• Is it ok to put my bread and other vegetable scraps on the lawn for the birds?

    Best answer: If the birds are eating it all, keep doing it. Just don't get caught.
    Best answer: If the birds are eating it all, keep doing it. Just don't get caught.
    29 answers · 1 week ago
  • Was it rude of my date to decline my request?

    I was on a date with a guy tonight and my mother was babysitting my son and daughter. The date was at an expensive restaurant and my date let me know beforehand that he was paying for me. So I asked if he could pay for my children as well and my date declined so I told him I wanted to go home because I wasn't... show more
    I was on a date with a guy tonight and my mother was babysitting my son and daughter. The date was at an expensive restaurant and my date let me know beforehand that he was paying for me. So I asked if he could pay for my children as well and my date declined so I told him I wanted to go home because I wasn't interested in a rude man who wont be supportive of my children. Was it rude of him to decline? It just means he doesn't have any interest in my children at all.
    45 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Why are people so mad when people kneel during the national anthem?

    ...they're expressing how they feel in a respectful way. Why is standing so important? 1984? Big brother?
    ...they're expressing how they feel in a respectful way. Why is standing so important? 1984? Big brother?
    49 answers · 1 week ago
  • Why are people (strangers) so rude in telling me what to do?

    Best answer: Please allow me to disagree: on a public place it is their business. They might not necessarily try to behave like your father but you should not feel that you can do whatever you want in public places. For example you should leave a public place as you found it. On the other hand it is human to drop for example a... show more
    Best answer: Please allow me to disagree: on a public place it is their business. They might not necessarily try to behave like your father but you should not feel that you can do whatever you want in public places. For example you should leave a public place as you found it. On the other hand it is human to drop for example a tissue by mistake but other people should give you a chance to clean behind yourself and otherwise point that out to you with tact and respect. but when you drop trash and have no intention of picking it up and expect other people to be your servants and clean behind you you are wrong then and will never get ahead as long as you do not change!
    21 answers · 1 week ago
  • Did I Do the Right Thing?

    I'm a manager in training at a big box store. A customer yelled at me about two shirts that were sold separately, because it was on the wrong rack and she thought they came together. Then she said, "I don't know why you can't just give me the other shirt, it's only $8". I caved and said... show more
    I'm a manager in training at a big box store. A customer yelled at me about two shirts that were sold separately, because it was on the wrong rack and she thought they came together. Then she said, "I don't know why you can't just give me the other shirt, it's only $8". I caved and said sorry and gave her the shirt for free. The problem is we're not supposed to do this and I felt like I acted like a pushover. Also, giving her the shirt for free brought her purchase down to $42 from $50 and I forgot to tell her you get a gift card if you spend $50...
    23 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Do people often walk away from you when you're in a conversation?

    Because, often, people walk away from me when I start talking about the topic, or try to add something to the topic, or try to say my side of a topic. You get the idea. Like for example, today at work, a coworker has a cast on his hand. I ask him what happened and he tells me the story of how he cut his hand and... show more
    Because, often, people walk away from me when I start talking about the topic, or try to add something to the topic, or try to say my side of a topic. You get the idea. Like for example, today at work, a coworker has a cast on his hand. I ask him what happened and he tells me the story of how he cut his hand and had to get stitches. He even shows a pic of his would on his phone when it happened. I asked him few more questions like does it hurt, how deep was the cut, etc. Then I thought it would be interesting to bring up how I almost lost my finger from a deep cut, years ago. His response was "yeah" and then he just abruptly walked away.
    16 answers · 1 week ago
  • How to politely ask someone if he's Christian or not?

    Best answer: Not really a polite way-- as a nonreligious person myself I can say that I find it kind of annoying or intruding for someone to ask me that question. I don't ask other people if they go to church or if they are Christian or jewish or anything. Not really anyone's business what I believe, and your... show more
    Best answer: Not really a polite way-- as a nonreligious person myself I can say that I find it kind of annoying or intruding for someone to ask me that question. I don't ask other people if they go to church or if they are Christian or jewish or anything. Not really anyone's business what I believe, and your acquaintance may feel the same way. His life and his lifestyle includes his viewpoint on religion. Now if you are closer friends then that subject can come up and often be discussed at more depth but to just be nosy as it would come across to someone you barely know-- nope, don't ask.
    17 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Would it be offensive if I ate meat in front of a vegetarian on a first date?

    Best answer: well you sure can survive a meatless meal to be in sync with her, and it would be a nice gesture that removes any doubt or awkwardness. if you share mealtimes in the future you can work out what is comfortable for you both along the way.
    Best answer: well you sure can survive a meatless meal to be in sync with her, and it would be a nice gesture that removes any doubt or awkwardness. if you share mealtimes in the future you can work out what is comfortable for you both along the way.
    28 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • A customer made me cry but was it my fault?

    I m 16 but I probably look like I m 11 or 12 because of the my height. I work in a restaurant. There was a table of 5 people. I asked them how things are tasting. They said things are goodbut there was a hair on my food. I asked for the color color and then so long it was. He yelled "does it matter? How about... show more
    I m 16 but I probably look like I m 11 or 12 because of the my height. I work in a restaurant. There was a table of 5 people. I asked them how things are tasting. They said things are goodbut there was a hair on my food. I asked for the color color and then so long it was. He yelled "does it matter? How about you walk away, just walk away!" He told my sister that I have a attitude problem (owner of restaurant) but there was someone who stood up for me and made things a bit better...just a bit.
    16 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Is it ok to not come in when my manager asks?

    I work at subway, when I first started my manager would call about once a week asking me to come in on a day I’m not scheduled, come in an hour or two earlier or stay one to a few hours later, it has since become an everyday thing, she’ll ask before every shift or during every shift, I know it’s more money if I... show more
    I work at subway, when I first started my manager would call about once a week asking me to come in on a day I’m not scheduled, come in an hour or two earlier or stay one to a few hours later, it has since become an everyday thing, she’ll ask before every shift or during every shift, I know it’s more money if I workouts hours but I’m very tired of being asked all the time to come in durin times I’m not scheduled for, most of the time it’s not doing anything for the store, it’s not busy hours and there’s already someone there, it’s just bringing people in esrly for the sake of bringing them in earlier, sometimes it’s because there’s something she forgot she has to do and wants someone in earlier so she can do it earlier, or it’s because she lets people call out whenever they want all the time and then has to find someone to fill that spot at the last minute, she’ll call over and over again even if I tell her I’m out and can’t come in, she’ll keep asking if there’s anyway I can, is it ok to say I can’t becsuse I’ve got plans or just want to relax or should I go in when she asks
    24 answers · 1 week ago
  • Was she rude?

    I was going to a job interview, and I was walking around the building. A lady dressed professionally, who I guess works there, was walking by and saw me and said, "Hi, can I help you with something?" I said "No." I passed her then when I walked by again, she said, "Can I help you look for... show more
    I was going to a job interview, and I was walking around the building. A lady dressed professionally, who I guess works there, was walking by and saw me and said, "Hi, can I help you with something?" I said "No." I passed her then when I walked by again, she said, "Can I help you look for something?" I said, "I know what I am looking for." She said, "Okay, well the ladies room is down that hall." Then I said, "Thank you." Later when I went in the for job interview, I saw her walking around in the office. When I was in the cubicle for the interview, I overheard her saying to another lady something which was probably about me, "I'm trying my hardest to feel sorry for her, but I don't."
    18 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Why do people not RSVP to invites if they plan on attending an event?

    My Bestfriend's planning a special event for me that's coming up soon. A few of my friends told me they're coming but haven't RSVP'd. The location, time & address is in the evite but they haven't yet confirmed. I'm confused as to why some of my friends won't just simply RSVP to... show more
    My Bestfriend's planning a special event for me that's coming up soon. A few of my friends told me they're coming but haven't RSVP'd. The location, time & address is in the evite but they haven't yet confirmed. I'm confused as to why some of my friends won't just simply RSVP to an event they're "excited" to attend
    12 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Is a female being assertive natural? or is it showing "manliness"? why?

    Best answer: Back when women were "feminine", men complained about having to support them and take care of them. You guys are never happy, are you?
    Best answer: Back when women were "feminine", men complained about having to support them and take care of them. You guys are never happy, are you?
    16 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • I bought a silver necklace to my friend as a gift. How do I tell her it’s real silver without sounding like bragging?

    Best answer: ask yourself why you want her to know it's real silver. that why is how you do it. take care! ' example. i want to tell you this coffee is hot. but i don't want to make you think i am insulting you. I want to tell you it's hot because i burnt myself and hear of others doing the same. how i... show more
    Best answer: ask yourself why you want her to know it's real silver. that why is how you do it.
    take care!
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    example. i want to tell you this coffee is hot. but i don't want to make you think i am insulting you. I want to tell you it's hot because i burnt myself and hear of others doing the same.

    how i would says this to friend. Last time i got a coffee from here i burnt my lip on the cup the coffee is that HOT! laugh and then move on.


    so why do you want your friend to know it's Silver? does she break out? if so you could say this shouldn't break you out if it does let me know and i'll replace it.
    34 answers · 1 week ago
  • Is it a valid reason for someone to not take business calls because they have sickness and diarrhea? WHY?

    He is worried about the sound effects and being able to maintain a conversation. Is this a valid reason for not working on a busy phone line? People would probably not notice the noise?
    He is worried about the sound effects and being able to maintain a conversation. Is this a valid reason for not working on a busy phone line? People would probably not notice the noise?
    11 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • LOL! Why is this person so upset about my son's actions?

    My son is 4 years old and we occasionally go to church. This woman walked by and my son told me she is ugly and she overheard. She tried to refrain from breaking down into tears. He is right though and I do agree she is ugly. Her friends kept reassuring her she is pretty, but if a kid says it, then it's true.... show more
    My son is 4 years old and we occasionally go to church. This woman walked by and my son told me she is ugly and she overheard. She tried to refrain from breaking down into tears. He is right though and I do agree she is ugly. Her friends kept reassuring her she is pretty, but if a kid says it, then it's true. So it shouldn't be surprising that both me and my son agree on that. If he said it about anyone else, it would be true too. Those who say beauty is in the eye of the beholder are wrong.
    20 answers · 2 weeks ago