• Found my 17 year old sisters vodka. What do I do?

    So my sister stole ten dollars from me while I was sleeping and while I was home alone I snooped through her room and found vodka. She is a douche to me (as you can see by the fact she took my money, plus she hits me for no reason), so I was thinking I should tell or maybe even make her pay me off. What should I do?
    So my sister stole ten dollars from me while I was sleeping and while I was home alone I snooped through her room and found vodka. She is a douche to me (as you can see by the fact she took my money, plus she hits me for no reason), so I was thinking I should tell or maybe even make her pay me off. What should I do?
    22 answers · 4 days ago
  • Is lusting over your child sexual abuse?

    Best answer: He's already been sexually abusing you for years with grossly inappropriate touching. You can get him stopped and get help for yourself by telling a teacher, a nurse, a doctor, a police officer, call 911, call Child Protective Services, tell them what's been happening to you. Don't bother telling your... show more
    Best answer: He's already been sexually abusing you for years with grossly inappropriate touching. You can get him stopped and get help for yourself by telling a teacher, a nurse, a doctor, a police officer, call 911, call Child Protective Services, tell them what's been happening to you.
    Don't bother telling your mother. Chances are she's well aware of what her husband's been doing to you and either doesn't care to stop it or blames you (you are NOT at fault). He is NOT being playful --- he is a sexual predator. I've seen many mothers abandon their kids like this. Get help and get out of there as soon as possible.
    24 answers · 5 days ago
  • My dad loves my cousin more than me?

    My cousin is 15 while I am 18, she is a straight A student and what my family considers a role model, she always chats with my father and they have a really close relationship, he buys her whatever she wants and always takes her out but never does such things for me, the man doesn t even want to hold a proper... show more
    My cousin is 15 while I am 18, she is a straight A student and what my family considers a role model, she always chats with my father and they have a really close relationship, he buys her whatever she wants and always takes her out but never does such things for me, the man doesn t even want to hold a proper discussion with me, he even brought her home and I know it wasn t right but I read her discussion about my father and they were talking about how I have psychological issues and I m a total ****, my dad was totally on her side. Needless to say that she has always been friendly to me but insulting me behind my back. A few days ago my mother told me my father loves her more because she is the ideal daughter he always wanted to have. I don t know what to think of all of this.
    7 answers · 13 hours ago
  • My Mom gets mad when I see my Dad, her ex, and his family. What is a good reply when she starts to chew me out that will calm the situation?

    Best answer: "You picked him to be my father, not me." "I wouldn't stand for it if he talked badly about you, and I won't stand for you talking about him." "When you try to manipulate me about seeing Dad, it shows you have unresolved emotions. Get some therapy." "I am as much his as I... show more
    Best answer: "You picked him to be my father, not me."
    "I wouldn't stand for it if he talked badly about you, and I won't stand for you talking about him."
    "When you try to manipulate me about seeing Dad, it shows you have unresolved emotions. Get some therapy."
    "I am as much his as I am yours."
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • Is my baby daddy a bad dad?

    I wonder because our 3 year old son lives with me and I do school drop and pick up and sees his dad on weekends sometimes. His dad is not working now. Sometimes his dad only ask to see him like every other weekend or 2 weekends out the month because he’s gets overwhelmed and frustrated when his son comes by. I... show more
    I wonder because our 3 year old son lives with me and I do school drop and pick up and sees his dad on weekends sometimes. His dad is not working now. Sometimes his dad only ask to see him like every other weekend or 2 weekends out the month because he’s gets overwhelmed and frustrated when his son comes by. I feel so bad because my son always ask for his dad but he doesn’t understand that his dad doesn’t want to see him as much.
    7 answers · 16 hours ago
  • HELP I FOUND NUDES ON MY MUMS PHONE AND IM REALLY GROSSED OUT!!?

    I was have a tooth ache so I asked my mum to take a photo of my teeth and once I deleted the photo I went into deleted album on her iPhone and saw a pic on her v*gina and we both just kinda pretended it wast there I gave her my phone back but I can’t get over it ,it makes me feel sick no child should have to see... show more
    I was have a tooth ache so I asked my mum to take a photo of my teeth and once I deleted the photo I went into deleted album on her iPhone and saw a pic on her v*gina and we both just kinda pretended it wast there I gave her my phone back but I can’t get over it ,it makes me feel sick no child should have to see his mother’s bits
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • My mum only lets me have 1 hour on my phone a day and controls me...help?

    I'm 15 and for the 2 years, my mum has put this app on my phone that restricts all my apps and only lets me use them for 1 hour a day. I don't know if this is me being a brat but I find it the WORST. All my friends have access to their phones whenever they want and they seem fine. Although, my mum hates my... show more
    I'm 15 and for the 2 years, my mum has put this app on my phone that restricts all my apps and only lets me use them for 1 hour a day. I don't know if this is me being a brat but I find it the WORST. All my friends have access to their phones whenever they want and they seem fine. Although, my mum hates my friends because they go out to parties. She calls them "dumb sluts" There's these 2 other girls who I'm friends with who she loves as they're both smart, one is smarter than me, one I'd say isn't. They both get to have their phones like normal and they're smart and whatever so I don't understand my mums logic. I mention that and ask to have my phone like normal but she says "don't you dare compare yourself to those two girls you're very different to them". But I'm not! If anything, I'm smarter! I hate my mum, she can never say anything good about me and thinks (and treats me) like a piece of ****. I'm sick of it, I'm sick of being controlled by her! I ask if I can have my phone for a trial day where I have it unlimited and she can see if I'm on it the whole day. That's her whole concern - that I'll be on it all day. But she says no to this! How can you know, if you don't try! It's bullshit. She brings up what happened 2 YEARS AGO, when I was 13 and just got my phone and had it unlimited and yeah, I'll admit I was on it a lot. Not all day, probably 3 hours a day. But that was 2 YEARS AGO. As you get older, you're meant to get more privileges. Is this unfair?
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • What is it like having a half sibling?

    Okay, so my dad and my stepmother are having a baby... and we don’t know the gender yet. However, there is going to be a huge age gap between me and the kid. I’m really hoping for a sister, because then I can buy her cute things like dresses, dolls, pink colored toys, hair bows, etc. I get if it turns out to be a... show more
    Okay, so my dad and my stepmother are having a baby... and we don’t know the gender yet. However, there is going to be a huge age gap between me and the kid. I’m really hoping for a sister, because then I can buy her cute things like dresses, dolls, pink colored toys, hair bows, etc. I get if it turns out to be a boy there’s nothing I can really do, but I would prefer a girl. What’s it like having a sibling? I’ve been an only child my whole life and I have no idea what it will be like... and is it wrong to want one gender over the other?
    4 answers · 3 days ago
  • I just learned my Dad is not my real father. Do I confront him about this or just keep it a secret I know?

    I did one of those DNA ancestry tests and learned someone else is my father and he is even on the Ancestry system and has shared his name. I want to contact him but know the story first. My account is named "Private" so it will show to others how I am related but I didn't put my full name. Now I want... show more
    I did one of those DNA ancestry tests and learned someone else is my father and he is even on the Ancestry system and has shared his name. I want to contact him but know the story first. My account is named "Private" so it will show to others how I am related but I didn't put my full name. Now I want to meet this father as I see he lives only 35 minutes from me and I actually know his sister and her kids and have met him. Do I confront my Dad who raised me who I know is not my real Dad? Do I tell my Mom? Right now no one knows. I am 19, almost 20, and a rising sophomore at University of Toledo.
    7 answers · 12 hours ago
  • My sister and I got in a fight about ice cream. What should I do?

    Best answer: It's not about ice cream. Find out what else is going on- are you dating someone she likes? Is something not going well for her, and she's frustrated that they may be going well for you? Being only a year apart is both good and bad. You have far too many things in common, and sometimes that creates... show more
    Best answer: It's not about ice cream.
    Find out what else is going on- are you dating someone she likes?
    Is something not going well for her, and she's frustrated that they may be going well for you?
    Being only a year apart is both good and bad. You have far too many things in common, and sometimes that creates competition. It's worse when you are so close.
    If you are under 25, your brains are also still growing, and people can change overnight.

    Slip a note under her door. "I'm sorry. Whatever this is, I love you, and I always will."
    And then give her some space.
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • Should I tell my girlfriend that I have a daughter?

    Best answer: Depends on you relationship. Is it new, as it's probably to early to say anything yet. If you've been together a while and you think it's going to continue, then it's best to tell her now so she knows what she's getting into, also you will know how she feels about it. If you cannot be honest... show more
    Best answer: Depends on you relationship. Is it new, as it's probably to early to say anything yet. If you've been together a while and you think it's going to continue, then it's best to tell her now so she knows what she's getting into, also you will know how she feels about it. If you cannot be honest and true full to your partner then what kind of relationship have you got.? Sit her down and tell her
    61 answers · 7 days ago
  • Am I wrong to be upset at my parents in this situation?

    Okay for starters I was adopted & I have always felt that she treats me very differently from her biological children. I live three hours away from my parents & I visit when I can. My mom has been raising her two grandchildren from my sister for over a year & I know that my mom has been under a lot... show more
    Okay for starters I was adopted & I have always felt that she treats me very differently from her biological children. I live three hours away from my parents & I visit when I can. My mom has been raising her two grandchildren from my sister for over a year & I know that my mom has been under a lot of stress & has been trying to get my sister to take her children back. Last week I drove back home to spend some time with my mom & my nephews, I spent about four days there & spent a lot of money. During my visit my mom tells me that the kids will be flying to be with their mom in a few days & that the airport that they would be flying from was in my city, my mom made a point to say that they could stop by and pick me up & then we all go to the airport & I said “Okay”. I leave from my visit with her last Monday. During the week I only spoke to my mom once and I asked her if the plan was still the same in regards to picking me up before going to th airport, she says Yeah Today is the day that she dropped them off and their flight was at 11am, my parents never called or text me to tell me anything, it now 10:00pm and I have yet to hear from them but according to my sister after they dropped the kids off they stopped by my other sisters house and hung out with her for hours. I rarely see them, how could they come to the town I live in & not say hello. It makes me so upset. I would never go back home without seeing them. I refuse to call or text her. Am I wrong to be upset?
    7 answers · 12 hours ago
  • Are these good enough reasons to discard my sister?

    She would eat my snacks, take anything she wants from my room (she used to cut my clothes because they looked boring to her) & taking my underwear She recently got head lice & I begged her not to sleep in my room but she didn't listen. I had a desktop computer & I shared shared that with her.... show more
    She would eat my snacks, take anything she wants from my room (she used to cut my clothes because they looked boring to her) & taking my underwear She recently got head lice & I begged her not to sleep in my room but she didn't listen. I had a desktop computer & I shared shared that with her. Later she asked the computer to be kept in her room. So I gave her that & later I bought a surface laptop. As soon as I got that laptop she threw away the desktop computer & continued using my laptop instead. And then she wanted to buy Mac computer out of my dad's pocket. After arguments & disagreements, i decided to give my computer to her & buy a cheaper computer for me to save money. The worst part is when she deleted my files in my old computer even though I requested her to not do it just yet until I have copied them. I am tired of her & I just wish she leaves me alone. I don't even want her as my sister because she doesn't do me anything good. Am I being reasonable?
    7 answers · 14 hours ago
  • Death of our dog caused family feud?

    Our family's dog of 11 years was sadly put to sleep this week. She had a malignant tumor. Both my older brother and myself live 3 hours from home. And we wanted to be there for our dog's final moments. My parents had a vacation planned this week and coincidentally the dog was put to sleep the day before... show more
    Our family's dog of 11 years was sadly put to sleep this week. She had a malignant tumor. Both my older brother and myself live 3 hours from home. And we wanted to be there for our dog's final moments. My parents had a vacation planned this week and coincidentally the dog was put to sleep the day before they went on vacation. Both my older brother and I had offered to watch Molly while they were on the trip. They declined our offer and said they were going to postpone the vacation until Molly passed away. I spoke with my mom a few hours before they took her to the vet and they said she said was in pain but they were keeping her comfortable. That evening I got a text from my cousin saying she was sorry to hear about our dog's passing. I was confused no one told me she was being put to sleep. And I was angry I had to find out from a cousin who found out from my aunt (my mom's sister). I texted my 2 siblings that still live at home and no one responded. I didn't hear from anyone for 24 hours until my mom called me from her vacation. I was suspicious about what happened and when I asked my mom it caused a major fight. And they're denying the fact that it's ironic Molly was put to sleep the day before their trip.Now my parents are disowning myself and my older brother for being "rude" to them and accusing them of killing the dog out of convienence. Any advice would be helpful, thanks
    8 answers · 18 hours ago
  • My family won’t stop stealing my packages out of the mail, what do I do?

    Every time I order I package online my sister ends up getting the mail and steals my package, she either keeps it for herself or turns it over to my parents who if they don’t like/approve of what it is will try to get rid of it. What can I do to stop them from doing this?? Also they’ve been doing this as long as... show more
    Every time I order I package online my sister ends up getting the mail and steals my package, she either keeps it for herself or turns it over to my parents who if they don’t like/approve of what it is will try to get rid of it. What can I do to stop them from doing this?? Also they’ve been doing this as long as I’ve been able to buy things online
    6 answers · 1 hour ago
  • My stepmom moved in after my dad died, he left her with nothing, & now she thinks I owe her something. Can I evict her from my home?

    My father invested badly and lost almost everything. She was hoping to inherit a fortune, but that was lost due to my father's business practices and investments. How can I get it through her head that what I have I had worked hard for and I'm not going to compensate her for my father's bad decisions.
    My father invested badly and lost almost everything. She was hoping to inherit a fortune, but that was lost due to my father's business practices and investments. How can I get it through her head that what I have I had worked hard for and I'm not going to compensate her for my father's bad decisions.
    31 answers · 6 days ago
  • I’m a drug addict and my parents abandoned me?

    I feel that no matter what I do they still look down on me they didn’t help me to go through all my troubles before my drug abuse I helped them through their financial difficulties and now I feel like they abandoned me and I’m so depressed
    I feel that no matter what I do they still look down on me they didn’t help me to go through all my troubles before my drug abuse I helped them through their financial difficulties and now I feel like they abandoned me and I’m so depressed
    7 answers · 21 hours ago
  • Is she meddling with my finances?

    Every month, I take a third of my earnings and give them to an orphanage. It's my father's will and a family tradition. Most of my brothers do it. Anyway, I'm dating this woman and she thinks 'it's too much' and she wants me to stop it. I don't want to lose her, but doing what she says... show more
    Every month, I take a third of my earnings and give them to an orphanage. It's my father's will and a family tradition. Most of my brothers do it. Anyway, I'm dating this woman and she thinks 'it's too much' and she wants me to stop it. I don't want to lose her, but doing what she says is like spitting on my ancestors graves.
    7 answers · 2 days ago