• I think my mom is an alcoholic. What can I do?

    Best answer: My dear, I'm so sorry for what you are going through. You are very young and it must be depressing. I feel that you should talk to your teacher about it. A counsellor or social worker will help too. Perhaps your mother needs professional intervention. perhaps she is going through some issues and does not know... show more
    Best answer: My dear, I'm so sorry for what you are going through. You are very young and it must be depressing. I feel that you should talk to your teacher about it. A counsellor or social worker will help too. Perhaps your mother needs professional intervention. perhaps she is going through some issues and does not know how to fight it. Her addiction to alcohol MIGHT be a defense mechanism for the issues revolving around her.
    Talk to your teacher or counsellor. You need them to talk to, to get by too. Stay strong and I hope things get better as time goes by.
    8 answers · 14 hours ago
  • My mom says that If I move I better be moving out for the right reasons. Is she right?

    Best answer: "moving out for the right reason"? What the hell does that mean? If you are 18 and not in school...or even if you ARE in school, you should want to get away from the oppressive nature of what parents are naturally going to do with children. "MY HOUSE, MY RULES!" sort of bullcrap. If you HAVE a... show more
    Best answer: "moving out for the right reason"? What the hell does that mean? If you are 18 and not in school...or even if you ARE in school, you should want to get away from the oppressive nature of what parents are naturally going to do with children. "MY HOUSE, MY RULES!" sort of bullcrap.

    If you HAVE a job and can AFFORD to live in a place with even JUST a BEDROOM...(roomster.com) and you are happier...then DO IT.
    7 answers · 4 hours ago
  • Help!! I accidentally used my mums credit card for $1000!!?

    Best answer: You go to your mom and say, "I'm an idiot. I went crazy and accidentally used your credit card. Here's a check for $1000".
    Best answer: You go to your mom and say, "I'm an idiot. I went crazy and accidentally used your credit card. Here's a check for $1000".
    12 answers · 3 days ago
  • There is something going with my dad what should I do?

    I am worried about what is happening to my dad he is sending me all these weird text messages wanting to share a small bed together when I come see him. What is happening to my dad! Something is going on with his head or something because he is starting to scare me. Telling me he will buy me a new nighty and he... show more
    I am worried about what is happening to my dad he is sending me all these weird text messages wanting to share a small bed together when I come see him. What is happening to my dad! Something is going on with his head or something because he is starting to scare me. Telling me he will buy me a new nighty and he wants me. He is my ******* dad! I don't know what to do! Or how to help him? he needs help bad.
    5 answers · 9 hours ago
  • Found out my boyfriend watches really weird (Incest) porn?? What should I do?

    Ok so the other day I was doing homework while my bf fell asleep, my laptop died so I used his iPad to continue... I saw he had 3 tabs open of incest porn!! Daughter ***** dad, and siblings ******* siblings type ****.... I honestly don’t know what to do.. I’m worried he’s a pedo or something and I’m not sure I... show more
    Ok so the other day I was doing homework while my bf fell asleep, my laptop died so I used his iPad to continue... I saw he had 3 tabs open of incest porn!! Daughter ***** dad, and siblings ******* siblings type ****.... I honestly don’t know what to do.. I’m worried he’s a pedo or something and I’m not sure I should stay with him! I tried to call him out tonight on what I saw, and he said it was nothing and that he couldn’t stay up and talk about it... (he DOES have class at 8:00 am so I get why he wouldn’t wanna stay up to explain). Is this just a weird kink??? Or should I be concerned/see this as a red flag??
    16 answers · 4 days ago
  • My girlfriends daughter has started making references to me being "dad"?

    My girlfriend and I have been friends for over 17 years. We lost touch for a year or so and during that time, she had her daughter. The child's biologic dad was around to begin with but hasn't been in the picture since she was 6 months old. When the little one was almost 2, we got back in touch and... show more
    My girlfriend and I have been friends for over 17 years. We lost touch for a year or so and during that time, she had her daughter. The child's biologic dad was around to begin with but hasn't been in the picture since she was 6 months old. When the little one was almost 2, we got back in touch and started meeting up etc. Her daughter is now almost four. Five weeks ago, my "friend" and I decided to get together (our friends and families are really happy and said it was long overdue). Everything is going great, but after a week her daughter asked me am I going to be her dad? Me and her mother were shocked and we both said, no... not yet and reassured her that I would always be around etc. She's always telling me how much she loves me. Over the last few days, while watching tv etc, she keeps referring to me as the "daddy". For example, we can be watching a show about bears and she's would say you can be the daddy one and I'm the baby one... then makes out she wants to call me dad but doesn't know how to approach the subject. I love her as though she was my own, but me and her mother don't live together at the moment. I try to see them during the week and at weekends because I'm always at work. Should me and her mother have a chat with her and tell her that she can call me dad? I don't want to keep brushing over it and rejecting her. However, I don't want to rush things and make her more confused. Any advice appreciated. Thanks in advance.
    7 answers · 16 hours ago
  • My fiancee's dad wants him to do something that will make our lives more difficult and costly right before we get married?

    Long story. When my now fiancee was a teenager, an unexpected pregnancy came about the night he lost his virginity. When the baby was born, he was still a kid himself. That same year his mother had suddenly died and that caused his dad to run away to the north where he started a new life immediately. Yeah, ... show more
    Long story. When my now fiancee was a teenager, an unexpected pregnancy came about the night he lost his virginity. When the baby was born, he was still a kid himself. That same year his mother had suddenly died and that caused his dad to run away to the north where he started a new life immediately. Yeah, he abandoned his teenage son. After she had the baby her entire family lost their minds and pressured him to stay around or they'd sue. Please believe me when I say neither I or him have dramatic lives and deal with heart breaking decisions every other day. That was just an unfortunate set circumstances that happened to a regular teenage boy. Mistakes were made, but he learned. When he was 19 he got away from her and that family. He wanted nothing to do with any of them, not even the kid. Had he been older when all of this happened, he may have had more of an obligation. Because he was so young and his Ex-girlfrirnds parents took legal custody of the kid at the time, he managed to escape. Modern day: we're in our mid-20's and two weeks away from getting married. Suddenly, his dad wants him go see his ex and the kid. He hasn't spoken to those people in years, and he's expected to just get up and do this for... Whatever reason? When he said no, his dad actually replied with: If I were you, I would do it. I didn't abandon you. Except he DID. Something about all of this feels off. Advice, please?
    6 answers · 2 hours ago
  • Why did my mom not try to get me and my brother back from Child Protective Services?

    What happened was right when me and my twin brother were born, child protective services took us away right out of my mom's arms and I'm just wondering why after all these years my mother never tried to get us back or contact us. I am out of child protective services now because I'm no longer a minor.... show more
    What happened was right when me and my twin brother were born, child protective services took us away right out of my mom's arms and I'm just wondering why after all these years my mother never tried to get us back or contact us. I am out of child protective services now because I'm no longer a minor. I understand if she couldn't but then again I didn't see a reason why she couldn't.
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • I hate living with my mom because of her boyfriend. How can I improve my situation?

    I hate hearing my moms boyfriend even his redneck voice is super annoying. He trys to be so extra with his redneck voice. Especially at dinner time, I can’t stand his smart *** attitude and how he try’s to be funny and isn’t. Today he got upset because my mom and I bought the “wrong” car seat for my niece, like... show more
    I hate hearing my moms boyfriend even his redneck voice is super annoying. He trys to be so extra with his redneck voice. Especially at dinner time, I can’t stand his smart *** attitude and how he try’s to be funny and isn’t. Today he got upset because my mom and I bought the “wrong” car seat for my niece, like whats it to him? It’s just a damn car seat but he said “this doesn’t work”. It works fine just like any car seat is meant to work! He’s an a**hole who never answers my mom when she’s asking him if he wants green beans or any other food we’re having for dinner, like she has to guess what he wants. He acts like he’s doing my mom the favor. He always watches his tv super loud and I’m trying to study. He has his own business so he’s hardworking and my mom loves him but I don’t. My mom says don’t move or don’t leave school but how am i supposed to concentrate when I live in this noisy unhappiness? How do I get over his dumb comments and personality? I have tried to get over it but I’m so tired and I have found that I just can’t. What I just said here may sound silly but it’s these little things that are building up every day and driving me crazy. I feel like living here is toxic how do I deal with this? I try to drown him and his tv out with soothing music but it doesn’t always work. I need new ideas.
    6 answers · 9 hours ago
  • My parents are so ******* toxic and I want to die :)?

    Best answer: Run away and you can live in a manhole
    Best answer: Run away and you can live in a manhole
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • My mom keeps telling me I am dumb and she is embarrassed of me. What do I do?

    Best answer: Your mother has a personality disorder and needs psychological counseling. It's not your fault. Does your father know she's mistreating you this way? My mother was the same way. Tell your teacher or counselor or principal what's going on at home, or a trusted aunt or uncle. You may also call the... show more
    Best answer: Your mother has a personality disorder and needs psychological counseling. It's not your fault. Does your father know she's mistreating you this way? My mother was the same way. Tell your teacher or counselor or principal what's going on at home, or a trusted aunt or uncle. You may also call the national Child Abuse hotline any time: 1-800-422-4453
    5 answers · 12 hours ago