• What would be the first thing you eat in New York City if you've never been there?

    Okay, so, my friend went to NYC. The first thing he decided to do was eat at a Japanese restaurant...you can get that where we live now.... I would have gotten a slice of NYC pizza, honestly come on...….
    Okay, so, my friend went to NYC. The first thing he decided to do was eat at a Japanese restaurant...you can get that where we live now.... I would have gotten a slice of NYC pizza, honestly come on...….
    26 answers · 3 days ago
  • Small girls?

    I’ve had enough of being so short, I’m 19 and around 5ft, I’m female so I guess it isn’t so bad, most guys compliment me on my height but then pretty much everywhere I go I get comments including nasty ones about how short I am, I’m f*cked off with it. It’s fine if it’s from friends or done in a harmless way and... show more
    I’ve had enough of being so short, I’m 19 and around 5ft, I’m female so I guess it isn’t so bad, most guys compliment me on my height but then pretty much everywhere I go I get comments including nasty ones about how short I am, I’m f*cked off with it. It’s fine if it’s from friends or done in a harmless way and occasionally, I’ll throw jokes back at them for it, but when you get called midget, it triggers me, I want to literally kill them for that word, some girl who’s an inch taller than me says it and one day I will smack her, can’t stand how vile she is and others are. It doesn’t help that I’m looking 16 either, I’m not fat and not skinny. I’m the smallest in my college and there is like 30 of us. Secondary school I rarely had comments about it, primary school I was bullied for it, 1st and 2nd college I rarely had comments and the one I’m in now I get comments all the time
    16 answers · 3 days ago
  • My father doesn’t seem to understand?

    I’m 18 years old and i dropped out of college because when i started going the friend groups had already been made and i couldn’t relate to anyone and no one had the same interests. No one in class even had a smartphone, they all had nokia phones still. I couldn’t make friends so i never wanted to go to the class... show more
    I’m 18 years old and i dropped out of college because when i started going the friend groups had already been made and i couldn’t relate to anyone and no one had the same interests. No one in class even had a smartphone, they all had nokia phones still. I couldn’t make friends so i never wanted to go to the class but my father doesn’t understand this at all. He’s saying that I don’t go to the college to make friends i should just study and come back home it doesn’t matter if i have friends or not. But it’s really hard to spend time there alone when i have no one to talk to but my father says it’s good that I don’t have anyone to talk, that way i can concentrate in class better. It sounds completely dumb to me. He clearly doesn’t understand how friendships work and he doesnt Have any friends either so.. idk any opinions?
    11 answers · 23 hours ago
  • Is it wrong to visit friend at their workplace?

    I used to work in a clothing department store near my college. Since now I'm not working there anymore, is it okay if once in a while I visit my former mentor who's my friend now at there?
    I used to work in a clothing department store near my college. Since now I'm not working there anymore, is it okay if once in a while I visit my former mentor who's my friend now at there?
    9 answers · 17 hours ago
  • He keeps stalking me by sending friends to keep an eye on me?What does that means?

    Best answer: It means he wants to know if you're already having sex with someone else.
    Best answer: It means he wants to know if you're already having sex with someone else.
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • Would it be bad if i did this?

    So im still a virgin and in my second year of college so its pretty embarrassing at this point. For some reason, guys at my college hate me and i hate them right back. I was planning to lose it to this kid i used to like in high school. Hes what you might call a f*ckboy but i am attracted to him and used to be... show more
    So im still a virgin and in my second year of college so its pretty embarrassing at this point. For some reason, guys at my college hate me and i hate them right back. I was planning to lose it to this kid i used to like in high school. Hes what you might call a f*ckboy but i am attracted to him and used to be friends w him so i trust him in a sense. However, recently he suggested a threesome with my best friend who also went to high school with us. I shut down the idea and felt kind of hurt that i wasnt enough. However, i have no more options - never have and probably never will. Should i still have sex with him?
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • Would you be annoyed if your roommate kept putting their dirty clothes on top of your towel?

    Best answer: When you find her things on your rack, drop them on the floor. She'll get the message.
    Best answer: When you find her things on your rack, drop them on the floor. She'll get the message.
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • Have you been held captive in a room?

    6 answers · 7 hours ago
  • Is it rude to always talk about your dad to someone whose dad died?

    I’m 14 and have a close friend the same age as me who unfortunately lost her dad when she was in third grade. So I’m always talking about my dad around her and I always feel kind of bad cause I’m not sure if talking about him makes her feel uncomfortable or sad.. what do you think?
    I’m 14 and have a close friend the same age as me who unfortunately lost her dad when she was in third grade. So I’m always talking about my dad around her and I always feel kind of bad cause I’m not sure if talking about him makes her feel uncomfortable or sad.. what do you think?
    7 answers · 13 hours ago
  • Why does no one ever have any interest in being my friend or spending time with me?

    Best answer: its their loss, nnaybe youre hanging around with the wrong people, inn having a hard tinne with that too, thought of doing stuff like volunteering in nursing honnes and visiting people that had noone to visit with either or getting a pet to keep nne connpany
    Best answer: its their loss, nnaybe youre hanging around with the wrong people, inn having a hard tinne with that too, thought of doing stuff like volunteering in nursing honnes and visiting people that had noone to visit with either or getting a pet to keep nne connpany
    11 answers · 4 days ago
  • Done making friends. How to get used to being alone?

    Friends come and go so much in my life, I am tired of starting over with friendships. I'm tired of the same questions: "Are you from around here?" "Do you have siblings?" "What are your hobbies?" etc. I'm just done. I just wish I could have just 1 friend who can stay in my... show more
    Friends come and go so much in my life, I am tired of starting over with friendships. I'm tired of the same questions: "Are you from around here?" "Do you have siblings?" "What are your hobbies?" etc. I'm just done. I just wish I could have just 1 friend who can stay in my life. I've reached out to so many people within my age group in-person and online, but no one ever stays my friend. I've come to realize my life purpose is to be alone. What are some ways I can accept that fact?
    7 answers · 15 hours ago
  • My mom has her guys friends spend the night and I don’t feel comfortable with it.?

    My parents got a divorce almost a year ago and she has a lot of guy friends, but they are just friends trust me. She often has them over and I will kinda just stay in my room and ignore them. I’ll say hi and stuff but that’s it. There is one friend tho that she might be staying a business with and he stays the... show more
    My parents got a divorce almost a year ago and she has a lot of guy friends, but they are just friends trust me. She often has them over and I will kinda just stay in my room and ignore them. I’ll say hi and stuff but that’s it. There is one friend tho that she might be staying a business with and he stays the night sometimes, and sometimes multiple nights. He sleeps in the guest bedroom. I don’t feel comfortable with him around and usually when he’s been around a day or two I will get a little snippy and my mom doesn’t understand why I won’t come downstairs and talk and doesn’t understand why I am uncomfortable and try’s to make me feel like I shouldn’t be and I am being dramatic and rude. I just don’t like him being here it’s weird to me. Am i being over dramatic and rude? And how do I explain to her in a way that will make sense?
    21 answers · 5 days ago
  • Rude older women neighbors in my complex?

    I live in an area with a couple of older women who are very displeased with just about everything outside of perfection and complete silence. I’ve had them nag about everything from how I park over the line to compensate for others parking inconveniently to derogatory remarks about how I look. I just got this lease... show more
    I live in an area with a couple of older women who are very displeased with just about everything outside of perfection and complete silence. I’ve had them nag about everything from how I park over the line to compensate for others parking inconveniently to derogatory remarks about how I look. I just got this lease so I can’t end it for many months, so I was wondering what I could do in the mean time. They never say anything to me, they usually just stare at me menacingly or make a racket outside my door, complaining about everything they don’t like that day.
    10 answers · 3 days ago
  • How do I breakup before he proposes?

    Best answer: It probably doesn't matter. What he probably sees is that he has a good girl, a strong relationship with someone who will be in his future. No amount of planning or sweet talking your way out of ditching him in such a state. You'll end up making some shards of glass, because that is selfish of you to just... show more
    Best answer: It probably doesn't matter. What he probably sees is that he has a good girl, a strong relationship with someone who will be in his future. No amount of planning or sweet talking your way out of ditching him in such a state. You'll end up making some shards of glass, because that is selfish of you to just start your life over even though you say he did nothing wrong. But I'll go ahead and support your idea of leaving, because you don't seem to be qualified for a relationship by that alone anyway, he deserves more than that right there. If you don't want to commit in a relationship after 7 years, then you don't need one at all.
    5 answers · 11 hours ago
  • How did you meet your best friend?

    Best answer: the best friend I ever had, the only REAL friend I ever had, i met at work. I watched her deteriorate and die from MS. She was 38 and had 3 kids, 2 young teens and a 6 year old. They all loved me. I moved far away soon after she died, closer to my own family. She has come to me in dreams, they are SPECIAL they... show more
    Best answer: the best friend I ever had, the only REAL friend I ever had, i met at work. I watched her deteriorate and die from MS. She was 38 and had 3 kids, 2 young teens and a 6 year old. They all loved me. I moved far away soon after she died, closer to my own family. She has come to me in dreams, they are SPECIAL they make me feel like we are spending time together again! I know our friendship is forever, and she will be there for me - ALWAYS! :)
    6 answers · 1 day ago
  • I spread a rumor about my friend?

    ok i know i’m a terrible person and whatever i get it i’m an idiot. but i need some advice to figure out how to get all of this cleared up. so a girl who i don’t really like but am “friends” with went on a cruise and i overheard her say how she had sex with some random guy and i didn’t believe it and thought it was... show more
    ok i know i’m a terrible person and whatever i get it i’m an idiot. but i need some advice to figure out how to get all of this cleared up. so a girl who i don’t really like but am “friends” with went on a cruise and i overheard her say how she had sex with some random guy and i didn’t believe it and thought it was funny so i told my other friend that my “friend” had told me about the guy. i kind of told her like she was lying and i bet she made it up since she always makes these stories up when she’s away traveling or something and there’s no proof. the friend i told accidentally let it slip to the friend that my “friend” actually told. and then she asked my “friend” if she ever told me that and she said no. and now it’s an awkward situation and i don’t know how to explain it to the girl i spread the rumor to and my “friend”. i was just going to tell “friend” that it was just a joke because u always say u hook up with a bunch of guys on these cruises and my friend thought i was being serious. it’s such a messy situation and it’s one of those times where u just wish you could turn back time and remake your choices i’m a bad person i get it but i need some advice please
    12 answers · 3 days ago
  • I'm jealous of my friends?

    Best answer: Please keep in mind that there are grown up women who spend $30,000+ a month on their makeup and clothing and don't give a thought to how many people that could feed for a year. Don't give it a thought and don't care either. Because they NEED those designer shoes at $2,600 a pair to go with their... show more
    Best answer: Please keep in mind that there are grown up women who spend $30,000+ a month on their makeup and clothing and don't give a thought to how many people that could feed for a year. Don't give it a thought and don't care either. Because they NEED those designer shoes at $2,600 a pair to go with their $11,000 dress for that party next Saturday night. They have so many needs. Are so involved with themselves that there is little room for anything else besides people just like them that don't care about the homeless or the hungry or the imprisoned or the stolen or the sick. The "aren't me and mine fabulous " folks.

    Please sit down and really give this a thought. Possessions flow through our lives and the people addicted to them will endlessly need more. And they are neither important nor meaningful. Be careful of what you choose to desire.

    We are marketed to before we can walk. It's natural to want, at least for a little while, the things we have been brainwashed, through advertising, to think are important. Just keep in mind that is all it really is. Brainwashing to purchase something that puts money into the pockets of the people who hire the marketers.
    7 answers · 3 days ago