• Girls at work giving me signals or she thinks I’m gross?

    I work at a bar and one day I walked on to the bar and a girl I work with that I haven’t talked to stared at me as I walked in the doorway, she didn’t look away when I looked but I thought nothing of it. The next week I needed tot ask her where this food wasn’t going to and she grabbed my arm as she pointed the table out, when I walked back round to... show more
    I work at a bar and one day I walked on to the bar and a girl I work with that I haven’t talked to stared at me as I walked in the doorway, she didn’t look away when I looked but I thought nothing of it. The next week I needed tot ask her where this food wasn’t going to and she grabbed my arm as she pointed the table out, when I walked back round to wrap cutlery she stood in front of the cabinet I was wrapping cutlery on and said ‘you make me sweat, Darren’ and then held her arms out for a hug to which I backed off because I was like thinking ‘wtf’. The next night we were on a close the pub shift and in the staff room at the end of the night as we was putting her coat and scarf on she said ‘I haven’t got a boyfriend you know, Darren’ and smiled and the other guy at work there laughed as she smiled at me after saying it.
  • Girl on tinder wants to come to my place but do I look different on the tinder pic?

    ▪️3 photo album of me usually https://m.imgur.com/a/c032p8X ▪️tinder pic I used https://m.imgur.com/a/9Ikw555
    ▪️3 photo album of me usually https://m.imgur.com/a/c032p8X ▪️tinder pic I used https://m.imgur.com/a/9Ikw555
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 5 months ago
  • How do I ake thi?

    I work at a pub and a group of girls sitting and drinking and one stopped to ask me can they play music on their phones I said no we arnt allowed to play music and I said if it was up to me I’d let them but it isn’t etc and I walked off to get glasses from another table when she said something to her friend who laughed and in my way back last she... show more
    I work at a pub and a group of girls sitting and drinking and one stopped to ask me can they play music on their phones I said no we arnt allowed to play music and I said if it was up to me I’d let them but it isn’t etc and I walked off to get glasses from another table when she said something to her friend who laughed and in my way back last she looked at me and said ‘what time do you finish?’ I paused a little and said ‘oh 10pm’ (it was 8:40pm at this time) and then she turned away and said ‘oh so you don’t want to drink with us then’, is this a bad thing? Edit; they already asked my boss can they play music a while before and asked me later
    Polls & Surveys · 5 months ago
  • Was this a bad thing for my confidence?

    I go to appointments fortnightly with an employment advisor for the past month. I’m a 21 year old quiet guy. She reminded me the interviews she subbed me for that I had coming up and she subbed me for both of them (they get job opportunities) and she then turned upbeat and her voice also was upbeat (bubbly) she talked a little about it and then... show more
    I go to appointments fortnightly with an employment advisor for the past month. I’m a 21 year old quiet guy. She reminded me the interviews she subbed me for that I had coming up and she subbed me for both of them (they get job opportunities) and she then turned upbeat and her voice also was upbeat (bubbly) she talked a little about it and then said ‘ok do you need interview clothes?' (THey provide vouchers for interview clothes) I replied politely (I’m very quiet) ‘yes, Iv got all that' and she said 'oh have you got all that?’ (upbeat as I said) I said yes then she went on to say 'ok well don't forget, shirt, pants and shoes, (she moved her hands also while saying this like a checklist) make sure you get a shave, make sure you cut your nails..make sure you do your hair up all nice and that.....(then she paused as she was facing her computer) ..'and make sure you put some aftershave on aswell, for the girls make sure it's mens' then burst out laughing, she’s never even smiled before (I just smiled along with it) I a young guy and she’d in her early 30s. Just really worried she thinks I'm an ugly loser....or something like that. Need a 2nd opinion...I did need a shave which maybe why :/ she also put in the email ‘please dress smartly’ underlined. But she also chose me for 2 interviews and didn’t say anything about appearance at all the 2nd time so I don’t understand :/
    Abuse and Spam · 5 months ago
  • U.K.) how do I take this this?

    I was working as a waiter on a quiet midweek day and I was taking finished plates back to the kitchen when I felt a stare and immediately looked to my right and 1 of these 3 girls was smiling/smirking at me and looked me down at my side/arm when I looked at her (im tall and lanky and my arms looked a little bit big too because I had a one or two... show more
    I was working as a waiter on a quiet midweek day and I was taking finished plates back to the kitchen when I felt a stare and immediately looked to my right and 1 of these 3 girls was smiling/smirking at me and looked me down at my side/arm when I looked at her (im tall and lanky and my arms looked a little bit big too because I had a one or two layers in underneath) it was for about 3 seconds and then as I walked out of sight I heard a slight noise (couldn’t make it out) a bit later 2 of them were ordering food at the bar and on their way back I felt a stare while I was standing at the kitchen gantry bored and looked over to one of them girls (the friend of the girl who smiled at the start) on her own walking back to her table and when I looked over she laughed hard and put her hand to her mouth still looking at me then I looked away. I immediately got upset about if and I went to my team leader and assistant manager and refused to take their food to them regardless, I wanted them kicked out but my team leader wouldn't coz he said I can't be sure they were making fun of me, (I think they were) later on I had to check the toilets and I walked upstairs to girls toilets and the door opens and it was them girls I looked up and the girl that laughed earlier smiled at me, and I overheard em saying whys a boy going in girls toilets and walked past me as normal. but were they putting me down? I’m a guy btw This is me if it helps: https://m.imgur.com/a/YlAAhlA (3 photos)
    5 answers · Other - Beauty & Style · 5 months ago
  • U.K.) horrible job advisor forged my signature on an application form...can I do anything about it?

    She sent me an email saying: “Hi, Just to let you know i have competed the application form for you and it will be taken to the employer on Friday this week. Best of luck with your interviews tomorrow Kind regards” When I attended it a guy who works with her came over to me with the application form and asked me if it was my handwriting and I... show more
    She sent me an email saying: “Hi, Just to let you know i have competed the application form for you and it will be taken to the employer on Friday this week. Best of luck with your interviews tomorrow Kind regards” When I attended it a guy who works with her came over to me with the application form and asked me if it was my handwriting and I said no and he gave me a blank one to fill out. Why did she fill it out then I don’t understand
    5 answers · Other - Careers & Employment · 5 months ago
  • U.K.) does she talk down to me in a bad way?

    I go to appointments fortnightly with an employment advisor for the past month. She reminded me the interviews she subbed me for that I had coming up and she subbed me for both of them (they get job opportunities) and she then turned upbeat and her voice also was upbeat (bubbly) she talked a little about it and then said ‘ok do you need interview... show more
    I go to appointments fortnightly with an employment advisor for the past month. She reminded me the interviews she subbed me for that I had coming up and she subbed me for both of them (they get job opportunities) and she then turned upbeat and her voice also was upbeat (bubbly) she talked a little about it and then said ‘ok do you need interview clothes?' (Hey provide vouchers for interview clothes) I replied politely (I’m very quiet) ‘yes, Iv got all that' and she said 'oh have you got all that?’ (upbeat as I said) I said yes then she went on to say 'ok well don't forget, shirt, pants and shoes, (she moved her hands also while saying this) make sure you get a shave, make sure you cut your nails..make sure you do your hair up all nice and that.....(then she paused as she was facing her computer) ..'and make sure you put some aftershave on aswell, for the girls make sure it's mens' then burst out laughing, she’s never even smiled before (I just smiled along with it) I a young guy and she’d in her early 30s. Just really worried she thinks I'm an ugly loser....or something like that. Need a 2nd opinion...I did need a shave which maybe why :/ she also put in the email ‘please dress smartly’ underlined. But she also chose me for 2 interviews and didn’t say anything about appearance at all the 2nd time so I don’t understand :/
    4 answers · Other - Skin & Body · 5 months ago
  • Does she think I’m ugly and stink? Can’t stip thinking about it and hurt about it?

    I go to appointments fortnightly with an employment advisor for the past month. She reminded me the interviews she subbed me for that I had coming up and she subbed me for both of them (they get job opportunities) and she then turned upbeat and her voice also was upbeat (bubbly) she talked a little about it and then said ‘ok do you need interview... show more
    I go to appointments fortnightly with an employment advisor for the past month. She reminded me the interviews she subbed me for that I had coming up and she subbed me for both of them (they get job opportunities) and she then turned upbeat and her voice also was upbeat (bubbly) she talked a little about it and then said ‘ok do you need interview clothes?' (Hey provide vouchers for interview clothes) I replied politely (I’m very quiet) ‘yes, Iv got all that' and she said 'oh have you got all that?’ (upbeat as I said) I said yes then she went on to say 'ok well don't forget, shirt, pants and shoes, (she moved her hands also while saying this) make sure you get a shave, make sure you cut your nails..make sure you do your hair up all nice and that.....(then she paused as she was facing her computer) ..'and make sure you put some aftershave on aswell, for the girls make sure it's mens' then burst out laughing, she’s never even smiled before (I just smiled along with it) I a young guy and she’d in her early 30s. Just really worried she thinks I'm an ugly loser....or something like that. Need a 2nd opinion...I did need a shave which maybe why :/ she also put in the email ‘please dress smartly’ underlined. But she also chose me for 2 interviews and didn’t say anything about appearance at all the 2nd time so I don’t understand :/
    2 answers · Nepal · 5 months ago
  • U.K.) does she talk down to me in a bad way?

    I'm a 21 year old guy who’s quiet and can look nervous. who goes to appointments with a lady job advisor who's about 32 years old and when I get up to go from an appointment she would say ‘awwww’ (like rrrrrrr) before saying bye (maybe as a gap filler) and I sometime say thanks very much out of habit before she says it so idk. Also when I... show more
    I'm a 21 year old guy who’s quiet and can look nervous. who goes to appointments with a lady job advisor who's about 32 years old and when I get up to go from an appointment she would say ‘awwww’ (like rrrrrrr) before saying bye (maybe as a gap filler) and I sometime say thanks very much out of habit before she says it so idk. Also when I only got a pub job myself without asking for her help she would often say ‘well done’ a lot on emails and in person which means she probably thinks I’m a loser and too thick to get a job myself so she said well done. Has in a bad way? Edit: she started saying the ‘awww’when I’d get up to leave after I failed an interview for not having enough confidence but I usually would say ‘oh ok thank you’ is maybe why?
    2 answers · Nepal · 5 months ago
  • U.K.) does she talk down to me personally hereand she thinks I’m gross?

    I go to appointments fortnightly with an employment advisor for the past month. She reminded me the interviews she subbed me for that I had coming up and she subbed me for both of them (they get job opportunities) and she then turned upbeat and her voice also was upbeat (bubbly) she talked a little about it and then said ‘ok do you need interview... show more
    I go to appointments fortnightly with an employment advisor for the past month. She reminded me the interviews she subbed me for that I had coming up and she subbed me for both of them (they get job opportunities) and she then turned upbeat and her voice also was upbeat (bubbly) she talked a little about it and then said ‘ok do you need interview clothes?' (Hey provide vouchers for interview clothes) I replied politely (I’m very quiet) ‘yes, Iv got all that' and she said 'oh have you got all that?’ (upbeat as I said) I said yes then she went on to say 'ok well don't forget, shirt, pants and shoes, (she moved her hands also while saying this) make sure you get a shave, make sure you cut your nails..make sure you do your hair up all nice and that.....(then she paused as she was facing her computer) ..'and make sure you put some aftershave on aswell, for the girls make sure it's mens' then burst out laughing, she’s never even smiled before (I just smiled along with it) I a young guy and she’d in her early 30s. Just really worried she thinks I'm an ugly loser....or something like that. Need a 2nd opinion...I did need a shave which maybe why :/ she also put in the email ‘please dress smartly’ underlined. But she also chose me for 2 interviews and didn’t say anything about appearance at all the 2nd time so I don’t understand :/
    2 answers · Nepal · 6 months ago
  • What was this about with these girls?

    I started a new job as a waiter in a new pub and all night these 4 girls who were there a few hours (only 2 of them are involved here) later in the night near closing it was quiet and the blonde girl skipped up stairs to the toilet kept looking back at me down the stairs and girl , a while later I walked around the corner to where they were sitting... show more
    I started a new job as a waiter in a new pub and all night these 4 girls who were there a few hours (only 2 of them are involved here) later in the night near closing it was quiet and the blonde girl skipped up stairs to the toilet kept looking back at me down the stairs and girl , a while later I walked around the corner to where they were sitting and that blonde girl was looking at me and I didn’t look away for a few seconds and then I looked away, then I heard her say to her brunette friend 'that lad just been staring at me' in am intrigued whisper way. another while later I was cleaning a table and the brunette how do you get a job in here etc etc, and asked me if I knew a girl that worked in there (where I work) I said yes and she smiled and said 'she likes you' and they all burst out laughing, I then went back to finish cleaning the table and then the same girl asked 'can I ask you a serious question?' I looked then she says 'have you got a girlfriend?' She said it nicely by time of voice I ignored her, she then asked again, her friend said 'aww leave him alone he’s dead cute’ and then ‘he probably has’ (probably has a gf) (cute like puppy dog cute is that bad?) and smiled at me, I continued to ignore them, and that girl said aww leave him alone now hes fuming, I wasn't I just felt uneasy, did they like me or mocking me?
    2 answers · Nepal · 6 months ago
  • U.K.) how do I take this?

    I started a new job as a waiter in a new pub and all night these 4 girls who were there a few hours (only 2 of them are involved here) later in the night near closing it was quiet and the blonde girl skipped up stairs to the toilet kept looking back at me down the stairs and girl , a while later I walked around the corner to where they were sitting... show more
    I started a new job as a waiter in a new pub and all night these 4 girls who were there a few hours (only 2 of them are involved here) later in the night near closing it was quiet and the blonde girl skipped up stairs to the toilet kept looking back at me down the stairs and girl , a while later I walked around the corner to where they were sitting and that blonde girl was looking at me and I didn’t look away for a few seconds and then I looked away, then I heard her say to her brunette friend 'that lad just been staring at me' in am intrigued whisper way. another while later I was cleaning a table and the brunette how do you get a job in here etc etc, and asked me if I knew a girl that worked in there (where I work) I said yes and she smiled and said 'she likes you' and they all burst out laughing, I then went back to finish cleaning the table and then the same girl asked 'can I ask you a serious question?' I looked then she says 'have you got a girlfriend?' She said it nicely by time of voice I ignored her, she then asked again, her friend said 'aww leave him alone he’s dead cute’ and then ‘he probably has’ (probably has a gf) (cute like puppy dog cute is that bad?) and smiled at me, I continued to ignore them, and that girl said aww leave him alone now hes fuming, I wasn't I just felt uneasy, did they like me or mocking me?
    Nepal · 6 months ago
  • How do I take this? U.K.?

    I started a new job as a waiter in a new pub and all night these 4 girls who were there a few hours (only 2 of them are involved here) later in the night near closing it was quiet and the blonde girl skipped up stairs to the toilet kept looking back at me down the stairs and girl , a while later I walked around the corner to where they were sitting... show more
    I started a new job as a waiter in a new pub and all night these 4 girls who were there a few hours (only 2 of them are involved here) later in the night near closing it was quiet and the blonde girl skipped up stairs to the toilet kept looking back at me down the stairs and girl , a while later I walked around the corner to where they were sitting and that blonde girl was looking at me and I didn’t look away for a few seconds and then I looked away, then I heard her say to her brunette friend 'that lad just been staring at me' in am intrigued whisper way. another while later I was cleaning a table and the brunette how do you get a job in here etc etc, and asked me if I knew a girl that worked in there (where I work) I said yes and she smiled and said 'she likes you' and they all burst out laughing, I then went back to finish cleaning the table and then the same girl asked 'can I ask you a serious question?' I looked then she says 'have you got a girlfriend?' She said it nicely by time of voice I ignored her, she then asked again, her friend said 'aww leave him alone he’s dead cute’ and then ‘he probably has’ (probably has a gf) (cute like puppy dog cute is that bad?) and smiled at me, I continued to ignore them, and that girl said aww leave him alone now hes fuming, I wasn't I just felt uneasy, did they like me or mocking me?
    1 answer · Nepal · 6 months ago
  • How do I take this? U.K.?

    I started a new job as a waiter in a new pub and all night these 4 girls who were there a few hours (only 2 of them are involved here) later in the night near closing it was quiet and the blonde girl skipped up stairs to the toilet kept looking back at me down the stairs and girl , a while later I walked around the corner to where they were sitting... show more
    I started a new job as a waiter in a new pub and all night these 4 girls who were there a few hours (only 2 of them are involved here) later in the night near closing it was quiet and the blonde girl skipped up stairs to the toilet kept looking back at me down the stairs and girl , a while later I walked around the corner to where they were sitting and that blonde girl was looking at me and I didn’t look away for a few seconds and then I looked away, then I heard her say to her brunette friend 'that lad just been staring at me' in am intrigued whisper way. another while later I was cleaning a table and the brunette how do you get a job in here etc etc, and asked me if I knew a girl that worked in there (where I work) I said yes and she smiled and said 'she likes you' and they all burst out laughing, I then went back to finish cleaning the table and then the same girl asked 'can I ask you a serious question?' I looked then she says 'have you got a girlfriend?' She said it nicely by time of voice I ignored her, she then asked again, her friend said 'aww leave him alone he’s dead cute’ and then ‘he probably has’ (probably has a gf) (cute like puppy dog cute is that bad?) and smiled at me, I continued to ignore them, and that girl said aww leave him alone now hes fuming, I wasn't I just felt uneasy, did they like me or mocking me?
    Nepal · 6 months ago
  • U.K.) girl at work acting like this with me all of a sudden...?

    I work at a bar and one day I walked on to the bar and a girl I work with that I haven’t talked to stared at me as I walked in the doorway, she didn’t look away when I looked but I thought nothing of it. The next week I needed tot ask her where this food wasn’t going to and she grabbed my arm as she pointed the table out, when I walked back round to... show more
    I work at a bar and one day I walked on to the bar and a girl I work with that I haven’t talked to stared at me as I walked in the doorway, she didn’t look away when I looked but I thought nothing of it. The next week I needed tot ask her where this food wasn’t going to and she grabbed my arm as she pointed the table out, when I walked back round to wrap cutlery she stood in front of the cabinet I was wrapping cutlery on and said ‘you make me sweat, Darren’ and then held her arms out for a hug to which I backed off because I was like thinking ‘wtf’. The next night she said ‘I haven’t got a boyfriend you know, Darren’ and the other guy at work there laughed as she laughed a bit after saying it.
    3 answers · Nepal · 6 months ago
  • U.K.) how does a guy take this from girls?

    I started a new job as a waiter in a new pub and all night these 4 girls who were there a few hours (only 2 of them are involved here) later in the night near closing it was quiet and the blonde girl skipped up stairs to the toilet kept looking back at me down the stairs and girl , a while later I walked around the corner to where they were sitting... show more
    I started a new job as a waiter in a new pub and all night these 4 girls who were there a few hours (only 2 of them are involved here) later in the night near closing it was quiet and the blonde girl skipped up stairs to the toilet kept looking back at me down the stairs and girl , a while later I walked around the corner to where they were sitting and that blonde girl was looking at me and I didn’t look away for a few seconds and then I looked away, then I heard her say to her brunette friend 'that lad just been staring at me' in am intrigued whisper way. another while later I was cleaning a table and the brunette how do you get a job in here etc etc, and asked me if I knew a girl that worked in there (where I work) I said yes and she smiled and said 'she likes you' and they all burst out laughing, I then went back to finish cleaning the table and then the same girl asked 'can I ask you a serious question?' I looked then she says 'have you got a girlfriend?' She said it nicely by time of voice I ignored her, she then asked again, her friend said 'aww leave him alone he’s dead cute’ and then ‘he probably has’ (probably has a gf) (cute like puppy dog cute is that bad?) and smiled at me, I continued to ignore them, and that girl said aww leave him alone now hes fuming, I wasn't I just felt uneasy, did they like me or mocking me?
    2 answers · Nepal · 6 months ago
  • U.K.) will a single 15kg dumbbell do anything for someone starting out,?

    I’m male aged 28 182cm tall lanky and any shirt hangs off my tiny frame. I do 10 sets of 100 of holding one end of it and lifting it up and down with both hands like a plate
    I’m male aged 28 182cm tall lanky and any shirt hangs off my tiny frame. I do 10 sets of 100 of holding one end of it and lifting it up and down with both hands like a plate
    4 answers · Nepal · 6 months ago
  • What’s was this about?

    I started a new job as a waiter in a new pub and all night these 4 girls who were there a few hours (only 2 of them are involved here) later in the night near closing it was quiet and the blonde girl skipped up stairs to the toilet kept looking back at me down the stairs and girl , a while later I walked around the corner to where they were sitting... show more
    I started a new job as a waiter in a new pub and all night these 4 girls who were there a few hours (only 2 of them are involved here) later in the night near closing it was quiet and the blonde girl skipped up stairs to the toilet kept looking back at me down the stairs and girl , a while later I walked around the corner to where they were sitting and that blonde girl was looking at me and I didn’t look away for a few seconds and then I looked away, then I heard her say to her brunette friend 'that lad just been staring at me' in am intrigued whisper way. another while later I was cleaning a table and the brunette how do you get a job in here etc etc, and asked me if I knew a girl that worked in there (where I work) I said yes and she smiled and said 'she likes you' and they all burst out laughing, I then went back to finish cleaning the table and then the same girl asked 'can I ask you a serious question?' I looked then she says 'have you got a girlfriend?' She said it nicely by time of voice I ignored her, she then asked again, her friend said 'aww leave him alone he’s dead cute’ and then ‘he probably has’ (probably has a gf) (cute like puppy dog cute is that bad?) and smiled at me, I continued to ignore them, and that girl said aww leave him alone now hes fuming, I wasn't I just felt uneasy, did they like me or mocking me?
    3 answers · Nepal · 6 months ago
  • How do I take this if any? U.K.?

    I started a new job as a waiter in a new pub and all night these 4 girls who were there a few hours (only 2 of them are involved here) later in the night near closing it was quiet and the blonde girl skipped up stairs to the toilet kept looking back at me down the stairs and girl , a while later I walked around the corner to where they were sitting... show more
    I started a new job as a waiter in a new pub and all night these 4 girls who were there a few hours (only 2 of them are involved here) later in the night near closing it was quiet and the blonde girl skipped up stairs to the toilet kept looking back at me down the stairs and girl , a while later I walked around the corner to where they were sitting and that blonde girl was looking at me and I didn’t look away for a few seconds and then I looked away, then I heard her say to her brunette friend 'that lad just been staring at me' in am intrigued whisper way. another while later I was cleaning a table and the brunette how do you get a job in here etc etc, and asked me if I knew a girl that worked in there (where I work) I said yes and she smiled and said 'she likes you' and they all burst out laughing, I then went back to finish cleaning the table and then the same girl asked 'can I ask you a serious question?' I looked then she says 'have you got a girlfriend?' She said it nicely by time of voice I ignored her, she then asked again, her friend said 'aww leave him alone he’s dead cute’ and then ‘he probably has’ (probably has a gf) (cute like puppy dog cute is that bad?) and smiled at me, I continued to ignore them, and that girl said aww leave him alone now hes fuming, I wasn't I just felt uneasy, did they like me or mocking me?
    5 answers · Nepal · 6 months ago