• My ex-wife has refused to let me see my daughter for over a year now and says she only will if I pay the child support she waived.?

    My ex-wife has been refusing to let me see my little girl. When the divorce went through she told the judge she did not want me to pay child support. Now that her husband is cheating on her and wants a divorce she is taking it out on me by claiming she can take me back for child support, which is difficult as I am... show more
    My ex-wife has been refusing to let me see my little girl. When the divorce went through she told the judge she did not want me to pay child support. Now that her husband is cheating on her and wants a divorce she is taking it out on me by claiming she can take me back for child support, which is difficult as I am caring for my grandmother, as well as not letting me see my daughter.
    20 answers · 16 hours ago
  • If you find out your wife is related to you, can you divorce?

    Best answer: You can divorce your wife if you must, but not because of this drop in the bucket of shared heredity.
    Best answer: You can divorce your wife if you must, but not because of this drop in the bucket of shared heredity.
    29 answers · 2 days ago
  • How to get over the guilt of cheating on my wife? Someone one night showed a lot of interest and I miss that. And then it happened.?

    It was a one time thing while I was out of town. The other girl is also married. We have texted a little bit afterwards as there was a connection, but it has died down now. This is something I have never even done to a gf in the past. Totally my fault tho. I cannot tell my wife because it is not fair to her and... show more
    It was a one time thing while I was out of town. The other girl is also married. We have texted a little bit afterwards as there was a connection, but it has died down now. This is something I have never even done to a gf in the past. Totally my fault tho. I cannot tell my wife because it is not fair to her and the kids. I just need to learn from it. I am going to go see a therapist for help. As this was a week ago, I am assuming it will start getting better after time? Any thoughts as it’s all I think about? The other girl and I follow each other on Instagram too so maybe that needs to stop?
    14 answers · 11 hours ago
  • My husband is having an affair?

    My husband is having an affair with a married woman. I found out. He said he never stop loving me, he doesn't love that woman, just because she's so good in bed that makes him cannot leave her . He said that woman pleases him anyway he wants in bed while I'm just like a pillow. I checked his phone. he... show more
    My husband is having an affair with a married woman. I found out. He said he never stop loving me, he doesn't love that woman, just because she's so good in bed that makes him cannot leave her . He said that woman pleases him anyway he wants in bed while I'm just like a pillow. I checked his phone. he texts her everyday to chat and begs her to make love with him but she refuses, she said she just want to be friend with him, she wants to stop the affair. Did I do something wrong, what should I do now. Thanks for help.
    14 answers · 7 hours ago
  • He won't set a date?

    I am engaged to get married. I've been engaged since January 2015. We are both divorced and have been together over 6 years with children from previous marriages. We are 46 and 49. We purposely waited to get married until my oldest son graduated college so he could still get his financial aid loans. He... show more
    I am engaged to get married. I've been engaged since January 2015. We are both divorced and have been together over 6 years with children from previous marriages. We are 46 and 49. We purposely waited to get married until my oldest son graduated college so he could still get his financial aid loans. He graduated in the beginning of May. Since then, I've asked my fiancé about three times when he would like to get married. His response is agitation, annoyance and "why don't you just pick the date, I don't care". I get angry and tell him its a joint decision, that we should discuss it together. No big wedding, just the two of us going away somewhere together. I suggested Vegas and then go to Hawaii for the rest of the week for a honeymoon -- says its too expensive. I suggested going to Florida for the weekend and getting married on the beach -- showed a little interest but never brought it up. I suggested July, he said its too hot. But won't make any suggestions or talk to me like an adult about figuring this out. The other day he got agitated and started screeching at me "why are you dumping this on me?" That really hurt my feelings and I am starting to think that he really doesn't want to. I feel like I should just cut my losses and give him the ring back. I don't think it will every happen. Not with both of us making a decision together as a couple anyway.
    17 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why does everyone disapprove of my plan to go on a journey to find a loving beautiful virgin wife ?

    Have you ever wanted something so bad that you would go out of your way to do whatever it takes to attain and achieve your goal ? Im approaching my late 20s i must get married settledown and have children. I am a virgin saving myself for marriage I must find and marry a virgin woman. I must be the first and... show more
    Have you ever wanted something so bad that you would go out of your way to do whatever it takes to attain and achieve your goal ? Im approaching my late 20s i must get married settledown and have children. I am a virgin saving myself for marriage I must find and marry a virgin woman. I must be the first and foremost one and only. I cannot settle for last place or even second. I have as much right to seek and search for a virgin wife much like how some women seek taller good looking high earning men etc The women in my country do not have or offer what I want and seek There are very very few virgins in my country Canada The only way I can think of to accomplish and achieve my goal is to journey to a country in South East Asia in the rural areas of like Japan or Vietnam and live there for a while a year or so to find date and marry the virgin wife I want and target aim for young women age 17-18 high school seniors. Logically that would maximize and give me the highest odds chance of achieving my goal . For this I required a large sum of money to sustain myself while I live in another country so I sold the house my father gave me and I’ve saved up over the years from my pay checks. If your country did not have or had a shortage of jobs food or water would you not leave and go to another country to look for these things ? Likewise this country has a shortage of virgin women age 20+ It only makes sense to search elsewhere where there is an ample plentiful supppy
    11 answers · 6 hours ago
  • Is there a man married to twins?

    Best answer: Here's an Australian guy trying to skirt polygamy laws - https://www.maxim.com/news/worlds-most-i...
    Best answer: Here's an Australian guy trying to skirt polygamy laws - https://www.maxim.com/news/worlds-most-i...
    5 answers · 2 days ago
  • Should you always be available to your spouse?

    My wife has this idea that when she wants to do something I should drop any and everything I'm doing and do what she wants. She also feels that we NEVER do anything. Money is tight with us now and some weeks we barely make it by with paying bills and just trying to keep gas in our old cars. Yesterday at work... show more
    My wife has this idea that when she wants to do something I should drop any and everything I'm doing and do what she wants. She also feels that we NEVER do anything. Money is tight with us now and some weeks we barely make it by with paying bills and just trying to keep gas in our old cars. Yesterday at work she sends me a text to say she wanted to go to the movies. She wanted to see the new Incredibles 2 movie. I'm almost 49 and she's 48. We don't have young kids anymore but she said that when our kids were younger and we bought the first Incredibles movie on DVD that she assumed I wanted to see the sequel. Honestly, I don't. I guess I've aged out of cartoon movies. But now she's upset that I seem to not want to do anything with her today. Oh, and as far as the movie goes, she had planned a night of dinner and a movie but she told me she wasn't going to pay for everything so I needed to kick in on one or the other. Thanks for spending my money without asking. She feels she doesn't have to ask me what I have planned on Sat because as her wife I should always be available for her. I actually have plans myself. My sister wants me to come to her house and put up a couple of ceiling fans. My daughter wants me to change the oil and spark plugs on her car. But the most important thing I'm working on is a woodworking project making a piggy bank for one of our granddaughters. I've been working on it a couple of weeks and had plans to do other things to it this
    23 answers · 3 days ago
  • Should inlaws have to announce week long visits?

    My father in law decided to schedule an 8 day long visit without even telling me or my husband. Usually he just shows up at the door unexpected (and stays for 1 week). We've told im before that we would to know so we can coordinate his visit with our busy schedule. The only way we knew he was coming this time... show more
    My father in law decided to schedule an 8 day long visit without even telling me or my husband. Usually he just shows up at the door unexpected (and stays for 1 week). We've told im before that we would to know so we can coordinate his visit with our busy schedule. The only way we knew he was coming this time is because his daughter told us that he and bought airplane tickets to visit in a week. I'm and getting to sick and tired of him doing this. I want to be able to enjoy the time when he is here visiting and not be irritated by him being so inconsiderate. how would you feel? Who continues to do this?
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • Am I wrong for wanting to keep celebrating me and my husbands dating anniversary?

    My husband and I have officially been in love for 7 years on June 16th! Well his cousin also married yesterday and he preferred to go with them instead of spend time with me and celebrate another successful year of us together. Like we have been celebrating our dating anniversary for all of the years together and... show more
    My husband and I have officially been in love for 7 years on June 16th! Well his cousin also married yesterday and he preferred to go with them instead of spend time with me and celebrate another successful year of us together. Like we have been celebrating our dating anniversary for all of the years together and all of a sudden he tells me it’s not that important! Am I wrong for being angry?! Not to mention he works 6 days a week unscheduled hrs so we hardly have time because we also have children! I feel bad for being angry but I’m not because he goes out more than I feel a married man should when I’m the one stuck in the house with kids!
    14 answers · 2 days ago
  • My husbands friend "touched" me. What do I do?

    He casually flirts with me and my husband isn't aware of it. They're like best friends and grew up together. The other night he came over to celebrate his birthday and my husband was passed out. His friend was drunk and he tried to kiss me and i pushed him away. I'm very uncomfortable with this. I... show more
    He casually flirts with me and my husband isn't aware of it. They're like best friends and grew up together. The other night he came over to celebrate his birthday and my husband was passed out. His friend was drunk and he tried to kiss me and i pushed him away. I'm very uncomfortable with this. I didn't tell my husband because I didn't want to ruin his relationship with his best friend. They're like brothers. What do I do? He also sends really weird innapropriate texts and blames it on alcohol.
    35 answers · 5 days ago
  • Should I tell my wife that I’m secretly gay?

    We’ve been married for 10 years but I’ve always been attracted to men, I’m not sure if I should tell her or not at this point or if it’s now pointless
    We’ve been married for 10 years but I’ve always been attracted to men, I’m not sure if I should tell her or not at this point or if it’s now pointless
    9 answers · 19 hours ago
  • What to do if I like a young man who’s 26 and I’m 46 and married?

    He lives next door. I refer to him as “The boy next door” He’s tall about 6’1 or 6’2, Handsome gorgeous face, dark perfectly combed hair & he has this amazing physique. Sometimes he likes to throw a football around shirtless with his friends showing off his amazing six pack abs which is a sight for me to see... show more
    He lives next door. I refer to him as “The boy next door” He’s tall about 6’1 or 6’2, Handsome gorgeous face, dark perfectly combed hair & he has this amazing physique. Sometimes he likes to throw a football around shirtless with his friends showing off his amazing six pack abs which is a sight for me to see and leaves me hot and bothered the rest of day. Sadly my husband is the total opposite of this young man. And it leaves me very sexually frustrated. He’s alsouch younger than myself. What do you suppose I should do?
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why do people hate on and shame men who desire virgin wife and discourage men from searching for virgin wife?

    Even if the men who desire virgin wife are virgin themselves If you think people don’t care what your dating preferences are and could care less think again All I ask is information on where to find a Virgin wife or what countries to find virgin wife or what are my chances and odds And I get a bunch of hate... show more
    Even if the men who desire virgin wife are virgin themselves If you think people don’t care what your dating preferences are and could care less think again All I ask is information on where to find a Virgin wife or what countries to find virgin wife or what are my chances and odds And I get a bunch of hate people bashing virgins in their answers and hating on me shaming judging me for my dating marriage preferences why ? Discouraging me from searching for a virgin
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • Canadian inheritance laws?

    My great grandfather remarried over 30 years ago. It’s possible he was never actually divorced, as there are no divorce records. Now he and his other children (with this second “wife”) are trying to deny my grandmother her portion of his inheritance when he dies. Is this even legal? Are his other children even... show more
    My great grandfather remarried over 30 years ago. It’s possible he was never actually divorced, as there are no divorce records. Now he and his other children (with this second “wife”) are trying to deny my grandmother her portion of his inheritance when he dies. Is this even legal? Are his other children even eligible for any inheritance seeing as they are considered “illegitimate?” Thank you in advance
    8 answers · 5 hours ago
  • What will it be like being a househusband? Will me wife love and respect me as much as before we had children?

    My wife and I are having our first children - twins, and once they are born, I will quit my job and become a househusband. We already own our home, mostly thanks to me, since I bought it before we were together and earn more since, so we only need one of us to work, and even though my wife earns less, she insisted... show more
    My wife and I are having our first children - twins, and once they are born, I will quit my job and become a househusband. We already own our home, mostly thanks to me, since I bought it before we were together and earn more since, so we only need one of us to work, and even though my wife earns less, she insisted it be her. The last month has been really hard, because we hadn't been able to agree on it, but then she left me over it, and I it absolutely wasn't worth losing her over, so I changed my mind and convinced her to come back. We've talked about what we expect of each other now, and it doesn't seem that hard, to look after our children, and do all of the housework, have dinner waiting for her, etc, if I'm honest. We have her parents and my mother willing to look after them almost any time too. It will be weird giving up responsibility for money though, since she wants to control all of that. My biggest concern is that my wife will see me as less than I was, or less than her. She says that's just gender roles and sexism that I've been taught, and that I don't have to worry and she loves me. Will I enjoy looking after children? They're my children so I'm going to love them very much, but I've never done anything like it. I'm reading and learning about children. I'm really looking forward to a more normal sex life after we have children too, which my wife promised she'd put a lot of effort in to, since her pregnancy has ruined it.
    13 answers · 2 days ago