• WHY DO I HATE LIFE SO MUCH. AND HOW COULD I POSSIBLY CHANGE THIS?

    i hate it so much that i cant see myself living til an old age.or else i'd go crazy. because of life, i have a very short temper, anger, life long social anxiety and severe depression. i dont know, but to me existing on this planet is a piece of shiit. i have to deal with encountering rude people even when i... show more
    i hate it so much that i cant see myself living til an old age.or else i'd go crazy. because of life, i have a very short temper, anger, life long social anxiety and severe depression. i dont know, but to me existing on this planet is a piece of shiit. i have to deal with encountering rude people even when i try to be calm, respectful, and nice, they give me back attitude. this doesnt happen to me all the time. but more often than not.. the negativity. and it affects me, and makes me hate people as a whole. it's hard for me to be a positive person and look at life as a happy and good thing. thats why im a loner and have no friends, still a virgin. i cant understand people's behaviors and actions. and why they would act a certain way that could bother me. i even hate myself. i hate how me, as well as many others gotta struggle in the rat race. in this system. everything is so repetive and boring. people have to be poor. or they have a job and most of them hate their jobs, they just have to do it to pay their bills nad just to survive. all because of the system i just cant stand life and i wish i could change my view, or my reality, for my own mental health and well being. as life keeps throwing me this same shiit, my mind state on it cant change. i wish i could though. but if life and people cant become nicer and more open, i cant keep on surviving. i would seriously end up killing at least somebody, and/or myself.
    40 answers · 3 days ago
  • To be honest, I don't understand how rape is possible?

    Now listen, force and energy is needed to subdue the woman and keep her that way. But wait, when you begin to have sex or even start getting aroused, you sort of become weak. How is it possible to be struggling with a girl, fighting her off and having sex at the exact same time?????? I don't know if you all are... show more
    Now listen, force and energy is needed to subdue the woman and keep her that way. But wait, when you begin to have sex or even start getting aroused, you sort of become weak. How is it possible to be struggling with a girl, fighting her off and having sex at the exact same time?????? I don't know if you all are getting my point.. Maybe with a very young girl it's possible, and that's a maybe for me. But a grown woman???? Or is it that once the lady is penetrated, she begins to enjoy it and stops struggling?? But still to get that point is not easy. Seriously I just don't get it.
    23 answers · 1 day ago
  • My life is so boring, what do i do?

    Best answer: It is an illusion that people live exciting lives all the time. For most people, their lives are filled with repetitive drudgery like getting up, washing yourself, making your bed, having the same breakfast, talking to the same people every morning at home, getting into transport and going to work or school. Every... show more
    Best answer: It is an illusion that people live exciting lives all the time. For most people, their lives are filled with repetitive drudgery like getting up, washing yourself, making your bed, having the same breakfast, talking to the same people every morning at home, getting into transport and going to work or school. Every day the same process. Then school, or work, is also largely the same repetition every day. Coming home, it is the same old TV programs, the same boring jokes. The same news on the tv about crime or politics or sport.

    When you read about the lives of movie stars, they say the same thing. They do one scene over and over until they get it right. The same people in their face all the time, the cameras, extras, the shouting and stop start over and over.

    The movies give us the wrong idea. Action all the time. Fun and laughter all the time, is Hollywood. Not the real world. Human beings cannot live on a continuous high. People who take drugs try to do this, but as you know, drugs will eventually destroy everything, especially if you are desperate for that continuous feeling of excitement.

    Instead, you should accept that life is mostly dull routine. However, you can take control of the little bit of leisure time you have. That you can make more exciting, to compensate for the rest of the more routine time.

    You can start by asking yourself what specifically did you enjoy at your sister's place ? Think carefully about what made you feel good or what was so enjoyable. Was it what they were doing eg playing games or talking about things, or joking or just listening to you ? You see, once you can establish what exactly it is that you enjoy, then you can start doing similar things with your friends or family or other relatives.

    So you have two tasks to get this monkey off your back. Firstly accept that life is routine and often boring for most people on this planet. Then take control of your life by learning what you enjoy doing and go out and do those things in your personal and recreation time.
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • I think i want to commit suicide... but is that a bad idea?

    I don’t really like who i am... i like myself but i don’t like how i feel... i feel like i never can feel the way i want to. I always feel ways that i don’t want to feel. And i also have some hate going on in my life and there is no way to solve it with someone. The only person that can solve hatefulness is me. And... show more
    I don’t really like who i am... i like myself but i don’t like how i feel... i feel like i never can feel the way i want to. I always feel ways that i don’t want to feel. And i also have some hate going on in my life and there is no way to solve it with someone. The only person that can solve hatefulness is me. And i also have so many thoughts that come to my mind that are annoying or change my feelings. But i won’t commit suicide because I’m too coward to do it.
    15 answers · 2 days ago
  • Anxiety and fear of rabies 7 months later while pregnant..?

    So about 7 months ago beginning of March I took my dog to the vet as I was waiting to get her from the back a family walked by with their small black doxin he was happy and looked normal but he had jumped on the back of my leg out of excitement leaving a small red scratch.. After he proceeded to diahrrea on the... show more
    So about 7 months ago beginning of March I took my dog to the vet as I was waiting to get her from the back a family walked by with their small black doxin he was happy and looked normal but he had jumped on the back of my leg out of excitement leaving a small red scratch.. After he proceeded to diahrrea on the floor... I didn t think much of it as he was at the vet and I have a dog that I often have To deal with loose stools. Now here I am 7 months later and pregnant and have developed a crippling fear of having or developing rabies virus... I have had terrible headaches the feeling something is in my throat and sensitivity to light is it possible I was exposed to rabies or am I over reacting? I wasn t worried about it then but now I m thinking how stupid could I have been not to get shots after that happened 7 months ago?!? Basically I m living everyday like I have a death sentence.
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • What do I do when my mother keeps saying to me, "You haven't even given me a grand child?"?

    Best answer: She's from a different time that held different traditions. Grandchildren are just a way for your parents to know their family will carry on after they're gone (plus it gives them an excuse to play with a tiny baby human again and act like a child while they talk in a nonsense baby voice). But ultimately... show more
    Best answer: She's from a different time that held different traditions. Grandchildren are just a way for your parents to know their family will carry on after they're gone (plus it gives them an excuse to play with a tiny baby human again and act like a child while they talk in a nonsense baby voice). But ultimately its your choice as to whether or not you have children. They certainly can't make you do anything. Its, technically, just a selfish guilt trip to get what they want without thinking about what you want. They gave you life, so grandchildren are basically like a payment to the invisible debt that you owe them. Do whatever you want and don't feel bad for having your own personal choices and opinions.
    9 answers · 2 days ago
  • Someone coughing, sniffing, or clearing their throat makes me want to punch the living **** out of them?

    Why!? It makes me feel psychopathic but when someone is chocking on water I just have the urge to yell at them and hurt them. Even if it isn’t even their fault. What is this???
    Why!? It makes me feel psychopathic but when someone is chocking on water I just have the urge to yell at them and hurt them. Even if it isn’t even their fault. What is this???
    7 answers · 4 hours ago
  • What is it like being an introvert?

    Best answer: I am an introvert, and I will tell you. For me, I do not mind being alone for hours or even days without interacting with anyone else but my family. For extroverts, extrovert usually prefer the company of friends the majority of the time. Introverts are mainly self-kept to themselves and try their best not to draw... show more
    Best answer: I am an introvert, and I will tell you. For me, I do not mind being alone for hours or even days without interacting with anyone else but my family. For extroverts, extrovert usually prefer the company of friends the majority of the time. Introverts are mainly self-kept to themselves and try their best not to draw attention to themselves in public, lest they become embarrassed. oh dear. When I do want to hang with someone, I want to hang with someone who I have known for years, and hung out with on occasions outside of a daily activity, aka school.
    In public and loud places, I also have a tendency to ignore everything going on around me.

    As an introvert, I also hate going to group activities, such as youth groups, school events, and other things, especially by myself, if I went with a friend, it is a little more bearable. Also for me, I usually keep my friend numbers minimal, this gives me a chance to learn about each one in depth, and to spend time with each one. I keep my friend numbers usually below 5, but also it may be because I can't seem to make more than 2-3 friends. I am socially awkward, was not gifted the extrovert genes. XD

    So to wrap it up, introverts are:

    Anti-Social
    Usually kept to themselves
    Do not like attention drawn to them
    Prefer to be alone
    Usually, do not like group activities
    Socially Awkward
    Quiet, but become extremely chatty when you get to know one.
    and more, but this is just the basis.


    NEVER think that all introverts are lonely. Some of us are lonely, but some of us are just selective. Meaning we specifically choose certain people to interact with, and we are happy with the minimal friends we have. We do not need a lot of people to make us feel known. Just the attention of one friend could be enough.

    Hope this helped. :3
    9 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why do i feel the need to feel superior to this girl who rejected me?

    My ego has immensely been hurt by the rejection. There are times when i feel superior to her.I think I'm way more attractive than her and way more intelligent as well....but i don't her so well so maybe i could be wrong and i keep fearing that. There are times when i actually thank God for that i was... show more
    My ego has immensely been hurt by the rejection. There are times when i feel superior to her.I think I'm way more attractive than her and way more intelligent as well....but i don't her so well so maybe i could be wrong and i keep fearing that. There are times when i actually thank God for that i was rejected in the first place.There is no feeling better than feeling superior to the girl who rejected you.....and you cannot enjoy this feeling unless actually get rejected. The fear that i may be wrong and i may actually be inferior and that troubles me immensely.I can't take that humiliation.There was a day when she did something better than me.....i was devastated.....so devastated that i felt i should have died before seeing such a day. It would be extremely scary if i ever get a proof that I'm an indeed inferior to her.I feel that dieing is much better knowing that I'm inferior to that girl. Let's assume that I'm wrong and that girl is indeed way more attractive and talented than me and surpasses me in every area of life....then i how do i deal with it.....how do i move on knowing that I'm inferior to her?
    6 answers · 12 hours ago
  • Trying to change my life but I just can't get myself to do it?

    Fat, Depressed, Use electronics too much bought a gym pass but I never use it too lazy to do anything. No jobs will hire and im just upset I don't know what to do.
    Fat, Depressed, Use electronics too much bought a gym pass but I never use it too lazy to do anything. No jobs will hire and im just upset I don't know what to do.
    19 answers · 6 days ago
  • Did weed really affect my brain and change me, or am i wrong?

    Hello, i am a 16 year old and this summer i got high for the very first time, i ate an edible which was way too strong for me and i had an axiety attack and was panicking. After this i feel like im not the same anymore. I can t really remember things as well as i used to, and i dont feel like im aware as i used to... show more
    Hello, i am a 16 year old and this summer i got high for the very first time, i ate an edible which was way too strong for me and i had an axiety attack and was panicking. After this i feel like im not the same anymore. I can t really remember things as well as i used to, and i dont feel like im aware as i used to be, everything feels like a dream. I also have been getting dreams where i can f distinguish if its reality or a dream, ive numerously woken up asking my family or boyfriend if i told them or did a certain thing and they would say no. Ive been so stressed and sad, i wish i never ate that edible but i dont know if it really is the cause of my change, what do you think??
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • How can I be more motivated to take showers?

    Edit I'm a 17 year old girl and I've HATED taking showers since I was a kid. In fact, I hate taking care of my personal hygiene in general. I barely even brush my teeth and live off of gum. My mom set this new rule for me: I have to shower everyday at 4pm. I know why I have to shower, but I feel like... show more
    Edit I'm a 17 year old girl and I've HATED taking showers since I was a kid. In fact, I hate taking care of my personal hygiene in general. I barely even brush my teeth and live off of gum. My mom set this new rule for me: I have to shower everyday at 4pm. I know why I have to shower, but I feel like it's such a tiring task. It only takes 5 minutes but I hate it. When I'm in the shower, it's fine. But when I'm getting ready for the shower, my mood is just bad. Why do I hate showers so much and how can I hate them less? Just for some background information, I usually shower once a week. I know it sounds disgusting, but this is how much I dread showers. I just feel like I could be doing something much better with my time. And I don't get sick or any infections. I don't have a fear or hatred of water, I just think it's too much effort to wash myself. I'm not sexually active.
    7 answers · 17 hours ago
  • Guy stalking me???

    So basically I was at my house and I decided to look at the snap map and it showed my friend was only a road away from me when his house is much farther away so I was like wow he’s near me today and I checked a few minutes later and it said I was WITH him! Which means he’s extremely close and I’m at my house so I... show more
    So basically I was at my house and I decided to look at the snap map and it showed my friend was only a road away from me when his house is much farther away so I was like wow he’s near me today and I checked a few minutes later and it said I was WITH him! Which means he’s extremely close and I’m at my house so I started to close the blinds out of creep and I saw him run away from the window and now I’m scared and then he started knocking on my windows and door and shot one of my windows and smashed it pls help I’m crying
    12 answers · 5 days ago