• U.K.) how do I take this? Good or bad?

    I started a new job as a waiter in a new pub and all night these 4 girls who were there a few hours (only 2 of them are involved here) later in the night near closing it was quiet and the blonde girl skipped up stairs to the toilet kept looking back at me down the stairs and girl , a while later I walked around the corner to where they were sitting... show more
    I started a new job as a waiter in a new pub and all night these 4 girls who were there a few hours (only 2 of them are involved here) later in the night near closing it was quiet and the blonde girl skipped up stairs to the toilet kept looking back at me down the stairs and girl , a while later I walked around the corner to where they were sitting and that blonde girl was looking at me and I didn’t look away for a few seconds and then I looked away, then I heard her say to her brunette friend 'that lad just been staring at me' in am intrigued whisper way. another while later I was cleaning a table and the brunette how do you get a job in here etc etc, and asked me if I knew a girl that worked in there (where I work) I said yes and she smiled and said 'she likes you' and they all burst out laughing, I then went back to finish cleaning the table and then the same girl asked 'can I ask you a serious question?' I looked then she says 'have you got a girlfriend?' She said it nicely by time of voice I ignored her, she then asked again, her friend said 'aww leave him alone he’s dead cute’ and then ‘he probably has’ (probably has a gf) (cute like puppy dog cute is that bad?) and smiled at me, I continued to ignore them, and that girl said aww leave him alone now hes fuming, I wasn't I just felt uneasy, did they like me or mocking me?
    6 answers · Other - Beauty & Style · 13 hours ago
  • Will a single 15kg dumbbell do any toning to a beginner with no muscle?

    I do raises will they help?
    I do raises will they help?
    4 answers · Diet & Fitness · 2 days ago
  • How do I take this if any?

    I started a new job as a waiter in a new pub and all night these 4 girls who were there a few hours (only 2 of them are involved here) later in the night near closing it was quiet and the blonde girl skipped up stairs to the toilet kept looking back at me down the stairs and giggling, a while later I walked around the corner to where they were... show more
    I started a new job as a waiter in a new pub and all night these 4 girls who were there a few hours (only 2 of them are involved here) later in the night near closing it was quiet and the blonde girl skipped up stairs to the toilet kept looking back at me down the stairs and giggling, a while later I walked around the corner to where they were sitting and that blonde girl was looking at me and I didn’t look away for a few seconds and then I looked away, then I heard her say to her brunette friend 'that lad just been staring at me' in am intrigued whisper way. another while later I was cleaning a table and the brunette how do you get a job in here etc etc, and asked me if I knew a girl that worked in there (where I work) I said yes and she smiled and said 'she likes you' and they all burst out laughing, I then went back to finish cleaning the table and then the same girl asked 'can I ask you a serious question?' I looked then she says 'have you got a girlfriend?' She said it nicely by time of voice I ignored her, she then asked again, her friend said 'aww leave him alone he’s dead cute’ and then ‘he probably has’ (probably has a gf) (cute like puppy dog cute is that bad?) and smiled at me, I continued to ignore them, and that girl said aww leave him alone now hes fuming, I wasn't I just felt uneasy, did they like me or mocking me?
    3 answers · Nepal · 3 days ago
  • Girls mocking me?

    I started a new job as a waiter in a new pub and all night these 4 girls who were there a few hours (only 2 of them are involved here) later in the night near closing it was quiet and the blonde girl skipped up stairs to the toilet kept looking back at me down the stairs and giggling, a while later I walked around the corner to where they were... show more
    I started a new job as a waiter in a new pub and all night these 4 girls who were there a few hours (only 2 of them are involved here) later in the night near closing it was quiet and the blonde girl skipped up stairs to the toilet kept looking back at me down the stairs and giggling, a while later I walked around the corner to where they were sitting and that blonde girl was looking at me and I didn’t look away for a few seconds and then I looked away, then I heard her say to her brunette friend 'that lad just been staring at me' in am intrigued whisper way. another while later I was cleaning a table and the brunette how do you get a job in here etc etc, and asked me if I knew a girl that worked in there (where I work) I said yes and she smiled and said 'she likes you' and they all burst out laughing, I then went back to finish cleaning the table and then the same girl asked 'can I ask you a serious question?' I looked then she says 'have you got a girlfriend?' She said it nicely by time of voice I ignored her, she then asked again, her friend said 'aww leave him alone he’s dead cute’ and then ‘he probably has’ (probably has a gf) (cute like puppy dog cute is that bad?) and smiled at me, I continued to ignore them, and that girl said aww leave him alone now hes fuming, I wasn't I just felt uneasy, did they like me or mocking me?
    6 answers · Nepal · 4 days ago
  • Girls mocking me?

    I started a new job as a waiter in a new pub and all night these 4 girls who were there a few hours (only 2 of them are involved here) later in the night near closing it was quiet and the blonde girl skipped up stairs to the toilet kept looking back at me down the stairs and giggling, a while later I walked around the corner to where they were... show more
    I started a new job as a waiter in a new pub and all night these 4 girls who were there a few hours (only 2 of them are involved here) later in the night near closing it was quiet and the blonde girl skipped up stairs to the toilet kept looking back at me down the stairs and giggling, a while later I walked around the corner to where they were sitting and that blonde girl was looking at me and I didn’t look away for a few seconds and then I looked away, then I heard her say to her brunette friend 'that lad just been staring at me' in am intrigued whisper way. another while later I was cleaning a table and the brunette how do you get a job in here etc etc, and asked me if I knew a girl that worked in there (where I work) I said yes and she smiled and said 'she likes you' and they all burst out laughing, I then went back to finish cleaning the table and then the same girl asked 'can I ask you a serious question?' I looked then she says 'have you got a girlfriend?' She said it nicely by time of voice I ignored her, she then asked again, her friend said 'aww leave him alone he’s dead cute’ and then ‘he probably has’ (probably has a gf) (cute like puppy dog cute is that bad?) and smiled at me, I continued to ignore them, and that girl said aww leave him alone now hes fuming, I wasn't I just felt uneasy, did they like me or mocking me?
    Nepal · 4 days ago
  • U.K.) wtf was his about? Idk how I should take this :/?

    I started a new job as a waiter in a new pub and all night these 4 girls who were there a few hours (only 2 of them are involved here) later in the night near closing it was quiet and the blonde girl skipped up stairs to the toilet kept looking back at me down the stairs and giggling, a while later I walked around the corner to where they were... show more
    I started a new job as a waiter in a new pub and all night these 4 girls who were there a few hours (only 2 of them are involved here) later in the night near closing it was quiet and the blonde girl skipped up stairs to the toilet kept looking back at me down the stairs and giggling, a while later I walked around the corner to where they were sitting and that blonde girl was looking at me and I didn’t look away for a few seconds and then I looked away, then I heard her say to her brunette friend 'that lad just been staring at me' in am intrigued whisper way. another while later I was cleaning a table and the brunette how do you get a job in here etc etc, and asked me if I knew a girl that worked in there (where I work) I said yes and she smiled and said 'she likes you' and they all burst out laughing, I then went back to finish cleaning the table and then the same girl asked 'can I ask you a serious question?' I looked then she says 'have you got a girlfriend?' She said it nicely by time of voice I ignored her, she then asked again, her friend said 'aww leave him alone he’s dead cute’ and then ‘he probably has’ (probably has a gf) (cute like puppy dog cute is that bad?) and smiled at me, I continued to ignore them, and that girl said aww leave him alone now hes fuming, I wasn't I just felt uneasy, did they like me or mocking me?
    4 answers · Nepal · 6 days ago
  • Girls laughing at me or something else?

    I was working as a waiter on a quiet midweek day and I was taking finished plates back to the kitchen when I felt a stare and immediately looked to my right and 1 of these 3 girls was smiling/smirking at me and looked me down at my side/arm when I looked at her (im tall and lanky and my arms looked a little bit big too because I had a one or two... show more
    I was working as a waiter on a quiet midweek day and I was taking finished plates back to the kitchen when I felt a stare and immediately looked to my right and 1 of these 3 girls was smiling/smirking at me and looked me down at my side/arm when I looked at her (im tall and lanky and my arms looked a little bit big too because I had a one or two layers in underneath) it was for about 3 seconds and then as I walked out of sight I heard a slight noise (couldn’t make it out) a bit later 2 of them were ordering food at the bar and on their way back I felt a stare while I was standing at the kitchen gantry bored and looked over to one of them girls (the friend of the girl who smiled at the start) on her own walking back to her table and when I looked over she laughed hard and put her hand to her mouth still looking at me then I looked away. I immediately got upset about if and I went to my team leader and assistant manager and refused to take their food to them regardless, I wanted them kicked out but my team leader wouldn't coz he said I can't be sure they were making fun of me, (I think they were) later on I had to check the toilets and I walked upstairs to girls toilets and the door opens and it was them girls I looked up and the girl that laughed earlier smiled at me, and I overheard em saying whys a boy going in girls toilets and walked past me as normal. but were they putting me down? I’m a guy btw This is me if it helps: https://m.imgur.com/a/YlAAhlA (3 photos)
    4 answers · Nepal · 6 days ago
  • I only got a bar job and job advisor says well done a lot is that bad?

    I'm a 21 year old guy who goes to appointments with a lady job advisor who's about 32 years old and when I get up to go from an appointment she would say ‘awwww’ (like rrrrrrr) before saying bye (maybe as a gap filler) and I sometime say thanks very much out of habit before she says it so idk. Also when I only got a pub job myself without... show more
    I'm a 21 year old guy who goes to appointments with a lady job advisor who's about 32 years old and when I get up to go from an appointment she would say ‘awwww’ (like rrrrrrr) before saying bye (maybe as a gap filler) and I sometime say thanks very much out of habit before she says it so idk. Also when I only got a pub job myself without asking for her help she would often say ‘well done’ a lot on emails and in person which means she probably thinks I’m a loser and too thick to get a job myself so she said well done. Has in a bad way? Edit: she started saying the ‘awww’when I’d get up to leave after I failed an interview for not having enough confidence but I usually would say ‘oh ok thank you’ is maybe why?
    4 answers · Nepal · 1 week ago
  • U.K.) I want to meet a girl on tinder but do I look different on my tinder pic?

    ▪️3 photo album to compare (my hair is usually longer like on the tinder pic) https://m.imgur.com/a/iOXYwBU ▪️ tinder pics:, https://imgur.com/pCpkDqu
    ▪️3 photo album to compare (my hair is usually longer like on the tinder pic) https://m.imgur.com/a/iOXYwBU ▪️ tinder pics:, https://imgur.com/pCpkDqu
    1 answer · Nepal · 1 week ago
  • Job advisor thinks I’m gross? U.K.?

    I go to appointments fortnightly with an employment advisor for the past month. She reminded me the interviews she subbed me for that I had coming up and she subbed me for both of them (they get job opportunities) and she then turned upbeat and her voice also was upbeat (bubbly) she talked a little about it and then said ‘ok do you need interview... show more
    I go to appointments fortnightly with an employment advisor for the past month. She reminded me the interviews she subbed me for that I had coming up and she subbed me for both of them (they get job opportunities) and she then turned upbeat and her voice also was upbeat (bubbly) she talked a little about it and then said ‘ok do you need interview clothes?' (Hey provide vouchers for interview clothes) I replied politely (I’m very quiet) ‘yes, Iv got all that' and she said 'oh have you got all that?’ (upbeat as I said) I said yes then she went on to say 'ok well don't forget, shirt, pants and shoes, (she moved her hands also while saying this) make sure you get a shave, make sure you cut your nails..make sure you do your hair up all nice and that.....(then she paused as she was facing her computer) ..'and make sure you put some aftershave on aswell, for the girls make sure it's mens' then burst out laughing, she’s never even smiled before (I just smiled along with it) I a young guy and she’d in her early 30s. Just really worried she thinks I'm an ugly loser....or something like that. Need a 2nd opinion...I did need a shave which maybe why :/ she also put in the email ‘please dress smartly’ underlined. But she also chose me for 2 interviews and didn’t say anything about appearance at all the 2nd time so I don’t understand :/
    4 answers · Vung Tau · 1 week ago
  • Girls mocking me you think? U.K.?

    I was working as a waiter on a quiet midweek day and I was taking finished plates back to the kitchen when I felt a stare and immediately looked to my right and 1 of these 3 girls was smiling/smirking at me and looked me down at my side/arm when I looked at her (im tall and lanky and my arms looked a little bit big too because I had a one or two... show more
    I was working as a waiter on a quiet midweek day and I was taking finished plates back to the kitchen when I felt a stare and immediately looked to my right and 1 of these 3 girls was smiling/smirking at me and looked me down at my side/arm when I looked at her (im tall and lanky and my arms looked a little bit big too because I had a one or two layers in underneath) it was for about 3 seconds and then as I walked out of sight I heard a slight noise (couldn’t make it out) a bit later 2 of them were ordering food at the bar and on their way back I felt a stare while I was standing at the kitchen gantry bored and looked over to one of them girls (the friend of the girl who smiled at the start) on her own walking back to her table and when I looked over she laughed hard and put her hand to her mouth still looking at me then I looked away. I immediately got upset about if and I went to my team leader and assistant manager and refused to take their food to them regardless, I wanted them kicked out but my team leader wouldn't coz he said I can't be sure they were making fun of me, (I think they were) later on I had to check the toilets and I walked upstairs to girls toilets and the door opens and it was them girls I looked up and the girl that laughed earlier smiled at me, and I overheard em saying whys a boy going in girls toilets and walked past me as normal. but were they putting me down? I’m a guy btw This is me if it helps: https://m.imgur.com/a/YlAAhlA (3 photos)
    2 answers · Nepal · 1 week ago
  • U.K.) am I ugly? Get called it a lot and don’t leave the house since?

    4 photo album (first pic is 3 years old tho) https://m.imgur.com/a/LqcSQnZ
    4 photo album (first pic is 3 years old tho) https://m.imgur.com/a/LqcSQnZ
    2 answers · Nepal · 1 week ago