My birthday is coming up and its the same story every yr, except for my twin sister my other siblings will only call me on that day, and then i dont hear from them unless its their birthday or mine, I have tried to contact them in between by emailing or whatever and im lucky if they respond, I have nieces that are teenagers and i feel like theyre strangers, if i try to facebook them or email them its like talking to the walls, they dont live in the same state. same with my brothers, its like talking to the wall too if i contact them in between birthdays,
so every yr they call me on my birthday and it makes me feel like theyre doing it out of obligation, not cause they really want to talk to me. I have even told one of my brothers that i wish he would call on other days as well and not wait a yr to call, he said he would but didnt, i have a half sister that calls my twin all the time but wont call me, and that includes birthdays, have no idea what i did, I have cousins that probably will just email me and not call, I heard my aunt and uncle are just going to email, all these relatives i only hear from them on the big day. Im getting tired of all this. I have taken off on my birthday before just to skip on those calls but then some call the next day so that defeats the purpose, I thought of putting my phone off line but then they'll probably email anyways which defeats that purpose, not sure what to do but im resenting the fact that thats the only time they will call.