• Why does no one care about my birthday?

    Just turned 14 today. Didn’t get a present, didn’t do anything. My parents excuse was they were busy but up until this point they’ve been watching Television. We don’t have money problems, I’m not grounded or in trouble in any way, I have a 4.0 GPA (and had for my whole life.) I feel under appreciated, especially... show more
    Just turned 14 today. Didn’t get a present, didn’t do anything. My parents excuse was they were busy but up until this point they’ve been watching Television. We don’t have money problems, I’m not grounded or in trouble in any way, I have a 4.0 GPA (and had for my whole life.) I feel under appreciated, especially since my friends can afford to take me out and not my parents. Am I being spoiled? Im feeling close to suicidal at this point because of the events that have led up to this day. Help.
    21 answers · Friends · 2 days ago
  • I was molested by another girl?

    Me and my this girl used to have sleepovers when we were both little and i remember i woke up onetime in my bed touching me i asked what she was doing and she said nothing and kept going i told her to stop but she kept talking about how it'll help me and stuff, another time i went to her house and she did it... show more
    Me and my this girl used to have sleepovers when we were both little and i remember i woke up onetime in my bed touching me i asked what she was doing and she said nothing and kept going i told her to stop but she kept talking about how it'll help me and stuff, another time i went to her house and she did it again. she kept taking advantage of me because she was older telling me things making me think it was fine and everything it wasn't until months back i realized what it was and ever since then i just feel so dirty and gross i don't know how to deal with this because i don't want to tell anyone because im scared they'll look at me different. i mean i told my only friend what happened but she didn't really help me at all and it didnt seem as she'd care. i'm losing my mind over this i can't stop thinking about it and i don't know what to do. Please...help!
    34 answers · Friends · 4 days ago
  • My mom is 70 and my father is 75, are they too old?

    Best answer: not at all
    Best answer: not at all
    14 answers · Family · 1 day ago
  • Why is getting married young such a big deal?

    Genuine question. I was watching a movie the other night and it was about a young couple who were in their early twenties, and everyone kind of advised them not to get married. They said they should travel, go to school, and adventure, etc. I don’t understand why they can’t do all that and get married. It’s also a... show more
    Genuine question. I was watching a movie the other night and it was about a young couple who were in their early twenties, and everyone kind of advised them not to get married. They said they should travel, go to school, and adventure, etc. I don’t understand why they can’t do all that and get married. It’s also a widely known thing to joke/make fun of young couples in their twenties who get married. i know getting married is a big step and all, but why exactly do people advise against it other than the financial burden of actually having the wedding? Does getting married change your financial situation? Like taxes for example.
    13 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 15 hours ago
  • Would you keep a man who has this 'baggage'?

    I'm the so-called "a trust-fund baby", financially secure but not rich (don't envy me; I got it because my mom died in an accident). Meaning I can rent (not buy) a flat in a good neighborhood and have a holiday once a year (nothing fancy, tho'). I have a job as an administration staff as... show more
    I'm the so-called "a trust-fund baby", financially secure but not rich (don't envy me; I got it because my mom died in an accident). Meaning I can rent (not buy) a flat in a good neighborhood and have a holiday once a year (nothing fancy, tho'). I have a job as an administration staff as well. Now I'm in a pretty serious relationship with a researcher. As he's working in a university instead of in industry, he's not rich either. I don't mind that. The problem is this: He's half-Japanese, and his widowed mother lives in Japan (no possibility of her coming here). He has recently told me that he has to fully support her, because she has done everything to ensure him a good education in the West, and now she doesn't have enough saving to keep her tiny home unless he helps her. He told me so that I can decide if I want to continue our relationship despite this, as this means that I have to "share" with his mother. I don't want to sound shallow, but this has rather taken me aback. He's a kind and steady man who has promised to prioritize me, but - because he doesn't want to let his mother to lack anything either - this means that we're not going to be as comfortable as I've imagined. Without this problem, we would be able to buy a house and have no worries about bills. He has an elder brother who doesn't want to divide the burden, but he has this sense-of-duty that makes me rather worried for the future. Were you in my position, would you take this man despite his 'baggage'?
    33 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 4 days ago
  • He didn’t cheat, but he thought about it and lied?

    Best answer: I think he definitely deserves a second chance because it sounds to e like he was being very honest with you.
    Best answer: I think he definitely deserves a second chance because it sounds to e like he was being very honest with you.
    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • My wife is making me choose: our daughter or her?

    My wife has resentment towards our daughter since she was born because our daughter was a "accident" and because it affected our marriage and our personal lives my wife has grown a lot angrier and more resentful. She's at the snapping point now. She wants to give up our girl for adoption or she... show more
    My wife has resentment towards our daughter since she was born because our daughter was a "accident" and because it affected our marriage and our personal lives my wife has grown a lot angrier and more resentful. She's at the snapping point now. She wants to give up our girl for adoption or she wants a divorce and wants to cut ties from me. What do I do? How do I calm her down? I'm trying to watch our daughter more so my wife can still have a balanced life. but she also wants intimacy with me but because our daughter is always around she gets upset and I think our daughter thinks my wife doesn't want to be around her either. what do i do? I don't want to lose either of them
    19 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • My wife wants to work but I don't think it's inconvenient. Please tell me what you think. Thanks?

    I run my own company and drive a truck. I usually work from morning till around 6 pm. I pay for all the bills and everything she wants. But now after 3 years she wants to get a job that starts at 5pm. I find it inconvenient because after a hard day of work I have to get home then switch cars to go pick up the kids... show more
    I run my own company and drive a truck. I usually work from morning till around 6 pm. I pay for all the bills and everything she wants. But now after 3 years she wants to get a job that starts at 5pm. I find it inconvenient because after a hard day of work I have to get home then switch cars to go pick up the kids and I know the kids would rather be at home than going to the babysitter. I used to like coming home to my kids screaming dads home and it's nice to come home and see my wife. How should I feel about this thanks
    23 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 3 days ago
  • Should I give up my dream school because of boyfriend ?

    So I got accepted and a full ride to an amazing school in the Bay Area ( California) I currently live in North Carolina ... I’ve always wanted to live in California (no not to become a movie star lol, I’d be going to school for software engineering/ web development so I’d have a career in Tech) with that being said... show more
    So I got accepted and a full ride to an amazing school in the Bay Area ( California) I currently live in North Carolina ... I’ve always wanted to live in California (no not to become a movie star lol, I’d be going to school for software engineering/ web development so I’d have a career in Tech) with that being said , my current boyfriend doesn’t want to go straight to a 4 year because he’s afraid of debt/cost. So is working & thinking about getting his CDL’s (he has a lot going on in his family so is going the fast route) he’s from New York, and Is currently in NC as well. He said because he’s lived in the city forever he loves N.C. & that’s his final destination ... he doesn’t want to leave. He said California is out of the question because it’ll be too far from his mother/family and is giving me a hard time about going because I’d be moving far. WHAT DO I DO? I’m not very happy in N.C. because of the fact that I’ve been here FOREVER. I’ve been on the west coast before & I absolutely love it. HELP!!
    10 answers · Family · 10 hours ago
  • My husband had a baby to another women , I need advice I've been married for 30 years he ran a brothel and one of the girls fell pregnant,?

    I found out through a lawyer , the girl is my son's age , I will make sure she gets no child support and I don't want my husband and especially my son to see this woman how do I cut her out for good
    I found out through a lawyer , the girl is my son's age , I will make sure she gets no child support and I don't want my husband and especially my son to see this woman how do I cut her out for good
    13 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 day ago
  • Whats wrong with people who dont like to talk or socialize?

    I wonder how they can even enjoy life when they stay quiet all day and are always alone. Isnt that really boring? I couldnt even survive for 1 day living like that
    I wonder how they can even enjoy life when they stay quiet all day and are always alone. Isnt that really boring? I couldnt even survive for 1 day living like that
    10 answers · Friends · 4 hours ago
  • I’m a Trump supporter from Alabama. (MAGA) my husband is from Chicago and such a liberal Obama supporter. Help political opposites be happy?

    Best answer: my wife of 25 years, is the exact opposite of me politically
    we are poitically free home
    there is more to a good life than what politition you like
    Best answer: my wife of 25 years, is the exact opposite of me politically
    we are poitically free home
    there is more to a good life than what politition you like
    23 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 3 days ago
  • Dont feel like going out with my friends???

    I'm a 23 year old guy, and one of my closest friends wants me to go with him and his girlfriend to a music festival for 3 days out of town. But I dont feel like going because thats not my type of environment, him and his girlfriend keep begging me to go but Im just not into stuff like that. At the same... show more
    I'm a 23 year old guy, and one of my closest friends wants me to go with him and his girlfriend to a music festival for 3 days out of town. But I dont feel like going because thats not my type of environment, him and his girlfriend keep begging me to go but Im just not into stuff like that. At the same time I dont want them to be mad at me, any advice please????????
    10 answers · Friends · 5 hours ago
  • Did I make a mistake joking with my friend about her mom?

    Best answer: Yes. If the two of you have made jokes about each other’s moms before, your friend probably didn’t know how to respond to your comment.

    “I’m sorry if I was out of line with my mom remark earlier” would help. It gives her a better idea of how
    you’re feeling about it. She might respond to that.
    Best answer: Yes. If the two of you have made jokes about each other’s moms before, your friend probably didn’t know how to respond to your comment.

    “I’m sorry if I was out of line with my mom remark earlier” would help. It gives her a better idea of how
    you’re feeling about it. She might respond to that.
    19 answers · Friends · 2 days ago
  • Is it wrong for the husband to take my last name, even though I'm the wife?

    I asked my fiance if he'd do it as a joke, thinking it's annoy or offend him. He asked why and said the first things that came to my mind about how I thought it sent a good feminist message that women are equal and it doesn't have to be Patriarchy and that I thought the name would sound really good with... show more
    I asked my fiance if he'd do it as a joke, thinking it's annoy or offend him. He asked why and said the first things that came to my mind about how I thought it sent a good feminist message that women are equal and it doesn't have to be Patriarchy and that I thought the name would sound really good with his first name. He said that making me happy was the most important thing in the world to him and that he'd do it if I was sure that was what i want. I didn't tell him I was only joking. I'm really flattered and honored that he would actually take my last name. I know I'm making the right decision to marry him. I kind of really want him to actually do it, but I guess the real reason is it makes me feel extra strong and powerful and loved. Are there any specific reasons why I shouldn't?
    10 answers · Engagements & Weddings · 9 hours ago
  • Would you ever cheat on someone?

    Best answer: No. Because I wouldn't want to be cheated on myself.
    Best answer: No. Because I wouldn't want to be cheated on myself.
    113 answers · Singles & Dating · 6 days ago
  • Should I cut off my relationship with my dad? I’m angry & conflicted?

    This is gonna be long - basically my dad has been cheating on my mom for years now. I first realized it when he told me to grab his phone, and a flirtatious text from an unsaved number had JUST popped up. I didn’t say anything to him. He also acted weird with his phone, literally angling it from everyone when... show more
    This is gonna be long - basically my dad has been cheating on my mom for years now. I first realized it when he told me to grab his phone, and a flirtatious text from an unsaved number had JUST popped up. I didn’t say anything to him. He also acted weird with his phone, literally angling it from everyone when texting at dinner / in the car. My parents went to marriage counseling, but their fighting got so bad that my dad left. Hes been staying with his cousin for the past 6 months & hadn’t come home since. My little brother had 5 emotional breakdowns at daycare during this time because it was so hard for him to barely see his dad. We were all begging for him to come home & fix things. He came to my soccer games, award show, & my little brothers play. But it wasn’t the same.. I thought he’d eventually man up and try to fix things with my mom...but he just filed for divorce. I’m caught between wanting to yell at him for hurting my mom or just never talking to him again. Going dead silent. I know I can’t do that, because when he dies I’ll regret it. I dont think my dad is a horrible person at his core, we’ve had some really good times. But he’s making bad decisions & our family has to suffer because he’s being an idiot..
    5 answers · Family · 2 days ago