• How can I gain confidence in myself ?

    Others around me believe in me But I just constantly think I’m garbage/trash So I don’t even try st things I want so bad How can I be confident and stop holding myself back??
    Others around me believe in me But I just constantly think I’m garbage/trash So I don’t even try st things I want so bad How can I be confident and stop holding myself back??
    2 answers · Polls & Surveys · 7 months ago
  • Why did I quit?

    I quit a canvassing job (for sick kids ) because I didn’t want to wear makeup everyday But these people in just 5 days made me feel so Beautiful, confident smart and just content with who I was I felt like I finally found my home, my people, a place where I was seen in a good light Like in McDonald’s I used to be yelled at by customers and made... show more
    I quit a canvassing job (for sick kids ) because I didn’t want to wear makeup everyday But these people in just 5 days made me feel so Beautiful, confident smart and just content with who I was I felt like I finally found my home, my people, a place where I was seen in a good light Like in McDonald’s I used to be yelled at by customers and made fun of for messing up (not being trained properly) and I hated myself with a passion That place made me feel as if I was too stupid to be working there And the previous job before that was retail, and this real sleezy manager used to grab my arm yell at me Tell me how Terrible and disrespectful I am I was just talked down to all the time But at this new canvassing job door to door I felt so alive, seen as an actual person I was given respect The boss liked me a lot, he called me sharp, and beautiful ahahaha And my trainer was like my bff she was tooo nice to me She bought me coffee She texted me saying nice things like “I believe in you, you have what it takes “ Honestly it was just everything I wanted in a coworker place be like “she quit” but at the same time I didn’t want to go because I wore makeup everyday like I was breaking out It was suicide to my skin But it’s been 1 week and half since I quit, without a good excuse, I just told the boss through a text wasn’t for me thanks for the opportunity etc” But I regret it so bad
    4 answers · Dream Interpretation · 8 months ago
  • What should my plan be moving forward ? How to get out ? Without failing? I’m 19 and my mom wanted to attack me because I said “no”?

    My older sister has been forcing me to do stuff all day Clean clean clean Take off the sound off your phone Like I’m a clean person, I know when to clean But right when I wake up in the morning And the first things out of her mouth is “we’re cleaning the room today, and make sure you wash your plates” I just woke up, of course I’m dead tired and... show more
    My older sister has been forcing me to do stuff all day Clean clean clean Take off the sound off your phone Like I’m a clean person, I know when to clean But right when I wake up in the morning And the first things out of her mouth is “we’re cleaning the room today, and make sure you wash your plates” I just woke up, of course I’m dead tired and of course I say. “Not now I’ll do it later “ And she gets so mad she’s like “give me an exact time or I’m telling” I didn’t give her an exact time cuz I would do it when I felt like it, which was in 6 hours Cuz honestly I’m tired, I have insomnia and I only sleep rarely like twice a week And I have iron defiencey, I’m not trying to make an excuse but when I saw I’m exhausted it’s like when you wake up in the morning, and you her alarm sound, yeah that’s how it is for me all day everyday But whatever she tells my mom and says “she’s not gonna do the dishes” Then my mom talks to me and says “do it” And I told her “no I’ll do it later and thags what I told her I didn’t say I wasn’t ” Then my mom was like “clean it, honestly don’t worry just do it now what’s th big deal get it over with “ I said “I’m sorry I’ll do it later” That’s when my mom came at me and tried to attack me I had to block the door and she was trying to hit a hangar at me directed to my face, all she could do was scratch my arms
    6 answers · Family · 8 months ago
  • What were you like at 19?

    30 answers · Polls & Surveys · 9 months ago
  • Should I take off my hijab for unit or continue wearing it to not cause severe drama ?

    Or should I just wear it for my parents/in case I get caught I really don’t want the stress of getting caught Or being outed to my parents by someonelse To distract me from my studies But I also know I have to take it off cuz it’s driving me insane I don’t want to wear and I never have I would like to be religious it’s jusy appearance wise... show more
    Or should I just wear it for my parents/in case I get caught I really don’t want the stress of getting caught Or being outed to my parents by someonelse To distract me from my studies But I also know I have to take it off cuz it’s driving me insane I don’t want to wear and I never have I would like to be religious it’s jusy appearance wise that irritates me so much Idk what’s the smart move here I’m thinking of just not wearing it and if it goes bad put on the following semester It’s just 3 months for the summer semester Plus I’ll be commuting from my home
    7 answers · Civic Participation · 9 months ago
  • Should I become a lawyer or become a nurse?

    I'm good with memorization but terrible with bio But I think I can push myself to actually study Because I remeber bio in grade 12 I was so lazy and I was struggling This school offers nursing and there's a prep course that just requires an A in English And I have that But I thought my hopes of becoming a nurse was over after bio so I... show more
    I'm good with memorization but terrible with bio But I think I can push myself to actually study Because I remeber bio in grade 12 I was so lazy and I was struggling This school offers nursing and there's a prep course that just requires an A in English And I have that But I thought my hopes of becoming a nurse was over after bio so I felt lost for 6 months after grade 12 Then I convinced myself that I should become a lawyer because English is something I'm good at Plus I like being the one to help someone And I love dressing professionally 😂 Now I'm conflicted cuz I want something with job security And everything about law school people are saying "don't go to law school""can't find jobs"
    3 answers · Polls & Surveys · 9 months ago
  • Can someone give me a pep talk about living my life independently at times? Like I can't do things alone?

    I'm too scared and always will y someone when I go shopping watch a movie Out to eat Help Im19
    I'm too scared and always will y someone when I go shopping watch a movie Out to eat Help Im19
    1 answer · Polls & Surveys · 11 months ago
  • Is water fasting without doctors consent harmful? Whatare some effects that could occur?

    Im still going to fast. For a couple of days regardless but I'm just concerned because if it could lead to serious health consequences then probably won't do t I want to fast for at least 3 weeks But realistically I know I can get through 7 days before my mother spazzes out/finds out I'm 19, yes ik immature but I want to cleanse my... show more
    Im still going to fast. For a couple of days regardless but I'm just concerned because if it could lead to serious health consequences then probably won't do t I want to fast for at least 3 weeks But realistically I know I can get through 7 days before my mother spazzes out/finds out I'm 19, yes ik immature but I want to cleanse my body and lose 30 pounds because some how sadly along the way of growing up I now base my happiness on looks and I hate the way I look and I hate myself so Water fasting it is. I weight 135 And I'm 5'8
    5 answers · Polls & Surveys · 11 months ago
  • I turn 19 today?

    What was life like for you at that age
    What was life like for you at that age
    18 answers · Polls & Surveys · 11 months ago
  • What if this is my calling?

    You know when people know in their hearts what they wanna do or when they're so lost in life, the fall into something I feel like I'm destined to commit suicide And I know it's wrong to think but I'm so over this ******** life I just want to be happy but I don't have the courage I'm about to be 19 years old and I have have... show more
    You know when people know in their hearts what they wanna do or when they're so lost in life, the fall into something I feel like I'm destined to commit suicide And I know it's wrong to think but I'm so over this ******** life I just want to be happy but I don't have the courage I'm about to be 19 years old and I have have as many rights as an 8 year old I don't want to break my moms heart by living cuz then I wouldn't be able to enjoy life And I can't leave because I know my dad has really bad high pressure So I feel stuck being a slave and obeying their ****** up laws I can't live like this anymore and I just don't know what to do Out of all my siblings they failed my parents And they always tell me how I'm their last hope Honestly I wish I wasn't me
    1 answer · Polls & Surveys · 11 months ago
  • What's a job that pays 25-30 dollars an hour ? That only requires a 4 year bachelor degree?

    Hopefully no math or bio is needed to get into whatever bachelor program
    Hopefully no math or bio is needed to get into whatever bachelor program
    1 answer · Other - Careers & Employment · 11 months ago
  • Is this wrong of my dad to do?

    I really want to learn how to drive so I have to learn with my dad but he's like "If you drive with me you have to wear a skirt, you can never wear pants infront of me "
    I really want to learn how to drive so I have to learn with my dad but he's like "If you drive with me you have to wear a skirt, you can never wear pants infront of me "
    6 answers · Polls & Surveys · 11 months ago