• Video games ruined my life, what do I do?

    It all started when I was 12 and played call of duty (COD) for the first time. I instantly became addicted to it resulting in me getting very average grades in secondary school despite having a lot of potential. I was also very good at sport and could've potential gone professional, but video games drove me... show more
    It all started when I was 12 and played call of duty (COD) for the first time. I instantly became addicted to it resulting in me getting very average grades in secondary school despite having a lot of potential. I was also very good at sport and could've potential gone professional, but video games drove me away from the passion completely. After secondary school, I didn't want to go to college, but did anyway to keep my parents happy and took subjects that I had no interest in. I left college after 5 months as was a completely failure in the tutors and my parents have never forgiven me for this. I remember that Christmas my mom asked me what I wanted and all I said was Monster energy drinks. She bought me a whole crate full of them and I would down one after another so I could game all night. I hated myself but I loved video games. I actually became good at COD and went to a gaming event back in 2015 and I was completely ridiculed due to being small and introvert. I have not played COD since then and I try to avoid people as much as possible since. Fast forward to 2018, and now I don't play video games but my life's a mess, **** job, **** pay, **** life, no passions, no hobbies, nothing. Why can't I just go back in time and fix my life when I was 16. Now everything's just fucked because I couldn't put the controller down. PS. my 21st birthday was hilarious, went for a meal with family I hadn't seen for a while, and seeing the looks on their faces when I told them about me.
    38 answers · 2 days ago
  • How do I motivate myself?

    I'm not ending this year of high school with good grades. I have two days to change them but nothing will probably happen within that time. So I end with 2 A's, 3 B's, 2 C's and 1 D. My parents are really disappointed and keep lecturing me about how lazy I am and how I'm going to "end up... show more
    I'm not ending this year of high school with good grades. I have two days to change them but nothing will probably happen within that time. So I end with 2 A's, 3 B's, 2 C's and 1 D. My parents are really disappointed and keep lecturing me about how lazy I am and how I'm going to "end up just like my brother" and annoying stuff like that. They think I don't care about school and they think I can "do better than this." I do care about school. I do most of the assignments, they're just almost always late. Because I procrastinate. I just can't get myself to work on things quickly and now days I just want to do my own thing or nothing. It sounds kind of lazy but I think I might be depressed so I've been trying to see with stuff like online help and trying new things and stuff but nothing works. Both my parents were straight A students so they expect me to be the same. Unfortunately for them they didn't get a perfect kid who inherited their brains and self discipline. They think that because they're smart that I'm smart too and I should have straight A's as I "have the potential" (which basically means they're in denial of how stupid I am lmao). So they're no help at motivation at all and I feel pretty worthless. I'm probably burdening them because who wants a kid you're not proud of? Why would you want to go "oh yeah that one's mine" to the world pointing at some failure?
    14 answers · 2 days ago
  • Guy threatening to kill himself it’s making me uncomfortable what do I do?

    He is messaging me on Facebook threatening to kill himself
    He is messaging me on Facebook threatening to kill himself
    17 answers · 14 hours ago
  • How pathetic is this man?

    Best answer: He's not pathetic. The person who has asked this "question" 20+ times is the pathetic one. I gather you approached this man and he refused your advances? I thought R.N.s had to be able to spell. EDIT: You seem to be very confused: “What kond of person you think I am? When i was 20 I had kids... show more
    Best answer: He's not pathetic.

    The person who has asked this "question" 20+ times is the pathetic one. I gather you approached this man and he refused your advances?

    I thought R.N.s had to be able to spell.

    EDIT: You seem to be very confused: “What kond of person you think I am? When i was 20 I had kids with a man who would eventually end up in and out of jail. I dropped out of school in the 9th grade. Work fast food and weigh...I'm 34 now.” https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index...
    19 answers · 2 days ago
  • F**ked Up?

    I'm 18 and currently doing level 1 functional skills. When I was 16 I failed all of my GCSEs getting a lot of Us and 1 E, I was bullied, I was dealing with depression, anxiety and barely revised. I want to do Criminology and Psychology at University but I'm struggling to find somewhere to allow me to... show more
    I'm 18 and currently doing level 1 functional skills. When I was 16 I failed all of my GCSEs getting a lot of Us and 1 E, I was bullied, I was dealing with depression, anxiety and barely revised. I want to do Criminology and Psychology at University but I'm struggling to find somewhere to allow me to retake Double Science, I've found a Pre Access course to retake English and Maths but I need to revise to get on to the course for next year, luckily you don't already need grades for it but I found a Trilogy Science course you need a D to get on to, I have an E, they're saying it's a big jump to pass and get Cs/4s or above from an E, I'm feeling like I'm completely f**ked my life up failing GCSEs I mean what can I do? I don't want to be working class my whole life when it's bad enough being born into it, my sibling made it out, got great grades, studied a good degree and got a good job, I want that to happen to me but I had a worse start by having to cope with very bad mental health unlike them, if I knew how important GCSEs were, had help from others and didn't have the problems I had I probably would of passed, I just couldn't concentrate on revising and missed a lot of school. I need advice.
    5 answers · 2 days ago
  • Do you think people who are in a relationship have higher self esteem then single people?

    Best answer: If it's a sexual relatinship, there's a certain contentment to be had, but people's basic personalities don't change by becoming paired.
    Best answer: If it's a sexual relatinship, there's a certain contentment to be had, but people's basic personalities don't change by becoming paired.
    10 answers · 9 hours ago
  • Are actions good or evil?

    Best answer: Some actions can be good or evil. It also depends on the circumstances. Generally a person stabbing someone in the chest is a bad thing...unless the person is a surgeon and they are performing a life saving procedure. It's not just the action but also the intent of the actor.
    Best answer: Some actions can be good or evil. It also depends on the circumstances. Generally a person stabbing someone in the chest is a bad thing...unless the person is a surgeon and they are performing a life saving procedure. It's not just the action but also the intent of the actor.
    21 answers · 4 days ago
  • What type of men are worthy of marrying the type of women who save themselves for future husband / marriage?

    I know that there are women who save themselves for future husband/ marriage They exist I know they do They are super rare Rarer than gold and diamonds in this modern day and age The men who are able to marry them are very lucky and blessed Just what type of man does it take to be able to marry and win... show more
    I know that there are women who save themselves for future husband/ marriage They exist I know they do They are super rare Rarer than gold and diamonds in this modern day and age The men who are able to marry them are very lucky and blessed Just what type of man does it take to be able to marry and win these type of women’s heart ? What must a man do to gain such a woman’s heart and love ? What separates the men who finish in first place from the men who finish dead last ??
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why is that when i tell people I want to marry a virgin woman people try to convince me that virginity isn't important in a woman?

    and that a non virgin woman can be just as good as a virgin woman if not better ? Even if I'm a virgin myself saving myself for marriage future wife? How is a man wanting a virgin any different than a woman wanting a tall handsome good looking high earning man etc even though women who demand such things... show more
    and that a non virgin woman can be just as good as a virgin woman if not better ? Even if I'm a virgin myself saving myself for marriage future wife? How is a man wanting a virgin any different than a woman wanting a tall handsome good looking high earning man etc even though women who demand such things of men are not any of those things themselves Why do people have a problem with my dating marriage preference don't we all have dating preferences for what we want in a partner Why is it such an issue problem that a man who is a virgin put virginity chastity purity as one of those things on his deal breaker list
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • How to forget a heartbreak?

    Best answer: You can't, babe. You have to move on, be strong.
    Best answer: You can't, babe. You have to move on, be strong.
    9 answers · 2 days ago
  • Most painless method of suicide?

    what would the most painless method be? I always hear that sitting in the car and letting it run would be painless but it says it can cause painful headache? is this true?
    what would the most painless method be? I always hear that sitting in the car and letting it run would be painless but it says it can cause painful headache? is this true?
    6 answers · 9 hours ago
  • Spiritually speaking: does anyone else ever get sick of having to speak/think/breathe "Logic" all the time?

    To the point that the FIRST thing on most people's mind is always: "well, is it logical, though?" Ever felt like saying: "f*ck it!", and becoming something else instead? Like... handing out answers that are not dictated by whether or not something is *logical*, but just simply by whatever... show more
    To the point that the FIRST thing on most people's mind is always: "well, is it logical, though?" Ever felt like saying: "f*ck it!", and becoming something else instead? Like... handing out answers that are not dictated by whether or not something is *logical*, but just simply by whatever colors, images, emotions and sensations are moving inside you, at any given moment? I used to be all like: "let's rebel against this dreary, soulless bullsh*t, man!" But it's not even THAT anymore.. It's just, my brain no longer works that way. Unless I bloody force it to. Which is.. well.. boring. Ever felt like you'd rather create a story than win an argument? That dreams are just as real, and just as impactful, as academic propositions? Or that maybe you just don't care anymore, trying to define what's what... In short: I wish more people on here were slightly mad, perhaps. And that more real life people couldn't sleep right now, because insomnia. Grrrrrrr.
    19 answers · 4 days ago
  • Is this normal?

    Best answer: Normal. Your body is turning on the “notice sexual differences” progam, which in a child is undeveloped, and in an adult, is even more developed than yours is now. Don’t worry about it.
    Best answer: Normal. Your body is turning on the “notice sexual differences” progam, which in a child is undeveloped, and in an adult, is even more developed than yours is now. Don’t worry about it.
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • Atheists if I was made in the image of god then why am I not Invisible?

    Best answer: Because christianiy is occultism and nothing about the occult makes sense because it is all man made stuff that has nothing to do with the reality of the universe we all live in
    Best answer: Because christianiy is occultism and nothing about the occult makes sense because it is all man made stuff that has nothing to do with the reality of the universe we all live in
    9 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is this the subconscious mind or something else?

    First of all I have a massive fear of death that had been increasing the past few weeks before this started. So this began about two months ago, I started randomly having words pop into my head, all related to death. Words like "funeral" or "cemetary" or "grave" and they all started... show more
    First of all I have a massive fear of death that had been increasing the past few weeks before this started. So this began about two months ago, I started randomly having words pop into my head, all related to death. Words like "funeral" or "cemetary" or "grave" and they all started coming into my mind at times when I wasn't even thinking about it. There were about 5 other words over the course of a few weeks that came into my mind. All that stopped for a while, but then yesterday, I was sitting watching TV, and all the sudden I get this sort of image or "clip" in my mind of myself having a heart attack (I'm only 15). Is this my mind telling me that my fear is getting bigger? I also do not believe in precognition or any sort of psychic abilities, but my mind is sort of rewiring the way I think and even though I myself do not believe in that, my mind has it set where that was a premonition of my own death. I'm a mess as you can tell and I'm probably going crazy, but can someone please tell me, or at least guess, as to what this could be?
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • I feel like I should commit suicide. But I don't know how?

    I can't breath, I can't go on. I need ideas on how to commit suicide fast.
    I can't breath, I can't go on. I need ideas on how to commit suicide fast.
    25 answers · 6 days ago