• Was this Sexual Harassment?

    I had gone home with a really cute guy named James from a college bar, he was really nice and I was infatuated by how cute he was. We went home and started to hook up (have sex). Then he left me for a while in his bed while he went to hang out in his friend's room (within the apartment). I thought this was rude. So all of a sudden, him and his... show more
    I had gone home with a really cute guy named James from a college bar, he was really nice and I was infatuated by how cute he was. We went home and started to hook up (have sex). Then he left me for a while in his bed while he went to hang out in his friend's room (within the apartment). I thought this was rude. So all of a sudden, him and his friend come into the room, where I am naked under the covers and the friend asks me if I wanted a threesome with him and James. I asked him to get out of the room because I was naked. He told me to shut up. He stayed there just facing the bed and I kept telling him I wanted him to leave the room because I was naked and uncomfortable with him being there (I don't know this guy from a hole in the wall). I literally hid under the covers. Finally he left and James acted like nothing happened. Was this a sexual violation of some form? How would you feel if this happened to a female you cared about?
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 6 months ago
  • Would you buy a new lap top if you slighting damaged it?

    I m a Ph.D. student and always loveeed my macbook, i bought it refurbished, it runs amazingly and its beautiful. I have had it for 10 months and treat it like gold. The other day I was tired and left the thing in its case on top of my car and drove. It hit the ground hard and there is a subtle dent in it with chips. Then a few days later a spider... show more
    I m a Ph.D. student and always loveeed my macbook, i bought it refurbished, it runs amazingly and its beautiful. I have had it for 10 months and treat it like gold. The other day I was tired and left the thing in its case on top of my car and drove. It hit the ground hard and there is a subtle dent in it with chips. Then a few days later a spider was on my foot and I freaked out and accidentally punched my screen in the process of swatting it off my foot. There is now a marking on my display, its noticeable. I dont like these flaws. Im hoping I could sell it back to the seller for less like 300$ (because the thing runs perfectly).... its fairly new too. And then spend the 200$ from birthday money or something to order another one from him? Would you do the same?
    5 answers · Mythology & Folklore · 8 months ago
  • Do you think this guy was interested?

    I went to Bank of America today and had the cutest bank teller ever (the ones that you sit down in an office with). I had lost my wallet the night prior and had to go in to get a temp card. He was making small talk with me and was like where'd you go last night? And then he asked me where I was from because I said I wasn't native to that... show more
    I went to Bank of America today and had the cutest bank teller ever (the ones that you sit down in an office with). I had lost my wallet the night prior and had to go in to get a temp card. He was making small talk with me and was like where'd you go last night? And then he asked me where I was from because I said I wasn't native to that state. Then he shared with me where he wants to eventually move. He asked me alot of questions about myself. But I feel like sometimes bank tellers DO do that and that it has more to do with their training in that they are supposed to build a good relationship with the clients at the bank. OR do you think this indicated some interest/attraction?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 8 months ago
  • What does this mean?

    This guy (Jake) genuinely thought I was beautiful the night he met me, he was also drunk but I think I really did look pretty that night because alot of guys turned around and told me that night at the bar. Even after Jake and I had hooked up that night while we were lying in bed, he kept saying how beautiful he thought I was. However, in the... show more
    This guy (Jake) genuinely thought I was beautiful the night he met me, he was also drunk but I think I really did look pretty that night because alot of guys turned around and told me that night at the bar. Even after Jake and I had hooked up that night while we were lying in bed, he kept saying how beautiful he thought I was. However, in the morning after I hooked up with him (bad, I know), I went to kiss him goodbye after he drove me to drop me off at my car and he blantantly physically pulled away from me. He never reached out to text me, only on the weekends either late at night, or nights he knew he couldnt go out to the bar? did he think I was ugly when he pulled away from my kiss and wouldnt kiss me, or was he uncomfortable because he doesnt want any kind of comitted relationship period.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 8 months ago
  • What does this mean?

    This guy genuinely thought I was beautiful the night he met me, he was also drunk but I really did look very pretty and every guy turned around to look at me and compliment my looks that night. Even after we hooked up that night while we were lying in bed, he kept saying how beautiful he thought I was. However, in the morning after I hooked up with... show more
    This guy genuinely thought I was beautiful the night he met me, he was also drunk but I really did look very pretty and every guy turned around to look at me and compliment my looks that night. Even after we hooked up that night while we were lying in bed, he kept saying how beautiful he thought I was. However, in the morning after I hooked up with him (bad, I know), I went to kiss him goodbye after he drove me to drop me off at my car and he blantantly physically pulled away from me. He never reached out to text me, only on the weekends either late at night, or nights he knew he couldnt go out to the bar? did he think I was ugly when he pulled away from my kiss and wouldnt kiss me, or was he uncomfortable because he doesnt want any kind of comitted relationship period.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 9 months ago
  • Was he insinuating that he asked me to dinner just to be nice?

    I asked a guy via text whether he liked me and he didnt respond. I then said, "Well why did you take me out to dinner if you didnt like me?" and he said, "Because I told you I would and I don't go against my word". I was offended obviously and weeks later he told me I took it out of context, what would you think if someone... show more
    I asked a guy via text whether he liked me and he didnt respond. I then said, "Well why did you take me out to dinner if you didnt like me?" and he said, "Because I told you I would and I don't go against my word". I was offended obviously and weeks later he told me I took it out of context, what would you think if someone said this to you?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 10 months ago
  • Did he not want to go to dinner with me?

    I asked a guy via text whether he liked me and he didnt respond. I then said, "Well why did you take me out to dinner if you didnt like me?" and he said, "Because I told you I would and I don't go against my word". I took this as he was saying I didnt want to go and I didnt like you, I Just felt bad. Weeks later he said that... show more
    I asked a guy via text whether he liked me and he didnt respond. I then said, "Well why did you take me out to dinner if you didnt like me?" and he said, "Because I told you I would and I don't go against my word". I took this as he was saying I didnt want to go and I didnt like you, I Just felt bad. Weeks later he said that I took it out of context..... what do you think?
    11 answers · Singles & Dating · 10 months ago