• Do you text your spouse all day, every day?

    For years my wife has has this thing to where if you text once then you should be able to text all day. And she gets mad when you don't or can't reply when she expects a reply over something that can wait till you both get home. I recently started a new job a few weeks ago and right now I'm still in... show more
    For years my wife has has this thing to where if you text once then you should be able to text all day. And she gets mad when you don't or can't reply when she expects a reply over something that can wait till you both get home. I recently started a new job a few weeks ago and right now I'm still in training. Yes, I have a desk, computer, phone, etc but knowing how my wife is I have not yet given hr my email address because I don't want her emailing me about frivolous things. Again, things that don't need an immediate reply. Well, Mon, during some down time I sent her a text and we had a little conversation. Tues I didn't text at all until later in the day when she sent me a series of texts saying how it was funny that I could text Mon but I'm quiet today. I explained to her that I was working and training and didn't have time. She wasn't hearing that answer. Her reply was basically, "oh, so weren't you training Mon? It's funny you could text that day." Ok, yesterday, Wed, wasn't that big of a training day BUT I was still at work and again, during some down time we had some back and forth texts. Last night in the store she made the snide remark. "Oh, you weren't busy today because you seemed to find time to text." I can't get my wife to understand that some days and times I'm available to text her but others I'm not. She even made the comment that I had time to go one Facebook and like one phone but couldn't text her.
    29 answers · 3 days ago
  • Stop showing emotion?

    How do I make sure I never show emotion? No happiness, crying, anger, I want to appear emotionless.
    How do I make sure I never show emotion? No happiness, crying, anger, I want to appear emotionless.
    10 answers · 15 hours ago
  • Take a sad life and make it better?

    Best answer: Pull yourself up by your boot straps and take control of your life. there is no god to do it for you
    Best answer: Pull yourself up by your boot straps and take control of your life. there is no god to do it for you
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • Would you rather be rich and ugly or poor and good looking?

    Best answer: Rich and ugly probably. I'd be able to afford plastic surgery, expensive makeup, beautiful clothes, and a hair stylist. That could help with the ugly appearance.

    But being poor and ugly is tempting too, if I can't have the above things.
    Best answer: Rich and ugly probably. I'd be able to afford plastic surgery, expensive makeup, beautiful clothes, and a hair stylist. That could help with the ugly appearance.

    But being poor and ugly is tempting too, if I can't have the above things.
    26 answers · 4 days ago
  • Why do men always abuse me? I know as a woman I am inferior to men but I am a good person. My last boyfriend was very emotionally abusive?

    I stayed with him because I loved him and because he was my whole life. He left me after several years and I now see he did me a favor by leaving. But why did he abuse me in the first place?
    I stayed with him because I loved him and because he was my whole life. He left me after several years and I now see he did me a favor by leaving. But why did he abuse me in the first place?
    7 answers · 2 hours ago
  • Depression after losing job offer to my dream job?

    I just graduated law school, passed the bar, and recently finished up a clerkship. Pursuant to my clerkship, I got the government job offer of my dreams; I was the only clerk to get it, and they told me they really liked my "manner". The courthouse made a huge uproar when I got it, and everyone was... show more
    I just graduated law school, passed the bar, and recently finished up a clerkship. Pursuant to my clerkship, I got the government job offer of my dreams; I was the only clerk to get it, and they told me they really liked my "manner". The courthouse made a huge uproar when I got it, and everyone was expecting me to come back. 5 weeks later my offer was withdrawn. I didn t fill the background application thoroughly enough; I didn t realize I was supposed to disclose more than what the questionnaire asked. Basically, I accidentally omitted minor things on my traffic record. For instance, I totally forgot I had a traffic ticket for driving in the parkway left lane (which is illegal in my state). I m a great driver, and trivialities are forgettable. The detective was an insecure jerk, and accused me of lying. (which is ridiculous; I disclosed everything I disclosed for the character and fitness on the bar; everything I remembered). I have no criminal record. I've been jobless for 2 months now. I am applying to other places, but they are not what I want, and I have received no offers. During the clerkship, I was able to showcase my talents and demeanor; these random job interviewers will never see me the way the job I just lost did. I have a master's degree in criminal justice. The job I just lost was the reason for all my schooling. I lost my way. I've been having nightmares, and 2 days before I lost my offer, I dreamt that my destiny was going to be derailed. I feel lost.
    6 answers · 2 hours ago
  • How can long term physical and verbal abuse from a sibling effect your personality?

    Could someone give me a short list of how long term abuse from a sibling can effect a peroson personality wise? I’m trying to better understand this lesson in my psychology class. Thank you.
    Could someone give me a short list of how long term abuse from a sibling can effect a peroson personality wise? I’m trying to better understand this lesson in my psychology class. Thank you.
    8 answers · 4 days ago
  • Why do people tell others to be positive when their life is sh!t?

    its like telling a homeless person to be positive.
    its like telling a homeless person to be positive.
    7 answers · 19 hours ago
  • Do you find full frontal nudity offensive in movies? Is showing genitals too far for theater audience since most of lack artistic value?

    Best answer: I'm disgusted by femalenudity. I'd rather seeing male nudity instead.
    Best answer: I'm disgusted by femalenudity. I'd rather seeing male nudity instead.
    9 answers · 2 days ago
  • Do you think he thinks I'm a doormatt for not saying anything?

    Best answer: He's a lot pervy and you ARE a doormat for not saying anything. You should have let him know that he has no business showing other people's private videos and that you're not interested in seeing them. And of course you should never do anything intimate with him because he's probably taping you so... show more
    Best answer: He's a lot pervy and you ARE a doormat for not saying anything. You should have let him know that he has no business showing other people's private videos and that you're not interested in seeing them. And of course you should never do anything intimate with him because he's probably taping you so that he can show it to other people.
    7 answers · 23 hours ago
  • From a Darwinian perspective is being gay right or good??

    Best answer: It was an enormous disadvantage in the past. However, nowadays, with retirement accounts, restaurants, and adoption, a gay person does not need of a person of the opposite gender to live independently.
    Best answer: It was an enormous disadvantage in the past. However, nowadays, with retirement accounts, restaurants, and adoption, a gay person does not need of a person of the opposite gender to live independently.
    9 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is it weird that I could never fall in love with someone that I knew and been friends with since childhood?

    I'm a male, and I have a lot of female childhood friends. But for some reason, the idea of falling in love with any of them has always weirded me out. There's just something that makes it so I could never fall in love with a woman that I knew since childhood.
    I'm a male, and I have a lot of female childhood friends. But for some reason, the idea of falling in love with any of them has always weirded me out. There's just something that makes it so I could never fall in love with a woman that I knew since childhood.
    6 answers · 11 hours ago
  • I hate my life Need some advice?

    I don’t know what to do I hate my life I can’t stand it I was sitting in the public park today and I was trying to holdback back tears but I couldn’t I could not stop as much as I fought them they were worse I feel broken inside like all I do is get rejected and shut down by all the people in my life and I hate... show more
    I don’t know what to do I hate my life I can’t stand it I was sitting in the public park today and I was trying to holdback back tears but I couldn’t I could not stop as much as I fought them they were worse I feel broken inside like all I do is get rejected and shut down by all the people in my life and I hate being around them because they make me feel little I had to catch the bus and it was only myself and I couldn’t stop crying again and I am crying right now typing this I hate how worthless and rejected and like everyone just wants to have an argument with me I chose to avoid them but then it creates a bigger problem and “I AM THE PROBLEM”
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • Since my Dad is an alcoholic will we all become alcoholic?

    Best answer: No*......since u are aware ur dad is an alcoholic....u should be able to choose NOT TO TRY that first drink when all your friends are drinking away, underage...thinking they're cool*.................just say NO! and don't start drinking at all*
    Best answer: No*......since u are aware ur dad is an alcoholic....u should be able to choose NOT TO TRY that first drink when all your friends are drinking away, underage...thinking they're cool*.................just say NO! and don't start drinking at all*
    20 answers · 5 days ago
  • Being a CONFORMIST makes you a COWARD. And yet - more and more people are becoming conformists. How important is it to you to conform?

    When a conformist becomes afraid that they are NOT properly conforming - they belittle and mock those who DARE to bring up new ideas and new ways of looking at things. Conformists are dangerous people. They are followers. And who they are often following lead them down paths no one should go.
    When a conformist becomes afraid that they are NOT properly conforming - they belittle and mock those who DARE to bring up new ideas and new ways of looking at things. Conformists are dangerous people. They are followers. And who they are often following lead them down paths no one should go.
    6 answers · 17 hours ago
  • If you could hear someone's thoughts and they were thinking negatively about you. Would you try to mess with their heads or tell them?

    Best answer: I wouldn't care what other people think of me instead focus on myself
    Best answer: I wouldn't care what other people think of me instead focus on myself
    5 answers · 2 days ago
  • Paranoid about satanic ritual abuse/ MK Ultra. Am I crazy?

    So recently I've come across some accounts of Satanic Ritual Abuse / MK Ultra Monarch programming and have become deeply terrified of the thought of it. I started fearing that my best friend, who I love a lot (she and I were friends since we were 14 and dated for 3 years) might have been ritually abused. She... show more
    So recently I've come across some accounts of Satanic Ritual Abuse / MK Ultra Monarch programming and have become deeply terrified of the thought of it. I started fearing that my best friend, who I love a lot (she and I were friends since we were 14 and dated for 3 years) might have been ritually abused. She tells me about her dreams and many of them include a creepy man sexually abusing her (very much like someone with PTSD would have) but she doesn't ever remember being sexually abused by anyone. She also draws a lot and her drawings contain a lot of imagery that someone with a monarch programming would be triggered by (monarch butterfly, clock, sand timer, etc). I'm really scared for her but am I just crazy? This sounds like something a schizophrenic would say or maybe I'm just so stressed out about her and I'm trying to fill in holes with something completely different than what's actually there.
    6 answers · 21 hours ago
  • Why are some people so quiet? It's like I work with people but some of them really just keep to themselves and don't seem friendly. Why?

    Best answer: A lot of people are like that. I am sure they are not being disrespectful. Some people do not like to engage in any conversations while they are working and want to keep to themselves. Do not take it personally. They could be the friendliest person outside of work, but when you are on the clock, people just want to... show more
    Best answer: A lot of people are like that. I am sure they are not being disrespectful. Some people do not like to engage in any conversations while they are working and want to keep to themselves. Do not take it personally. They could be the friendliest person outside of work, but when you are on the clock, people just want to do their job, and go home, and not socialize.
    5 answers · 22 hours ago
  • What would be the fastest way to kill yourself without a gun or noose?

    Not that I am considering it, and I don’t want to hear any answers that digress from the question.
    Not that I am considering it, and I don’t want to hear any answers that digress from the question.
    7 answers · 2 days ago