ends up yelling at him to clean up. But I have no choice becuase when I tell him to clean up he just yells at me and spoils endings of tv shows and video games to get me out of the room. He’s 28 years old and I’m a 22 year old woman. I can’t even bring my friends or boyfriend over because his clothes are all over the floor. I just really don’t know what to do at this point. What do I do?
    15 answers · Family · 1 day ago
  • I’m starting to get depressed about being single?

    So I’m a 20 year old male and never even come close to dating anyone. I never dated anyone in high school because I thought all the relationships were fake, stupid and just puppy love. But now that I’m getting older being alone is just really starting to get to me I don’t know why. It’s like I want to not care but... show more
    So I’m a 20 year old male and never even come close to dating anyone. I never dated anyone in high school because I thought all the relationships were fake, stupid and just puppy love. But now that I’m getting older being alone is just really starting to get to me I don’t know why. It’s like I want to not care but I just can’t seem to help it. The thing is I have a extremely strong attraction to women as (as in I have a very high sex drive) which I know is normal at this point of my life. But I just get terrified to approach any woman that’s even somewhat good looking because it seems like for women they always have at least dozens of guys on their waiting list as for men like me we have to just get what we get haha. I’m not a bad looking guy for any stretch(at least I don’t think so) I exercise frequently and stay in shape. The point is I just want to experience this whole dating thing just once in my life and maybe I will stop caring about it so much because that’s all I’ve seen to think about lately.
    49 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • Are you engaged if you accept a marriage proposal without receiving a ring?

    Best answer: You're engaged once you agree definitely to get married, and agree to start planning whatever kind of wedding you want.

    The ring is merely a tradition/formality, as is a bended-knee proposal. You don't need either to actually get engaged.
    Best answer: You're engaged once you agree definitely to get married, and agree to start planning whatever kind of wedding you want.

    The ring is merely a tradition/formality, as is a bended-knee proposal. You don't need either to actually get engaged.
    24 answers · Engagements & Weddings · 17 hours ago
  • I don't want to teach my kids how to drive or drive them. Am I normal?

    Best answer: It's my opinion that you are raising your children to hate you.
    Best answer: It's my opinion that you are raising your children to hate you.
    18 answers · Family · 1 day ago
  • Is it rude to tell your inlaws to not take photos of your child?

    My boyfriends family (mom, sisters) are planning to come after I give birth to my son, I’m not sure if they wanted to come as soon as possible or a couple days when he’s already been home for awhile, either way my problem is I don’t want them taking pictures and posting them on social media but I don’t know how to... show more
    My boyfriends family (mom, sisters) are planning to come after I give birth to my son, I’m not sure if they wanted to come as soon as possible or a couple days when he’s already been home for awhile, either way my problem is I don’t want them taking pictures and posting them on social media but I don’t know how to go about that? I’m not close with them whatsoever, me and his family are still at the hi and bye stage, and I don’t like the idea of them posting my child to their followers on social media whom I don’t know either.. I just don’t want to seem rude about it..
    19 answers · Family · 1 day ago
  • How to prepare for your first time?(losing your virginity)~girls~?

    How can I prepare? Other than having condoms, being ready, etc... Like what should I do to prepare the week of, the day of, the night of, etc...
    How can I prepare? Other than having condoms, being ready, etc... Like what should I do to prepare the week of, the day of, the night of, etc...
    23 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • My husband is having an affair?

    My husband is having an affair with a married woman. I found out. He said he never stop loving me, he doesn't love that woman, just because she's so good in bed that makes him cannot leave her . He said that woman pleases him anyway he wants in bed while I'm just like a pillow. I checked his phone. he... show more
    My husband is having an affair with a married woman. I found out. He said he never stop loving me, he doesn't love that woman, just because she's so good in bed that makes him cannot leave her . He said that woman pleases him anyway he wants in bed while I'm just like a pillow. I checked his phone. he texts her everyday to chat and begs her to make love with him but she refuses, she said she just want to be friend with him, she wants to stop the affair. Did I do something wrong, what should I do now. Thanks for help.
    30 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • How do I respond at the family reunion this weekend when my Mom's cousin wants to discuss my late grandfather's alcoholism which I dont?

    Best answer: You have no guarantee this topic will come up. If it does, excuse yourself, and leave the room.
    Best answer: You have no guarantee this topic will come up. If it does, excuse yourself, and leave the room.
    6 answers · Family · 5 hours ago
  • My ex-wife has refused to let me see my daughter for over a year now and says she only will if I pay the child support she waived.?

    My ex-wife has been refusing to let me see my little girl. When the divorce went through she told the judge she did not want me to pay child support. Now that her husband is cheating on her and wants a divorce she is taking it out on me by claiming she can take me back for child support, which is difficult as I am... show more
    My ex-wife has been refusing to let me see my little girl. When the divorce went through she told the judge she did not want me to pay child support. Now that her husband is cheating on her and wants a divorce she is taking it out on me by claiming she can take me back for child support, which is difficult as I am caring for my grandmother, as well as not letting me see my daughter.
    30 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • Would you let your 15 year old daughter go on holiday with her best friend?

    So my daughter wants to go on holiday with her best friends to Los Angeles in the summer. We live in the UK so it would be a long plane ride. She and her best friend would be going alone but they are very trustworthy. Her best friend’s family will meet them when they get off the plane and she would be staying with... show more
    So my daughter wants to go on holiday with her best friends to Los Angeles in the summer. We live in the UK so it would be a long plane ride. She and her best friend would be going alone but they are very trustworthy. Her best friend’s family will meet them when they get off the plane and she would be staying with them for a week. I’m debating whether to let her go and I’m just wondering if you would let your 15 year old daughter go on holiday with her best friend.
    24 answers · Friends · 1 day ago
  • Is this weird/fair?

    So my mom and step dad are separating for a little bit so my mom and I are currently living with my grandma and grandpa until my mom saves a little bit of money to get a place of our own. Well. About two weeks ago my great grandpa died. I am currently staying in the room that my great grandma and grandpa stayed in... show more
    So my mom and step dad are separating for a little bit so my mom and I are currently living with my grandma and grandpa until my mom saves a little bit of money to get a place of our own. Well. About two weeks ago my great grandpa died. I am currently staying in the room that my great grandma and grandpa stayed in before my great grandma died two years ago. Now that my great grandpa is gone, my grandpa has decided that a BIG portrait of my dead great grandma should go into the room I’m staying in. I think it’s weird and kind of unfair to have in the room that is supposed to be mine for two months. It literally creeps me out having her look down on me. I can’t sleep. I love her with all my heart and miss her but this is just weird to me. It’s the same picture used at her funeral. What do I do? I don’t want it to be hung over my bed. Isn’t it kind of weird? Is it just me?? By the way I’m 18 and just graduated high school, if that changes anything whatsoever.
    5 answers · Family · 7 hours ago
  • I m stuck, can you help me?

    My mother and brother are facing homeless very soon and I feel like I can t help them because I dont have the money to lend them for anything because I don t make a lot at my job. I m living with my fiancé and her parents right now and they won t let them move in too. I m trying to find a homeless shelter that... show more
    My mother and brother are facing homeless very soon and I feel like I can t help them because I dont have the money to lend them for anything because I don t make a lot at my job. I m living with my fiancé and her parents right now and they won t let them move in too. I m trying to find a homeless shelter that allows pets but i can t find anything...does anyone have any suggestions?
    9 answers · Family · 12 hours ago
  • Is this normal?

    I've always been attracted to much older men. When I was 16, I was crazy about a geography teacher in his late 30s. Now I'm 25, I like guys in their 40s. Sometimes I'm confused about whether I want a boyfriend or a new dad (ok that sounds weird but I feel as though I want someone to protect and take... show more
    I've always been attracted to much older men. When I was 16, I was crazy about a geography teacher in his late 30s. Now I'm 25, I like guys in their 40s. Sometimes I'm confused about whether I want a boyfriend or a new dad (ok that sounds weird but I feel as though I want someone to protect and take care of me - not financially though). Men my age don't do it for me.  Is this normal?
    18 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • BF bought an engagement ring but wont propose?

    My boyfriend of 6 years bought me a ring. We went to the store together and he showed it to me once the diamond was set and he brought it home. He gave it to me but said it wasnt the actual proposal so I can't tell anyone because he wants it to be a nicer moment. We plan to elope for the wedding since he... show more
    My boyfriend of 6 years bought me a ring. We went to the store together and he showed it to me once the diamond was set and he brought it home. He gave it to me but said it wasnt the actual proposal so I can't tell anyone because he wants it to be a nicer moment. We plan to elope for the wedding since he doesn't like crowds of people so for me the only time I can enjoy the happiness and fun of the process is telling people I am engaged with friends. I am more of an introvert so I don't have a ton of friends. I recently moved on to another job and I am moving a bit away in less than a week. We've had the ring for 3 months and he still hasn't "proposed" officially. He wants it to be a good proposal and such. For me, if he wanted that, he should have done it years ago. I know the moment is supposed to be about "us" but I was hoping to feel a little bit of the limelight with the engagement as superficial as that may seem. So now that I am about to move and not be close enough to share news over a nice lunch or dinner, I feel really bummed. I mean, if you have a great story but no one to tell it to, just feels sad. I can't help feeling overwhelmingly disappointed that I may see my friends once a year now and it is causing fights between him and I. We've gone away to another state to a quick weekend vaca, we've visited waterfalls and had great moments that he didn't propose on. I am not sure what to do, I know I am impatient but this is taking too long.
    25 answers · Engagements & Weddings · 2 days ago
  • Wedding Dress: Should I care more about what my mom thinks or my mother in law thinks?

    Simply put my mother in law is paying for my wedding dress, but my mom is super opinionated. I want to please my mom because I know she feels bad about not being able to help out with the wedding as much as my mother in law, but my other in law doesn't have the same taste as I do and I don't want to settle... show more
    Simply put my mother in law is paying for my wedding dress, but my mom is super opinionated. I want to please my mom because I know she feels bad about not being able to help out with the wedding as much as my mother in law, but my other in law doesn't have the same taste as I do and I don't want to settle for a dress just to make my MIL happy.
    17 answers · Engagements & Weddings · 21 hours ago
  • Am I shallow if I refuse to date someone who's not successful?

    I have a college degree and a decent paying job so I want someone who is the same. I once turned down a guy after finding out that he works as a security guard for a living. Am I shallow or just being reasonable?
    I have a college degree and a decent paying job so I want someone who is the same. I once turned down a guy after finding out that he works as a security guard for a living. Am I shallow or just being reasonable?
    20 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • How to get over the guilt of cheating on my wife? Someone one night showed a lot of interest and I miss that. And then it happened.?

    Best answer: What she doesn’t know won’t hurt her. So keep your lips zipped.
    Best answer: What she doesn’t know won’t hurt her. So keep your lips zipped.
    22 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • Grandmother died without a will,who gets the house ?

    Me and my grandmother were extremely close,she raised me on my father’s behalf when he had ms. Eventually she got very sick & her other son (she had two children him & my father.) I stayed with her as well to help care for her. My uncle & his wife would smoke,drink & take her pills without... show more
    Me and my grandmother were extremely close,she raised me on my father’s behalf when he had ms. Eventually she got very sick & her other son (she had two children him & my father.) I stayed with her as well to help care for her. My uncle & his wife would smoke,drink & take her pills without permission as well as would try abusing me as a minor. When I was 17 my uncle tried hitting my & my grandmother called the cops. They called my mother to take me away from the abusive household & my grandmother threatened to kill herself if I left..that was the last time I’d ever see her again. After that I got 1 phone call & never got a response,I tried stopping by and knocking,calling,even calling aps. It had been two years since I heard from her & I saw on Facebook she had passed..no one told me or let me know. I’m completely devastated. What’s worse is that these horrible people who did my grandmother wrong are still in the home & I want them out! She didn’t leave a will but my father is deceased so it’s just me and my uncle. Does part of that house belong to me?if so how do I go about trying to take it from them? I’m hurt they didn’t let me be there for her in her last days & she would always say she wanted the house sold and the money split.
    16 answers · Family · 21 hours ago