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  • Fighting in marriage, physical?

    Anyone every get in a physical fight with your spouse? no hitting or punching, mostly wrestling and head locks with a back of the neck throw down. She provoked him but he started the physical. Both in the wrong? her more than him? Him morw than her?

    4 AnswersGender Studies5 years ago
  • Sex after 8 years and this has never happened...?

    So tonight when I got my husband to have sex with me, I didn' t feel the warmth or connection I usually do, it felt....strange. Also, I didn't climax and I really could have used that. I asked him why I couldn't and that I really needed that tonight, and he said he didn't know, then pulled out, and started talking like we normally do. I had to pretend to be okay and not upset that he pretty much said "oh well, got what I wanted" because he hates touch, from anyone, and getting him to have sex is difficult ( he has always been like this) so I didn't want him to shut down to the idea. I was more irritable and angry then than I was today at work, what the heck? I have gone without climax before and been fine. He won't roll play, he won't do fun sexy dice, won't have sex in new places, won't change up the norm so none of those suggestions will work, and counciling is a no go for him. Is there a guy out there who can give me advise because he understands my husband? And what does it mean that I felt absolutely no connection with him afterwards or during? I was a virgin when I married him so I have no experience to draw on.

    6 AnswersMarriage & Divorce5 years ago
  • Why do I hate going home now?

    So, ever since i had a miscarriage two weeks ago i have developed a serious dreading of going home after work. I am struggling with depression and work is super stressful and i am so happy to leave at night but i hate going home. Why? I have no kids, just me and my husband and pets.

    3 AnswersMarriage & Divorce5 years ago
  • okay to vomit if i eat to much?

    So i have been stressed and frustrated with my job lately that i used to love. I have become snappy and emotional to every one there and i cant wait to go home to my husband. I am normally a kind, overly nice person and cant say no and works 8am to 9pm to make sure all is done but not now. So when i get home i have a tendency to over eat because every thing sounds good until i try a bite or two but then get such a strong feeling of repulsion that i find something else and do the same thing. By the end of the night i want to puke so i stick a toothbrush down my throat and vomit a few times. I feel immensely better afterward. I have done this twice. Is this bad?

    4 AnswersOther - General Health Care6 years ago
  • can cats be protective?

    I was holding one of my cats who decided to be in a grumpy mood while i was laying on my couch tonight. He was making all sorts of grumpy noises and i probably should have put him down but then, he would have picked on my other cats in his bad mood. So, one of my other cats jumped up between my face and his body and was promptly swatted and jumped back down then jumped up and smashed his body on my other cats head and jumped off again. No physical harm but more annoyance. I put grumpy boy down and the other cat proceeded to follow me around and sit near by when i sat and left when i did. Protective or self protection?

    1 AnswerCats6 years ago
  • Is divorce my only option?

    I have been married to my husband for almost seven years now. I love him a lot but i am serious unhappy. He is not intimate at all and if i ask for a kiss or a hug, he bites my face off or rolls his eyes. i initiate sex every single time, i have asked him to initiate but he says there is never the right romantic mood. We have talked about this a great deal, he wont see a marriage counseller but we did go to our religious leader and even though he and i agreed to change and work on specific things but he never follows through. We fight a lot and when i apologize he just goes hurmph and i ask if he would apologize and he says what for. I am depressed and i think he feels our marriage is a healthy one. We have no kids because of his reluctance. He says he loves me but he wont even consider working on things. I feel unwanted and embarrassed, i like staying late at work Rather than go home. I dont understand how he cant see how important intimacy is for a marriage. Advice?

    7 AnswersMarriage & Divorce6 years ago
  • HELP! dog with large stomach?

    So i have a 5 month old lab mix puppy and after he ate ( medium speed) and went out side for a while (20 min) where there is water, he came in with a distended stomach. It does not hurt if i put pressure on it, he drank water and went pee about 10 min ago and he isnt vomiting, being lethargic, or struggling to potty. He has been like this for 3.5 hr.s. this is the third night i have added a cup of new food to his two cups, so 3 cups. Is it bloat or an upset tummy from the new food and/or the increased amnt of food. I have ridgebacks and compared to them, he does not have a deep chest at all.

    3 AnswersDogs6 years ago
  • how do non merle dogs have merle puppies?

    My friend's anatolian X assui cross (who is not merled) got pregnat with a lab and a hinz 57. She had two yellow, two red w black ticking, one black, 1 red merle, and one blue merle. How did the merle show up? I thought that for it to show up one parent had to be a dominant gened merle. Her first litter only had one merle in it., if you can give me it in a punnet square that would be cool too.

    6 AnswersDogs6 years ago
  • help fat cat lose weight..?

    So i have 4 cats and only one of them is obese. He is a 3 year old manx and wieghs about 15 lb. We have an open feed bowl for all of them and they are all inside cats. I am not going to do a open bowl any more but what else can i do? His hip is hurting him because he is so big and i have to put hot water packs on it (when he holds still long enough) to help it losen up. Their treats consist of raw deer or fowl, chicken broth and once in a blue moon some tuna. My other cats are fine in size. Suggestions please..

    6 AnswersCats7 years ago
  • My kitten has a bald patch on ear.....?

    My 6 month Kitten has a bald patch on his ear that looks like half a quarter. He has nothing anywhere else and neither of my other cats have it. It showed up about 2 weeks ago. He is an inside only cat (I found him on the streets when he was 5 weeks). It is red but no pus, bumps, or scabbs and he doesn't itch it. There are no mites that I can see in his fur or ears. what is this? Should I tak him to the vet?

    2 AnswersCats8 years ago
  • My 13 week old kitten keeps sneezing....?

    I found him when he looked to be about 5 or 6 weeks old on the road. He has been fine since then until about a week ago. He now sneezes quite a bit. I have listend to his chest and they way he breaths and I hear no rasping or wet sound....He is still very playful and doesn't have a runny nose. What can I do until I can take him to the vet this coming week?

    3 AnswersCats8 years ago
  • Is it illegal to create a website dedicated to shut down the worlds worst recscue?

    There is a rescue that needs to go. Animal Control is trying to close her down, she is being audited about money not being taxed and she has hundreds for people reviewing her rescue with bad experiences and being ripped off $100's. Her dogs are sick and malnourished but she keeps them in Foster homes so that when Animal Control comes to visit she doesn't have to disclose their location. I want to make a difference, is this the way to do it? Is it legal?

    5 AnswersDogs8 years ago
  • How to suppress your libido...?

    Is there a way I can suppress my libido? My husband has extremely low testosterone levels and won’t change it and I am tired of having these emotions mixed with depression surface like a sucker punch to the gut unexpectedly.

    4 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • Car weight capacity limit.....?

    Does anyone know how much weight is safe to carry in a 2007 Honda accord SE with a 4 cylinder V-tech engine? I have to bring back some pet food from a show and I need to know what the safe pound limit my car can carry. Thanks!

    5 AnswersSafety9 years ago
  • What should I name my two kittens....?

    I have two boy kittens that are half brothers, both are manx's (see pictures). Me and my husband are having a hard time finding names for them. Boy 1 is a sweetheart and loves to play Boy 2 is active, feisty, and curious.

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    1 AnswerCats9 years ago
  • How to bond with my kitten...?

    So, I have a spotted tabby manx kitten (8weeks) that is skid-dish. I adopted him from a lady who had two accident litters from her two girl cats, both being manx. The woman wanted to keep him but said that he isn't exactly people oriented. She did not tell me, however, that he is pretty much scared of the world. He jumps at every sound, dives under the bed, and tenses up at movements. I can hold him fine and he sleeps on me at night but I want to help him not be so scared of things and to be confident and relaxed. How do I help him?

    3 AnswersCats9 years ago
  • AT&T Flash Mob in the Train Station Commercial....?

    My husband is CONVINCED that the woman in the beige trench coat is Jenna Fischer in that flash mob commercial for at&t, I totally don't think so. What do you think?

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    1 AnswerCelebrities9 years ago
  • Dr. Dre and Eminem....Friends, enemies?

    Can some one please explain the relationship between Dr. Dre and Enimem? I remember Eminem singing about killing Dr. Dre, isn't Dr. Dre the one that mentioned Haily's name in one of his songs and it PISSED Eminem off big time? But now they have this song "I need a Dr." and great friend in it. I am just curious, I really just listen to music to enjoy it and I do my best to ignore all the drama behind the music industry but I have been wondering about this for a while. I understand that Dr. Dre discovered Eminem, thought that would make them unbreakable friends????.....

    10 AnswersRap and Hip-Hop9 years ago
  • Erased music on apple iPod 2nd generation after syncing with new computer....Help!?

    How do I get my songs back!! :( 5 stars for best answer.....

    1 AnswerMusic & Music Players9 years ago
  • Rabbit genetics question...?

    OK so a lady I am talking to wants to breed her frosted pearl-blue to another rabbit to get frosted pearl's but she isn't sure what buck paired with her female will give her frosted pearl bunnies (besides another frosted pearl buck). Does anyone? 5 points! Thanks!

    2 AnswersOther - Pets10 years ago