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  • Can I have lipo with diastasis?

    I have consulted with 2 plastic surgeons and they are both hesitant to do lipo. 

    Per my doctor there is no defect. I was told I was a great candidate for lipo, but I can’t seem to find someone to do the procedure. Help!

  • How do I focus on myself?

    I’m moving to California from Wisconsin and could not be happier. Other people though, are definitely not happy for me. I don’t know why, but they give me a very hard time. I’m not unstable, I have a good head on my shoulders, I’m not unprepared, I know where I’m going. Their comments are meaningless. How do I focus on my life without their dramatic saga? 

    Mental Health1 week ago
  • Is this normal?

    I contacted a company I was interested in working for, and answered all of their interview questions “virtually.” I received an email back that went on and on about the owners success and money and all of his accomplishments. I replied back that they were impressive and that I’m interested in working for the company. I’d like to know if an opportunity is available. 

    Why the bragging? I don’t care. I want to work.

    4 AnswersOther - Careers & Employment2 weeks ago
  • Moving to San Francisco?

    I think it’s time to leave my current state and move to San Francisco. No, I’m not a troll. No, I’m not broke. Yes, I have an education, and yes, I do know it’s expensive. 

    I’m not out to impress anyone, but everyone I talk to says it’s too expensive, and how I won’t make it, how I’m early in my career and people who are actually experienced only go out there, and a bunch of really stupid things. Like, what about all of the students? I have friends who have moved out there for internships and have come back. Why can’t I?

    I applied for an internal transfer thru the company I work for and I’m really interested in the experience. All I need is a small apartment and a cat. Why is that so offensive?

  • Quitting Facebook?

    I have not logged on in 30 days, but I still get updates. I hope people know I’m busy making money, and not a *****. Lol.

    3 AnswersFacebook1 month ago
  • Advice? Coping with pandemic.?

    This virus is making me nuts. I’m losing it.

    It’s affecting me, I don’t like it, and on top of it, it’s bothering others too, so then they bother me.

    I’m so angry I could scream. 

    Strategies for coping are needed below. 

    (Ps: this has nothing to do with people’s money, power, politics, hate, discrimination, etc. so please be nice.)

    2 AnswersMental Health2 months ago
  • Social media is making me question my life choices..?

    Am I alone? Is the grass really greener? 

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating2 months ago
  • 2020 Toyota Highlander Hybrid or Kia Telluride?

    Serious driving applies.

    4 AnswersOther - Car Makes3 months ago
  • Can my employer put off a start date?

    They want me to start at the beginning of the payroll period. Can they do this? 

    5 AnswersSmall Business3 months ago
  • Mazda CX-5 or Jeep Renegade?

    I’m impressed by the safety ratings of a CX-5, but really really like how a renegade can handle off road. I do deliveries sometimes, and strong winter handling is extremely important. Any advice? Please answer below. :)

    1 AnswerOther - Cars & Transportation3 months ago
  • I work really really hard (just like a lot of people), but I’m given a hard time for it. How do I deal?

    These are difficult times for many, including myself, so please understand I’m not asking for sympathy or making fun of the situation. 

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating3 months ago
  • Why is social media so unkind to people who work for their money?

    We all have to make it somehow right?

    3 AnswersPolls & Surveys4 months ago
  • Is social media important?

    I feel like people are spending time posing for pictures, or taking selfies, while I’m working my a$$ off and getting put upon for my work ethic. I had a guy friend who took time to pose in front of a bunch of chickens for 50 likes. 

    I have 3 jobs and am making some pretty great money, but plenty of people are still doing better.

    Is Facebook that important regardless of income? 

    2 AnswersPolls & Surveys4 months ago
  • Are you worried about unemployment? ?

    I’m gainfully employed, but I’m still applying for jobs to build my resume, skill set, etc. and I’m shocked at the number of applicants there are for degree-required, experience-needed, not walk-in-the-door-get-hired-off-the-street-jobs. I’m very shocked. Like 22 applicants in 48 hours? Is this real?

    I missed a call from a recruiter for remote work, that I don’t necessarily need, and can’t get a return call. 

    What is happening? I’m worried about us, you, them, everyone! This is not our fault!

    6 AnswersOther - Careers & Employment4 months ago
  • Is it just me? ?

    As I get older, and perhaps wiser (I hope), I see people becoming more obsessed with job titles, rather than the actual work. Maybe I’m just not with the times, but like buying a car, having a home, having kids, etc. takes a lot of work. A lot of work and perseverance. I’m buying a car this fall, and I didn’t wake up one day and say, “I’m gonna but a car.” It took a lot of work and saving. 

    Am I crazy? Maybe it’s just social media. 

    2 AnswersPersonal Finance4 months ago
  • Is it normal to be angry over the COVID-19 situation? How do I deal?

    I’m becoming very angry. 

    The year after I graduated high school the economy went into a recession, and after I graduated college finding work wasn’t that easy, either. When it did get better I was fine, but not for long, because of this virus situation. 

    I’m fuming. This whole thing is a nightmare. Regardless if the shutdown was imposed or not, it’s going to take years to recover. 

    I’m just very angry. Life is tough enough.

    3 AnswersPsychology5 months ago
  • Is a government job really worth it?

    It’s been almost a year since I took it for financial reasons. It provided an extra source of money, etc.

    Lot’s of people quit, all the time for various reasons: they dislike it, it’s not for them, and after only 2 days. 

    If I stay, and I kind of need to, will it be worth it? 

    If so many people come and go, what am I worth?

    I’d like stick it out. I think I’ll be okay. Any advice is appreciated.

    1 AnswerOther - Careers & Employment5 months ago
  • Is picking a role model a good idea?

    There are people, and things in my life that I admire or wish to strive for and be like because of good qualities or character, not creepiness. Like my dance coach in 8th grade, or a co-worker of mine, etc.

    Is this normal to do? I’m in my 30’s, and I still find them. It helps keep me going. 

    2 AnswersPsychology5 months ago
  •  When will I be able to get a haircut?

    Hmmm? 🤞

    9 AnswersHair6 months ago