• Am I wrong to not what an abortion?

    Im only 17&a student. I'm 12 wks pregnant&have known since I was 3 wks. Family are strict&since I told them theyve said that its my decision which I choose but if I don't decide a termination I'm living in a council flat. with my boyfriends family saying we could live there for support. Im... show more
    Im only 17&a student. I'm 12 wks pregnant&have known since I was 3 wks. Family are strict&since I told them theyve said that its my decision which I choose but if I don't decide a termination I'm living in a council flat. with my boyfriends family saying we could live there for support. Im not allowed to do that.im learning what struggling means, but if I choose a termination Id be flown to Dubai 'business class' for my birthday&if the reason I want to keep the child is because I want to be out my house, theyll happily rent out anywhere I want, as soon as I finish my ALevels&abort but if not Im getting no support. My boyfriend&family are overjoyed.its nice to be surrounded by them because it makes me feel like I havent committed a sin and I am okay to be happy&excited over it. I was booked in for an abortion, I didnt turn up, something inside me knew, I was doing it for parents.Im stuck theyre getting to me:how anyone who is thrilled is just wanting to trap me and its the hardest route, making it the biggest mistake. They have high expectations (a great thing).I understand their disappointment.I have an older sibling, the perfect child I know I'm being compared to her and being considered 'an idiot for throwing my life away.' My family are pressurising to choose.they're waiting to hear 1 thing&if I go through with abortion its for them but because im indecisive, im not sure whether I am being naive&maybe they are right ill struggle&regret it once its too late. anyone help?
    28 answers · 3 days ago
  • I want to be a mom?

    i'm 15 almost 16 and I want a baby I want to be a young mom I don't to start in my 30s that's kinda too late what can I do I want to start young
    i'm 15 almost 16 and I want a baby I want to be a young mom I don't to start in my 30s that's kinda too late what can I do I want to start young
    15 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is it bad to not have a kid by 27?

    I'll be 27 tomorrow. My two best friends are 26 and are both mothers. One has 3 biological kids, one has one and is pushing for another. People always assume that because my best friends are 26 and mothers, that I should be a mother as well. I've been asked numerous times why I don't have kids yet. I do... show more
    I'll be 27 tomorrow. My two best friends are 26 and are both mothers. One has 3 biological kids, one has one and is pushing for another. People always assume that because my best friends are 26 and mothers, that I should be a mother as well. I've been asked numerous times why I don't have kids yet. I do want kids and I've had a few close calls, but I think God knew what He was doing when I didn't end up pregnant by these losers. Is it really that frowned upon to not be a mother by 27? lol
    20 answers · 5 days ago
  • Can two parents live together and have sex occasionally but not be together and make it work?

    I live with my two year old daughters dad. I am pregnant with our second child now. Him and I just argue all the time now. He doesn’t have a job or a car. He’s a landscaper who only works in the summer time. So I have asked him to stay home with the kids and take care of the house to save on daycare costs. For his... show more
    I live with my two year old daughters dad. I am pregnant with our second child now. Him and I just argue all the time now. He doesn’t have a job or a car. He’s a landscaper who only works in the summer time. So I have asked him to stay home with the kids and take care of the house to save on daycare costs. For his sanity I still pay for daycare for two days a week. I let him take my car on those days and try to find odd jobs to make money. He acts like we’re together but he won’t sleep in a bed at night with me unless he wants to have sexual it seems. We still go on vacation together, and go on dates together and celebrate all holidays together. But there’s this older woman who starts arguments between us. She is 42 and has daughters the same age as us. In the past he slept with two of her daughters. And now he’s sleeping with her. I have asked him to stop talking to the whole Family in general considering he has cheated on me multiple times with the mother at this point. I try to forget the cheating he’s done with her. But he took it to far when he took our daughter to this woman’s house behind my back. I felt disrespected. I am trying to get over it but i can’t. This has caused us to break up.
    11 answers · 4 days ago
  • If you're too young to drink alcohol, then you're too young tp have a baby?

    Anyone else agree with this philosophy?
    Anyone else agree with this philosophy?
    6 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is it bad that i dont want to see my wife give birth?

    I love my wife and child but i think the birthing process is discusting and dont want to be there when it happens.
    I love my wife and child but i think the birthing process is discusting and dont want to be there when it happens.
    5 answers · 2 days ago
  • How do I make my child give up her comfort toy?

    My daughter has a comfort toy that started when she was a baby and she would sleep with it. As she got older, she only wanted to bring it more places with her and any attempts for me to get her to give it up have ended in tears. Now the toy is very old and I don't even want to think about the germs it has. I... show more
    My daughter has a comfort toy that started when she was a baby and she would sleep with it. As she got older, she only wanted to bring it more places with her and any attempts for me to get her to give it up have ended in tears. Now the toy is very old and I don't even want to think about the germs it has. I want her to lose the toy somewhere and have to learn to live without it. How should I make her give it up? Anything I have tried so far won't work. She also has Autism and if people see her with the toy, they will assume something is wrong. I just want a normal child.
    12 answers · 1 week ago
  • How do you protect a child online?

    I hate that I’m asking this here but there are no articles on the steps to take when you see a child in a vulruable position online. Why isnt there any option to report under aged children who are being taken advantage of so its an instant account shut down or something, I hate helplessly seeing these young girls... show more
    I hate that I’m asking this here but there are no articles on the steps to take when you see a child in a vulruable position online. Why isnt there any option to report under aged children who are being taken advantage of so its an instant account shut down or something, I hate helplessly seeing these young girls broadcast live to men on periscope and she dances for them and asks them to date them and I report them but it doesnt remove them it just hides their sick comments from me. I tried to trick her into getting her mom to come dance and maybe I could somehow get a word in with their parents but they refused to get her. I dont know what can I do to make sure kids are safe it matters to me so much I cant ignore it
    6 answers · 3 days ago
  • Are there women strong enough that if their husband is incapable of fathering their kid, that they can take all the responsibility alone?

    Best answer: Well of course- look at all of the single mothers in the world.
    Best answer: Well of course- look at all of the single mothers in the world.
    4 answers · 2 days ago
  • What will my baby look like? A quarter black and the rest white?

    I know you never really know until they're born but I wanna know what you guys think. My bf is half black and half white with brown eyes almost black, curly black hair, and he has a dark skin tone where he actually looks black and Mexican but he isn't. I'm white with blue eyes and dirty blonde hair.... show more
    I know you never really know until they're born but I wanna know what you guys think. My bf is half black and half white with brown eyes almost black, curly black hair, and he has a dark skin tone where he actually looks black and Mexican but he isn't. I'm white with blue eyes and dirty blonde hair. I'm hoping our son or daughter looks light skin but what do you think.
    4 answers · 2 days ago
  • Would it seem desperate and inappropriate to let his parents know I’m pregnant?

    Best answer: Yes, they deserve to know.

    Grandparents have no automatic rights, so they can't just automatically come in and visit or take the child.
    Best answer: Yes, they deserve to know.

    Grandparents have no automatic rights, so they can't just automatically come in and visit or take the child.
    9 answers · 6 days ago
  • If no longer in a loving relationship should parents change the names of mother father birth certificate so they aren't both responsible?

    Best answer: A. A birth certificate doesn't establish rights. B. You can't just change a birth certificate will-nilly. C. Why would you want to cut the kid out just because the parents aren't together anymore?
    Best answer: A. A birth certificate doesn't establish rights. B. You can't just change a birth certificate will-nilly. C. Why would you want to cut the kid out just because the parents aren't together anymore?
    4 answers · 3 days ago
  • Creative ways to tel mother in law she’s pregnant.?

    My friend is trying to figure out a good way to tell her mother in law she is pregnant. This will be her second baby and the baby is due on the mother in laws birthday. Does any one have an creative ideas on how to tell her she’s preganant in the way of it saying something about the due date being on her birthday?
    My friend is trying to figure out a good way to tell her mother in law she is pregnant. This will be her second baby and the baby is due on the mother in laws birthday. Does any one have an creative ideas on how to tell her she’s preganant in the way of it saying something about the due date being on her birthday?
    6 answers · 7 days ago
  • Is 19 too young to give birth?

    9 answers · 1 week ago