• Should I leave my boyfriend because months ago he undressed me when I was asleep and sick?

    Months ago I posted a question in which I described the whole situation and most of the answers justified his behaviour claiming that he did the right thing. I had high fever (39°), and he was sleeping at my house for the first time because my parents were abroad. I was alone at home and had fever. The first day... show more
    Months ago I posted a question in which I described the whole situation and most of the answers justified his behaviour claiming that he did the right thing. I had high fever (39°), and he was sleeping at my house for the first time because my parents were abroad. I was alone at home and had fever. The first day that I was sick he stood by me, gave me medicines and cooked for me. The second day the temperature raised and I really really sick, and I woke up in the middle of the night shivering, naked (without the upper part of the pj, the undershirt and bra) and when I asked him why, almost crying, he said: because you were sick and your clothes were wet and I had to. He gave me dry clothes and something to lower the temperature. He turned off the light and I felt so ashamed and angry at him and at myself because he had seen me naked. He had never seen me naked before, it was humiliating. I'm also hurting because I think that I'm mean for thinking bad about him, because he did it for good, but I don't know, it's like he isn't the perfect guy I had always thought of, I was really in love with him, but I dare you to find yourself suddenly naked and not to be angry or resent him. I always thought he was perfect but after all these months I still have nightmares about that night.
    38 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • Your opinion on a woman who only dates black guys?

    Best answer: I don't know why but I usually think of them as sl*tty or big ego.
    Best answer: I don't know why but I usually think of them as sl*tty or big ego.
    19 answers · Singles & Dating · 11 hours ago
  • My parents don t want to cope with me anymore?

    I m 19 years old, and for as long as I can remember, I ve had all sorts of anxieties and depression from a young age. Long story short, the other week, after my mum got married to her new husband, she had a go at me for crying when I dropped my phone on my toe. I thought crying when you ve hurt yourself is a... show more
    I m 19 years old, and for as long as I can remember, I ve had all sorts of anxieties and depression from a young age. Long story short, the other week, after my mum got married to her new husband, she had a go at me for crying when I dropped my phone on my toe. I thought crying when you ve hurt yourself is a completely normal reaction, but then it continued with her telling me I need to get help and that she s fed up with it. I really don t get how it s gone from hurting my toe, to I need therapy... Whenever I try to talk to her about my personal problems, it always ends up in shouting and arguing. She will now cut me off straight away when I try to open up. She s the only person who has been with me my whole life, and now she doesn t want anything to do with me. This has really affected me badly. And even though I feel I m better, these situations drag me back down again. I don t know what to do anymore. I can t move out, I ve got no one to stay with, I can t even talk to my own parent anymore... I couldn t get any advice online so I ve come here. I m sorry if none of this makes sense, and that it s really long, I m just all over the place about this and need someone to give me advice or their opinions.
    19 answers · Family · 1 day ago
  • Is it bad to have 2 boyfriends?

    I can’t believe this is happening when before I was crying about being single but now it looks like I’m about to have not 1 but 2 dudes in my life. This guy that used to work at my job really likes me he lives next to me and wants to ask me out and try’s his hardest to get with me. The other day he came knocking on... show more
    I can’t believe this is happening when before I was crying about being single but now it looks like I’m about to have not 1 but 2 dudes in my life. This guy that used to work at my job really likes me he lives next to me and wants to ask me out and try’s his hardest to get with me. The other day he came knocking on my door but ran.. there’s this new guy at my job and he’s already flirting with me he’s always smiling at me there just no telling when he’s gonna go in for the kill..and i gotta say he’s really cute.. to be honest I’m not gonna say no to neither one..I think it’s fun 2 have 2 boyfriends I just can’t believe this is happening I’m so happy overal is this bad?
    18 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • I'm 33 and a man and have still never had sex and I feel like I've totally missed out and am quickly losing my chance?

    Even though I've never had it I'm sure it is lifes greatest pleasure than one can experience. I'm not a virgin because I'm ugly either. In fact I'm somewhat the opposite. I've just lived as such a recluse for so long due to debilitating social anxiety. I also have little confidence. I... show more
    Even though I've never had it I'm sure it is lifes greatest pleasure than one can experience. I'm not a virgin because I'm ugly either. In fact I'm somewhat the opposite. I've just lived as such a recluse for so long due to debilitating social anxiety. I also have little confidence. I was also waiting for marriage for several years which I now know many regret. Plus I was religious for a long time and I'm not now. I can NEVER get my younger years back now and I feel I've missed out completely on the ultimate pleasure.
    36 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • Are you a cop? Do you like your job? How does it make you feel knowing that most people hate you and they think you're a racist criminal?

    Go ahead. Tell me you're one of the "good" cops! You're one of the teeny tiny 10 percent of police who are NOT racist, corrupt bullies! Sure, oh, sure!
    Go ahead. Tell me you're one of the "good" cops! You're one of the teeny tiny 10 percent of police who are NOT racist, corrupt bullies! Sure, oh, sure!
    12 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 2 days ago
  • My boyfriend won’t be intimate with me, and I don’t know how to fix it.?

    I don’t mean just sexually, although that is a major part of it (if I never initiated, we’d probably have sex less than every other month). I mean, he’s gotten super non-affectionate or romantic, and I feel more like I’m just a friend of his who he happens to sleep in the same bed with. I understand that he hurts... show more
    I don’t mean just sexually, although that is a major part of it (if I never initiated, we’d probably have sex less than every other month). I mean, he’s gotten super non-affectionate or romantic, and I feel more like I’m just a friend of his who he happens to sleep in the same bed with. I understand that he hurts constantly, and is tired from work (he is a technician), but I just want HIM to cuddle with ME sometimes. Or to hold MY hand. I’m always the one who has to ask to cuddle, or take his hand. I know it sounds like he is just not interested in me anymore, but I am sure it’s not that. And I’ve brought up a conversation about it a few different times, but he always just ends up convinced he’s a jerk and doesn’t oay attention to my needs, even though that’s all he tries to do constantly. He always makes me choose whatever I want to do, and he tried to do what he thinks will make me happy. But anyways, how to I try to fix this? Or at least, how can I try communicating with him in a way that he doesn’t feel bad? (Even though that’s all I try to do. Each time I’ve brought it up I’ve tried phrasing things differently, etc, so he recieves it better, but he always ends up thinking he’s the a**hole.)
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 hours ago
  • Wasn't I good enough for you?

    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 hours ago
  • Be honest, have you ever bullied someone?

    103 answers · Friends · 5 days ago
  • Husband won't let me take one day off from work?

    I never ever take off from work. That's the problem. I am exhausted and I just need a break. No matter how much I cry and plead, my husband shows no mercy. He keeps saying we'll go to bed early and we need every dime to pay bills. We both have good jobs. I make 12 an hour and he's an Electrician and... show more
    I never ever take off from work. That's the problem. I am exhausted and I just need a break. No matter how much I cry and plead, my husband shows no mercy. He keeps saying we'll go to bed early and we need every dime to pay bills. We both have good jobs. I make 12 an hour and he's an Electrician and makes good money. I only have ever taken off for doctors appointments only. I'm only asking for one day. Is he being mean and selfish or am I being selfish? I feel like sometimes with this his cares more about the money than my health. I feel like he's become obsessed with us working. What to do?
    38 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 3 days ago
  • Is my husband's ex wife going to ruin my marriage?

    Best answer: "I texted her scolding her for refusing to state who their newest primary care physician..." Well, she sounds awful and immature, but this stuff isn't helping. Your husband is the one who should be communicating with her, especially when it's about a problem. Ideally, this wouldn't be... show more
    Best answer: "I texted her scolding her for refusing to state who their newest primary care physician..."

    Well, she sounds awful and immature, but this stuff isn't helping. Your husband is the one who should be communicating with her, especially when it's about a problem. Ideally, this wouldn't be handled by text, either. That's not a good way to communicate about a serious issue concerning a child.

    Also, you didn't say how old your stepson is, but you need to be careful about instilling discipline, especially involving a spanking or whatever. He's already confused and hurt about the changes in his life and if he deserves a spanking, his dad should be the one to give it. This is one of the most basic blended family rules of all.

    You need to get your husband to understand that life will be better for EVERYONE involved here if he can try to stay on the best possible terms with his ex. This might mean apologizing for a couple things you did that weren't helpful. Everything always boils down to communication.
    16 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 day ago
  • How do I get ex husband to forgive me so we can be friends?

    I left him and our children over 30 years ago. I was addicted to drugs alchohol and cheating.Our daughters forgave me. I am not that person anymore. He did well for himself and has a wonderful wife. He runs away like I am a ghost whenever he sees me and still trashes me.
    I left him and our children over 30 years ago. I was addicted to drugs alchohol and cheating.Our daughters forgave me. I am not that person anymore. He did well for himself and has a wonderful wife. He runs away like I am a ghost whenever he sees me and still trashes me.
    17 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 day ago