• Is it weird to date a girl 5 years older than me?

    I’m 20 and she’s gonna be 25 in January. We both really like each other and we have so much fun together. Is it weird about the age?
    I’m 20 and she’s gonna be 25 in January. We both really like each other and we have so much fun together. Is it weird about the age?
    8 answers · 4 hours ago
  • I'm unhappy after i had sex?

    Best answer: i am so sorry. my heart breaks for you. i am not religious nor do i go to church nor am i married or engaged....but i just feel like sex is such a big deal.... it should be only shared with who reciprocates the same feelings towards you, someone who values you and makes you feel special...love is not... show more
    Best answer: i am so sorry. my heart breaks for you. i am not religious nor do i go to church nor am i married or engaged....but i just feel like sex is such a big deal.... it should be only shared with who reciprocates the same feelings towards you, someone who values you and makes you feel special...love is not perfect......and i am sorry you feel what you are feeling...you be filled up with regret, you may feel used.... i know its so hard to feel so unhappy but please dont continue doing this to yourself....
    57 answers · 6 days ago
  • Is my boyfriend gay?

    My boyfriend and I have been 2 months together now and not even once has he insisted to have sex. I know that normally men want it immidiateley the first night but he hasnt even talked about sex yet. When we cuddle in bed he always grabs my a ss but avoids my vagina and breasts, he never touched them. He only said... show more
    My boyfriend and I have been 2 months together now and not even once has he insisted to have sex. I know that normally men want it immidiateley the first night but he hasnt even talked about sex yet. When we cuddle in bed he always grabs my a ss but avoids my vagina and breasts, he never touched them. He only said that he loves my a ss and kisses it. He rarely holds my hand in public and walks fast as if he avoids me. Then last week on the national coming out day for gays we went for a walk on the beach, there were gay flags everywhere and he acted all homophobic, he said how can those sickos be proud of that, they are sick and crazy. I started taking pictures of those flags unpurpose to see his reaction and he kinda panicked, he said stop taking those pictures, people would think we are gay. Why are you taking those pictures? Are you a lesbian? Then he kept bashing them. But then last night when we laid in bed he said maybe i'm gay which shocked me, I asked him really?? He said i'm just kidding, but in every joke there hides secretly the truth. I said to him well I have suspicious in you, maybe i'm your beard. He laughed and said dont be silly, then he told me how he kissed once a guy at a bar and how it was a wonderful night for him. I thought wtf? I asked him why he has waited for so long to ask me to be his girlfriend (cause we are childhood friends) he said because he was afraid. I asked why? To be hurt or? He said no but to hurt you. I dont know what he meant by that.
    12 answers · 1 day ago
  • My boyfriend is 42, I am 19?

    I am 19 and he is 42. We have been together for about 10 months (on and off) and I really believe there are true feelings on both sides. The issue is me.. I am very concerned about what people think and I am scared people will judge me - my parents know and they feel 'sickened' by the thought of it, so I... show more
    I am 19 and he is 42. We have been together for about 10 months (on and off) and I really believe there are true feelings on both sides. The issue is me.. I am very concerned about what people think and I am scared people will judge me - my parents know and they feel 'sickened' by the thought of it, so I have had to lie to them and say we are not seeing each other anymore when we still are. I also did the same thing to my best friend - she found out we were together and said she couldn't be friends with me anymore if I stayed with him, so I told her we had ended it. I have just started university and he came up and visited, it was really nice but he got angry at me that I did not introduce him to any of my friends. this is a constant argument in our relationship and I do feel bad that I am hiding him from my friends but at the same time I can't bring myself to tell people my boyfriend is 23 years older than me. What should I do? Will this relationship work? He makes me incredibly happy and has my best interest at heart, but he says he can't be with me if I don't accept him. to be honest, I think he is being totally fair enough, if I were him I would be upset and angry too... should I tell people? Should I stop lying to my family even though I know it will cause lots and lots of controversy? The lying is getting too much and I need to sort out what I want to do but I just don't know
    6 answers · 6 hours ago
  • What is the most amount of money any guy has paid for sex?

    Best answer: Paul?
    Best answer: Paul?
    9 answers · 3 days ago
  • I’m so mentally ready for sex but not physically ready?

    i want to have sex but my confidence in my body is really not good at the moment
    i want to have sex but my confidence in my body is really not good at the moment
    35 answers · 5 days ago
  • How can I get more oral?

    My girlfriend is good, but doesn't do it often, what should I do?
    My girlfriend is good, but doesn't do it often, what should I do?
    9 answers · 11 hours ago
  • Would you tell your boyfriend about your sexual experiences with your ex?

    Best answer: No need to tell him anything about your sexual past. Your life before he was in it is NONE OF HIS BUSINESS.
    Best answer: No need to tell him anything about your sexual past. Your life before he was in it is NONE OF HIS BUSINESS.
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • How to turn on a teenage guy?

    There’s a guy I want to get with sooooo badly and his friends always say he wants to. The problem is he’s so shy and I sort of am too and I don’t want to flat out initiate stuff so how do I turn him on without making it obvious?
    There’s a guy I want to get with sooooo badly and his friends always say he wants to. The problem is he’s so shy and I sort of am too and I don’t want to flat out initiate stuff so how do I turn him on without making it obvious?
    8 answers · 18 hours ago
  • How do I reply to my boyfriend who took 18 hours to reply?

    Keep in mind I’m not upset or anything, we are rather young and I’ve accepted that whatever happens happens. I’m 18 and he’s 16 years old, we’ve been dating for 9 months. And yesterday he texted me a goodmorning message and I replied, he asked “how are you” and I replied to that, but then he just didn’t bother... show more
    Keep in mind I’m not upset or anything, we are rather young and I’ve accepted that whatever happens happens. I’m 18 and he’s 16 years old, we’ve been dating for 9 months. And yesterday he texted me a goodmorning message and I replied, he asked “how are you” and I replied to that, but then he just didn’t bother after that. He was online posting on his Snapchat story, he was at home playing video games the majority of his night and he wasn’t busy in the slightest besides that. Now he’s leaving for a snowboarding trip today with his dad, and he was up at maybe 8 am according to his Snapchat and then he texted me around 10:30 THIS: “Babe I’m sorry for not replying I got busy in school and completely forgot” How do I reply to this nicely? He literally has done this countless times in the past, claims he didn’t see it or it didn’t pop up and only did it sort of bug me this time. His excuse doesn’t sound legit, as he was up on Snapchat also around 1 am and still didn’t bother to remember to reply.. what’s the deal? And how should I reply? Keep in mind this is just infuriating I’m not upset I’m just a little irritates
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • I’m bored with my boyfriend, what do I do?

    Best answer: Tell him this. You can't make him change, he has to want to. And the only reason he will want to put in the effort to change, is if he feels there is something to lose if he doesn't. I mean you can ease into the subject, but you are going to have to share how you feel to some degree if you want to see a... show more
    Best answer: Tell him this. You can't make him change, he has to want to. And the only reason he will want to put in the effort to change, is if he feels there is something to lose if he doesn't. I mean you can ease into the subject, but you are going to have to share how you feel to some degree if you want to see a change.
    I will say, it seems like you have one foot out the door, which is fine, but I would just do a bit of introspection to make sure that if you decide you want to leave, that is what you really want. You want him to give you attention, which is perfectly reasonable, but can also be a sign that you are unhappy with your life regardless of him. You could be fulfilled by your own things that have nothing to do with him. You could be hanging out with girl friends, taking classes, or doing things on your own. And I know, you wan't a connection with your partner. I'm not saying you shouldn't expect that. I'm just saying it merits a bit of thought, because what you do not want, is to leave, regret it, and find yourself in a string of unfulfilling relationships because what you really need is external validation, and you mask that as a need for a partner who is more engaged. Again, you should be with someone who works on the relationship, I'm just saying that the need for external validation, and legitimate expectation of interest from a partner is a slushy mix where it can be hard to know how much of one thing there is over the other. Just explore a bit, the idea of you not relying on him to fill that need for the moment. If you found excitement on your own, but stayed in the relationship, how might that effect you, and possibly him when he sees you having fun and doing all these things.
    Then talk to him. It seems that some part of you already knows what you want, you just want someone to give you permission to leave. Someone to say that you deserve to be with someone who sees you, so you can feel safe enough to walk away from a relationship that must be good in some ways.
    15 answers · 3 days ago
  • Why are men way more hornier than women?

    Most women don't even like sex. Most men are horny pigs. Makes me ashamed of being a man.
    Most women don't even like sex. Most men are horny pigs. Makes me ashamed of being a man.
    6 answers · 6 hours ago
  • Old man winked at me!?

    I'm in my teens and I was spinning around in the grocery store and this old man winked at me. I kept looking behind me and he was staring at me. What does the mean?
    I'm in my teens and I was spinning around in the grocery store and this old man winked at me. I kept looking behind me and he was staring at me. What does the mean?
    8 answers · 21 hours ago
  • How to stop crying? Feeling suicidal..dad won’t let me see bf?

    I’m 23 and I never had a boyfriend before but I recently met someone this summer and already we devolved a strong liking. Before I used to be very depressed and when through a lot but getting into church and meeting this guy and a few friends has helped. Everyday since the summer we both been hanging outside of my... show more
    I’m 23 and I never had a boyfriend before but I recently met someone this summer and already we devolved a strong liking. Before I used to be very depressed and when through a lot but getting into church and meeting this guy and a few friends has helped. Everyday since the summer we both been hanging outside of my house.. the cops was called once but I didn’t think it was from anyone I knew.. until last night my dad screamed at my boyfriend threatened to call the cops again, called him a loser than my boyfriend told him to F-off so he ran off than my dad called the cops on him..my dad kept screaming at me and called me a slutt and told me I can’t see him anymore.. told me that if I do he’s gonna call the cops..he told me I wasn’t allowed to have a boyfriend.. anyway I can’t stop crying and now my BF isn’t texting me back and I’m not allowed to leave home anymore.. please help?
    15 answers · 3 days ago
  • I just found out the girl I like has a boyfriend?

    Okay so I was at a football game and I was sitting with the band and I got her snapchat (she is in the drill team so she was sitting next to us), things were going well. She seemed excited to see me everyday and we had some really deep conversations and a couple days later I see her with her boyfriend I didnt know... show more
    Okay so I was at a football game and I was sitting with the band and I got her snapchat (she is in the drill team so she was sitting next to us), things were going well. She seemed excited to see me everyday and we had some really deep conversations and a couple days later I see her with her boyfriend I didnt know about. I really thought this could have been going somewhere but that happened. Can I get some advice on what to do? I really thought she was showing the signs of liking me back
    10 answers · 2 days ago