at my brothers graduation my mom grabbed my aunts arm aggressively for her to come take a picture of my brother and my aunt got mad and told my mom " don't grab me, i'm gonna grab you. i'm not your child".
my aunt is pretty much the only one in the family that will be blunt and stand up to my mom's crazy controlling ways. when my mom tried to grab my brother's graduation money and said she would hold onto my aunt was like " nope, i'm not giving it to you."
and then yesterday my other brother who is 22 told my brother who is making 50,000 a year that he needs to go back to the school even though he's not wanting to go to college right now. she's really pressing the issue. she was like " i think this college will be best for you. you need to go here. i don't care if you're a millionaire you're going to further your education."
another instance was when i went to florida with my boyfriend for ONE night i spent the night with him on my birthday and my mom absolutely lost her mind, she had a full blown out panic attack and was cursing left and right. she called my phone 100 times i'm not even exaggerating, she called me 100 times and even told called me from different numbers. she even called my boyfriends phone and was like " BRING MY DAUGHTER BACK RIGHT NOW OR THERE WILL BE CONSEQUENCES, YALL ARE NOT MARRIED THIS IS A SIN." my dad tried to calm my mom down and tell her that i'm a responsible adult (i'm 25) but she still wasn't hearing it.