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  • How can i stop thinking about my ex gf shes on my mind all the time i cant handle the heart break?

    She has nearly everything i wanted in a girl she has BPD she pushed me away before i could get close and when i was with her she said she needed space she was scared incase i left her found someone else i stayed when i should have left i was falling in love with her and the things she feared i would do she did she left me stringed me along got with another guy she never said sorry for hurting me i put her feelings before my own she told me she liked me then she told me she loved me she looked me in the eyes and told me she loved me

    And now i feel like she took my confidence joy left me broken she has been sexually abused as a child so she is a little messed up all i did was love her try to make her happy she made me happy at the start now she made me feel miserable and gave me hope we could get back together and didn't say sorry for breaking my heart how could she be so self centred as well as heartless and i wish i could forget her i just want to be happy again she knew i had problems with my own mental health and she was the one who wanted to start a relationship with me its always about her she is mental ill she is not a bad person she deserves to be happy but shes so selfish just used me took advantage of my kindness she has nearly drove me insane i just want to be happy get a nice girl im sick of being lonely but i only want her i wish i never bothered chasing her

    Singles & Dating6 months ago
  • How do you deal with having adhd?

    I have meds but they keep me up all night o can sleep fine without them i gound out i have adhd can anybody give me pointers

    2 AnswersMental Health6 months ago
  • Is it normal to be scared of never finding love after getting hurt?

    Im 23 Just got my feelings hurt had a complicated ex girlfriend she has boardline personality disorder and BiPOLAR and i have heared that partners can feel these traits of bpd when i was with her we broke up because she wasn't in the frame of mind for a relationship she told me all her ex boyfriends had cheated or ran away or found someone else i waited for her months even turned down the opportunity to have sex incase my ex found out and it hurt her feelings i waited then she got back with her ex boyfriend the girl told me she loved me straight to my face and all that about how shes was scared i would abandon her and find someone else and forget her then she does that to me she is lost dont think she knows what she wants mixed up girl but she was unique snd and had good qualities nearly everything i wanted in a girl im scared incase i never find anybody like that and i will end up with someone i dont truly love truthfully i would rather have one good woman than hundreds of woman just want real love im only 23 i should not be thinking like this i didn't think like this till i dated her think i wss falling for her

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating6 months ago
  • Is there anyway i can get this girl back?

    She has boardline personality disorder and BiPOLAR we broke up at the start of the year she needed space i gave her it and she reached out to me said things would get better between us then her father died she got back with her ex who miss treated her he cheated on her then left her for another woman . I asked her why she would want to be with a guy who treated her like that she said because her dad past away when bad things happen she runs back to what she knows/a guy shes comfortable with in this chase i was jealous so i wrote on her Facebook timeline for all to see i wrote i love you and i know you love me and i dont care who sees this...i know i had no right doing that i apologised for doing thattbh i was jealous and hoping for a fight with her new boyfriend didn't work he didn't mail me or nothing she will come back to me at some point heres another reason why i done it

    He cheated on her then left her for another woman then after his new girlfriend left him he called her going on about how heart broken he was.and she has been through alot she self harms also i have been told everytime she gets a new boyfriend he contacts her its like he doesn't want her to move on and find someone else and he comes back when she loses her father he wasn't there when she was in a mental health hospital cutting herself in hospital intensive care after trying to commit suicide i will admit i messed up a little because i didn't understand her mental health and i care for the girl

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating6 months ago
  • Good noir horror mystery detective movies?

    Like the game la noire finds a dead body and has to track down the serial killer i like flims like that even ones in colour i know technically it would not be a be a noir flim because its in colour but its the 21 century

    3 AnswersMovies6 months ago
  • How can ADHD ruin relationships?

    I have found out i have ADHD i was just wondering incase i do things and not realise it i know its not a serious mental illness and everyone has faults

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating6 months ago
  • Can someone tell me how ADHD can ruin a relationship ?

    I have found out i have ADHD late last year its not a serious mental condition i know i have little moods swings i can go from chatty to being quite im male i get jealous sometimes in relationship i dont like being jealous but its only when a girl gives me a reason not to trust her and i only get jealous because i care and want to keep them but i might do things a girl would not like and not realise it my last girlfriend had Borderline personality disorder and tbh when she done things i didn't like and wouldn't put up with i dont know if she knew she was testing my patience or if she didn't realise  i use to think be embarrassed to admit i had ADHD to a girl i liked because i do have screw lose some of my friends say im crazy but that's because i was drunk and done mad things im can be wild at times i seem too attracted crazy girls idk

    Mental Health6 months ago
  • Good noir flims?

    Serial killers ones like the missons of la noire horror mystery thriller ones in colour too i know if its in colour its not noir but i just liked la noire because of the murder mystery 

    1 AnswerBooks & Authors6 months ago
  • What flim is this?

    A guys standing outside his exes house screaming stella while ripping his top off at lest i think it must be his ex to pull off a stunt like that

    6 AnswersSingles & Dating6 months ago
  • Have i messed it up?

    Ex girlfriend she got back together with her other ex i mailed her in Facebook asked if we could be friends and she said yes i asked why she got back with that guy because she told me he cheated on her and left her for another girl she wrote back im not thinking clearly its because my dad died i tend to run back to what i know it probably wont last long........i was drunk and i ended up writing on her Facebook timeline i love you and i know you still love me.........didn't go well she told me to delete it and wasn't happy its because she has boardline personality disorder and BiPOLAR and i thought the guy was just taking advantage of her because she is vulnerable and just knew i could treat her better just wasn't thinking clearly i know i was wrong to write that on her timeline i mailed her friend to let her know i was sorry for doing that she mailed from her friends Facebook said she would unblock me if i promised never to do it again just its been a rollercoaster with a emotions we were still friends intill i did that i tried to get her back she told me lets see how we get on as friends then we can see its not a no ....we broke up because of her mental health problems and its hard to figure her out if i act like i dont care would bring back attraction but if i act like i dont ehel think i dont love her its drove me mad im just walking away and doing my own thing plenty of girls out there im not desperate for a girlfriend but i admit i was desperate for her

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating6 months ago
  • How can i get my confidence back ex bpd girlfriend dumped me then strings me along then gets back with her ex?

    The girl just used me i fell for her and i wanted to be with her hope everything would go well but it didn't she got back together with her ex boyfriend and im better she pushed me away before i got close to her and i done nearly everything right it might have worked out but she still had feelings for her ex and it hurts and im having stupid thoughts such as i will never met anybody and fall in love i have ADHD i just wanted to be with her the girl never gave me a chance shes been sexual abused by her father and then her dad died recently and she told me the relationship wouldn't last long and she goes back to whats she knows just i know i could have been the one if i met her first and its messed with my head overthinking wrost part is she didn't say sorry for hurting me when me and her broke up i tried to get her back but she said she wasn't ready for a relationship and she needs to get back on her feet first and i waited on her i had the chance to have sex with my other ex but i didn't incase she found out and it hurt her feelings i just put her before myself i understand shes not a bad person but is very inconsiderate to other peoples feelings but its just hurt me make me feel insecure and i know it will pass my bpd is gorgeous and she told me she liked me we were dating then her ex came back into the scene i dont know if shes confused wants to be with him or just thinks hes the only guy that can handle her i have just been overthinking and its been driving crazy

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating6 months ago
  • Girls what do you find attractive in a guy?

    Just wondering because deep down im that sweet romantic type but i always seem to mess things up im not like that at the start its only when i get to know a girl and i start to fall for her

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating6 months ago
  • Can people give me reasons to stay back from a bpd ex girlfriend and BiPOLAR?

    She has boardline personality disorder and BiPOLAR shes is lost basically i got it more complicated now and i dont want to get involved in a love triangle shes got back with her ex boyfriend but gives me signs that it wont last and that i can get her back she broke my hearts lowered my my confidence and i am better off away from her i build her up and give her confidence and the other guy just uses her im sick of it im gave her everything i had and she nearly left me broken

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating6 months ago
  • How can i get over my ex girlfriend ?

    She has 2 mental illnesses borderline personality disorder and BiPOLAR when i fell for her we broke up because of her illness and i tried to get her back she said not the now and lets see how we get on as friends then i waited and waited then her dad died then she got back with her ex boyfriend the guy cheated on her and left her for another woman he met her first and then he gets back together with her when shes vulnerable  i was talking to her asking if we could still be friends she said yes i said you can do so much better she said my dad died im not thinking straight  it probably won't last long .so i wrote on her Facebook timeline i love you and i know you still love me she wrote to me how dare you delete that. And i know im better than him i thought it would get her back i fell in love with the girl when i done it i thought she would come back or he would realise her wroth and not take her for granted and know someone else like me would love her and not think he can pick her up and leave her anytime because of her mental illness but the girl has been mistreated all her life so maby she likes being treated like that plus she never said sorry for hurting me and using me she maby shes not the person i thought she was she is also blaming me for nearly ruining her relationship just if he cared about her move on not keep hurting her maby thats why she blocked me so i could move on it just hurts she is different from anyorher girl i met 

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating6 months ago
  • Should i leave her alone for the sake of her mental health ?

    She had borderline personality disorder and BiPOLAR she is my ex reached out to me a few weeks ago said things up getting between me and her but her dad died i have contacted her just to show i care and she called me i have always been their for her but me contacting her i starting to thing it will mess with her head i do still love her and want her back but i feel like me asking her how she is is a little bit selfish shes been through enough in her life im not excepting her to get back together will me but i wish i could be there for her but at the same time i dont want to mess with her head because i know she misses me 

    I treated her like a princess when i was with her i messed up a few ways because i didn't understand her mental illness i dont know if i try to help it will it make things worse im not the type of man to take advantage of a vulnerable girl with serious problems 

    1 AnswerMental Health7 months ago
  • How can i gain weight i am fin and im a little insecure about it?

    I cant gain wait im skinny i can eat what i want i never get fat its a blessing and curse i am male and i get insecure about being skinny because it kinda makes me look like a easy and when i ly on my back it looks wrose you can see my rib cage a little and i get insecure when i have a girlfriend its not very manly and im sick of being slim im doung push up to build muscle but that makes me lose weight

    Just i dont think most women want a skinny man im not a bad looking guy just my weight im insecure about

    2 AnswersDiet & Fitness7 months ago
  • Can someone give me reasons to forget my ex girlfriend with borderline personality disorder?

    I still have feelings for her she reaches out to me makes it clear she still wants a relationship with me i love her but i learn the hard way i need to get her out my head

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating7 months ago
  • Borderline ex girlfriend help im sick of thinking about her?

    She has bpd i met her last year she is a good person her heart is in the right but her mind is not she broke up with me but we didn't end things on bad terms she told me we could try again when shes better i love and miss her but shes hard work she ended up back in a mental hospital after we broke up

    Also get this she needs constant reassurance but also needs space she told me i did something to upset her everyday i give her space then its sorry dont leave me fearing i was going to abandon  her i send her message telling her i love her im smothering her when at the time i hadn't seen her for weeks i just tryed to make her feel wanted im not perfect but im not the source for all problems other women with bpd told me to give up and wake away its not me its her

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating7 months ago