• Was I wrong to have her sleep over?

    I went to a party with my gf Friday night and I had her sleep over at my house. I hadn’t planned on her staying but we got dropped off to my house at 2 a.m. and had both drank and I really didn’t want to drive 30 minutes to drop her off. To be clear, we didn’t do anything. We just slept in the same bed. I dropped... show more
    I went to a party with my gf Friday night and I had her sleep over at my house. I hadn’t planned on her staying but we got dropped off to my house at 2 a.m. and had both drank and I really didn’t want to drive 30 minutes to drop her off. To be clear, we didn’t do anything. We just slept in the same bed. I dropped her off and when I got back my mom started yelling at me as soon as I got home. She said that it was trashy and started saying she was going to kick her out herself if it happened again. My dad wasn’t even mad about it and she was acting like that. I tried to ignore her but she didn’t stop until I left. Now she’s ignoring me and acting like I did something horrible. I’m 18 and am moving away come graduation, so this really seems petty. Should I tell her sorry to just smooth things over? I didn’t want to drive after drinking and my gf is not some hoe, so I don’t see anything wrong since I’m not a kid anymore.
    60 answers · 2 days ago
  • Should I let my 22 year old daughter go to a pool party?

    My 22 year old daughter was invited to a pool party by one of her classmates at college and I am not sure if I should let her go sinc there will be boys. However, she said that all of her friends are going and she has to go. She said that she will be swimming with other girls and boys but nothing bad will... show more
    My 22 year old daughter was invited to a pool party by one of her classmates at college and I am not sure if I should let her go sinc there will be boys. However, she said that all of her friends are going and she has to go. She said that she will be swimming with other girls and boys but nothing bad will happen she may be 22 but she lives with me so I can make sure she does not go. On the day of the party if I don't want her to go I will take away the car keys
    39 answers · 1 day ago
  • Is a height 5'5" too short for modelling.?

    If yes, then why? Aren't men attracted to short women of heights around 5'5"?
    If yes, then why? Aren't men attracted to short women of heights around 5'5"?
    23 answers · 23 hours ago
  • This girl says I'm her baby's father but I refuse to take responsibility until there's proof?

    We're both 17 and I refuse to take care of the kid until there's proof that I'm the dad and she can't handle that and is having a breakdown or something,You're thoughts?
    We're both 17 and I refuse to take care of the kid until there's proof that I'm the dad and she can't handle that and is having a breakdown or something,You're thoughts?
    107 answers · 5 days ago
  • I’m so abandoned, what do I do?

    I’m a 19 adopted female, my biological family decided to get rid of me at 18 years old. They sent me to a University 5 hours away from home in the mountains and have left me here ever since. They never come out to get me even during the breaks and my birthday, they would never let me learn how to drive in high... show more
    I’m a 19 adopted female, my biological family decided to get rid of me at 18 years old. They sent me to a University 5 hours away from home in the mountains and have left me here ever since. They never come out to get me even during the breaks and my birthday, they would never let me learn how to drive in high school, Christmas break is now coming soon - it’s 4 weeks long but the dorms will be locked. I will be sleeping outside in the snow because I can’t get a ride to where my home is. There are no buses, or taxi here in this stranded city. I put up on Facebook on several groups to see if someone would be able to give me a ride if I pay them if they are heading there already, but no one has ever replied. I don’t understand why nobody likes me. I’m skinny, blonde, and I have a symmetrical face and fixed teeth. And because I’m alone, some big girls at my University are harassing me both in person and online. What’s wrong with me?, I’m not deformed or disabled or anything.
    29 answers · 4 days ago
  • Is this wrong?

    In front of me, my parents will snog and touch each other, they also say things in "code language" that I understand. I have never seen them actually doing it by the way. I have overheard them before when they knew I was awake but they don t really care anymore. They have never done anything to me, I... show more
    In front of me, my parents will snog and touch each other, they also say things in "code language" that I understand. I have never seen them actually doing it by the way. I have overheard them before when they knew I was awake but they don t really care anymore. They have never done anything to me, I haven t seen my Dad naked since my toddler years (I m a girl) but I see my Mom regularly. I have never seen either of them play with themselves. Is this stuff normal?
    12 answers · 14 hours ago
  • My mom wants to die what should I do?

    She literally cries everytime I come home and at times will tell me that she is is tired of living. The only thing is that she will play loud music and cry loud as she can.
    She literally cries everytime I come home and at times will tell me that she is is tired of living. The only thing is that she will play loud music and cry loud as she can.
    9 answers · 14 hours ago
  • Is my mom being a hater ?

    So my mom called me the other day and basically lectured me about the way I live so I live with my aunt and have a bed in my dads house both offer me rent free I work full time and save my money to create future stability, money aside for my 2 kids, and to go back to school and pay for my school because I refuse to... show more
    So my mom called me the other day and basically lectured me about the way I live so I live with my aunt and have a bed in my dads house both offer me rent free I work full time and save my money to create future stability, money aside for my 2 kids, and to go back to school and pay for my school because I refuse to be in debt. My mom lectured me because I live rent free and I don’t pay any house hold fees and I use up energy/ water in the house and that it’s time that I move out and get my own place and that I should be going to college even if it requires me to get a loan and be in debt. Let me make this clear I don’t even live with my mom my mom and dad are not together and my aunt has her own house. My mom even called my aunt to tell her how wrong it was to help me and that I shouldn’t be living in her house rent free but my aunt shut her down and told her she will help me and my dad says I can live rent free at his house with no problems. I am 25 years old and I have lived on my own since I was 18 -23 but I stumbled in so many obstacles and I decided to take the opportunity to create a better path for myself So I need advice here from moms who are older and have kids who are adults because I feel like my mom is a hater
    11 answers · 23 hours ago
  • I’m 24, parents and sister don’t want me to live alone?

    When I moved out my parents sent my younger (by 5 years) sister to live with me. She micromanage me all the time and constantly reports back to my parents. They do suprise visits several times a week. Every time I save up enough to move out my parents take the money from my bank account saying that if I managed to... show more
    When I moved out my parents sent my younger (by 5 years) sister to live with me. She micromanage me all the time and constantly reports back to my parents. They do suprise visits several times a week. Every time I save up enough to move out my parents take the money from my bank account saying that if I managed to save that much I must not need it and they do need it cause they will spend it since I’m not. I feel like I’m trapped. They have no comprehension that I just don’t want to live with family anymore. Especially this dysfunctional family. How can I escape?
    41 answers · 5 days ago
  • Who would you support if your husband called the police after the teenage girl next door slapped him across the rear end?

    Best answer: How old is she and what is the age of consent in the state?
    If she is of legal age is she hot?

    These are important facts that are needed to make a proper informed decision.

    In the right situation maybe a spanking is all that's needed, no reason to involved the police ;)
    Best answer: How old is she and what is the age of consent in the state?
    If she is of legal age is she hot?

    These are important facts that are needed to make a proper informed decision.

    In the right situation maybe a spanking is all that's needed, no reason to involved the police ;)
    9 answers · 16 hours ago
  • Have do I deal with emotionally abusive parents when I have no one to talk to?

    I am always somehow getting into arguments with them or my siblings. I share a room, so I feel trapped and I have no escape or safe place anywhere I go. The only time I feel calm is when I have my earphones in and I am finally able to block out the world, I know this isn t healthy and it has basically turned into a... show more
    I am always somehow getting into arguments with them or my siblings. I share a room, so I feel trapped and I have no escape or safe place anywhere I go. The only time I feel calm is when I have my earphones in and I am finally able to block out the world, I know this isn t healthy and it has basically turned into a full time thing, as everytime I engage with the real world I feel like ****. For example, this afternoon my mum asked me and my sister to put the washing up away, as I went to put a cup away, i found sugar in the cup and glass cabinet and asked "who put this in here" and apparently that s enough to start a massive argument between 4 people. I just don t understand how I get myself into these situations. I always feel like my mum and dad just really don t care and would rather have no children than talking children, and my sister hates me. I have no friends to talk to about anything, so I just hold it in until I erupt when I can t deal with the stress. When I am actually getting on with my siblings, we get shouted at for making too much noise or playing the the dog "being twats". My parents used to be so loving and I looked forward to coming out of school to spend the rest of the day with them. I just really don t know what happened. Sometimes I m literally scared to speak because of both of their massive mood swings. See comment below
    17 answers · 4 days ago
  • How can you tell if your home life is too toxic, or toxic at all?

    I'm honestly very confused about how I feel towards my home, more specifically, the people living in it. The environment is constantly tense, with my parents talking bad about each other to me and my sister and then both of them teaming up to yell at us. The emotions here change so fast, at one moment our... show more
    I'm honestly very confused about how I feel towards my home, more specifically, the people living in it. The environment is constantly tense, with my parents talking bad about each other to me and my sister and then both of them teaming up to yell at us. The emotions here change so fast, at one moment our mother will be happy and smiling at us and the next, she'll be yelling and telling us how we ruined her life, or something along those lines. We're home-schooled, so we don't have many moments out of the house away from her, since she only works a part-time job. Recently, my mother has been getting a lot harsher and stricter, with me especially. I'm a minor still, so I am aware that I need to be grateful for the fact that she gives me a roof over my head, some clothes, and food, but there's only so much I can take. She's started constantly monitoring what I'm doing, putting limits back on that I had in middle school. On top of that, her and my father always have some form of insult to say to me, whether it be that I'm 'damaged goods' or 'acting like a fre ak'. I'm an exceedingly anxious person, and she constantly pushes me about all that I'm anxious about, which often ends in me crying (alone obviously, she's never offered comfort). I honestly consider kxlling myself a lot, even though I know many others have it wayyy worse and I shouldn't complain about what I have, but I'm just reaching the point where I can't take anymore. Sorry for how whiny I sound.
    9 answers · 15 hours ago
  • Do you look like your mom or dad?

    Or neither ?
    Or neither ?
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • I got into a huge fight with my mom who’s in the wrong here?

    It all started when my mom asked me to sing for her as I sing “professionally” I guess you could say. So I sang my first song and she said it was good. Then I sang the second song which I put a lot of practice into, and I personally thought was some of my best vocals. Anyways she then begins to mock my voice and... show more
    It all started when my mom asked me to sing for her as I sing “professionally” I guess you could say. So I sang my first song and she said it was good. Then I sang the second song which I put a lot of practice into, and I personally thought was some of my best vocals. Anyways she then begins to mock my voice and laugh about it which hurt my feelings. She told me to sing that part of the song again, which I did. Then she mocks me yet again and says she doesn’t like it. I told her I was gonna stop there as I was already feeling disappointed at that point. I sat down on the couch next to her silently and she said “you need to learn how to accept criticism, I know what good singing is because I took singing when I was in school (in a different country btw).” I then fired back saying “well I thought it was good.” and she says “whatever you say.” I couldn’t stand how insensitive she being so I broke down crying and stormed into my room, my dad was in the room as well and he told me I was being a brat. Then 20 min later my mom walks past my room and tells me she’s not going to my performance because she doesn’t care about it and that I don’t sing good. I couldn’t hide my feelings anymore and I told her she owed me an apology for making fun of me. She refused and said she doesn’t owe me any apology. is she wrong or am I?
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • 28 year old women and 32 year old man having an strong relationship with 16 year old girl. Is it right?

    My 16 year old daughter who is in children's division custody have developed a friendly relationship with this 2 adults. My daughter was placed in missouri baptist children's home a residential youth care facility. When my daughter returned to foster care to have reunification with me the parent, this 2... show more
    My 16 year old daughter who is in children's division custody have developed a friendly relationship with this 2 adults. My daughter was placed in missouri baptist children's home a residential youth care facility. When my daughter returned to foster care to have reunification with me the parent, this 2 adults continued to have daily communications with my daughter, thru text messages, facebook, messenger, telephone, and in person. Whenever this people visit my daughter, they drive 4 hours to visit with her, and take her to places by themselves. My daughter tells me that this people love her and care about her the same way I do. I have talked with children's division about it, and I also talked to our family therapist, and none of them have recommended nor done anything about it. My daughter is obviously in favor of this relationship. My daughter have approximately 7 mental illnesses along with behavioural problems. That's why she ended up in residential and foster care. What should I do/what's your opinion?
    8 answers · 1 day ago
  • My stepfather is touchy, advice?

    Before you think child abuse, I’m 21. I don’t know if it is sexual. He will walk up and slap my butt or grab it or “jiggle” it. It didn’t used to bother me until it hit me that it was weird and i started getting really uncomfortable. I tell him to stop and he doesn’t. Also, no, my mom pays no attention to it. He’s... show more
    Before you think child abuse, I’m 21. I don’t know if it is sexual. He will walk up and slap my butt or grab it or “jiggle” it. It didn’t used to bother me until it hit me that it was weird and i started getting really uncomfortable. I tell him to stop and he doesn’t. Also, no, my mom pays no attention to it. He’s also controlling in other aspects such as what i can wear, who i can be around, and is very strict. Honestly, it sounds like he falls into the perfect category of an abuse partner except he’s my step dad. I don’t know what to do.
    43 answers · 6 days ago
  • What is a Companion?

    Best answer: A companion is a person or an animal you spend a lot of time with. Often companion is just another word for friend. However in this case, seeing their share a bed, it's more likely they are lovers and they (themselves or the rest of your family) used the word companion because being a lesbian is a taboo... show more
    Best answer: A companion is a person or an animal you spend a lot of time with. Often companion is just another word for friend.

    However in this case, seeing their share a bed, it's more likely they are lovers and they (themselves or the rest of your family) used the word companion because being a lesbian is a taboo subject or talking about a companion would raise less difficult questions than explaining a lesbian relationship.

    Seen the fact you're spending a lot of time over at their place, you could be close enough you could ask about their relationship. Then you know for sure where they stand together.
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • No family very lonely?

    I want a family. I don’t have a father and my moms family is dysfunctional. I’m an only child too. Do I have to have kids to spread out my family line? The thing is I don’t want any. If I don’t have them, I’ll be all alone for the rest of my life
    I want a family. I don’t have a father and my moms family is dysfunctional. I’m an only child too. Do I have to have kids to spread out my family line? The thing is I don’t want any. If I don’t have them, I’ll be all alone for the rest of my life
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • I think my dad might not be my biological father?

    The only person related to me with blue eyes is my Grandma on my mom's side. No one on my dad's side has blue eyes. I don't look anything like my two brothers. I found a text on my REALLY old phone my Mom borrowed for a year. My dad told my mom he did not completely believe he was the father on this... show more
    The only person related to me with blue eyes is my Grandma on my mom's side. No one on my dad's side has blue eyes. I don't look anything like my two brothers. I found a text on my REALLY old phone my Mom borrowed for a year. My dad told my mom he did not completely believe he was the father on this text. Another text was my dad saying he wad "worried about the blood thing." Possibly a blood test? I read that non-biological fathers have less connections, however we are very close. I've probably spent the most time with him more than my two brothers. I'm worried if I'm right we will get a DNA test and he won't love me as much anymore. What should I do?
    7 answers · 5 hours ago