• I'm worried he will be grossed out by how wet I am?

    So I'm a virgin, and my boyfriend of two months really wants to finger me. I want to let him, but I'm really insecure. I get SUPER wet down there, like dripping. I'm worried it's going to gross him out or if there's any discharge or anything he's gonna be repulsed by me. What can I do? Or... show more
    So I'm a virgin, and my boyfriend of two months really wants to finger me. I want to let him, but I'm really insecure. I get SUPER wet down there, like dripping. I'm worried it's going to gross him out or if there's any discharge or anything he's gonna be repulsed by me. What can I do? Or should I not worry about it?
    20 answers · 1 day ago
  • Did you know that I can easily knock you out?

    If you mess with I will bring pain to you. I'm a level 5 black belt. My skills are so spectacular. I can curl 250. I can bench 230. I have hard abs. I got strong legs. So don't mess with me.
    If you mess with I will bring pain to you. I'm a level 5 black belt. My skills are so spectacular. I can curl 250. I can bench 230. I have hard abs. I got strong legs. So don't mess with me.
    13 answers · 2 hours ago
  • I’m 14 and really want a bra?

    I’m 14 and really want a bra but my mum says I’m only allowed a bra when I’m 16 as they are to ‘grown up’ at school I have had detention a couple of times for distracting others because they can see my nipples. I’m getting in trouble and at my school if you have more then 4 in a term you get kicked out and I’ve... show more
    I’m 14 and really want a bra but my mum says I’m only allowed a bra when I’m 16 as they are to ‘grown up’ at school I have had detention a couple of times for distracting others because they can see my nipples. I’m getting in trouble and at my school if you have more then 4 in a term you get kicked out and I’ve already had 3 detentions for it so I could have problems with my future because of it
    23 answers · 3 days ago
  • Am I still considered a virgin if my hymen was broken by a doc for a pap smear?

    Early last year I had my first pap smear, and it was an extremely painful procedure...my hymen was broken, there was a lot of blood. I had no forewarning by the doctor that this would be expected. I felt extremely guilty and dirty afterwards and regretted the procedure. Would I still be considered a virgin... show more
    Early last year I had my first pap smear, and it was an extremely painful procedure...my hymen was broken, there was a lot of blood. I had no forewarning by the doctor that this would be expected. I felt extremely guilty and dirty afterwards and regretted the procedure. Would I still be considered a virgin considering my hymen is broken? On my wedding night, I am afraid my husband would assume that I've been with other people.
    10 answers · 4 hours ago
  • I'm 15 almost 16 and i have 32c cup size, will my boobs keep growing or no?

    I really want them to keep on growing
    I really want them to keep on growing
    10 answers · 11 hours ago
  • Extra vagina hole?

    Okay so after intercourse, I realized something was odd, I have another hole at the top of my lips before they open. It doesn’t hurt or anything I’m just a little scared about it
    Okay so after intercourse, I realized something was odd, I have another hole at the top of my lips before they open. It doesn’t hurt or anything I’m just a little scared about it
    11 answers · 3 days ago
  • URGENT: I want to tell my mom I masturbate but don't want her to freak out?

    I really want to tell my mom I masturbate... But I don't know what her reaction will be. My mom and I are really close and I share everything and anything with her. Once I literally (as a joke) asked her "When do you and dad ya know..." And she actually answered with a legit answer. She never judges... show more
    I really want to tell my mom I masturbate... But I don't know what her reaction will be. My mom and I are really close and I share everything and anything with her. Once I literally (as a joke) asked her "When do you and dad ya know..." And she actually answered with a legit answer. She never judges me and I know she wouldn't for this but I don't know if she'll do what I want her to. I want to get maybe a small vibrator or something but I just don't really know. Can someone help? (I'm 13)
    9 answers · 14 hours ago
  • Was I unfair on this child?

    I teach yr 6 uk I don t let children go to the toilet during lessons. On Friday I refused a girl, she said it was lacy problems and I said it was tough. She leaked on her chair. I am a lady and have to deal with my bladder and periods outside of lessons, the kids should do the same.
    I teach yr 6 uk I don t let children go to the toilet during lessons. On Friday I refused a girl, she said it was lacy problems and I said it was tough. She leaked on her chair. I am a lady and have to deal with my bladder and periods outside of lessons, the kids should do the same.
    23 answers · 3 days ago
  • Question for married Christian women?

    So, this is awkward for me to even read but I'm gonna go for it anyways. I'm a teenage girl and I don't believe in sex before marriage. Now, being in a public high school, I have heard many a jokes about 'beef curtains, hanging ham, tuna blinds', all being crude terms to refer to longer than... show more
    So, this is awkward for me to even read but I'm gonna go for it anyways. I'm a teenage girl and I don't believe in sex before marriage. Now, being in a public high school, I have heard many a jokes about 'beef curtains, hanging ham, tuna blinds', all being crude terms to refer to longer than usual inner labia. I have these. I hate them. Now, being that I don't believe in sex before marriage, I keep having this horrible thought that I'll marry the man of my dreams, and he'll wind up hating me from the wedding night onwards or flat out leaving me because he'll see me naked for the first time and realize that he has to enjoy a gross looking vagina for the rest of his life. On top of this, I play volleyball and I'm always worried that people can see their outline in the tiny shorts we wear. Is is normal for me to feel like this? Could this happen and do men really care as much about this as I'm freaking out about it- is it really that big a deal?
    9 answers · 17 hours ago
  • Need help with asking my mom about getting a vibrator?

    I feel really annoyed because me and my mom are really close and I can ask her literally anything and she won't have any rude or embarrising reaction but it is really embarrising for me to ask her to get me a vibrator. I'm 13 years old and if she says no it'll just be awkward for a long time. I just... show more
    I feel really annoyed because me and my mom are really close and I can ask her literally anything and she won't have any rude or embarrising reaction but it is really embarrising for me to ask her to get me a vibrator. I'm 13 years old and if she says no it'll just be awkward for a long time. I just need to know how to approach her about it. Any suggestions??? Please respond soon. Please no mean comments.
    7 answers · 17 hours ago
  • Do I have to go get a "well Woman exam"?

    Best answer: you're only 18, if you're going to the gyno it's suggested you go at 21 years of age (or when you're sexually active). you have a few more years and you'll be fine in the mean time. read up on it, get familiar with the process so you know for sure what's going to happen when you actually do... show more
    Best answer: you're only 18, if you're going to the gyno it's suggested you go at 21 years of age (or when you're sexually active). you have a few more years and you'll be fine in the mean time. read up on it, get familiar with the process so you know for sure what's going to happen when you actually do decide to go. but hey, i just had my first gyno appointment at the age of 26 lol mostly because of the same problems as you
    7 answers · 4 days ago
  • Why does my gfs vagina squirt?

    Is this normal? Is it pee?
    Is this normal? Is it pee?
    11 answers · 3 days ago
  • How likely am I to get TSS by constantly leaving tampons in?

    I always accidentally leave my tampons in too long. my last period i left one in for 12 hours then another for 18 hours overnight. I usually leave them for 10-24 hours because i always forget. I’ve been doing this for about my last 3 periods but nothing’s ever happened so it never bothered me. Does this make me... show more
    I always accidentally leave my tampons in too long. my last period i left one in for 12 hours then another for 18 hours overnight. I usually leave them for 10-24 hours because i always forget. I’ve been doing this for about my last 3 periods but nothing’s ever happened so it never bothered me. Does this make me more likely to get tss or increase my chances in any way?
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • How can I ease cramps?

    First of all We don’t have pamprin or any sort of pill made for menstrual pain or any pill for pain in general because usually nobody needs it My brother’s girlfriend has 200mg Advil that I usually take two of and that works but she’s gonna be away for 3 days They’re lower back cramps and they hurt like hell We... show more
    First of all We don’t have pamprin or any sort of pill made for menstrual pain or any pill for pain in general because usually nobody needs it My brother’s girlfriend has 200mg Advil that I usually take two of and that works but she’s gonna be away for 3 days They’re lower back cramps and they hurt like hell We don’t have any heating packs or anything Tried a hot shower, didn’t work. Tried three bottles of water (three 16 oz bottles), didn’t work My body isn’t flexible enough to do yoga Is there ANYTHING AT ALL that can work?! I’m not even exaggerating this whole question it fkin hurts like it isn’t unbearable and I don’t have a disease but that doesn’t mean I don’t want to EASE the pain.
    6 answers · 1 day ago
  • Is it bad that I lost my virginity at 15?

    I just lost my virginity to this guy who s been really nice and patient with me and we ve started off slow but we re not official yet and to be honest I don t think he s the one for me but I don t really regret losing my virginity it s just that I didn t orgasim and it just wasn t my perfect idea for my first time... show more
    I just lost my virginity to this guy who s been really nice and patient with me and we ve started off slow but we re not official yet and to be honest I don t think he s the one for me but I don t really regret losing my virginity it s just that I didn t orgasim and it just wasn t my perfect idea for my first time but I m just scared if anyone found out does this make me slutty will a guy ever like me knowing I m not a virgin did I ruin my chance for true love and btw my family is super religious and they believe at savings yourself for marriage because if not then your never gonna be wife material is it true
    6 answers · 1 day ago
  • I don't understand - how hard do I need to push to break my hymen?

    I have never had penetrative sex, never used tampons, never experienced any kind of tearing feeling while riding bikes or or random bleeding to indicate I've broken my hymen before. I got a vibrator recently because I do enjoy masturbating, but I've never experiment vaginally because it was always... show more
    I have never had penetrative sex, never used tampons, never experienced any kind of tearing feeling while riding bikes or or random bleeding to indicate I've broken my hymen before. I got a vibrator recently because I do enjoy masturbating, but I've never experiment vaginally because it was always uncomfortable; I could never get anything in there. I tried lubing up and relaxing. I just wanted to be able to slide a little bit in. I went slow and tried to take my time, and it felt good, but it was literally NOT going in. I couldn't even get an inch inside before it just hit a "wall". I even tried pushing a little harder but it just made it painful, which of course made me tense up and made it more difficult. If I examine inside my vagina, it doesn't really look like anything I see online. There's literally no opening, it's just a big mass of fleshy-ness inside. Could my hymen still be there, despite being 22 years old? I thought maybe I could get rid of it on my own if it is, but nothing is working.
    5 answers · 10 hours ago
  • WOMEN- HATE my labia ?

    (not a troll. Fully serious question, looking for serious answers.) I'm a 14 year old girl and I'm not sexually active , but I've def noticed one of my labia is MUCH bigger than the other, and it bothers me VERY much. I mess with it all the time to try to tuck it in because I hate it. I'm very... show more
    (not a troll. Fully serious question, looking for serious answers.) I'm a 14 year old girl and I'm not sexually active , but I've def noticed one of my labia is MUCH bigger than the other, and it bothers me VERY much. I mess with it all the time to try to tuck it in because I hate it. I'm very self concious about it and don't want my future boyfriends to be disappointed Help? (Btw, I'm at a perfectly healthy weight. I could lose 5 pounds to be perfect perfect, though.)
    6 answers · 1 day ago