My wife has this thing to where no one ever invites us to anything. Simply / possibly because she's a bit unsocial. Anyway, last week I mentioned cooking out for Labor Day weekend. The first thing out of her mouth was, "just us, right? We're not inviting anyone!" Well, that meant my god-daughter and her three kids whom I loving call my grand kids. I helped raise this girl when her father was killed when she was about 3. Ok, Sat night we were talking and my wife mentioned that she had told her son and his girlfriend to come over. Ok, I can't invite my daughter and her kids but you can invite your son and his girlfriend? Her thinking is that her son still lives there so she didn't see a problem with it. No, he stays with his girlfriend at her parent's house 5 or 6 nights a week then one day a week he'll come home. To me, technically, he doesn't live here. He just keeps his stuff there. We were cooking out Sunday and I told her that we've never invited him home for a Sunday dinner because he's always with his girlfriend and her parents so why now would you invite him to Sunday dinner / cookout? And, on top of that invite his girlfriend to come over. I enjoy cooking and inviting people over. We had our 2 year old granddaughter with us because he dad still lives with us and I was going to set up the big blow up pool and let her play in the water. My god-daughter has 3 kids of her own now and I thought they'd have fun playing in the water on a hot day.