• Can a married girl be friends with a guy?

    I feel a little guilty because I offered to help this guy in my math class with his English in exchange for math help... I genuinely like him as a friend but I don’t want him getting any ideas especially because he walked me to my car today and gave me a hug goodbye. Am I just worried for no reason?
    I feel a little guilty because I offered to help this guy in my math class with his English in exchange for math help... I genuinely like him as a friend but I don’t want him getting any ideas especially because he walked me to my car today and gave me a hug goodbye. Am I just worried for no reason?
    56 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 4 days ago
  • My mother makes me kiss her. I feel harassed but everyone says it’s normal. Please help me. - 17 yo guy in high school.?

    Best answer: This isn't a normal relationship at all. You need to get some help right away. Talk to a counselor at your school or a teacher that you're comfortable talking with about all that is happening at home. Hopefully, the counselor reports all this to the agency that protects children like CPS or a unit that... show more
    Best answer: This isn't a normal relationship at all. You need to get some help right away. Talk to a counselor at your school or a teacher that you're comfortable talking with about all that is happening at home. Hopefully, the counselor reports all this to the agency that protects children like CPS or a unit that handles such complaints. Meanwhile, you need to distance yourself from this woman. She is a predator and will keep on with this behaviour until she is stopped. For now, it is up to you to push her away the best that you can. Talk to your father about what is happening and see if he has any ideas to stop this woman. What she is doing is considered abuse and is against the law. It is not normal to kiss your mother on the lips or any of the other sick things that she wants you to do. Stand up for yourself and hopefully, one of the agencies will step in and remove you from the house. Good luck and I hope that this nightmare ends soon!
    40 answers · Family · 5 days ago
  • Is it rude to ask wedding guests to pay for accommodations that you provide?

    My fiance and I have family coming from out of town for the wedding, and we only have a 1 bedroom apartment. To save money, we're renting a large home (10-ish bedrooms) on the beach where we'll host both the wedding and the reception. I want to let people stay there, and I'll be providing at least 3 of... show more
    My fiance and I have family coming from out of town for the wedding, and we only have a 1 bedroom apartment. To save money, we're renting a large home (10-ish bedrooms) on the beach where we'll host both the wedding and the reception. I want to let people stay there, and I'll be providing at least 3 of the meals, but it's quickly beginning to stretch our budget. Would it be out of line to put in the invitations "A limited number of private suites available on location for $50/night"? If that seems inappropriate, I CAN provide rooms for free, but it might mean I'll have to make cuts in other areas. Note that most of the people coming in are fairly well off and would be getting a hotel room anyways, plus probably a rental car to get to and from the festivities.
    22 answers · Engagements & Weddings · 2 days ago
  • How to avoid this honeymoon concern?

    Best answer: I've been a best man a dozen times and have been to two dozen weddings of every variation. Beyond asking the groom if he needs me to take care of anything on the day for him or pick any last-minute items, at no point have the details of their wedding night come up for discussion (I've never brought it up... show more
    Best answer: I've been a best man a dozen times and have been to two dozen weddings of every variation. Beyond asking the groom if he needs me to take care of anything on the day for him or pick any last-minute items, at no point have the details of their wedding night come up for discussion (I've never brought it up because I've always assumed that this is between you and your spouse).

    People that are attending your wedding don't care about your wedding night (and truth be told don't want to know about it). In no particular order, people would like an open bar, decent food, and a chance to offer congratulations to you and your spouse (they might wish you a happy honeymoon is a completely innocent way). As a career bachelor, I can't remember ever giving it a thought. The singles at your wedding/reception will be thinking about their own lot and if there's anyone at the reception worth having a drink (or more) with, and the married couples will either be thinking "how quickly can we leave so we don't have to pay extra for the babysitter" or hitting that open bar hard because they don't have kids and want to tear it up. Most of the women will be re-thinking their choices in shoes and foundation-wear (Spanx apparently aren't that comfortable). If I'm your best man I've written a toast/roast that will be equal parts funny, marginally humiliating to you, and finish with some nice words about you and your spouse. What you and your spouse do is unspoken; similar to if you see someone going to use the washroom (you know what they're doing but you don't spend time thinking about it).

    If this person you're going to marry is really the right person, then what other people think won't matter. And if you still can't move beyond it, then it says here you lack the basic maturity to handle the complexities of love, marriage, and being someone's spouse.

    Failing all of that, if you're that concerned about performance anxiety, go see your doctor and get a Viagra prescription and you should be good to go.
    14 answers · Engagements & Weddings · 18 hours ago
  • My life is ruined?

    Im 16. I have 0 friends apart from one who sleeps with everyones boyfriends and what if I fall in love with a guy and she finds him hot she would sleep with him no doubt! shes sleeping with her cousins husband so i doubt she cares about me! I get homeschooled due to bullying I got beat up the other week for no... show more
    Im 16. I have 0 friends apart from one who sleeps with everyones boyfriends and what if I fall in love with a guy and she finds him hot she would sleep with him no doubt! shes sleeping with her cousins husband so i doubt she cares about me! I get homeschooled due to bullying I got beat up the other week for no reason Ive fallen out with most of my friends even though my so called friends were using me for my money and were always horrible to me anyway. The friends who want to know me dont want to anymore because i never use to stay round their house and they live so far away and its so difficult to get there and back and I have anxiety. Because I got beat up and fallen out with everyone im worried about leaving the house incase it happens again or worse as i fell out with my mate and she got her friends to contact me. Im using guys just so I can get some attention in my lonely life and sleeping around just so I dont feel useless. I sit at home doing NOTHING all day apart from message a few lads who just want to use me and i have no real friends to hang out with and do things with! I get homeschooled but I dont even revise because im so lazy and feel so stupid! I did have job but I quit after 2 days because it was so far now im worried about getting another one incase people from school or my 'ex' friends see me and want to beat me up! My family are great but I feel so trapped in my house here and I cant wait to move out but I have nowhere to go its just no motivation here.
    13 answers · Friends · 16 hours ago
  • What makes a person want to get married?

    What is it about that other person? Is it there looks, charm, personality? I am just wondering how people fall in love and stay married too.
    What is it about that other person? Is it there looks, charm, personality? I am just wondering how people fall in love and stay married too.
    31 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 3 days ago
  • Is it okay for a married man and married woman to date other people?

    Like if their married partners are fine with it I'm Jw so please no hate Thanks :)
    Like if their married partners are fine with it I'm Jw so please no hate Thanks :)
    13 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 19 hours ago
  • What if my wife allowed me to have sex with other women?

    Can I do it then?
    Can I do it then?
    12 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 13 hours ago
  • Does the rule "No kids at the wedding" still apply if the groom is the father?

    So I was invited to the wedding of a friend I used to date. The invitation had "No kids" printed on it. However, I'm not sure if that applies to me. The friend in question is the father of one of my kids. Do I not bring the kid? Seems weird to not have your kids at your wedding. Do I bring... show more
    So I was invited to the wedding of a friend I used to date. The invitation had "No kids" printed on it. However, I'm not sure if that applies to me. The friend in question is the father of one of my kids. Do I not bring the kid? Seems weird to not have your kids at your wedding. Do I bring just the groom's kid? That might make my other kid feel left out. Or do I bring both? I don't really want to call because I'm sure the bride doesn't want to hear from/think about me any more then necessary.
    26 answers · Engagements & Weddings · 3 days ago
  • I said sorry to my parents and asked for forgiveness and asked for a second chance, I let them down , did I deserve such a harsh punishment?

    I have been grounded for the last 2 weeks this is for drinking alcohol ( I am 16 ) my parents were going to have a party and fireworks party, they said I would be let off a week early so I could attend the party if I signed a contract saying I would not touch alcohol again, if I broke the contract my punishment... show more
    I have been grounded for the last 2 weeks this is for drinking alcohol ( I am 16 ) my parents were going to have a party and fireworks party, they said I would be let off a week early so I could attend the party if I signed a contract saying I would not touch alcohol again, if I broke the contract my punishment would be much more severe, they said it would be at least 3 days lockdown ( LOCKED IN MY ROOM ) I am sorry to say 2 days ago I came home smelling of alcohol, my parents went mad and locked me in my room it was HORRIBLE the worse part was yesterday evening when my parents had a party there was music, dancing and fireworks in our garden, can you imagine how I felt sitting in my room from behind a LOCKED bedroom door listening to all the fun and NOT being able to join in I even watched the fireworks from my locked bedroom window, I felt SO sad and MISREABLE I even cried,later my sister unlocked my door, brought me some food from the barbecue then took great pleasure in telling me how great the party was going, then SLAMMED my bedroom door shut, and turned the key in the lock (CLICK ) WERE MY PARENTS RIGHT TO PUNISH ME SO SEVERLY ? DO YOU THINK MY SISTER IS MEAN ?
    19 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • Did she cheat on me?

    I had a vasectomy done...but now my wife is pregnant. "How?!?" "I don't know." "Did you..." "NO it's YOURS!" Before I do anything...what do you think? Did she cheat on me?!
    I had a vasectomy done...but now my wife is pregnant. "How?!?" "I don't know." "Did you..." "NO it's YOURS!" Before I do anything...what do you think? Did she cheat on me?!
    41 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 4 days ago
  • My fiancé is in jail, should I leave him?

    My fiancé is currently in jail for a crime he didn't even commit. He went in on Monday and I've cried everyday since because I know he doesn't deserve this and I'm worried for him. The only upside is that I've gotten closer to his parents and talking to them has helped. But still, I've never... show more
    My fiancé is currently in jail for a crime he didn't even commit. He went in on Monday and I've cried everyday since because I know he doesn't deserve this and I'm worried for him. The only upside is that I've gotten closer to his parents and talking to them has helped. But still, I've never had a significant other that was behind bars. Plus, the jail he's being held in is in Arkansas and I live in Texas so I can't even visit him as much as I want to. His next court appearance is January 22 so he'll miss all the major holidays including my birthday. Now I'm starting to doubt whether I should go through with the wedding. I don't know how much time he'll end up serving or if he'll be able to put his life together once he gets out.
    16 answers · Engagements & Weddings · 1 day ago
  • Is my husband a hypocrite?

    My husband follows some female celebrities on Instagram who often post revealing selfies in their bikinis or wearing very little clothing. He regularly goes thru my Facebook and text messages to see who is texting or messaging me and asks me about then even though I never message back other guys ever my husband... show more
    My husband follows some female celebrities on Instagram who often post revealing selfies in their bikinis or wearing very little clothing. He regularly goes thru my Facebook and text messages to see who is texting or messaging me and asks me about then even though I never message back other guys ever my husband tells me they shouldn’t be messaging me in the first place and I should get off of Facebook. Is he being a hypocrite?
    18 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • How can I apologize to my wife for calling her chunky in front of her friends then jiggling her belly?

    My wife was being recorded by her friends. They said "ok introduce yourself", then I snuck up behind her, jiggled her belly and said "hi my name is chunky". To make things worse her friend uploaded the video on Facebook. My wife seems down about it
    My wife was being recorded by her friends. They said "ok introduce yourself", then I snuck up behind her, jiggled her belly and said "hi my name is chunky". To make things worse her friend uploaded the video on Facebook. My wife seems down about it
    10 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 6 hours ago
  • Isnt cheating kinda natural for males?

    Best answer: Yes, especially when the main goal of male animals (including humans) is to release sperm. It is biologically driven. Males could be monogamous, and in the few monogamous animal specie examples, they are known to be frequent copulators, even outside of estrous fertile periods. However, there are female animals... show more
    Best answer: Yes, especially when the main goal of male animals (including humans) is to release sperm. It is biologically driven. Males could be monogamous, and in the few monogamous animal specie examples, they are known to be frequent copulators, even outside of estrous fertile periods. However, there are female animals which use cuckoldry as a strategy. So, it's natural, but only in the context of the female of the species restricting access to the release of sperm. I mean that's why men cheat, because someone else is providing for that release.
    120 answers · Singles & Dating · 7 days ago