• I lost my virginity a few months ago, I'm 19, is that kinda late? (I'm a girl)?

    Best answer: No! I respect that :) good for you
    Best answer: No! I respect that :) good for you
    71 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 days ago
  • Should I tell my sister that I think her husband is cheating on her?

    Best answer: No. You shouldn't risk destroying her marriage and her peace of mind over something you merely suspect.
    Best answer: No. You shouldn't risk destroying her marriage and her peace of mind over something you merely suspect.
    13 answers · Family · 7 hours ago
  • Is it normal to think your significant other is incredibly irritating (after 6 years)?

    My fiance and I have been dating for 6 years, and engaged for about 2 years (we are taking our time getting married but we just bought a house together last year). I do love him and dont have any second thoughts about marrying him. But he is so annoying. Hes really needy and he complains a lot that I don't... show more
    My fiance and I have been dating for 6 years, and engaged for about 2 years (we are taking our time getting married but we just bought a house together last year). I do love him and dont have any second thoughts about marrying him. But he is so annoying. Hes really needy and he complains a lot that I don't cook very good ( I really hate cooking). He always wants to watch tv and cuddle (which is cool but sometimes i need some fresh air, and he never ever wants to do anything outside and be active). I talk to him about the stuff that irritaes me but the convo is always like "well thats who i am so if u dont like it thats too bad" He also complains a lot that I dont have a lot of friends. That kind of hurts my feelings b/c he says it in a derogatory way like theres somethign wrong with me, but I know the reason I dont have any friends is because my career is extremely demanding of my time (im an actuary and currently taking exams for my fellowship). He just hurts me and irritates me and sometimes doesnt give me enough space. Is this the kind of crap everyone goes through? IMO its better than having a terrible secret like cheating-- at least everything is out in the open. But on a scale of 1 to 10 how much should I expect to feel upset about my relationship 6 years in ?
    16 answers · Engagements & Weddings · 22 hours ago
  • My 17 year old daughter is emotionally attached to a stuffed animal. How do I make her stop?

    My daughter is 17 years old and she claims to be emotionally attached to her stuffed animal dog. This isn't normal and I've tried explaining this to her but she will not listen. She throws a big fit every time I tell her they are not real. Oh she thinks they're real by the way. She's incredibly... show more
    My daughter is 17 years old and she claims to be emotionally attached to her stuffed animal dog. This isn't normal and I've tried explaining this to her but she will not listen. She throws a big fit every time I tell her they are not real. Oh she thinks they're real by the way. She's incredibly delusional. I love her but this needs to stop. She treats them like they are real when they're not. She doesn't hear them talk to her but she pretends like they do and she really believes it. She lost her stuffed animal the other day and was having a big anxiety attack. I yelled at her because who wouldn't? She's going to be 18 years old and she still acts like a child. I taught her better than this. I don't understand why she won't listen to me. She threatened suicide over a toy. All because she lost a toy! I understand she has a fear of abandonment but that "fear" is normal. I tell her this daily that it's ok to feel abandoned but she literally screams and cries at me, telling me she will never be abandoned and she loves her baby (stuffed animal). Can someone tell me how to make her stop? Our whole family knows about this situation and only a few agree with me. It's humiliating to me. She also claims to have been raped as a child but I don't believe her because she would've told me as soon as it happened. Right? I hope I'm right. Anyways, can someone please help me make my daughter stop being so attached to things that are fake? I just want her to act her age.
    15 answers · Family · 20 hours ago
  • Sister in law is bad mouthing my mum. Should I tell my mum?

    My sister in law pretends to be cordial and friendly to my mum. But a mutual acquaintance told me that she had bad mouthed her. My sister in law a manipulative snake. I am not sure if I should tell my mum what I heard because it could end up affecting everyone (particularly my mum, brother and nieces). But it is... show more
    My sister in law pretends to be cordial and friendly to my mum. But a mutual acquaintance told me that she had bad mouthed her. My sister in law a manipulative snake. I am not sure if I should tell my mum what I heard because it could end up affecting everyone (particularly my mum, brother and nieces). But it is not fair for her to get away with it. Should I talk to my brother about it instead or should I confront her directly.
    14 answers · Family · 15 hours ago
  • My girlfriend likes to suck on my thumb... is this normal for girls?

    Best answer: Google "DD/lg" like that. Read about it, does any of it fit? The popsicle thing seems different. Might not be DD/lg. It is like oral? Who cares she is licking and sucking on you. You think "it is cute" She is kind of "hot", "hot" or "cute" right? Tell her... show more
    Best answer: Google "DD/lg" like that. Read about it, does any of it fit? The popsicle thing seems different. Might not be DD/lg. It is like oral?

    Who cares she is licking and sucking on you. You think "it is cute" She is kind of "hot", "hot" or "cute" right?

    Tell her "good girl" when she does it - any reaction? A smile or anything, does she look at you? Is she on your lap when this happens? Play with her hair (you can do that, right - stroke/brush it) and rub her back while she is sucking (or whatever is going on) your thumb.

    I don't know what "normal" vs "not normal" is who cares. You like it, she does it. Be happy, don't complain. If not DD/lg she could just like things in her mouth. Could be sexual might not be. This is probably going to be part of a "fetish", most likely.

    I had 2 women tell me they like the way I taste. She might be the same. I never complained, "YOU FREAK I TASTE BAD"..... I let them taste..... Oral fixation/fetish/ddlg are your terms to google.
    9 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • My mum is 43 and I am 16. Is she old?

    My best friend whose mum is 4 years younger told me that my mum is old.all of my classmates mum's are in their thirties.please be honest people
    My best friend whose mum is 4 years younger told me that my mum is old.all of my classmates mum's are in their thirties.please be honest people
    14 answers · Friends · 19 hours ago
  • Destination Bachelorette Party: Is it reasonable to ask the bride to pay for something?

    I am the maid of honor for my friend's wedding. She wants two nights in Atlantic City. We live 2 hours away so we will be driving and splitting the cost of gas. So far, the bridesmaids and I have booked a stripper, are splitting the brides share of the hotel and will be gifting her lingerie (the bride... show more
    I am the maid of honor for my friend's wedding. She wants two nights in Atlantic City. We live 2 hours away so we will be driving and splitting the cost of gas. So far, the bridesmaids and I have booked a stripper, are splitting the brides share of the hotel and will be gifting her lingerie (the bride commanded we buy her lingerie because she wanted a bachelorette/lingerie party). Is it required of us to pay for the bride's entire trip? As in dinner, spa, lunch, drinks? She has expensive taste so I know her choice of restaurants will be not cheap. Her fiance mentioned to me once that the bridesmaids are supposed to pay for EVERYTHING. I don't know if this is fair being that this is a destination bachelorette party. So far, with decorations and party favors, I'm estimating the bridesmaids and I have spent around $300 each on the party. Not to mention the expenses of the actual wedding, which is also a destination. The entire weekend is going to end up costing us over $500 each, assuming we don't pay for the bride's outing expenses. We are not doctors or lawyers, we work post-college mid-level jobs. It upsets me to have to conform to very unreasonable traditions. If the party was local, I'm well aware the bride shouldn't spend a penny. However, I don't believe the same rules apply to a destination party. What is proper bachelorette party etiquette?
    17 answers · Engagements & Weddings · 1 day ago
  • My boyfriend can't make me come, what's the matter with me?

    So this is a personal and frankly quite embarrassing question. I'm 18 and I've been dating my current boyfriend for a little over a year. Since we're so young, we've decided that we're not going to have sex until we are older, but we still want to try things and experiment. A while ago we... show more
    So this is a personal and frankly quite embarrassing question. I'm 18 and I've been dating my current boyfriend for a little over a year. Since we're so young, we've decided that we're not going to have sex until we are older, but we still want to try things and experiment. A while ago we decided to try fingering since I've been making him come and he wanted me to have the same experience. I love that he is actually willing to do it, but I can't feel anything when he does. I can't reach that final point and I can't figure out why. I can tell he really wants me to get there and it hurts him when I say I can't. I don't mean to feel jealous, but I do. Just cause it's so easy to make him get there, but I can't even get there myself. I've looked all over the internet and I've tried everything. Please help me figure this out.
    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • Dating a girl for 3 months and still no sex?

    I been seeing this girl semi regular basis once or twice a week mostly once a week for 3 months and I really like her and I tell her everything and I am very open with her and so is she. But I have never kissed her or anything mainly because when I see her I m on drugs and I don t want to **** her on drugs. So... show more
    I been seeing this girl semi regular basis once or twice a week mostly once a week for 3 months and I really like her and I tell her everything and I am very open with her and so is she. But I have never kissed her or anything mainly because when I see her I m on drugs and I don t want to **** her on drugs. So the last time I saw her yesterdaywe went to the beach and went in the water at night and she took of her clothes till her underwear and just jumped in the water her body was so sexy and I went in half way because it was cold as ****. She slept right next to her all night and I didn t have sex with her because Im a virgin but when we woke up I tried again and I gave her a back massage and her face was all blushing and she looked very aroused but when I told her to take off her shirt she just said be patient and that she will take off her shirt when ever she wants and then we went home (she had some cold sores and I didn t kiss her)
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 23 hours ago
  • Will sperm die in the washer machine?

    My bf came on my sweatpants and I want to wash them with other clothes in the washer too but I don’t want any sperm remaining and spread to other clothes like my underwear and risk getting pregnant.
    My bf came on my sweatpants and I want to wash them with other clothes in the washer too but I don’t want any sperm remaining and spread to other clothes like my underwear and risk getting pregnant.
    16 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • I needed my husbands signature to get us a new apartment for us and the kids, he didn't do it, now he's sorry, should I divorce?

    We are in a family shelter, so getting out is more important than anything. So after being there for over 1 and 1/2 years I finally found us the solution to moving out. He was supposed to come to appointments and bring paystubs documents but he never did it, so that lead to us missing out. He has his own personal... show more
    We are in a family shelter, so getting out is more important than anything. So after being there for over 1 and 1/2 years I finally found us the solution to moving out. He was supposed to come to appointments and bring paystubs documents but he never did it, so that lead to us missing out. He has his own personal reason he said he didn't do it, but now he's doing everything in his power to fix it, but it's like we have to start the process over. And it's a headache. I feel he didn't want to do it because he was tired of the relationship, but now I'm pregnant he's so nice. And wants to fix things. Should I just move on Without him? A baby is not a reason to stay and be nice to me. Can I forgive him after he let us down and we are still in the shelter. I feel he should have don't it the first time around.
    12 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 13 hours ago
  • What would you do if you drove by and you saw an 8 year old do this?

    Best answer: I would have felt a bit of sympathy at the time for the 8 year old's feelings and then forgotten all about it. I seriously doubt anyone would have been "horrified" by the sight.
    Best answer: I would have felt a bit of sympathy at the time for the 8 year old's feelings and then forgotten all about it. I seriously doubt anyone would have been "horrified" by the sight.
    23 answers · Family · 2 days ago