• Why am I so nice?

    Yes, I know this sounds weird, but hear me out. I have an extreme social anxiety disorder and suffer from other mental disorders. I've been treated like crap from people and still am. Yet for some reason, my natural instinct is to be incredibly nice to people. I've been able to talk to famous people, the... show more
    Yes, I know this sounds weird, but hear me out. I have an extreme social anxiety disorder and suffer from other mental disorders. I've been treated like crap from people and still am. Yet for some reason, my natural instinct is to be incredibly nice to people. I've been able to talk to famous people, the "mean" girls in school, etc... all because of that. If someone doesn't have a chair to sit in, i naturally get up and let them have it, even if they are horrible to me. If someone needs help with homework, i send links of a ton of resources for them to use and give them tips, even if they aren't nice and it takes me about 20 minutes to do. I just, do it. Like how you naturally breath, i naturally act this way. Does it have anything to do with your DNA or something? I mean like, in 3rd grade I literally spent my entire lunch and recess period helping people work out their problems because it felt so natural for me to do. I just don't understand. Some people are naturally mean, so what makes me naturally nice? I'm sorry if i come off as cocky, i wasn't trying to do so. I was just thinking about it recently and was naturally curious.
    5 answers · 30 mins ago
  • Is it weird for close friends to cuddle?

    Cause me and my friends do cuddle regardless of gender or sexuality and Americans told me it's weird but fellow Germans didn't mind and thought it was cute. Is it weird?
    Cause me and my friends do cuddle regardless of gender or sexuality and Americans told me it's weird but fellow Germans didn't mind and thought it was cute. Is it weird?
    7 answers · 2 hours ago
  • How many people are nice?

    19 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why do some people think blacks are inferior?

    Why would anyone think that?
    Why would anyone think that?
    27 answers · 2 days ago
  • So lonely at 30 what do I do?

    Best answer: It isn't late to start now, but I know how it feels to be lonely. I always sit by myself during lunch in high school due to extremely poor self-esteem and social skills. By the way, not everyone had at least one boyfriend/girlfriend in their whole lives, not everyone is married, and not everyone wants to have... show more
    Best answer: It isn't late to start now, but I know how it feels to be lonely. I always sit by myself during lunch in high school due to extremely poor self-esteem and social skills. By the way, not everyone had at least one boyfriend/girlfriend in their whole lives, not everyone is married, and not everyone wants to have children. If I were you, I would start walking outside of your home to talk to many new people. Best luck to you!
    18 answers · 4 days ago
  • Depressed and I wanna kill myself.?

    Hello, I really dont know if someone will see this, but I really dont like my life, I have ocd and social anxiety, I stopped going to the doctor, and it s really bad, I feel alone usually, and I feel always stressed about my looks and insecurities, but what can I do, I don't have any money and I am only 15. I... show more
    Hello, I really dont know if someone will see this, but I really dont like my life, I have ocd and social anxiety, I stopped going to the doctor, and it s really bad, I feel alone usually, and I feel always stressed about my looks and insecurities, but what can I do, I don't have any money and I am only 15. I have a few friends but I have a bad social skills, and sometimes, I give up. I do things to get rid of my fear but I always fail. I want sometimes to commit suicide but i just dont have the balls to do it. I don't know what to do. I really need a pmotivation to continue my adventure.
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why can't the human mind conceive of something having no beginning?

    We can conceive of something be infinite without end, but we seem to be really bad at wrapping our heads around how something could always have existed. It's for that reason I find it hard to believe we'll ever understand where the universe came from.
    We can conceive of something be infinite without end, but we seem to be really bad at wrapping our heads around how something could always have existed. It's for that reason I find it hard to believe we'll ever understand where the universe came from.
    16 answers · 4 days ago
  • Why aren't any girls interested in me at night clubs?

    Real grown man talk now.... I'm 23 years old and a virgin. No girls like me. But that's a different story which is too long to get to The topic now is at night clubs. Every time I'm in a night club, I'm always dancing alone until I leave. No girl likes. No girl dances with me. I try to be open... show more
    Real grown man talk now.... I'm 23 years old and a virgin. No girls like me. But that's a different story which is too long to get to The topic now is at night clubs. Every time I'm in a night club, I'm always dancing alone until I leave. No girl likes. No girl dances with me. I try to be open and have fun time and dance. And no girl ever notices that. And I get pissed because all of these other guys got girls in the club dancing with them. But never me. And im smoother and dance better than most of these guys. So why never me? At the end of the night I feel like shiit. I feel more alone. Yesterday I went to a club with some guy friends. Went with 3 guy friends. 2 of them had their girlfriends. When we went into the club. The third guy friend found a chick in the club. Later on we stepped outside for fresh air all together. I'm the only guy standing in the circle w/o a girl next to them. It felt embarrassing and made it even worse for me mentally and another reminder on how girls aren't attracted to me. Why don't girls have interest in me in the clubs? What am I doing wrong?
    6 answers · 12 hours ago
  • Is scientific racism the left's biggest weakness?

    There are scientific facts that support racism. If you understand evolution, it's really not that difficult to under how isolated populations would evolve differently. Especially since anthropologists know Africans have been a seperated population somewhere since 100,000-70,000B.C. till basically now. If you... show more
    There are scientific facts that support racism. If you understand evolution, it's really not that difficult to under how isolated populations would evolve differently. Especially since anthropologists know Africans have been a seperated population somewhere since 100,000-70,000B.C. till basically now. If you think the only morphological differences that would evolve in that time is skin tone then you're an idiot. It's a fact Africans have smaller brains. Africans have a cranial capacity of 1,369cm3. Europeans have 1,416cm3, and Eastern Asians have 1,443cm3. Neurologists also found Africans have less cortical neurons. They have 13,185,000,000 and Whites have 13,665,000,000 (about 2 percent more). This could explain the IQ gap. The average African's IQ is 84 (87 on Standford-Binet version) while Europeans is 103, and Eastern Asian's 106. These are documented facts. I've looked up to see if there were any rebuttals and there's nothing. You have nothing. Nothing you can refute me with. Nothing to prove I'm wrong. And I have the whole science world on my side. Beals, K.L., Smith, C.L., & Dodd, S.M. (1984). Brain size, cranial morphology, climate, and time machines. Current Anrhropologv, 25, 301-330. Armstrong, E. (1990). Brains, bodies, and metabolism. Brain, Behavior. and Evolution, 36. 166- 176. Eysenck, H.J. (1991a). Race and intelligence: An alternative hypotheses. Mankind Quarterly, 32.
    6 answers · 14 hours ago
  • Why are people evil?

    Why is there so much hate?
    Why is there so much hate?
    46 answers · 1 week ago
  • Painless suicide?

    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • How to I become a social butterfly?

    I'm a 19 year old boy and I want to become a social butterfly. I know it starts from confidence, so I know I'll lose weight and take better care of my body. But that's not all it takes, and I don't know what I'd need. I'm painfully shy, I probably have social anxiety because social... show more
    I'm a 19 year old boy and I want to become a social butterfly. I know it starts from confidence, so I know I'll lose weight and take better care of my body. But that's not all it takes, and I don't know what I'd need. I'm painfully shy, I probably have social anxiety because social situations scare me. I stumble a lot when I speak and I'm just awkward and clumsy in general. Next year I have 6 months before I go to University and I want to transform myself physically, emotionally, socially and intellectually so that I can have the bright personality that everyone loves.
    5 answers · 5 hours ago
  • Why does selfishness/narcissism always makes the person so miserable?

    Best answer: Because they live in "victim" mode. Everyone is out to "get" them. Ever notice how they are never responsible for anything that goes wrong? It's always the other person's fault, the others' bad idea... Therefore, they are always suspicious and looking for imaginary... show more
    Best answer: Because they live in "victim" mode.

    Everyone is out to "get" them. Ever notice how they are never responsible for anything that goes wrong? It's always the other person's fault, the others' bad idea... Therefore, they are always suspicious and looking for imaginary offenses.

    They are always envious of others who have nicer things, better vacations, happier families...

    There's so much more wrong with them... They lack empathy, exploit others. I could go on forever, having been raised by a borderline with narcissistic traits. OMG, the drama...

    If you are truly interested in learning more about narcissists, here's a link from psyche central to start you off. A quick search will turn up literally thousands of results, some more informative than others.

    https://psychcentral.com/disorders/narcissistic-personality-disorder-symptoms/
    11 answers · 3 days ago
  • Eroticism in Art?

    Is eroticism in art a natural extension of the human psyche or something more sinister and diabolical ?
    Is eroticism in art a natural extension of the human psyche or something more sinister and diabolical ?
    5 answers · 9 hours ago
  • Is it weird that I like to wear diapers now and again and pee and poo in them?

    I know some of you are going to call me a troll, but this is in fact a fetish that people have - look it up. So yes I like to wear diapers, now I don't wear them 24/7 as they are a pain to take off and put on each time. I know this sounds like a very strange thing to do, trust me I know it's strange - I... show more
    I know some of you are going to call me a troll, but this is in fact a fetish that people have - look it up. So yes I like to wear diapers, now I don't wear them 24/7 as they are a pain to take off and put on each time. I know this sounds like a very strange thing to do, trust me I know it's strange - I even ask my self over and over again why I like this and can never find an answer. There are even times where I feel so horrible and disgusting about it but after a few weeks, the urge just comes back it's hard to explain but I hope you get where I'm coming from. I am ashamed of this fetish, no one knows I have it. It freaks me out the thought of someone finding out about this, I can only imagine how repulsed they would be & having to look me in the eye while knowing I have this fetish... I understand that it's no ones business and that no one needs to know, but you have no idea how hard it is to live with yourself knowing that this is ME apparently. Like I said, call me a troll all you want (but make sure to look this up online) I expect hate, cynicism & every other negative emotion. All I want is someone to give me a few tips on how to cope with this. Thank you.
    5 answers · 9 hours ago
  • For those in the military ? Deployment thoughts?

    I was reading an article somewhere where this guy was talking about how there's a change of views on deployments from civilian to soldier. As an untrained civilian would be scared to deploy but after boot and training you have a different way of thinking about it? I know that everyone's different and some... show more
    I was reading an article somewhere where this guy was talking about how there's a change of views on deployments from civilian to soldier. As an untrained civilian would be scared to deploy but after boot and training you have a different way of thinking about it? I know that everyone's different and some aren't scared to deploy as a civilian , and on the other hand trained soldiers can still be scared to deploy. I guess what I'm asking is does ones views on deployment change from when you first thought about enlisting , compared to after you went through boot and were taught to be a soldier * I know boot is for marines and navy, just trying to be as general as possible. It's a slow day at my work and would love to hear opinions
    6 answers · 1 day ago