• I’m starting to get depressed about being single?

    So I’m a 20 year old male and never even come close to dating anyone. I never dated anyone in high school because I thought all the relationships were fake, stupid and just puppy love. But now that I’m getting older being alone is just really starting to get to me I don’t know why. It’s like I want to not care but... show more
    So I’m a 20 year old male and never even come close to dating anyone. I never dated anyone in high school because I thought all the relationships were fake, stupid and just puppy love. But now that I’m getting older being alone is just really starting to get to me I don’t know why. It’s like I want to not care but I just can’t seem to help it. The thing is I have a extremely strong attraction to women as (as in I have a very high sex drive) which I know is normal at this point of my life. But I just get terrified to approach any woman that’s even somewhat good looking because it seems like for women they always have at least dozens of guys on their waiting list as for men like me we have to just get what we get haha. I’m not a bad looking guy for any stretch(at least I don’t think so) I exercise frequently and stay in shape. The point is I just want to experience this whole dating thing just once in my life and maybe I will stop caring about it so much because that’s all I’ve seen to think about lately.
    31 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • How to prepare for your first time?(losing your virginity)~girls~?

    How can I prepare? Other than having condoms, being ready, etc... Like what should I do to prepare the week of, the day of, the night of, etc...
    How can I prepare? Other than having condoms, being ready, etc... Like what should I do to prepare the week of, the day of, the night of, etc...
    10 answers · Singles & Dating · 16 hours ago
  • Im a teenager and i don't like to go out is that weird??

    I have never been the type to go out and party or even just go out with friends, I became very mature for my age very young (I started being mature at 8 y/o) if I do go out it is very rare and very uncomfortable for me and its only been sleep overs with family members and that's it, I dont have friends. But... show more
    I have never been the type to go out and party or even just go out with friends, I became very mature for my age very young (I started being mature at 8 y/o) if I do go out it is very rare and very uncomfortable for me and its only been sleep overs with family members and that's it, I dont have friends. But when people ask me why I don't go out I just say I don't like to but then they kind of make fun of me about it and call me names, I dont think they mean to hurt my feeling but they do and it makes me not wanna go out even more! Idk some people make me feel very uncomfy and I have to really know you before I'm am comfy, I am also homeschooled so I don't get vert much interaction and I really like that, but my mom feels like she has fails as a mother because I'm not social I wish she could see that being alone makes me happy. I tell her that I find partying gross and disturbing but she doesn't understand. Anyways what can I say to people when they start making fun of me or just push me around (Ps I'm a 14 y/o girl and I know this is probably makes me weird but I promise I'm not this nerdy weird kid) also don't say I'm boring because I'm not I think I'm fun if I really know you though and can be myself around you. Any advice about coming out of my "shell"
    16 answers · Friends · 2 days ago
  • BF bought an engagement ring but wont propose?

    My boyfriend of 6 years bought me a ring. We went to the store together and he showed it to me once the diamond was set and he brought it home. He gave it to me but said it wasnt the actual proposal so I can't tell anyone because he wants it to be a nicer moment. We plan to elope for the wedding since he... show more
    My boyfriend of 6 years bought me a ring. We went to the store together and he showed it to me once the diamond was set and he brought it home. He gave it to me but said it wasnt the actual proposal so I can't tell anyone because he wants it to be a nicer moment. We plan to elope for the wedding since he doesn't like crowds of people so for me the only time I can enjoy the happiness and fun of the process is telling people I am engaged with friends. I am more of an introvert so I don't have a ton of friends. I recently moved on to another job and I am moving a bit away in less than a week. We've had the ring for 3 months and he still hasn't "proposed" officially. He wants it to be a good proposal and such. For me, if he wanted that, he should have done it years ago. I know the moment is supposed to be about "us" but I was hoping to feel a little bit of the limelight with the engagement as superficial as that may seem. So now that I am about to move and not be close enough to share news over a nice lunch or dinner, I feel really bummed. I mean, if you have a great story but no one to tell it to, just feels sad. I can't help feeling overwhelmingly disappointed that I may see my friends once a year now and it is causing fights between him and I. We've gone away to another state to a quick weekend vaca, we've visited waterfalls and had great moments that he didn't propose on. I am not sure what to do, I know I am impatient but this is taking too long.
    16 answers · Engagements & Weddings · 4 hours ago
  • If you find out your wife is related to you, can you divorce?

    Best answer: You can divorce your wife if you must, but not because of this drop in the bucket of shared heredity.
    Best answer: You can divorce your wife if you must, but not because of this drop in the bucket of shared heredity.
    28 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • My mother physically and emotionally abuses me, can you give me advice please?

    So I’m a 26 year old female currently working part time, living with my mother since I was a kid. She’s been physically and emotionally abusive to me for so long but it has gotten worse. Now she wishes death on me, abuses me physically, threatens me all that nasty stuff. She yells at me constantly, she is... show more
    So I’m a 26 year old female currently working part time, living with my mother since I was a kid. She’s been physically and emotionally abusive to me for so long but it has gotten worse. Now she wishes death on me, abuses me physically, threatens me all that nasty stuff. She yells at me constantly, she is approaching 50 and I think it’s gotten worse. It’s gotten to the point were even my brother is joining in and saying that I’m mental and how nobody cares about the fact that I’m being abused at home. He locked me out of the house yesterday and she was laughing. I really need help, I want to escape. I have no friends no family I can move in with or talk about this with. Last night she beat me up over something so little, my back hurts and I feel like it’s affecting me emotionally. I have recorded footage of her being abusive to me just in case something goes down. What can I do? Please only serious answers. Thanks
    21 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • Boring sex with boyfriend?

    So me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 years now. Sex was okay at first, never really mind blowingly good but it was good still and we couldnt get enough of each other for the first year or so. just for a long while I've been feeling bored, we hardly ever try anything new, it's always oral... show more
    So me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 years now. Sex was okay at first, never really mind blowingly good but it was good still and we couldnt get enough of each other for the first year or so. just for a long while I've been feeling bored, we hardly ever try anything new, it's always oral followed by missionary or doggy. I did say something to him and we bought some sex toys and blindfold and handcuffs but they only get used rarely. Even when we do use them he always asks if he can handcuff me and worried they're too tight so he spends ages fiddling with them which is a bit of a mood killer. I know he's never going to be the kind of guy that just throws me on the bed and takes charge, but I just wish he was a bit more confident and dominant in the bedroom. it's got to the point where I just really don't want to have sex anymore because It's just so much effort to try and get aroused when I'm not into it...I worry so much that it stops me from getting wet and then I feel bad because I don't want him to feel like he's doing a bad job or anything and then I feel bad and worry about that some more which just makes it impossible to relax and try and enjoy myself. I do enjoy sex and masturbation btw I'm not asexual or anything which would be causing me to have this problem. I just don't know what to do. I love him so much but this is just becoming a real problem for me and I don't know what to do about it... anyone have any advice please?
    20 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • I'm hurt I didn't get a happy father's day?

    I've been with my girlfriend almost 4 years, and she didn't say happy father's day to me, and I'm actually hurt. I am not her child's biological father, but I sre myself as his dad. I try my best to be a good father figure, so that's why I am so hurt this year. The real father is not in the... show more
    I've been with my girlfriend almost 4 years, and she didn't say happy father's day to me, and I'm actually hurt. I am not her child's biological father, but I sre myself as his dad. I try my best to be a good father figure, so that's why I am so hurt this year. The real father is not in the picture, and took before he was even born. All she said is "I am thankful for everything, but he's not asking questions, and he doesn't call you dad. I don't want to make anything confusing, and I don't want explain things until I have too. I don't wany to jump in on the deep end if I don't have too" That statement she made only made me more hurt. Am I wrong for being hurt?
    19 answers · Family · 23 hours ago
  • Is this normal?

    I've always been attracted to much older men. When I was 16, I was crazy about a geography teacher in his late 30s. Now I'm 25, I like guys in their 40s. Sometimes I'm confused about whether I want a boyfriend or a new dad (ok that sounds weird but I feel as though I want someone to protect and take... show more
    I've always been attracted to much older men. When I was 16, I was crazy about a geography teacher in his late 30s. Now I'm 25, I like guys in their 40s. Sometimes I'm confused about whether I want a boyfriend or a new dad (ok that sounds weird but I feel as though I want someone to protect and take care of me - not financially though). Men my age don't do it for me.  Is this normal?
    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 7 hours ago
  • How do I get more Instagram followers?

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    46 answers · Singles & Dating · 6 days ago
  • Is it childish and delusional to want to find the kind of love that you see in movies or hear about in the most beautiful of love songs?

    Because I'm constantly getting told that it is and I'm getting absolutely slated for wanting to find that and for hoping that one day, I will find it. I also get told, on a regular basis, that I'm "setting myself up for a lot of bitter disappointment" by wanting that.
    Because I'm constantly getting told that it is and I'm getting absolutely slated for wanting to find that and for hoping that one day, I will find it. I also get told, on a regular basis, that I'm "setting myself up for a lot of bitter disappointment" by wanting that.
    26 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • She sneezed right when we were about to kiss, should I stop seeing her?

    I thought this was absolutely repulsive and unladylike. Not acceptable.
    I thought this was absolutely repulsive and unladylike. Not acceptable.
    21 answers · Friends · 1 day ago
  • My ex-wife has refused to let me see my daughter for over a year now and says she only will if I pay the child support she waived.?

    My ex-wife has been refusing to let me see my little girl. When the divorce went through she told the judge she did not want me to pay child support. Now that her husband is cheating on her and wants a divorce she is taking it out on me by claiming she can take me back for child support, which is difficult as I am... show more
    My ex-wife has been refusing to let me see my little girl. When the divorce went through she told the judge she did not want me to pay child support. Now that her husband is cheating on her and wants a divorce she is taking it out on me by claiming she can take me back for child support, which is difficult as I am caring for my grandmother, as well as not letting me see my daughter.
    13 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 11 hours ago
  • How pathetic is this man?

    What do you call A guy who is 37, good looking, makes 20 and hour, 30 hours a weekkk and has n o wife or kids ever and is straight? he a weirdo or what? Doesny own his own home but rents instead. Just started making 20 bucks an hour too. He works out. This guy lives across the street from me. If someone... show more
    What do you call A guy who is 37, good looking, makes 20 and hour, 30 hours a weekkk and has n o wife or kids ever and is straight? he a weirdo or what? Doesny own his own home but rents instead. Just started making 20 bucks an hour too. He works out. This guy lives across the street from me. If someone hasn't had any kids or a wife by his age there must be something wrong with them. He isn't normal Also 20 bucks an hour at 37? Total loser. Only brining home maybe 400.lol. I also think he moved back with his mother. Me on the other hand am 23 and a nurse who's married and having a kid. My husband is a firefighter and makes more than him lmao.
    15 answers · Psychology · 11 hours ago
  • He won't set a date?

    I am engaged to get married. I've been engaged since January 2015. We are both divorced and have been together over 6 years with children from previous marriages. We are 46 and 49. We purposely waited to get married until my oldest son graduated college so he could still get his financial aid loans. He... show more
    I am engaged to get married. I've been engaged since January 2015. We are both divorced and have been together over 6 years with children from previous marriages. We are 46 and 49. We purposely waited to get married until my oldest son graduated college so he could still get his financial aid loans. He graduated in the beginning of May. Since then, I've asked my fiancé about three times when he would like to get married. His response is agitation, annoyance and "why don't you just pick the date, I don't care". I get angry and tell him its a joint decision, that we should discuss it together. No big wedding, just the two of us going away somewhere together. I suggested Vegas and then go to Hawaii for the rest of the week for a honeymoon -- says its too expensive. I suggested going to Florida for the weekend and getting married on the beach -- showed a little interest but never brought it up. I suggested July, he said its too hot. But won't make any suggestions or talk to me like an adult about figuring this out. The other day he got agitated and started screeching at me "why are you dumping this on me?" That really hurt my feelings and I am starting to think that he really doesn't want to. I feel like I should just cut my losses and give him the ring back. I don't think it will every happen. Not with both of us making a decision together as a couple anyway.
    17 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 day ago
  • How do I speak to my 10 year old son about appropriate behaviour online?

    We’ve had his school admins setting up a meeting in regards to this problem back in May. He livestreamed himself to strangers and engages in explicit conversations. Note that my son has ADHD. He doesn’t have the maturity of a typical 10 year old. The problem is that people are worried about his safety AND he says... show more
    We’ve had his school admins setting up a meeting in regards to this problem back in May. He livestreamed himself to strangers and engages in explicit conversations. Note that my son has ADHD. He doesn’t have the maturity of a typical 10 year old. The problem is that people are worried about his safety AND he says some pretty inappropriate things on there. This is all fun and games to him. He openly said that he used this website to talk to strange people, which is how others found out.
    16 answers · Family · 1 day ago
  • Who is responsible for paying for a wedding?

    I understand that it has always been the tradition for the brides family to cover the cost of the wedding. But, it has also always been the tradition for a man to pay on dates, hold the door, etc. Very few young men are chivalrous in this way. Oftentimes, women are expected to pay for their portion of the meal when... show more
    I understand that it has always been the tradition for the brides family to cover the cost of the wedding. But, it has also always been the tradition for a man to pay on dates, hold the door, etc. Very few young men are chivalrous in this way. Oftentimes, women are expected to pay for their portion of the meal when on dates. Personally, I have paid my half for every date past the very first few. That being said, times have certainly changed, however, I was wondering if expecting the brides family to pay for the wedding is an outdated tradition? I really hate to be cheap in this situation, however, weddings are always very costly (average $40,000) and I come from a family of 6 girls. My parents simply cannot afford it even if we get a great deal and pay half of the average price. I am also worried that the grooms family will be somewhat judgmental if we decide to go the less expensive route and spend what is in our price range. Many of them have not met my family or myself and I don't want to come across as tacky. Yet, I am unsure of whether or not they would be more upset if they found out that my side of the family wasn't able to pick up the entire tab. Would it be terrible to split the cost of the wedding with the grooms family?
    52 answers · Engagements & Weddings · 4 days ago
  • What to do if the father of your child is aggressive with your 4 year old.?

    I have a 4 year old son. Hes an absolute sweetheart and so loving, but theres one thing I believe may affect his sweetness and positivy and that’d be his father. My son is with me majority of the time, he goes with his father 2x a week, sometimes more because I want them to have a bond but I cant keep pushing the... show more
    I have a 4 year old son. Hes an absolute sweetheart and so loving, but theres one thing I believe may affect his sweetness and positivy and that’d be his father. My son is with me majority of the time, he goes with his father 2x a week, sometimes more because I want them to have a bond but I cant keep pushing the fact that his father is aggressive with him away. I was shocked when I found out he even had to be with his father considering his fathers past history wih the law- assault - multiple times. Hes also been diagnosed eith bi polar disorder and was ordered to take anger management classes which he still goes to but unfortunately i see no change. Some weeks hes good with my son, other times I fear what my son goes through or might have to face in his fathers wrath. He gets upset that my son doesnt like him but my son has explained to me and him that its because he yells at him and grabs and hurts his arms when trying to stop him from moving, again my child is 4. He gets seemingly mad for no reason and needs to control my son, any sign of disobedience and he loses it. Is there anything I can do? Its been years and his dad isnt changing, if fear for my son and Im also fearing for my familys life. He owns countless guns and pointed one at my sister who doesn’t like him. Im scared if I go to court and we get full custody his father will come kill us. Im scared his father will hurt him in the middle of an episode. Im lost
    22 answers · Family · 2 days ago