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  • Ex wants to work on us but stay single for time being ?

    So my ex broke up with me a month ago now, after a few messages of me trying to convince him to stay, I gave him the break up & let him be. He came back this week & wanted to meet & we got drunk and I stayed over as I think it started to hit him that he’d lost me. We went for a walk yesterday and he poured his heart to me on what he is willing to do to build this relationship back. We have been together 4 years on and off and are best friends so it’s not been easy. He said to me that he wants to stay in contact, talk and see eachother but made it clear that we are BOTH single & he will see how he is with me in due time whether he thinks it will work. I’m a very emotionally invested girl & I love this guy to death so I had questions. “Are you going to take other girls out?” “Are you going to actively speak to other girls and potentially sleep with them?” .....being a girl & being absolutely in love with this man, I know he is entitled to do so, but why would he if he wanted to build things with me? 

    I’m entitled to do the same, but why would I accept a date or sleep with someone else if it could jeopardise US. 

    He said he wouldn’t want to jeopardise it either but said if it did happen, I would have to accept it as he is SINGLE. I know for sure, I cannot wait around, knowing he’s sleeping with other girls until he’s ready. 

    Am I ok in saying this is fine but if you get one feeling you want to take another girl out or whatever, I’m OUT. I’m not a fool!!?? Is this acceptable? 

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating3 months ago
  • EX BROKE UP WITH ME NEED OPINIONS ?

    my ex went to jail for 2.5 years . came out 6 months ago. Before jail, our relationship wasn’t great, he cheated on me 3 times,

    one of which being his ex who I’ve been insecure about. I was 19 when he went & I stupidly agreed to wait for him but I was just so in love with him. I tried my hardest I really did, I went to every court date, sometimes meaning I was homeless the night, I sent him so much money & for cannabis if he wanted too. I travelled hundreds of miles every month to visit. I found out in jail he was speaking to his ex gf...BUT I STILL WENT BACK!! Anyway, I was young,got bad friends & wanted attention. I shut guys down for him but one night when I was drunk in town I didn’t, I met a guy and we exchanged numbers, which is awful. He dropped me and my friend home & we carried on talking & flirting a bit. I felt awful but I told this man I couldn’t pursue anything bc I had a boyf in jail. I ended up meeting with him once WITH my friend + we had a drink. I didn’t sleep with this man but he bragged to EVERYONE he had. It got back to my boyf and I told him we’d spoken etc but no sex. He took me back but now 6 months after he’s out of jail, we’re so happy and it comes up again, bc this guy put it in a group chat (this was 2 years ago) & some of my ex’s friends saw it. He broke it off, doesn’t believe me & I’m 99% sure he’s sleeping with his ex..which breaks my heart. Help Pls. I can’t get over the GUILT and the jealousy. I know I did wrong so please don’t beat me up. 

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating4 months ago
  • LIFE IS MESSY AND I NEED HELP ?

    my ex went to jail for 2.5 years . came out 6 months ago. Before jail, our relationship wasn’t great, he cheated on me 3 times,

    one of which being his ex who I’ve been insecure about. I was 19 when he went & I stupidly agreed to wait for him but I was just so in love with him. I tried my hardest I really did, I went to every court date, sometimes meaning I was homeless the night, I sent him so much money & for cannabis if he wanted too. I travelled hundreds of miles every month to visit. I found out in jail he was speaking to his ex gf...BUT I STILL WENT BACK!! Anyway,  I was young,got bad friends & wanted attention. I shut guys down for him but one night when I was drunk in town I didn’t, I met a guy and we exchanged numbers, which is awful. He dropped me and my friend home & we carried on talking & flirting a bit. I felt awful but I told this man I couldn’t pursue anything bc I had a boyf in jail. I ended up meeting with him once WITH my friend + we had a drink. I didn’t sleep with this man but he bragged to EVERYONE he had. It got back to my boyf and I told him we’d spoken etc but no sex. He took me back but now 6 months after he’s out of jail, we’re so happy and it comes up again, bc this guy put it in a group chat (this was 2 years ago) & some of my ex’s friends saw it. He broke it off, doesn’t believe me & I’m 99% sure he’s sleeping with his ex..which breaks my heart. Help Pls. I can’t get over the GUILT and the jealousy. I know I did wrong so please don’t beat me up. 

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating4 months ago
  • EX MOVING ON...PLEASE HELP?

    So my ex broke up with me last week because of rumours I cheated when he was in jail for 2.5 yrs for drugs. Really what happened is I was so silly and craving attention at 19/20 yrs old & was speaking over text with a guy & basic flirting which I know is SO wrong but I never slept with this man, he just bragged to everyone he did.My ex’ friends are convinced I did it and it’s been hard trying to tell him it’s a lie.He has come round slightly and he misses me and wishes we were happy but I know how much he values sex, A LOT. 

    He cheated on me a few times (3) before jail & the hurt from that has stuck with me but we moved on from that. 

    I am struggling beyond words on how to deal with images of him sleeping with another girl. It was a punch to the stomach him breaking up so the thought of him taking a girl on a date with the intentions of sleeping with her, is another MASSIVE punch. 

    I imagine every detail, the girl moaning,penetration, the act in DETAIL & it’s driving me INSANE.  

    It helps when people explain sex is natural & it’s just 2 genitals meeting and ‘sex is nothing to guys’ but it’s more to me. 

    we are soul mates, best friends, we miss eachother but I don’t know how I could move on from this...should I tell him that if he sleeps with someone else I can’t get back with him? 

    Pls note that I gave him everything in jail, money, I travelled hundreds of miles every month to see him, bought and sent clothes, was homeless on occasions just to attend court dates 

    Help PLEASE

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating4 months ago
  • PLEASE HELP ME. EX MOVING ON ?

    So my ex broke up with me last week because of RUMOURS that I had cheated on him but really it was just a guy pretending he had slept with me and telling his boys group chat (whom some of which are friends with my boyf). Ridiculous. Very hurtful. Anyway, his friends are convinced I deffo did it and it’s been hard trying to tell him it just didn’t happen. He has come round slightly and tells me he misses me and wishes we were happy etc but I know how much he values sex, he wants it all the time. 

    He has cheated on me in the past and the hurt from that has stuck with me till this day but we moved on from that. 

    I am struggling beyond words on how to deal with the mental images of him sleeping with another girl. We aren’t together so we can do as we please really but it was a punch to the stomach him breaking up with me so the thought of him moving on, taking a girl on a date with the intentions of sleeping with her, is another MASSIVE punch to the stomach. 

    I imagine every last detail, the girl moaning,penetration, body, the act in DETAIL and it’s driving me INSANE. It’s 5am right now. 

    It helps when people explain we are all human and sex is a natural thing and it’s just 2 genitals meeting and ‘sex is nothing to guys’ but it’s so much more to me. 

    I have the feeling he wants to get back with me, we are soul mates, we both miss eachother but I don’t know how I could move on from this...should I tell him that if he sleeps with someone else I can’t get back with him? 

    Help PLEASE

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating4 months ago
  • EX SLEEPING WITH OTHER PEOPLE HELP PLEASE ?

    So my ex broke up with me last week because of RUMOURS that I had cheated on him but really it was just a guy pretending he had slept with me and telling his boys group chat (whom some of which are friends with my boyf). Ridiculous. Very hurtful. Anyway, his friends are convinced I deffo did it and it’s been hard trying to tell him it just didn’t happen. He has come round slightly and tells me he misses me and wishes we were happy etc but I know how much he values sex, he wants it all the time. 

    He has cheated on me in the past and the hurt from that has stuck with me till this day but we moved on from that. 

    I am struggling beyond words on how to deal with the mental images of him sleeping with another girl. We aren’t together so we can do as we please really but it was a punch to the stomach him breaking up with me so the thought of him moving on, taking a girl on a date with the intentions of sleeping with her, is another MASSIVE punch to the stomach. 

    I imagine every last detail, the girl moaning,penetration, body, the act in DETAIL and it’s driving me INSANE. It’s 5am right now. 

    It helps when people explain we are all human and sex is a natural thing and it’s just 2 genitals meeting and ‘sex is nothing to guys’ but it’s so much more to me. 

    I have the feeling he wants to get back with me, we are soul mates, we both miss eachother but I don’t know how I could move on from this...should I tell him that if he sleeps with someone else I can’t get back with him? 

    Help PLEASE

    Singles & Dating4 months ago
  • Ex sleeping with other people ?

    So my ex broke up with me last week because of RUMOURS that I had cheated on him but really it was just a guy pretending he had slept with me and telling his boys group chat (whom some of which are friends with my boyf). Ridiculous. Very hurtful. Anyway, his friends are convinced I deffo did it and it’s been hard trying to tell him it just didn’t happen. He has come round slightly and tells me he misses me and wishes we were happy etc but I know how much he values sex, he wants it all the time. 

    He has cheated on me in the past and the hurt from that has stuck with me till this day but we moved on from that. 

    I am struggling beyond words on how to deal with the mental images of him sleeping with another girl. We aren’t together so we can do as we please really but it was a punch to the stomach him breaking up with me so the thought of him moving on, taking a girl on a date with the intentions of sleeping with her, is another MASSIVE punch to the stomach. 

    I imagine every last detail, the girl moaning, her body, the act in DETAIL and it’s driving me INSANE. It’s 5am right now. 

    It helps when people explain we are all human and sex is a natural thing and it’s just 2 genitals meeting and ‘sex is nothing to guys’ but it’s so much more to me. 

    I have the feeling he wants to get back with me, we are soul mates, we both miss eachother but I don’t know how I could move on from this...should I tell him that if he sleeps with someone else I can’t get back with him? 

    Help 

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating4 months ago
  • FUCKBUDDY CONFUSION ?

    I’ve been sleeping with a guy for 2 years pretty much every week. I developed feelings and told him.he didn’t feel the same but we still kept sleeping together & he buys me very nice presents on birthdays and Christmas etc. we speak very occasionally, I know he respects me in some light, it’s not just ‘sex and leave’. He is all I need to satisfy my needs and all I have time for.

    I’m confused because I know he has had a girlfriend in the past and slept with other people at the same time, which shows he’s not a great guy to start. He said in convo about how he’d text an ‘old flame’ last time I saw him and how she wants to have 2 guys at a time with him. This makes me feel like **** OBVIOUSLY. He doesn’t usually tell me about women, I know he can have so many. He is a VERY fit & wealthy man. He knows he’s the only person I’m sleeping with and yet he seems to be texting so many girls, he is older, he doesn’t work so has a lot of time but how does he find the time and have the peace of mind to know that all these girls are clean? I have been to get checked many times and I am always clean but it kind of just baffles me how I’m okay with sleeping with just him and we both LOVE the sex, but every time I see him talking to women in bars or see different cars outside his house etc I get so jealous. 

    He is entitled to do as he pleases & that’s ok but really ? Do all men do this?he has kids but WHY does he need to fill every spare day with a different girl it seems? 

    Thanks  

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating8 months ago
  • Sex feels different after switching partners?

    So I was seeing a guy for about 2 years (only seeing him) and every time the sex was amazing he was quite large so I could feel a lot when having sex and it felt AMAZING. Very casual relationship but none the less amazing.. I have recently slept with someone else in the past month who was even bigger and longer and gave me a different more deep sensation during sex. Since then, I’ve gone back to the original guy (2 casual relationships at the same time) and the first guy feels totally different, I can’t really feel much and it feels like I am so much looser. 

    The question is; is this just in my head because I’ve gone to someone bigger and then gone back to the first guy? 

    Or has the 2nd guy made my vagina bigger or something? 

    I don’t know if it’s me or him! 

    Help! 

    He seems to enjoy it still but I just don’t feel the enjoyment I used to get from him after having a taste of someone bigger... 

    thanks 😊

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating9 months ago
  • Fuckbuddy present ?

    Hi, 

    So I’m in a dilemma and need some advice from strangers on the internet, I have been strictly sleeping with this man for about 2 years now...we have never gone on a date, I just go round to sleep with him, we chat and we have a drink and then I leave. Yes I should have more respect for myself but this is what I’m in now. He is a nice man and over time I have strongly caught feelings, of which he knows because I told him one time... but things have just carried on as normal. This man is very wealthy and last Christmas (after only seeing him for a short time) bought me a designer bag. I was hoping he wouldn’t buy me anything this year because I have NO clue what to buy this man, he is a man with EVERYTHING. 

    Anyway, he bought me some balenciagas and dropped them round my house, but only came in, dropped them off and left. 

    I bought him a bottle of gin liquor he likes and some expensive chocolate because I had no clue what to buy him. 

    2 questions; 

    Would this mean anything to you..as in, why would he buy me this if he thought nothing of me, just someone to **** and also I feel so so so so guilty about what I bought him, I thought afterwards that I could’ve bought him some cologne but i didn’t think and just am so embarrassed with what I gave him.. 

    Please help! 

    Thanks 

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating10 months ago