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  • boyfriend and porn, what do you think.. suggestions?

    I have no issue with my partner watching porn occasionally because i know its something most men do.. but the other day he went on his saved bookmarks on his phone and i saw a folder with pornography saved on it so curiosity got the better of me and i couldn't help myself and i had a look/ There were around 30 pornography sites saved a lot of them were pics of 'young babes' etc and videos and were the same age as me around 19 .. my partners 25. there was also some saved called naturally beautiful woman, pretty girls etc with just pics of their faces and also some really hardcore stuff. We have a baby together and i know he loves me but it does make me feel insecure, I am an attractive girl with nice body and i enjoy sex and like trying new things, i do the things he likes to do so its not like i'm depriving him of anything!I wish he wouldn't look at it and in someways its more hurtful he has random beautiful woman saved with clothes on as there is not much sexual about it. I always make sure i look nice for him and rarely get a compliment, has he lost attraction to me?

    4 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships8 years ago
  • Is my due date wrong :S ?

    Hi everyone i got pregnant soon after stopping the it febuary the 4th 2013. Worked out from my last period which was 30th on april 2012 but i think it may have been withdrawal bleed as my withdrawal bleed is usually quiet heavy.. on the 15th of May i got a clear positive pregnancy test but i think now looking back this is quiet early to get a positive after my period/ withdrawal bleeding, was i pregnant just before the bleed if that's possible? On my 12 and 20 week scan they have said the baby's development is fine, and i had my uterus measured at 30cm this week, surely the doctors would know? So what i'm basically asking is do you think my due date's right or wrong and if so why? Thankyou! x

    2 AnswersPregnancy8 years ago
  • Need peoples advice and opinions please read!! :(?

    Ok so you can see from my previous posts that when i first fell pregnant i had a lot of stress my mother in law said i should have an abortion and her mother my partners grandmother said she was praying for divine intervention( a miscarriage). Since me and my partner have got our own place all ready for when the baby comes( i am now 24 weeks pregnant with a little boy :D) his mother has got in contact, she didn't apologise but in so many words did and for my partners sake i said i'd like too move on. My partner is not overly supportive he is one of these men with no backbone who won't get involved or try to sort things unfortunately....

    Anyway so me and his mum have sorted things but me and his grandmother (she is a young grandmother) have not spoke and its her birthday, my partner asked me if i would write a card for her and turn up at her birthday with no invite, baring in mind what awful things she said and shes not bothered with me since i've been pregnant, i felt it is inappropriate and said that i feel i need an apology off her in order to move on,he said there's no chance of that from her and i said so why should i go out my way. It ended in a blazing row and he said he will take the baby too see her when hes born whether i like it or not and he does not care how i feel about it, i said i just wanted him to consider my feelings that after she was wishing death on him before he is born and she has given me so much stress and has not tried to sort things with me why should she, why is he supporting her so much and not me when he said hes not going to get involved and expecting me to forget and make an effort with her. I said i obviously don't have a choice in it. I guess what i'm asking is where would you go from here?

    3 AnswersOther - Pregnancy & Parenting8 years ago
  • Partners horrible Grandmother, what to do.. honest advice please? :)?

    Ok so you can see from my previous posts that when i first fell pregnant i had a lot of stress my mother in law said i should have an abortion and her mother my partners grandmother said she was praying for divine intervention( a miscarriage). Since me and my partner have got our own place all ready for when the baby comes( i am now 24 weeks pregnant with a little boy :D) his mother has got in contact, she didn't apologise but in so many words did and for my partners sake i said i'd like too move on. My partner is not overly supportive he is one of these men with no backbone who won't get involved or try to sort things unfortunately....

    Anyway so me and his mum have sorted things but me and his grandmother (she is a young grandmother) have not spoke and its her birthday, my partner asked me if i would write a card for her and turn up at her birthday with no invite, baring in mind what awful things she said and shes not bothered with me since i've been pregnant, i felt it is inappropriate and said that i feel i need an apology off her in order to move on,he said there's no chance of that from her and i said so why should i go out my way. It ended in a blazing row and he said he will take the baby too see her when hes born whether i like it or not and he does not care how i feel about it, i said i just wanted him to consider my feelings that after she was wishing death on him before he is born and she has given me so much stress and has not tried to sort things with me why should she, why is he supporting her so much and not me when he said hes not going to get involved and expecting me to forget and make an effort with her. I said i obviously don't have a choice in it. I guess what i'm asking is where would you go from here?

    3 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships8 years ago
  • horrible mother in law please answer i need advice! :(?

    my mother in law who is 50 has now moved out of her rented accomodation and in with her boyfriend. Me and my partener are still living in her rented accomodation and we move out in a week i am 10weks pregnant with his child and we are very happy. I have recently found out that she said that 'if i was her daughter she would frog march me down the abortion clinic' and her mother who would in effect be the childs great grandmother has been 'praying for divinve intervention (miscarridge). i am very upset about this and sent my partners mother a text saying that her comments are disgusting and after having miscarriages herself i wouldn't of thought she would be like that, i asked her to stay away from me. She has in return let herself into the house when me and my partner have been here and has screamed in my face and has said that shes entitled to her opinion and that i am disrespectful for texting her, i am not meant to know about the comments as she didnt say them too me only my partner . I told her they were hurtful and as far as she is concerned that is how she feels and has not done any wrong. She continued to swear and shout at me so i walked away and asked her to stay away as i dont need any more stress at the moment and she followed me and continued to shout. My partner is really upset from the lack of support from his family as am i. We are both responsible , happy and i know we will be great parents and i cannot see how his family could be this nasty. I no longer know what to do and we are both feeling very depressed about the situation.

    * my partner stood beside me and infront of me when his mother became too close and asked her to stop shouting and she would not listen. He is very supportive of me.

    2 AnswersFamily8 years ago
  • Horrible mother in law :( please help.?

    my mother in law who is 50 has now moved out of her rented accomodation and in with her boyfriend. Me and my partener are still living in her rented accomodation and we move out in a week i am 10weks pregnant with his child and we are very happy. I have recently found out that she said that 'if i was her daughter she would frog march me down the abortion clinic' and her mother who would in effect be the childs great grandmother has been 'praying for divinve intervention (miscarridge). i am very upset about this and sent my partners mother a text saying that her comments are disgusting and after having miscarriages herself i wouldn't of thought she would be like that, i asked her to stay away from me. She has in return let herself into the house when me and my partner have been here and has screamed in my face and has said that shes entitled to her opinion and that i am disrespectful for texting her, i am not meant to know about the comments as she didnt say them too me only my partner . I told her they were hurtful and as far as she is concerned that is how she feels and has not done any wrong. She continued to swear and shout at me so i walked away and asked her to stay away as i dont need any more stress at the moment and she followed me and continued to shout. My partner is really upset from the lack of support from his family as am i. We are both responsible , happy and i know we will be great parents and i cannot see how his family could be this nasty. I no longer know what to do and we are both feeling very depressed about the situation.

    * my partner stood beside me and infront of me when his mother became too close and asked her to stop shouting and she would not listen. He is very supportive of me.

    7 AnswersOther - Pregnancy & Parenting8 years ago
  • Pregnant and living with horribe mother in law Help!!?

    i am living with my boyfriends mother i am 18 he is 24. I am 9 weeks pregnant and are looking to move out in shortly. Since finding out i am pregnant she has put us on the spot to tell members of the family when me made clear we wanted noone to know yet and she is generally very rude to me. When we are discussing something about the baby she disagrees and will ignor me and say 'whatever'. She thinks i should try and claim benfits by pretending to be a single mum but i completly disagree and want to live with my partner and pay for ourselves as we are both employeed. She thinks im stupid fot not tricking my way to get a house off the council. Basically im fed up of her rude negative comments about me and my family and her thinking ive trapped her son when he is over the moon about the pregnancy. My parents were shocked but so pleased abut th pregnancy and said they will support us as much as they possibly can. I have continued to be polite to her and she has continued to be rude, what should i do?

    4 AnswersPregnancy8 years ago
  • STOPPED MINI PILL 28THMAR HAD UNPROTECTED 7 TIMES AFTER STOPPING, MILD CRAMPING NO BLEEDING? ANSWER PLEASE!?

    wondering when to expect my period ive been feeling like im going to come on last 4 days as have had sharp tummy cramps and slight lower back ache but no bleeding...could i be pregnant? if so when should i test?

    1 AnswerPregnancy9 years ago