• Why do I hate violence against women, but not men?

    I find those 'knock out game' videos entertaining(and even funny) when those Black men knock out White men. But when those guys do it against White women, I get so enraged. I a man btw.
    I find those 'knock out game' videos entertaining(and even funny) when those Black men knock out White men. But when those guys do it against White women, I get so enraged. I a man btw.
    12 answers · 9 hours ago
  • How to make friends when you suffer social anxiety and low self esteem?

    A lot of people label me as antisocial because I’m quiet. I’m not antisocial, I’m just don’t know if people like me. I’ve been picked on throughout high school years for my looks. That made me really shy and introverted. I’m afraid that people will mock me if I just walk up to them and try to be friendly. I had... show more
    A lot of people label me as antisocial because I’m quiet. I’m not antisocial, I’m just don’t know if people like me. I’ve been picked on throughout high school years for my looks. That made me really shy and introverted. I’m afraid that people will mock me if I just walk up to them and try to be friendly. I had orientation for a new job that I start this Sunday. All of the people kept asking why I was so quiet and getting an attitude. I mostly sit and observe. I don’t really like to interact with people that seem drama filled and these people were already gossiping about each other, loud, etc. They didn’t seem nice. I don’t know how I can fake being outgoing. I just can’t do that. I want to make friends but I don’t want to come off as antisocial were they don’t like me. How can I build confidence? What ways can I make new friends?
    5 answers · 9 hours ago
  • Is it normal that I want to completely isolate myself from society?

    I have no longer the feeling of being with other people, I just want to be completely left alone. I'm definitely introverted, which I hear is okay, but is it common to want to isolate yourself from society? I do not want any friends in my life any longer and I wish to be alone for the rest of my life. I hate... show more
    I have no longer the feeling of being with other people, I just want to be completely left alone. I'm definitely introverted, which I hear is okay, but is it common to want to isolate yourself from society? I do not want any friends in my life any longer and I wish to be alone for the rest of my life. I hate talking or interacting with people, it's painfully awkward unless it's necessary to communicate with them. I've been trying to cut off my friends completely and it seems to be working, which I'm happy about. Does anyone else have the same feeling or is there just something wrong with me mentally?
    16 answers · 3 days ago
  • I absolutely hate being a lesbian and I want to kill myself?

    I don't want to be a lesbian. And don't give me that "date a man" bullshit. I'm 18, never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl, never had sex. I'm fu*king terrified that i'll never meet ANYONE and that i will die with no dating or sexual experience. I don't know how to meet girls,... show more
    I don't want to be a lesbian. And don't give me that "date a man" bullshit. I'm 18, never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl, never had sex. I'm fu*king terrified that i'll never meet ANYONE and that i will die with no dating or sexual experience. I don't know how to meet girls, and it makes me so depressed that I can't date all the pretty girls i see because they will most likely be straight. I also have depression, and it makes everything so much worse. I'm scared that i will end up lonely with no one in my 20's and even worse in my 30's. I don't want people to know that i'm single because of my shi*ty dating pool. I honestly can't take it anymore. There is no hope.
    20 answers · 2 days ago
  • 10 points!! I don't know who I am and it scares me? (Help please)?

    Best answer: Mom liked to bring out old, embarrassing family pictures that I had forgotten about. And my old drinking buddies sometimes bring up a story or two. There's nothing I can do about those things, they happened. But they're in the past now and I have a new, different life. One where I can decide things... show more
    Best answer: Mom liked to bring out old, embarrassing family pictures that I had forgotten about. And my old drinking buddies sometimes bring up a story or two. There's nothing I can do about those things, they happened. But they're in the past now and I have a new, different life. One where I can decide things aren't working and change it up once in a while just because I can.

    Where I'm going with that should be clear: your real self is right now. Your unknown self is a snapshot of a different time. That time may have sucked. There may be things that need fixing. There may be things to shrug and move on from. OR, that time may have been really good and worth another look. Go ahead, cross your fingers and open the box.
    6 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why can’t I feel love?

    For as long as I can remeber, I can’t feel love or connections with people very well. Even with close family members, there’s nothing. I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I’ve had multiple boyfriends and I can’t stay with one guy. I feel a connection for a little while then bam it’s gone. I feel absolutely nothing.... show more
    For as long as I can remeber, I can’t feel love or connections with people very well. Even with close family members, there’s nothing. I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I’ve had multiple boyfriends and I can’t stay with one guy. I feel a connection for a little while then bam it’s gone. I feel absolutely nothing. I’m like that with more than just guys though. I’ve cut off friends I’ve known forever because I just don’t feel anything anymore. It’s like one minute someone means the world to me, then I get this empty feeling and I get rid of them. My family realized I had some sort of problem when I felt no emotion when my dog died (I know super sad) or when a family member would be sick and id just get annoyed. We never got it checked out though because I was too scared a doctor would say I’m barely a person or my family wouldn’t love me anymore. Idk... I just wish I could feel real love with someone and keep it that way for a long period of time. Should I see a doctor? Is there actually something wrong with me? Will I ever be able to feel love?
    9 answers · 3 days ago
  • What motivates you to be the greatest you can be?

    Best answer: All the things I lack and all the things I long to be. In sight of all that I strive to break myself down and build myself back up again to become a better me. I'm always trying to improve. Failure can be your greatest motivation because when I fail, I long to try harder the next time to change. I want to... show more
    Best answer: All the things I lack and all the things I long to be. In sight of all that I strive to break myself down and build myself back up again to become a better me. I'm always trying to improve. Failure can be your greatest motivation because when I fail, I long to try harder the next time to change. I want to change. Nothing beats a failure but a try.
    22 answers · 5 days ago
  • Do you ever look in the mirror and not recognize yourself?

    Why does this happen??
    Why does this happen??
    15 answers · 2 days ago
  • My world is dark now, how about yours?

    8 answers · 2 hours ago
  • Why can't I talk to people anymore?

    I can easily get past the; "How are you?" "Good." small talk and then my mind goes blank. I end up searching my brain as if it's some complicated library for topics to talk about. It's progressively getting worse, I'm running out of things to say to even my close friends. What do I do
    I can easily get past the; "How are you?" "Good." small talk and then my mind goes blank. I end up searching my brain as if it's some complicated library for topics to talk about. It's progressively getting worse, I'm running out of things to say to even my close friends. What do I do
    9 answers · 3 days ago
  • What's wrong with my life?????

    I'm a 22 year old dude, I have a good job, I drive a mercedez benz. I have a lot of reasons to be happy, I have a good family who loves me. but deep down I always feel like there's something missing in my life. Some days I'm happy, and other days I feel sad and even angry at life. I don't... show more
    I'm a 22 year old dude, I have a good job, I drive a mercedez benz. I have a lot of reasons to be happy, I have a good family who loves me. but deep down I always feel like there's something missing in my life. Some days I'm happy, and other days I feel sad and even angry at life. I don't understand why this happens to me, I get angry easily even at work. What's wrong with my life?????
    10 answers · 23 hours ago
  • How do I cope with not being as intelligent as other people?

    When I was younger, I was considered gifted and talented. I now realize that I only got good grades because I was pressured by parents to do countless educational software like Jump Start 1-6th grade and Math Blaster, which gave me an advantage all through school. However, I started to realized there was an actual... show more
    When I was younger, I was considered gifted and talented. I now realize that I only got good grades because I was pressured by parents to do countless educational software like Jump Start 1-6th grade and Math Blaster, which gave me an advantage all through school. However, I started to realized there was an actual difference in intelligence during the 4-6th grade math bowls. I was completely outdone by people naturally smarter than me. Even if I got better grades in math, they were able to understand and solve the complex problems in math way faster than me. Sometimes, I never understood the problems. During the competitions, I would just sit there while everyone else solved problems. As I grew older, I realized that I was actually smart through effort, but I began losing motivation to compete with people smarter than me. The first sign of trouble was trying to learn chess. I poured so many hours into chess and played countless matches, but I just couldn't improve past 1200. I would do hours of chess tactics everyday as well as reading books, but I just couldn't get better. I would play a friend with barely any chess experience, and he would beat me with only his intuition. It was so frustrating. The same thing happened with video games. Even though I put so much effort into a strategy game called league of legends, I only achieved Diamond 5 afters years of effort. There were people that reached Challenger, the highest ranking category, within their first year of playing.
    9 answers · 17 hours ago
  • Why do you think people ask these type of question on yahoo answers?

    I always see people asking questions like "Does she/he like me" on yahoo answers. I just do not get it. How would complete strangers on yahoo answers know what a stranger rhey have nevee met before thinks and feels? They do not know they are only guessing
    I always see people asking questions like "Does she/he like me" on yahoo answers. I just do not get it. How would complete strangers on yahoo answers know what a stranger rhey have nevee met before thinks and feels? They do not know they are only guessing
    9 answers · 22 hours ago
  • Why do people commit suicide?

    Best answer: Because there's no real reason left to live and we all die in the end anyway, why suffer when you can get it all over with and finally have peace?
    Best answer: Because there's no real reason left to live and we all die in the end anyway, why suffer when you can get it all over with and finally have peace?
    18 answers · 3 days ago
  • I want freedom?

    My definition of freedom is being able to make my own choices about what I do with my life (without harming other people)... To have nothing to lose... In America this seems impossible, I have so many people who control every decision I make in my life. My entire family, the government... I want to go out on the... show more
    My definition of freedom is being able to make my own choices about what I do with my life (without harming other people)... To have nothing to lose... In America this seems impossible, I have so many people who control every decision I make in my life. My entire family, the government... I want to go out on the road and just be free to do what I want when I wish. Why should I spend 7 hours in a classroom learning math and other subjects that I won't even remember in 10 years? At the end of the day does success really matter? We all die in the end, shouldn't I make the most out of my life in the way I want to...? I am a 15 year old girl, I am really young, and I have been questioning all of this. What if I just want to buy a trailer when I am old enough, drive, play music, live... It seems impossible with todays expectations. Is it even possible to get true freedom, or is it all just a hopeless fantasy?
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • Am I a cruel, narcissistic person?

    7 answers · 4 hours ago