• Girlfriend getting mad at me for not financially supporting her when we don't live together?

    So my girlfriend and I have been together for about 5 months now. I am 30 years old she is 40. I usually stay over about five nights out of the week. I will chip in for or take her out for dinner or take her two kids out for dinner or food sometimes. She has been getting mad at me for about a month now every other... show more
    So my girlfriend and I have been together for about 5 months now. I am 30 years old she is 40. I usually stay over about five nights out of the week. I will chip in for or take her out for dinner or take her two kids out for dinner or food sometimes. She has been getting mad at me for about a month now every other day arguing with me about how I don't contribute anything financially. I simply said that I don't physically live there yet and we did plan to move together in about a month or two. I just feel weird that she is pressuring me to contribute financially when I don't live there what are your thoughts?
    9 answers · 17 hours ago
  • Hi guys. My name is Cody and I’m 13. I could really use some advice when it comes to grooming my vagina. Please help me.?

    Idk why but everything I’ve looked at online has just ended up confusing me. I would really appreciate it. Am I supposed to shave the lips? Or can I leave it be? Do I just go completely bare? Do I leave a patch? I just idk. Are there any tips you could give for shaving and preventing bumps and irritation. I may be... show more
    Idk why but everything I’ve looked at online has just ended up confusing me. I would really appreciate it. Am I supposed to shave the lips? Or can I leave it be? Do I just go completely bare? Do I leave a patch? I just idk. Are there any tips you could give for shaving and preventing bumps and irritation. I may be over complicating this but I don’t know how to approach anyone in my life about this sort of thing. Just feels all awkward and wrong. Hopefully you guys can help me. I’m counting on you.
    7 answers · 6 hours ago
  • What happens if I sleep on a bed at a store and wet it?

    Best answer: the manager would likely call the police and have you arrested for vandalism.
    Best answer: the manager would likely call the police and have you arrested for vandalism.
    11 answers · 2 days ago
  • Ex bf punched me for game am I overreacting?

    Okay so basically I broke up with my bf a few weeks ago but we’re still very close and still hang out so before I was leaving for VACA a few days ago I was hanging out with him.We were on his bed, I don’t know if you know that game where if it put an okay sign below your waste and someone sees you punch the person... show more
    Okay so basically I broke up with my bf a few weeks ago but we’re still very close and still hang out so before I was leaving for VACA a few days ago I was hanging out with him.We were on his bed, I don’t know if you know that game where if it put an okay sign below your waste and someone sees you punch the person anyways he did it . I looked and he punch me if actually hurt then I said ow but he made the okay sigh again and I stupidly looked and he punched again all on the arm . Anyways even know it’s a game everyone plays i take everything very personal and started flipping out on him saying you can’t punch me that hurt. Then he’d just like what do you mean we’re friends it’s just a game I’m sorry but I play it wit everyone even my co workers I didn’t think you’d get mad . Anyways then I told him well i said ouch the first time and you did it again then he goes you play around so much like that all the time when stuff dosent even hurt so i didn’t know (which is true I do do that but still) anyways I bruise super easily so there’s literally a small bruise on my arm now. I told him there’s a bruise he didn’t believe it bc he didn’t think he punched me that hard. Am I overreacting. It is a game he plays with all his friends should I just let it go I don’t why I’m so mad ?
    10 answers · 4 days ago
  • How strong are these signs that he cheats?

    He claims no one ever texts or calls him yet his phone is always on vibrate. Even after I've mentioned it makes me uncomfortable. He gets phone notifications at all hours of the night. He has a google voice number.. Meaning some of his personal texts only go to an app and not his phone. On facebook, his friends... show more
    He claims no one ever texts or calls him yet his phone is always on vibrate. Even after I've mentioned it makes me uncomfortable. He gets phone notifications at all hours of the night. He has a google voice number.. Meaning some of his personal texts only go to an app and not his phone. On facebook, his friends list and info is hidden, even to his friends and family. He admitted continuing to use a dating app after he and I became exclusive but claims he never chat with anyone on it. He deleted all the app data before I could see it. He claims to have no friends yet has a snapchat account. He also admitted to cheating on his wife (he's been divorced for 1.5 years now). On the other hand, we spend almost every day together. Granted it's usually only after 9pm. And he is very sweet. I'm so conflicted between the way he treats me and the red flags. I'd appreciate your outside perspectives. Thank you.
    13 answers · 3 days ago
  • My girlfriend is an actress and is supposed to do a pretty touchy makeout scene?

    So my girlfriend of two years is a very talented actress and is very beautiful. I love her to bits and think she is the most attractive girl alive in my eyes. She is trying to make it big and currently has a role in a drama comedy web series. In the show she currently has a boyfriend which made me feel awkward at... show more
    So my girlfriend of two years is a very talented actress and is very beautiful. I love her to bits and think she is the most attractive girl alive in my eyes. She is trying to make it big and currently has a role in a drama comedy web series. In the show she currently has a boyfriend which made me feel awkward at first but they’ve never had to do anything more than a brief peck and arms around each other. But in the next season the directors wrote a makeout scene. And they are going for full comedic effect so they are making it very awkward and sloppy. Basically it’s going to be like a full minute of aggressive sloppy tongue kissing and he will grab her boobs at one point and the audio will be voiceovers of what the characters are thinking. I am trying to be ok with it but the thought of another guy getting to hardcore tongue kiss her for a minute straight AND get to feel up her boob and probably do several takes of it just to get it right really bothers me. How do I cope with this or stop it without holding her back in her career? I’m afraid this will be a stepping stone to more scenes like this maybe even with nudity and more extensive kissing and groping.
    6 answers · 10 hours ago
  • Girls, do you enjoy giving oral sex?

    Best answer: No I don't. But I don't show that I don't enjoy it. That would diminish HIS pleasure. Marriage is about pleasing each other, and you do things for your spouse that you would rather not do. We both do things, in AND out of bed, to please each other .. that is how a marriage works. In marriage, both... show more
    Best answer: No I don't.
    But I don't show that I don't enjoy it. That would diminish HIS pleasure.

    Marriage is about pleasing each other, and you do things for your spouse that you would rather not do.
    We both do things, in AND out of bed, to please each other .. that is how a marriage works.
    In marriage, both need to make the other person's happiness as important as their own happiness.
    Psychological research says that people who share with and care about others are happier than those who only think about their own happiness. No, I don't mind making my husband happy .. it increases my own happiness.
    31 answers · 7 days ago
  • Ex boyfriend is threatening to kill himself, if I am not his friend?

    My ex boyfriend and I brokeup 3 months ago after a bad fight. I want to get back together but he says we are not mean to be together right now. It hurts because we were very very close and I was very in love. We have remained friends and text everyday but I feel hurt and angry, because I still love him and I want... show more
    My ex boyfriend and I brokeup 3 months ago after a bad fight. I want to get back together but he says we are not mean to be together right now. It hurts because we were very very close and I was very in love. We have remained friends and text everyday but I feel hurt and angry, because I still love him and I want to be more than friends. So I decided to go no contact, a few times, but each time he says he is going to kill himself because I want to stop talking until I am healed. It is hard enough not talking to him, and now he says he is going to kill himself yet he doesn't want to be together? I want to move on and talking everyday is preventing that I feel, what should I do? Why is he doing this?
    7 answers · 15 hours ago
  • My boyfriend gives me hickeys even though I tell him no?

    my bf has gotten into the habit of giving me hickeys and I hate having them. We’re 18 and I live with my parents so I don’t want them to see that I have hickeys. I have to make a huge effort to hide them by trying to cover them with makeup (which never hides them completely) or wearing turtlenecks. it’s 90-100... show more
    my bf has gotten into the habit of giving me hickeys and I hate having them. We’re 18 and I live with my parents so I don’t want them to see that I have hickeys. I have to make a huge effort to hide them by trying to cover them with makeup (which never hides them completely) or wearing turtlenecks. it’s 90-100 degrees where I live so wearing turtlenecks every day trying to hide them is a major pain. I’ve explained this to my bf and I’ve asked him to stop giving me hickeys but he doesn’t take it seriously. The other day I told him “no more hickeys” and he didn’t listen to me and gave me one anyways. He laughed and thought it was funny. I got mad at him for completely ignoring me and he felt bad and apologized. A couple days after that I reminded him and said “no hickeys” and he gave me one anyways but this time ON MY FACE. he gave me a little one on my chin and acted like it was no big deal. Not only was I so angry, but I was heartbroken that he’d completely disrespect me like that after I repeatedly told him no more. I cried for about an hour and he felt really bad. He comforted me and apologized several times and promised me that he’d never give me another one without my consent. I’m still really mad at him, but I’m trying to get over it. I’ve decided that if he ever does this again, i’m going to have to break up with him. I still have a hickey on my face and it’s made me feel like I can’t trust him and that he doesn’t respect me enough. what would you do in this situation?
    6 answers · 15 hours ago
  • What do i tell my boss?

    all this weekend i have a family reunion, so i won’t be able to work but how do i tell my boss. (i’ll have to text because he’s never at work) do i ask? or do i just tell him i can’t work this weekend? please help lol this is my first job!
    all this weekend i have a family reunion, so i won’t be able to work but how do i tell my boss. (i’ll have to text because he’s never at work) do i ask? or do i just tell him i can’t work this weekend? please help lol this is my first job!
    6 answers · 16 hours ago
  • What roles do love and affection play in your life?

    Best answer: Major ! I could stay in bed with my gorgeous wife forever...if we didn't have to eat and get washed and buy groceries and do other stuff. I love being loved and I love loving my lady.
    Best answer: Major ! I could stay in bed with my gorgeous wife forever...if we didn't have to eat and get washed and buy groceries and do other stuff. I love being loved and I love loving my lady.
    11 answers · 3 days ago
  • Can I still give my girlfriend oral even if she is on her period?

    Best answer: You can but it’ll be disgusting and stink
    Best answer: You can but it’ll be disgusting and stink
    7 answers · 21 hours ago
  • How should I get my dad to stop being so strict on me and realise that I’m growing up and mature. I turn 16 in 2 months.?

    Best answer: Sorry to say but as long as you're living at home you'll have to obey your father's rules. That's how it works unfortunately. However that doesn't mean you can't create some more freedom for yourself, but if you'll get it depends on how you handle things. First things first, do you have... show more
    Best answer: Sorry to say but as long as you're living at home you'll have to obey your father's rules. That's how it works unfortunately. However that doesn't mean you can't create some more freedom for yourself, but if you'll get it depends on how you handle things.

    First things first, do you have any grandparents or aunts, uncles you could talk to about the situation with your dad? A parent of a friend or a good neighbour could also do. If not, find one. They not only can give you an outlet to talk about your dad's shitty strictness, they possible also could come on your side from time to time and talk to your dad about giving you some more freedom. More importantly they could help you figure out what you need to say and or do for your dad to relax little.

    Also keep in mind that just as you probably miss your mom and have a hard time with the fact that she isn't around, this is most likely true for your dad as well. So even if it doesn't feel like it, it's hard on him too. Try to keep this in mind. Of course the fact the two of you can't seem to talk about things doesn't make it easier. Unless of course you've been whining or nagging your dad about getting more freedom. If that's the case you need to change your attitude and approach.

    You might think teens nowadays are a lot smarter and mature than they were in the 70's, but this isn't true. In many ways teens nowadays know a lot less than those who came before them. Also maturity comes from experience and that only comes in time. In that sense teens are still going through the same process. Teens nowadays are more tech savvy, but knowing how technology works doesn't make you smarter, and in some ways can even make you less smart if you rely on the internet to much to inform yourself or look things up instead of remembering them. So don't make the same mistake as so many teenagers do (no matter the time they grow up in) in thinking you know more. You're still a teen and in many ways life has only just begun, just as your journey to figure out what life is all about.

    Figuring out life is something you will keep on doing the rest of your life. There will be many moments where you will come to the conclusion that things weren't as you once thought they were. This is normal and totally part of life so nothing to think about too much, but it's good to keep in mind when you're working on this problem with your dad.

    Your girlfriend might break up with you if you can't spend enough time with her. It doesn't have to become true and it could be your fear only, but it's a possibility. Love alone sometimes isn't enough to make a relationship work. If that happens then it will hurt for a while and then you will move on. You're only 15, almost 16, so there will be other girlfriends, even if that seem unimaginable right now.

    And although it would be nice to see your girlfriend on a daily basis, there are many ways to stay in touch. And you might also be able to find something to do, sometime you could do together with your girlfriend, that your dad would approve of. So I'm not talking about a party or going to the mall (or whatever it is you do to hang out), but your dad might allow you to volunteer at a local shelter, soup kitchen, animal shelter, retirement/nursing home. After all you'll be doing something to support your community (and making others happy which in turn will make you feel better about yourself) and it's unlikely your dad will have something against that.

    Sports, a job, or other hobbies might be other activities your dad would approve or and could allow you to go to. If you can find something your girlfriend also likes you could do it together and have more opportunities to see each other. And even if you can't find something your girlfriend likes, but your dad would allow, then think about doing it anyways. Being out of the house, around friends, and doing something you enjoy doing will make it easier to deal with your dad's strictness. It will make those remaining years at home more doable.

    So take a deep breath to calm down (something to do every time your dad gets on your nerves) and think for a moment. Do you have adults you can talk to? If not, find one. This is important because they can help you find another perspective and this will help make things more doable. Then talk to your girlfriend about the type of activity you could do together and your dad would approve of. Then see if you can get it done.

    If you can't then don't make a fuss about it as that will only make things worse. Instead look for something else and then take another approach. Try again and again if you have to. If you're patient and persistent you will get there.
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • Are you in love?

    54 answers · 1 week ago