• How can I ask female customers a question that in ordinary circumstances would be regarded as very personal without seeming rude?

    Shortly before Christmas my uncle died and I was surprised to learn that he bequeathed me his scuba diving businesses at Cobalt Coast in the Cayman Islands. I have been looking over the figures and believe the business could do a lot better if we reduced the prices. A big part of the cost customers have to pay is... show more
    Shortly before Christmas my uncle died and I was surprised to learn that he bequeathed me his scuba diving businesses at Cobalt Coast in the Cayman Islands. I have been looking over the figures and believe the business could do a lot better if we reduced the prices. A big part of the cost customers have to pay is due to us being forced to pay insurance premiums to cover us if something gos wrong. For example, shark attacks. As everyone knows, sharks are attracted to the smell of blood and so I believe that if we can guarantee that women scuba divers are not ovulating, then we can probably reduce the prices for everyone. However, I can't think of a polite way to make this inquiry. Please could someone suggest the good etiquette for asking female customers if they're on their period before they go scuba diving?
    19 answers · 19 hours ago
  • If you were the only one out of a group not invited somewhere would you feel offended?

    Best answer: The trouble with these scenarios is that you feel offended and think a group has done something to you without cause. People generally react to us as a response to how we behave towards them. You should seriously consider if you have given this group could reason to want to exclude you. If you can honestly say you... show more
    Best answer: The trouble with these scenarios is that you feel offended and think a group has done something to you without cause. People generally react to us as a response to how we behave towards them. You should seriously consider if you have given this group could reason to want to exclude you.

    If you can honestly say you have done nothing you could ask. If these situations people often do not want to offend so you may not be given a truthful answer or even be told it did not happen the way you see it. Alternatively, the may be bluntly honest and you have to be prepared to hear things you do not like.

    If you can genuinely say you have done nothing to upset this group and you believe that their behaviour is entirely inappropriate the time has come for you to find another group of associates.
    19 answers · 3 days ago
  • Why did my boyfriend smile and stare at me?

    Best answer: MORON
    Best answer: MORON
    11 answers · 15 hours ago
  • Should i tell a girl on a first date the names i refuse to give my children?

    I absolutely will not name my daughter Edwina or Geraldine
    I absolutely will not name my daughter Edwina or Geraldine
    9 answers · 2 hours ago
  • Pet sitter left underwear at our house after using our washer and dryer....how would you handle this?

    We went on an overnight trip and our pet sitter left 2 pairs of underwear on our kitchen chair. Obviously not being mine I looked at the dryer and it was on a setting we never use. When she gives the key back tonight should I hand her the underwear? Ask her why she brings laundry to my house? Or just accept the key... show more
    We went on an overnight trip and our pet sitter left 2 pairs of underwear on our kitchen chair. Obviously not being mine I looked at the dryer and it was on a setting we never use. When she gives the key back tonight should I hand her the underwear? Ask her why she brings laundry to my house? Or just accept the key back and not use her again?
    9 answers · 6 hours ago
  • How should you tell a co-worker that you want to have sex with her?

    Best answer: Send her a txt on accident. No jk.. Don’t do that. Haven’t you learned your lesson yet. You could get in trouble over this. What you should do instead is try to get to know her, and ask if she wants to do something after work sometime and get her number. Then you can let your interest be known. You are going to... show more
    Best answer: Send her a txt on accident. No jk.. Don’t do that. Haven’t you learned your lesson yet. You could get in trouble over this.

    What you should do instead is try to get to know her, and ask if she wants to do something after work sometime and get her number. Then you can let your interest be known. You are going to sound really creepy if you just randomly ask them like that. It’s threatening. Good luck.
    17 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is it rude?

    To stare at people? Is eye contact dangerous for too long I was told if I was going to stare look at women then men or gangs
    To stare at people? Is eye contact dangerous for too long I was told if I was going to stare look at women then men or gangs
    9 answers · 11 hours ago
  • Why do people act like my friend beating cancer is a big deal?

    So, my friend got diagnosed with cancer last summer. She went through chemo therapy and she had the tumor removed a few days ago and they're gonna do radiation or something idrk nor do i care. Everyone is focused on her and how amazing her achievement is. Its not even her achievement, its the drs achievement. I... show more
    So, my friend got diagnosed with cancer last summer. She went through chemo therapy and she had the tumor removed a few days ago and they're gonna do radiation or something idrk nor do i care. Everyone is focused on her and how amazing her achievement is. Its not even her achievement, its the drs achievement. I don't see the big deal of all of this and dont really care. Nobody seems to care that my birthday is next week nor what they should get me for it! Instead they care more about celebrating my stupid friend. why are people acting like this is some big deal and how do i get them to focus on me and my birthday?
    29 answers · 4 days ago
  • What do you do when someone else hates you?

    Best answer: As you travel down the road of life you are going to find that not everyone is going to like you for one reason or another. It is true for all of us. The best thing you can do is just avoid him and forget it. Don't keep thinking of it ,let it go. He is the one loosing out on having a friend like you. To sit... show more
    Best answer: As you travel down the road of life you are going to find that not everyone is
    going to like you for one reason or another. It is true for all of us. The best thing
    you can do is just avoid him and forget it. Don't keep thinking of it ,let it go. He
    is the one loosing out on having a friend like you. To sit around and go over and
    over about this is a pure waste of time. Go have some fun with your friends and
    family.
    14 answers · 2 days ago
  • Do you think this is appropriate to ask acquaintances/strangers?

    Best answer: I think you should mind your own business.
    Best answer: I think you should mind your own business.
    17 answers · 3 days ago
  • Was this a rude thing to say to my co-worker?

    My co-worker and I are community event planners. Think of the show Parks and Recreation. My director recently left so I'm acting as the temporary director but still have my event planner job. Basically I'm doing two jobs until a new director is hired. My co-worker isn't the most courteous person.... show more
    My co-worker and I are community event planners. Think of the show Parks and Recreation. My director recently left so I'm acting as the temporary director but still have my event planner job. Basically I'm doing two jobs until a new director is hired. My co-worker isn't the most courteous person. It's doesn't manner if you're in a time crunch working on a project she will barge right in. Not just a quick question or two: I'm talking constant interruptions. We have a meeting yesterday with our department head (my temporary boss). I couldn't believe how many times my co-worker cut off my boss mid sentance during the meeting. Very rude and to do it to the boss yikes! Anyways we had a special program this week. My 8 hour days were pretty much 10-12 hour days the entire week. I'm salaried so I only get 8 hours and no overtime. Here's what was potentially rude: I asked my co-worker if there was anything she needed or wanted to discuss. I told her I had to be out on time today because I had an evening commitment. I don't think I had a tone in my voice when I said it. But for the first time she actually left me alone and wasn't talking constantly. This was a first. I could be working on payroll or analyzing budgets (things that require concentration) and that never stopped her before. She just seemed really angry the rest of the day and hardly said anything. Usually she talks frequently. Does this sound rude or was it about time I stood up to her? Thanks!
    13 answers · 3 days ago
  • How would you interpret this situation?

    A 43-year-old woman is talking to a 22-year-old younger women in a pool, in a group of similarly aged guys. The 43-year-old woman coaxes the 22-year-old woman with flattery to go skinny dipping. She is slightly reluctant at first, but asks everyone else if they are comfortable with her getting naked. After they... show more
    A 43-year-old woman is talking to a 22-year-old younger women in a pool, in a group of similarly aged guys. The 43-year-old woman coaxes the 22-year-old woman with flattery to go skinny dipping. She is slightly reluctant at first, but asks everyone else if they are comfortable with her getting naked. After they respond in the positive, she takes her bikini off. The 43-year-old can't take her eyes off of the 22-year-old. She exclaims "Good Lord, honey! You've got a body from Heaven! I would trade years off my life to have pretty, perky boobs like yours again." How would you interpret this situation? Would you assume the older woman is sexually attracted to the younger woman, or is she just admiring her beauty?
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is it strange to use your t-shirt as a makeshift napkin?

    Either when you don't have a napkin/tissue near or in general? To rub off a small layer of grease covering your mouth. I just want to know if my etiquette is bad or not. In any case, should I be so worried about how other people view my cleanliness?
    Either when you don't have a napkin/tissue near or in general? To rub off a small layer of grease covering your mouth. I just want to know if my etiquette is bad or not. In any case, should I be so worried about how other people view my cleanliness?
    6 answers · 8 hours ago
  • Was the mover rude to ask for a tip?

    I used a mover to help move furniture out of my apartment then he held his hand out and asked me if I am going to give him a tip. He put me on the spot too! Although I already prepaid ahead of time on the credit card, he kept bugging me to get a tip. I didn’t know what to do and just told him I will catch him next... show more
    I used a mover to help move furniture out of my apartment then he held his hand out and asked me if I am going to give him a tip. He put me on the spot too! Although I already prepaid ahead of time on the credit card, he kept bugging me to get a tip. I didn’t know what to do and just told him I will catch him next time. Then he shook his head. Was he being rude?
    29 answers · 5 days ago
  • My Mom does not reply to texts. Is this rude?

    Best answer: Then don't text her. Done.
    Best answer: Then don't text her. Done.
    19 answers · 4 days ago