Hi, I am so so so sorry you have to go through this, Going through a breakup myself, I feel for you. Add a baby and I can only imagine what you re going through or how you must feel. It sometimes feels like the hurt will be there forever, and I ll be honest in my darkest thoughts I often feel that way. I am still...
Best answer: Hi, I am so so so sorry you have to go through this, Going through a breakup myself, I feel for you. Add a baby and I can only imagine what you re going through or how you must feel. It sometimes feels like the hurt will be there forever, and I ll be honest in my darkest thoughts I often feel that way. I am still in the crying every other hour stage myself. In this time you will hurt and that is okay but it is very important to remember that this is in no way a reflection of you. If you gave it your best, take comfort in that. He sounds like a pathetic man. To go through such lengths to get another woman? That s sad. And his wife is just as sad if she takes him back after learning all this. Just because they are together doesn t mean it will work out. Their relationship is based on lies, deceit, such cowardly actions. I don t think it s built to last. But that is not your problem to worry about. Soon you will have a beautiful child you can pour all your love into. Your main concern is you and the child growing inside of you. Congratulations by the way. It is still a beautiful thing. You re going to be a great mother. Focus on what you can teach your child, how you can love him/her the best you can. And most importantly get a support system. Family. Friends. This is not a time to be alone, so please don t be afraid to reach out to someone, okay?
You might feel weak. I feel that way too sometimes. The hurt inside me is very raw. But we re not. We ll hurt and we ll come out on top in the end. Gypsyfish is right in what they said about giving that man ammunition to take your child. If this is your thoughts, please try your best not to turn to negative things for a false sense of comfort. This is where your support system will come most in handy. I wish I could offer more help when it comes to child supprt but this much is out of my depth for the most part. Talking to a lawyer like gypsy said wouldn t hurt though. Seek professionals for professional advice. I hope you get through this but honestly I believe that you will. It just takes time. <3
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