• My husband has posters on our wall of swimsuit models?

    the posters are actually in our den, what do you think?
    the posters are actually in our den, what do you think?
    29 answers · 2 days ago
  • Should I have an abortion?

    I'm 24, and I'm not prepared for a child, and my husband says it would be cruel to bring a child into the world only to give them away for adoption... I just don't know what to do... I didn't get pregnant on purpose, the condom broke and the morning after pill (clearly) did not work.
    I'm 24, and I'm not prepared for a child, and my husband says it would be cruel to bring a child into the world only to give them away for adoption... I just don't know what to do... I didn't get pregnant on purpose, the condom broke and the morning after pill (clearly) did not work.
    31 answers · 2 days ago
  • What if my wife allowed me to have sex with other women?

    Can I do it then?
    Can I do it then?
    26 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is it wrong to reject men with children even though I have children myself. I just don't want someone elses baggage and believe?

    that I only have the time, inclination and energy to love my own.
    that I only have the time, inclination and energy to love my own.
    15 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why does my girlfriend want to get married instead of living together first?

    I have a child from my previous marriage that lives with me full time. Id like my gf to move in but she wont do it unless we are married because she says she wants commitment from me. She says she also doesnt want to live with someone who has a kid without being married to them because she says it looks bad.Is she... show more
    I have a child from my previous marriage that lives with me full time. Id like my gf to move in but she wont do it unless we are married because she says she wants commitment from me. She says she also doesnt want to live with someone who has a kid without being married to them because she says it looks bad.Is she being manipulative or is this fair?
    16 answers · 1 day ago
  • How to convince my husband I didn’t cheat on him when I actually did?

    Okay, a little background information is that I dated my husband 5 months before we got married. In his family and my family it’s kind of a tradition to get married early and have a lot of kids. (He’s 23 and I’m 21) Our family said they would support us financially if we chose to get married soon like they did... show more
    Okay, a little background information is that I dated my husband 5 months before we got married. In his family and my family it’s kind of a tradition to get married early and have a lot of kids. (He’s 23 and I’m 21) Our family said they would support us financially if we chose to get married soon like they did because we actually wanted to wait. I love my husband a lot but he doesn’t satisfy me when it comes to certain things. I’ve been seeing this guy lately and my husband is starting to become extremely suspicious. The guy left his boxers in the bathroom and my husband found them and confronted me about it saying they’re not his because he’d never wear anything like that and he insists that I did cheat on him with one of his friends (which I did) but eventually he let it go. Ever since that he has been super nosy and protective. He asks me what I’m doing every time I’m checking my phone or on the phone with someone, he eyeballs every man that looks at me and he demands I tell him everywhere I go. It’s ridiculous and I need him to stop acting like this.
    13 answers · 1 day ago
  • How can I apologize to my wife for calling her chunky in front of her friends then jiggling her belly?

    Best answer: You need strategy. 1. Just wait until she calm down. 2. Tell her you did very unacceptable behavior. Therefore you will just wait her forgive or punishment. 3. Then she may ask divorce 4. Then ask her time to think. 5. Then you can continue to show your real love to her. Then she also review whole thing... show more
    Best answer: You need strategy.

    1. Just wait until she calm down.
    2. Tell her you did very unacceptable behavior. Therefore you will just wait her forgive or punishment.
    3. Then she may ask divorce

    4. Then ask her time to think.

    5. Then you can continue to show your real love to her.
    Then she also review whole thing again.

    6. Tell her you really love even she is fat or slime. Swear yourself will never do it again and only love her.

    7. Also bring her most expensive gift. Then she may forgive you.
    17 answers · 2 days ago
  • What would you do if a man was to punch your wife in the face?

    Best answer: Take her to the nearest Doctor for treatment and lodge a complain at the Police station in the area with medical evidence of the injury.
    Best answer: Take her to the nearest Doctor for treatment and lodge a complain at the Police station in the area with medical evidence of the injury.
    7 answers · 2 days ago
  • If your man makes triple as much money as you is it wrong to except him to handle things that exceed your budget?

    Best answer: No, it's not wrong. The money you both contribute should exceed your expenses so you can put some in a joint account. You should both put an equal percentage of your income in a joint account.
    Best answer: No, it's not wrong. The money you both contribute should exceed your expenses so you can put some in a joint account. You should both put an equal percentage of your income in a joint account.
    14 answers · 2 days ago
  • Should I stay with him?

    Best answer: You can definitely get through this and it sounds like it will be well worth doing so. Right now his number one priority is his daughter. Once you're married it's normal to think of your spouse first of all and your kids a close second. You will have the highest and most honored place in his life. But it... show more
    Best answer: You can definitely get through this and it sounds like it will be well worth doing so.

    Right now his number one priority is his daughter. Once you're married it's normal to think of your spouse first of all and your kids a close second. You will have the highest and most honored place in his life. But it sounds like that's all theoretical. There really is no choosing between you and his daughter. What would that look like in real life? I never have to choose between my wife and my kids in any substantial way, and I've been doing this a long time. You have nothing to worry about.

    He has NOT experienced everything before. He hasn't experienced life with you, kids with you. He hasn't experienced making a family whole again after years of single parenting. You two well have PLENTY of brand new experiences together. You really don't need to worry about that. It's always the case that both spouses come from different backgrounds and one has already had an experience that the other hasn't. This adds spice to life; it doesn't remove it. Embrace these differences and roll with them.

    Also, talk with him about these issues. He'll probably have a good perspective and be able to reassure you more than internet strangers will.

    Good luck!
    12 answers · 1 day ago
  • Should I tell my husband about my past?

    My husband is a very conservative Christian, and though I personally don't go to church I respect his beliefs deeply. Anyway, my husband and I have been married for 10 years, annd have and good marriage, but lately something has been really bothering me, especially now more than ever. When I was in my 20s, I... show more
    My husband is a very conservative Christian, and though I personally don't go to church I respect his beliefs deeply. Anyway, my husband and I have been married for 10 years, annd have and good marriage, but lately something has been really bothering me, especially now more than ever. When I was in my 20s, I dated both men and women. In fact I was in a relationship with a woman that lasted for 10 years. The thing is I never told my husband, as given his values I figured he would despise me, think I was disgusting or something. And I still feel that way, but I also feel very guilty I never told him, like somehow I lied to him. I'm still worried about what he might think, but I also can't get over feeling guilty. I feel like he'd hate me if he knew, yet if I don't, I feel like I'm not being honest with him. What can I do?
    52 answers · 5 days ago
  • Is it wrong to pleasure yourself to someone other than your significant other?

    Best answer: No darling, that's not cheating. Masturbating to other people is not only perfectly normal it's healthy. You don't have to lie, well, you shouldn't if your wife is mature enough. I'd be quite interested to know who my husband masturbates to. It would be interesting and intimate to know. If she... show more
    Best answer: No darling, that's not cheating. Masturbating to other people is not only perfectly normal it's healthy. You don't have to lie, well, you shouldn't if your wife is mature enough. I'd be quite interested to know who my husband masturbates to. It would be interesting and intimate to know. If she will be a baby about it, it's OK to fib about it, but personally, if you were my husband, I'd much rather hear the truth, which is, yes I do think of you, but also other people, and then who the people are...It would just be interesting and intimate to know.
    21 answers · 4 days ago
  • Why is it women today think they're too good to talk?

    Best answer: They think they're entitled because they have a slot. Women are too highly priced and privileged.
    Best answer: They think they're entitled because they have a slot. Women are too highly priced and privileged.
    9 answers · 11 hours ago
  • Is it okay for a married man and married woman to date other people?

    Like if their married partners are fine with it I'm Jw so please no hate Thanks :)
    Like if their married partners are fine with it I'm Jw so please no hate Thanks :)
    17 answers · 2 days ago
  • Wanted advice on this age gap relationship?

    Im 33, female and have been dating a man (on and off) for the past 3 years. Ive always been quiet and never really socialised/dated or had any male attention/sexual experience till I was 28. Ive just focused on my job and hobbies (running and hurdling lol). Anyway the man is he is 61 years old and Ive had a few... show more
    Im 33, female and have been dating a man (on and off) for the past 3 years. Ive always been quiet and never really socialised/dated or had any male attention/sexual experience till I was 28. Ive just focused on my job and hobbies (running and hurdling lol). Anyway the man is he is 61 years old and Ive had a few funny looks since dating him obviously due to the age gap. People say that I only look about 19 or early twenties too although I think I look my age. The issue is though I like him so want to be with him but my brain is telling me the relationship is not constructive to my future. For example I will have to face the likelihood that he will age much sooner and that I'l most likely be left on my own. Secondly he doesn't want kids. Im not sure if I want them or not but being with him means the option is not there. He has had many women, enjoyed his freedom but never settled down (he said there was something wrong with all the women he's dated). He never wants to marry. It might sound harsh and I've not said this to him but I feel a bit as though he has rode the ***** carousal for years, has had his chance and after refusing to marry/rejecting women now wants a serious relationship despite his age. I just wish he was younger. I guess I just wanted advice.
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • Can a married girl be friends with a guy?

    I feel a little guilty because I offered to help this guy in my math class with his English in exchange for math help... I genuinely like him as a friend but I don’t want him getting any ideas especially because he walked me to my car today and gave me a hug goodbye. Am I just worried for no reason?
    I feel a little guilty because I offered to help this guy in my math class with his English in exchange for math help... I genuinely like him as a friend but I don’t want him getting any ideas especially because he walked me to my car today and gave me a hug goodbye. Am I just worried for no reason?
    57 answers · 5 days ago
  • How can I get out of a Emotional abusive relationship?

    I've been in dv relationship for a year and a half. The man I got back with decided to put a ring on my finger so I won't leave him. I've called domestic violence hotlines more than three times this year. This has caused our daughter to get taken away because they saw my partner is more focused on me... show more
    I've been in dv relationship for a year and a half. The man I got back with decided to put a ring on my finger so I won't leave him. I've called domestic violence hotlines more than three times this year. This has caused our daughter to get taken away because they saw my partner is more focused on me than the baby. There will be a time and place where I need to get to a safe place so my mental health can be helped. I haven't seen my family since I gave birth and they are out of reach. Everyone sees my partner as a great person but doesn't see my emotional and mental scars. I want to save as much money. Now I have received my bank card I can manage my money safely without forcible confiscation by my partner. We have been in counselling for six months and everything is getting worse. Services don't want me coming over often but they don't understand what's going on. I have no family to go to or even friends because my partner drove them away. Where can I go to get away from him? I need to leave soon
    11 answers · 2 days ago