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I'm a teenager that seeks advice from people when I get lost in certain situations, and I help people with my own personal opinions and what I think.

  • Do you believe Gaming Steamers are a service to the community? Do you believe they deserve making more money than you? ?

    I have pondered this topic for quite a while; it’s very controversial, due to the sacrilege of even suggesting a question. However, this is something I’ve felt subjective about. I know out of the times I’ve retorted to the idea that streamers or internet celebrities deserve the attention, popularity, and finance that comes from streaming— I’ve been met with negative, overwhelming responses. But I truly want someone’s opinion on this without jumping to conclusions. Do internet celebrities benefit us, normal average working-class people, and do they deserve the fame and glory that they have? Is it something you hope to achieve one day? What do you feel about someone else making more money than you do for little than nothing other than being at home or taking photos and videos of themselves?

    Celebrities3 months ago
  • Is it normal to not have an apartment at 19?

    Truth be told: I’m horrendous with handling money properly, and it’s probably the main reason I’m not even out on my own. I am in the military, I have a job, but most of the checks I get, are for my car and phone and health bills. Yet, most of my friends that I know who are the same age as me; have their own place. And it sounds quite envious (because it really is) but I feel like at 19, I should be like them. It’s a shame for me, because I can’t control my impulses for spending money and it puts me in bad financial situations already. I hate that I haven’t saved or tried to even go for getting my own place yet I desire it so badly. Is it normal to not have my own place at nineteen or am I just simply making the wrong choices?

    11 AnswersRenting & Real Estate8 months ago
  • Is Amazon worth working at?

    I’ve heard so many stories and things told about the toughness of the job inside the warehouse and how it can affect people mentally and socially; I have a girlfriend, we both have been wanting to get a place together, but I’m worried this job is going to run me dry and occupy me from my home life for a long time. The problem is that I’m only 19, I didn’t go to college, and I am hoping that I can just keep one job down for once and the problem is that I don’t know if this job is worth the effort or time spending in. If I have to work holidays, then I’ll miss out on being with family, and if I have my military duties, then I’ll get into trouble with amazon (I’m pretty sure they don’t care about military obligations) so I need a real honest answer here as to whether this is the job I should take or should I venture out for other work. 

    8 AnswersOther - Careers & Employment9 months ago
  • Why are there so many recreational cannabis users? ?

    The question sounds like stereotyping, but I’m actually more so curious than I am prejudicial. I honestly don’t understand the “hype” behind smoking marijuana or the properties of its recreational use; not to say I haven’t tried this myself because I have. But I had horrific experiences with marijuana use (one or two good experiences out of the ten or so times I have smoked) and it just etched in my mind, why do people enjoy it so much? Why am I not feeling what these other people are? I’m curious to hear thoughts and opinions as to what people find so enjoyable about this plant and it’s abilities. I just am curious, so please, no hate!

    7 AnswersOther - Society & Culture9 months ago
  • What does my dream mean? What’s the message?

    This is a detailed dream. I just woke up in a complete sweat bath but it was so terrifying and disturbing that I need someone who may know what it means; in my dream, I was at some place, and I knew the people in it, and there was a party— I was with my girlfriend whom we both were given a room. I don’t remember all the details, but essentially she goes missing, and my girlfriend is nowhere to be found. I’m guessing that this lasts for a few weeks, and that I’m grieving over the disappearance of her, and the next thing I know, I’m contacting spirits with these people in the home to find her. We get contact, and for some reason, I end up in this dimension that’s something reminiscent of The Further from those Insidious movies (this dream was ridiculous) and I see this thing, that was malicious, looking like a old person covered in a robe, that grabbed my hands and vanished completely. Months went by in the dream, as I could tell that I was in a different season, and everyone who went to this house party was returning back only this time in suits (as if a funeral) and we all visited again, I was for some reason under the impression we were trying to find my girlfriend again, but it ended up where they blocked up the area that we searched previously months beforehand. And it was there, where I felt like the story of this dream was left unfulfilled. By the end of the dream, my girlfriend’s voice echoed in the vents and I woke up. Someone please explain this, I’m horrified.

    3 AnswersDream Interpretation10 months ago
  • Am I overworking myself? Should I find other work?

    I recently started a new job about two weeks ago, and by this point, it shouldn’t even be an option to just want to quit. However, there seems to be a ton of work due in a day. I work from 5PM usually until 7AM, practically everyday. I have only Saturdays and Sundays off, and it’s a warehouse job. I pick orders, and ship crates. When I first got told about this job, it was supposed to be a 5PM-1AM job, but because we are low on hires, it’s made the work tripled over our guys that are there. It’s beginning to really take a toll on myself, and I know that people say to place your health before your work but it’s important to have some kind of job. To me, it’s not too bad on pay, but the pay period is just ridiculous— it’s twice a month. And I make $14 an hour, but I got a check for 95 hours, and it was nothing at all near what I heard others making. I need advice, because this job is interfering with my relationship, my home life, and the time I’m making money to been get by. What is the best option?

    Side Note: my boss is incredibly intolerant of scheduling more than two days off, and she is not completely satisfied with me being in the National Guard as she’s stated issues with me scheduling weekends off because of it.

    1 AnswerOther - Careers & Employment12 months ago
  • Can you turn a leased car back into the dealership after a certain amount of time?

    I financed a car, by cosigning with a family member, however due to income not being sufficient enough, I've only managed to barley get by paying for this vehicle. I have had it for about three months now, but it's coming clear that I am struggling to make the money for it, and I know that obviously there is a contract that reads information out, but I need to know from prior experience the consequences for turning a financed car back in. I have paid on time every month so far, however, I just don't feel that I am prepared to start making these payments for the next several years. Any advice on what I can do to save myself the trouble? Or am I completely going to throw myself into the hole by doing this?

    10 AnswersBuying & Selling1 year ago
  • Should I move out on my own?

    I’m 19 years old, I just dropped out of college because I realized it wasn’t for me and I feel that I should do something different. I’ve been in the Army for 2 years now, and I have a job, but my family and I don’t see eye-to-eye in anything including the military. I have no where to go at this point and with me dropping out of school, they’re going to start making me pay rent but it’ll be under their house rules still— I have no reason to stay at this point because it seems like I’d be doing the same thing if I moved out on my own. Is it possible? Can it be done to live on your own? I need advice.

    5 AnswersFamily1 year ago
  • Is it unhealthy to be 120 LBS if I am a 19-year old guy?

    I am in the Army National Guard, I work out daily and do my normal routine of cardio and muscle workouts, however, I eat a lot, like tremendously a lot. Some foods that are unhealthy, and some that are great. However, I ve been losing weight a lot, and I am not sure whether to be worried or not. I meet weight and height standards but just barley, and I am not sure if it is normal to just be naturally a thin and small person, is this unhealthy that I am that small? I ve been eating protein sourced diets and fats, however, I am not gaining much weight from it. I went up to 130 LBS last week but I am not sure why I am so small. Any reasons or concerns I should know of? Doctor s said it was fine and that there was nothing irregular about my health.

    6 AnswersDiet & Fitness2 years ago
  • How can one get back on their feet after a horrible few months?

    I'm not dramatic or anything, so I know the context of this question is a little off-putting but it's genuinely something I am asking because I am concerned for myself. I am an American Soldier, who has been home for the last four months and I for some reason cannot seem to make things better for myself. I am working, I am in college, and I am just sitting at home all the time working out or just playing video games. It's beginning to really irk me in a sense that I am alone out here, and that I have no one to go to or talk with. And when I do try to go back out of my way to talk with people, I just get rejected or ignored. I feel different and entirely alien, but I don't understand it. I am nineteen years old, just trying to find new people since I've been home. I had a girlfriend who cheated on me while I was gone, so I don't have a girlfriend now, and it seems every girl I've asked out hasn't really been interested. I'm not sure what is going on or what I can do to just get better. Can anyone explain why this is all happening like this? Why I feel so alone?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating2 years ago
  • How can I resolve awkwardness between my girlfriend and I?

    This girl and I have been dating for about a month now but I ve noticed that she hardly ever keeps a conversation flowing-- maybe this is a nitpick of mine but it kind of concerns me because to me I feel like there isn t an interest in someone when you aren t presenting yourself to conversate or be open. I like her a lot and she does like me a lot too and we get along just fine but we haven t even been together long enough for these silences to start coming. It just feels odd to me and I need advice on how I should approach this. In the most nicest way I could, I essentially said that she was allowed to be open and that I wasn t judgemental. But nothing has really changed. Advice?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating2 years ago
  • Why doesn't my girlfriend like sex?

    My girlfriend tends to be very self-conscious about sex and it's been like this for ten months. We do it occasionally within a span of two months but I just can't ever convince her to want sex with me. So I don't know if it's me or if she's having trouble because she says it's hard for her to. Any way to fix this? What should I do?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • How long will this package take?

    I ordered a package from Nicaragua two days ago and it s a economy package. How much longer should I expect this item to be shipped?

  • Should I leave or wait?

    So... I am stuck with this girl that I have been sexually active with and now I am leaving due to afflictions and what not not and I did have unprotected sex once with her and she s on birth control shots or DMPA and I don t know what to do because I don t believe that they will work. She s been on the shot for over a year and I don t know what to think of it, she could say anything about me and I d get in trouble over it, I really need help on what to do.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • Does the DMPA shot work?

    Me and my girlfriend had unprotected sex about a week ago and she claims to have been on this "shot" for about a year and that she never has her period, of course, I pulled out but the worry is still bothering me and I'm not sure how it'll go, will she get pregnant even when on the shot? She's been taking it each time she's told to and I just am worried.

    1 AnswerPregnancy5 years ago
  • Weird rash/sore on my penis from master baiting?

    This isn't a STD because I had this before I performed any sexual activities and it's been on my penis for quite sometime but I am not sure how to fix it, I heard it goes away overtime but I don't know if that's true, I masterbait quite a lot and I want to know if that's why. Will stopping cure the sore?

    4 AnswersMen's Health5 years ago
  • Why do girls not like me?

    Okay, this is a standard question but quite a serious one actually, and it's really beginning to bother the hell out of me. First off, I don't understand why every girl I talk to automatically "friend-zones" me (not that it's wrong) and I just don't understand why some don't feel the same. I know you can't make someone like you, but I have been rejected so much that it's literally making me think that I am going to die a lonely life. Because it's that bad. Granted, I am not exactly a athlete or a popular guy- but what I don't understand is why I am avoided by girls so much. I have been told multiple times that I look good and that I am nice. But I don't understand why I haven't found that girl yet... I just don't know what to do anymore. And I am in high school too, which is even more worse, as most people have relationships around this time... and I see all these people kissing or hugging and I am just straddling along wishing I had something like that...

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • Is it wrong to doubt God sometimes?

    I won't lie, I have doubted God a lot in my time and I am not even an adult yet, but so much has happened... it's been impossible to really see God care for who I am or to worry for who I am. I just don't have enough answers or help to determine where he is or if he even cares. I trust him, I do in fact have faith, but there have been nights where I've prayed and just told God to kill me and to just take me away. Something like that and I just need guidance as to what his purpose is in this if he's not helping me. Or maybe I am too blind to notice it, but I need his help and I don't feel it... Is it wrong to doubt?

    8 AnswersReligion & Spirituality5 years ago
  • How long will my caffeine withdrawals last? And do they have long-term effects?

    I'm a teenager and I've just gotten off of the sodas and sugary drinks, I have been drinking these things for I would say about five years max. It was sort of daily in all perspectives but I never drank more than a liter a week, I'll leave it at that. And I just went cold turkey off the sodas and what not and I've been drinking plenty of water but I have been getting really tired and I've felt out of place and uneasy, it was hard for me to rest last night and it instantly knocked me out (had to take sleeping pills) and I just am curious when this will end because this has been going on for one week and it sort of calmed down besides last night, any idea of what it is? Or when it'll end?

    1 AnswerDiet & Fitness5 years ago
  • Should I join the military?

    For a while, I have been thinking about it and I'm not exactly the age for registration yet but I know I plan on at least taking a look at the fourms sometime... but my parents say it's a stupid thing to do and I shouldn't ever try to. But I have no purpose here in America and I want to be something to someone, so I think joining the military will help me do that on top of serving my country. Should I join?

    3 AnswersMilitary5 years ago