For years my wife has has this thing to where if you text once then you should be able to text all day. And she gets mad when you don't or can't reply when she expects a reply over something that can wait till you both get home. I recently started a new job a few weeks ago and right now I'm still in training. Yes, I have a desk, computer, phone, etc but knowing how my wife is I have not yet given hr my email address because I don't want her emailing me about frivolous things. Again, things that don't need an immediate reply.
Well, Mon, during some down time I sent her a text and we had a little conversation. Tues I didn't text at all until later in the day when she sent me a series of texts saying how it was funny that I could text Mon but I'm quiet today. I explained to her that I was working and training and didn't have time. She wasn't hearing that answer. Her reply was basically, "oh, so weren't you training Mon? It's funny you could text that day." Ok, yesterday, Wed, wasn't that big of a training day BUT I was still at work and again, during some down time we had some back and forth texts. Last night in the store she made the snide remark. "Oh, you weren't busy today because you seemed to find time to text."
I can't get my wife to understand that some days and times I'm available to text her but others I'm not. She even made the comment that I had time to go one Facebook and like one phone but couldn't text her.