• What’s my next move?

    So there’s a guy. We went to highschool together but never really hung out. Lots of mutual friends though. Anyway we hadn’t seen each other for a couple of years but then he responded to my Snapchat story out of nowhere. Which lead to some conversation and then hanging out last night. We had a great night filled with easy conversation, laughter,... show more
    So there’s a guy. We went to highschool together but never really hung out. Lots of mutual friends though. Anyway we hadn’t seen each other for a couple of years but then he responded to my Snapchat story out of nowhere. Which lead to some conversation and then hanging out last night. We had a great night filled with easy conversation, laughter, hand holding and even a kiss and there was some flirty texting when i got home. It’s so out of the blue and really unexpected but I have major heart eyes for him! I think and would hope that he’s into it as well. What should my next move be?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • What’s my next move?

    So There’s this guy. We went to highschool together but never really hung out. Lots of mutual friends though. Anyways it’s been a couple years since we’ve seen each other and he responded to my Snapchat story out of the blue. That started a conversation and lead to us hanging out last night. We had a great night. Lots of easy conversation,... show more
    So There’s this guy. We went to highschool together but never really hung out. Lots of mutual friends though. Anyways it’s been a couple years since we’ve seen each other and he responded to my Snapchat story out of the blue. That started a conversation and lead to us hanging out last night. We had a great night. Lots of easy conversation, laughter, hand holding and even a kiss. There was some flirty texting when I got home. It’s so out of the blue and really unexpected but I have major heart eyes for him. I think he’s feeling it too. Of course I’m not sure but I would hope so. What should my next move be???
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • Do I text him?

    I’ll try to keep it short. I’ve been in this long distance relationship. We’ve separated since October and I won’t be able to go back to Argentina until May for a couple of weeks. It was all going well until he became distant and eventually radio silent. I finally got up the courage to ask him what was going on after a week of 0 communication and no... show more
    I’ll try to keep it short. I’ve been in this long distance relationship. We’ve separated since October and I won’t be able to go back to Argentina until May for a couple of weeks. It was all going well until he became distant and eventually radio silent. I finally got up the courage to ask him what was going on after a week of 0 communication and no warning and he said that he just needed time and space and that he wanted to focus on soccer without having to give explanations to anyone. We kind of fought it out because I was convinced he just wanted to see other girls. But it turns out he just has a lot of fitness and consequently lots of female friends. He left the ball in my court saying that It wasn’t up to me if I waited for him or not but I told him that he has my heart and is the only one who can give it back. It’s been another almost 2 weeks without a word. I want to be able to give him the time and space that he feels he needs but I don’t sleep I can’t function I feel empty like I’m dying inside. I want nothing more than to see his name pop up on my phone. Do I even bother to text him? Am I stupid for loving him?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 months ago
  • How do I express jealousy without being psycho?

    I spent a year and a half in Argentina and After I got to talking to one of the guys I worked with. We quickly developed what looks like a long distance relationship and we both have established that we are falling in love, but are putting off defining the relationship until I visit in May. He admitted and I learned that he has jealous tendancies... show more
    I spent a year and a half in Argentina and After I got to talking to one of the guys I worked with. We quickly developed what looks like a long distance relationship and we both have established that we are falling in love, but are putting off defining the relationship until I visit in May. He admitted and I learned that he has jealous tendancies which I can handle. I try not to make him jealous at all costs. I want to build trust inspite of the distance. but he posted a picture of him and a gorgeous blond on social media and they looked very cozy. I let him know that I wasn’t the biggest fan and he expressed how good it felt that I got a little jealous. And I can understand that validation. But when he posted a second very cozy picture with this same girl who is supposedly just his friend after having hardly talked to me over the weekend it actually really hurt my feelings. When I brought it up again he said very definitely that they were just friends and that it was the end of the conversation. I didn’t have the chance to express that I had sobbed in the shower for over half an hour and that I felt rather hurt by it. I can understand that maybe it’s just the difference in culture and that they are very affectionate people, but the honest truth is that the idea of another woman hugging on him or sitting on his lap makes me cringe. So how can I bring it up and express how I feel without attacking him, or making him mad? Or am I just being unreasonable?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 months ago