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  • I want to make my fiancee's dream come true ?

    So my fiance is a trans woman and her dream is to get the srs surgery, everything is taken care of her hotel,flight to Thailand and spending money, it's just money for the surgery itself 2,500, Dysphoria for her gets really bad even along the lines of saying she wants to die, it pains me to see her this way. Ive applied for loans but I'm just getting spam mail, went on several sites and , I've even put up a crowdfund and nothing yet, so what else can i do? I don't want to give up but i feel like I'm all out of options, her flight is coming up soon,i want to see her happy that's all i want..

  • Turning my Dell T3500 into a gaming PC?

    A friend of mine gave this PC for a good price it has a Intel Xeon quad core E5520 Processor at 2.26GHz,8gbs of ram, and a PSU at 525W, so if I put a mid range to high end video card should I be ok until I decide to upgrade everything else?

    Desktops5 years ago
  • Issues with my life.?

    I'm 21 Ok so I have a job in which my hours are now only as needed,I use to work every other weekend,now that is not the case..This is an issue with my mother I feel like she wants me to go back to school just for the sake of going..and I've already gone once and graduated....Either that or find a full time job which is not easy but not impossible,however so far no luck....I have a strong feeling soon I will get kicked out...and If I do I'll probably contemplate suicide or join the military..that's just how I feel right now,I stay sane by hanging out with my friends and enjoying my hobbies,however at 21 still living with my parents,I feel pathetic as an adult and as a man..My mom keeps stressing I'll be 22 soon and time is running out..

    2 AnswersFamily6 years ago
  • Is beoming a certified Medical assistant really worth it?

    So here's the thing my mom wants or is forcing me rather to get certified.I'm going to switch careers and go to college for Information Technology,because to be honest I don't like dealing with people,I can fake it REALLY well though.On top of that I've lost interest in the medical field period.My mother doesn't seem to like this.....I've heard and read individuals that are certified however they're getting some interviews or calls but no job offers,I've talked to people who have not had any change in their job situation at all.So why try to do something I have no interest in anymore? It's obvious that these employers want experience more than a piece of paper,however my mom refuses to let go of this mentality,she has lupus so she's not really able to work at all...So what's being certified gonna do?Put me with a staffing agency?I'm already doing that...Volunteer?No because my mom wants me to make money...I'm already going back to school to please and stop the fighting...I'm 20,turning 21 soon and I don't know how much of these I can take....I'm in Jacksonville,Florida so maybe it's area..

    3 AnswersHealth Care7 years ago
  • Esclating tension between me and my mom?

    I'm a 20 year old male still unfortunately living at my parents house and It seems like ever since I got my job working at this assisted living and memory care place,it seems like tension has been just rising ever since.It feel like my efforts to make my mom satisfied with what I'm doing are extremely futile..Sure I don't like my job because it's far, doesn't pay well and I get very little or awkard hours..but I have a job I thought my mom would be happy about me actually being employed but apparently that's not the case...she says I'm being unproductive during the weekdays due to me only working weekends...I do what I can to try to find another job because I graduated from a vocational school(Which I have come to regret) as a Medical Assistant I've tried online as well as offices near my house and still no luck and then an argument or more so my mom exploding on me would arise into me not trying hard enough or she'll say I've had jobs since I was 5 and all that..Truth is I don't know what she wants from me honestly so what if I do find a job as a MA but don't make the good enough money?Then we're back to square one go back to school or get the hell out.Honestly I'm considering going back however I'd like to get a dorm away from my mom..once I establish myself and become self sufficient our communication will be slim to none...I just don't know what this women wants from me.You know I've thought only THOUGHT and nothing more about suicide?Of course I'm not that stupid but anything to get away from this **** was welcoming...I'm trying my best to do what I can..maybe it's generation gap..I just don't know..Hell,my friend is doing temp work but apparently him not having a stable job is a problem with his parents too..

    3 AnswersFamily7 years ago
  • Getting this smaller TV for gaming?

    So after gaming a 32 inch for a while I've notice input lag and such..I wish to get competitive with fighting games so I need a smaller tv and I've been looking into this one or the 22 inch model.The pixels and detail quality look better on a smaller screen and I can focus and do better on games.So is this TV good enough?I would go with a monitor but it only has one HDMI port and no component ports and I don't feel like getting composite audio cables along with a HDMI to DVI cable just not in my budget right now. I would get a 19 inch samsung but it's only 720p.

    2 AnswersTVs7 years ago
  • building this gaming pc?

    I'm building this gaming PC and I want to know if it's good for a budget PC and if this case and part are compatible with eachother,and if I need a better wireless device for the PC please let me know thanks.

    Planning to run:

    DmC:Devil May Cry

    Counter strike:GLobal offensive

    Total war 2:shogun

    Saints row third & 4

    FarCry 3

    Skyrim,oblivion,Fallout 3



    Metro:last light



    most valve games and many more.

    GPU:HIS H785F1G2M Radeon HD 7850 1GB 256-bit GDDR5 PCI Express 3.0 x16 HDCP Ready CrossFireX Support Video Card

    MotherBoard:GIGABYTE GA-78LMT-S2 AM3+ AMD 760G Micro ATX AMD Motherboard

    RAM:Mushkin Enhanced Essentials 8GB (2 x 4GB) 240-Pin DDR3 SDRAM DDR3 1333 (PC3 10666) Desktop Memory Model 996769

    PowerSupply:COOLER MASTER eXtreme Power Plus RS500-PCARD3-US 500W ATX12V v2.3 Power Supply

    DVD Drive:LITE-ON DVD Burner - Bulk 24X DVD+R 8X DVD+RW 12X DVD+R DL 24X DVD-R 6X DVD-RW 16X DVD-ROM 48X CD-R 32X CD-RW 48X CD-ROM Black SATA Model iHAS124-04 - OEM

    Wireless Adapter:StarTech USBBT2EDR2 Mini USB Bluetooth 2.1 Adapter - Class 2 EDR Wireless Network Adapter

    HardDrive:Seagate Barracuda ST1000DM003 1TB 7200 RPM 64MB Cache SATA 6.0Gb/s 3.5" Internal Hard Drive

    OS:Microsoft Windows 7 Home Premium SP1 32-bit - OEM

    Feedback greatly appreciated

    1 AnswerPC7 years ago
  • Met this girl at work?

    Ok so I'm 20 and I met this woman at my job who is a sitter for one of our residents(she's there by contract and nothing more) she's Spanish light skinned and has a voluptuous body(hopefully that didn't sound rude.)Anyway so I was just talking with her you know,just to be nice.All of sudden I noticed her hitting on me,winking at me,touching me while laughing or any chance she gets(not in a sexual way of course.)Standing close to me,saying she wishes her contract was longer so she can be with me etc.It also appears that she's a christian as am I.Al tough with her hitting me in this way how can she be?Mind you I didn't touch her in any sexual way nor did she me,I mean we just talk and she flirts..she doesn't cross the line or anything like that,she called me handsome too I don't know what that is about.I just want to talk with her alone,to confirm this wasn't just some random thing..I also wouldn't want the flirting to lead to sex because I am very attracted to this girl not just body-wise and me being a christian and a virgin,I want to hold off on that until marriage and I feel if I go for I feel like God will never forgive me like I broke a hug promise I take back..I feel that when I do wrong anyway...but her claiming be chirstian talking about god looking a videos of sermons on her phone and hitting on me I don't know what to think..and I'm scared to get her alone because I don't want me co-workers starting rumors when it's not like that,and she may be a completely different outside of work..I find this woman attractive inside and out I never felt this way about a girl,BTW she's older and I don't know if she has kids or is committed to someone...So can I get some help?From a Christian perspective and a non-one?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Relationship with my mom going sour?

    Ok so I happen to have some Issues with my mother...For a while now I had trouble finding a Job..I graduated from a medical assistant program,I tried to look for a job in the field but alas no luck..So the Issue from there was to find some type of work that's medical..or go back to school,It was reasonable all I was doing was sitting on my *** hoping for someone to call me or calling them,those were my options..I think that all school is going to do is pile upon the loans I already have of course she doesn't look at it like that.So I found a Job a Assisted living place recently..I got the Job..It's far and doesn't pay well but it's better than nothing.I've been working there for a while and now I have even more issues than before!Now my options are to find another job that pays more or again go back to school....I don't understand,I thought that this is what she wanted,for me to be finally employed,but she yelling at me when I get home from work,because all I do IS work due to my hours I also barely get time off unless I need or it or I am sick..and if I don't find another job(or make time to find one) that pays more or go back to school she'll take most of my paycheck to give me "motivation"...I'll tell you one thing once I find a better paying Job and get out on my own my mother and I will become complete any advice?I just don't understand...What does she want from me?Am I wrong for this?I'm just trying to make her satisfied but apparently not..I'm 20 btw..Don't get me wrong she does for me and everything, I in no way hate her or anything(although if this keeps up it might turn out that way.) but her logic and reasoning is just ridiculous..

    2 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships8 years ago
  • Building this PC for gaming.?

    I'm buliding this starter budget PC

    I intend to run:

    Skyrim with mods that alter my character not the world or textures

    oblivion same mods as I mention wiht skyrim

    Most vavle games CS:GO,the new age of chiravarly

    Alice madness returns

    Possibly BF3

    Basically most games out there today

    I would also like to know whether or not these part are compatible

    and since this is a budget build I don't expect to run everything on ultra settings as long as I get playable and stable framerates it's fine with me.



    MSI H61M-P31 (G3) LGA 1155 Intel H61 Micro ATX Intel Motherboard with UEFI BIOS


    COOLER MASTER eXtreme Power RS600-PCARE3-US 600W ATX12V V2.3 SLI Ready CrossFire Ready Power Supply


    Athena Power CA-GSB01DA Black 0.8mm SECC Steel ATX Mid Tower Computer Case - OEM


    AMD Phenom II X4 965 Black Edition Deneb 3.4GHz Socket AM3 125W Quad-Core Processor HDZ965FBGMBOX


    Western Digital WD Blue WD2500AAKX 250GB 7200 RPM 16MB Cache SATA 6.0Gb/s 3.5" Internal Hard Drive -Bare Drive - OEM


    XFX CORE Edition FX-777A-ZNF4 Radeon HD 7770 GHz Edition 1GB 128-bit GDDR5 PCI Express 3.0 x16 HDCP Ready CrossFireX Support Video Card

    Wireless network adapter:StarTech USBBT2EDR2 Mini USB Bluetooth 2.1 Adapter - Class 2 EDR Wireless Network Adapter

    1 AnswerPC8 years ago
  • Getting this gaming PC?First timer?

    Now this build may not agree with you all..I do not own a OS,and keyboard mouse or monitor.I would really like to get into PCgaming but, trying to get a budget build along with a OS keyboard ,mouse monitor and a wireless adapter, because I unfortunately do not have access to my modem or router it will pretty blow my budget out the water which is about 400-500, and seeing as this comes with a keyboard mouse,wireless adapter and a HDMI input so I can use my HDTV as a temporary display this seems like a more logical choice for my here are the specs:

    AMD Quad-Core FX-4100 Zambezi Processor with AMD Radeon HD 7770 graphics

    For enhanced operation.


    For multitasking power, expandable to 32GB.

    Multiformat DVD±RW/CD-RW drive

    Create custom DVDs and CDs.

    8MB L3 cache memory

    For efficient system processing.

    500GB Serial ATA II hard drive (7200 rpm)

    Offers spacious storage and fast read/write times.

    AMD Radeon HD 7770 graphics

    Feature 1GB dedicated video memory for lush images. HDMI output for connection to an HDTV.

    2 USB 3.0 and 6 USB 2.0 ports

    For fast digital video, audio and data transfer.

    Built-in Realtek 8111E 10/100/1000 Mbps Ethernet LAN

    For quick and easy wired Web connection.

    Microsoft Windows 8 64-bit operating system preinstalled

    Edit:I already own a PS3 and 360 so enough with the whole might as well get a console thing..My first real online gaming experience was on a PC so I just want to get back into it and possibly expand on it.

    Also to get an idea of what type of games i wanna run:

    Mainly bethesda games

    Valve titles

    Free to play games like Warframe.


    The new age of chivialry

    possibly BF3?

    Link to product:

    1 AnswerPC8 years ago
  • Is this barebones build a good starter gaming PC?

    I've been trying to look for cheap alternatives to build a decent gaming PC that can play vavle games like CS:GO to possibly games like DmC or BF3 I've found this barebones kit at a decent price I just want a compact gaming PC and something simple to start off with.This is my first leap into real PC gaming.

    PC8 years ago
  • Is this a good budget gaming PC?

    I want to build this PC,so are these parts good to start off with until I can get more powerful parts in the future?Are they compatable with eachother?Will this PC play most current games at playable frame rate? such as :

    DeadSpace 1 &2 maybe 3

    The Elders scrolls and Fallout games

    Mass Effect Franchise


    Sleeping dogs

    Alice Madness returns


    Counter strike Global Offensive

    Planetside 2

    Borderlands 2

    Basically most the current multiplats and PC games out there right now.


    Graphics:XFX CORE Edition FX-777A-ZNF4 Radeon HD 7770 GHz Edition 1GB 128-bit GDDR5 PCI Express 3.0 x16 HDCP Ready CrossFireX Support Video Card

    Processor:Intel Pentium G850 Sandy Bridge 2.9GHz LGA 1155 65W Dual-Core Desktop Processor Intel HD Graphics 2000 BX80623G850

    Ram:Crucial Ballistix Sport 8GB (2 x 4GB) 240-Pin DDR3 SDRAM DDR3 1333 (PC3 10600) Desktop Memory Model BLS2KIT4G3D1339DS1S00

    MotherBoard:MSI H61M-P31 (G3) LGA 1155 Intel H61 Micro ATX Intel Motherboard with UEFI BIOS

    CD DVD Drive:LITE-ON DVD Burner - Bulk 24X DVD+R 8X DVD+RW 12X DVD+R DL 24X DVD-R 6X DVD-RW 16X DVD-ROM 48X CD-R 32X CD-RW 48X CD-ROM Black SATA Model iHAS124-04 - OEM

    HardDrive:Seagate Barracuda ST500DM002 500GB 7200 RPM 16MB Cache SATA 6.0Gb/s 3.5" Internal Hard Drive -Bare Drive

    PowerSupply:COOLER MASTER eXtreme Power Plus RS500-PCARD3-US 500W ATX12V v2.3 Power Supply

    Case:Fractal Design Core 1000 Micro ATX Computer Case w/ 1 x 120mm fan


    If they're parts that are cheaper that are just as good or better please let me know.Other than that I appreciate the suggestions

    .P.S. Please bear in the mind this is a BUDGET BUILD I don't have the money to go all out.At least not at this time I just want a PC that can run most current games out there right now with PLAYABLE frame-rate graphics and all that can wait,I just want a smooth experience for now.

    3 AnswersPC8 years ago
  • Building my Ideal Gaming rig?

    To give a little background,I have both the 360 and PS3.I enjoy both systems preferably the PS3.I have seen alot of a gamers and youtubers in the gaming community getting into PC gaming.My first Online gaming experience was Counter-Strike 1.6. on a farely slow Dell celeron,as well playing a few free MMORPG's here and there.I have about 41 games on steam that I can barely run due to the fact that I own a laptop that's not built for the type of gaming I want to get into.So for the people who have a experience with building gaming rigs can you help me out here?I wish to run most the current games out there.I have an array of questions:

    1.Is PC gaming really as good as the elitist say it is?

    2.Will multiplat games such as Hitman:Absolution or Fallout3 blow my mind in terms of graphic and performance?Or will it just look like a more polished version when turned to ultra settings?

    3.Will be able to build a really good rig while staying under the 1,000 Dollar range?Or will I have to suck it up and set budget higher which is 600-700

    4.Is building a gaming rig really all that simple that even a noob like me can do it?Veterans claims it's very easy,but appear to be pretty challenging and intimidating.

    These are questions coming for a console gamer and hopefully soon a PC-Gamer as well.

    5 AnswersPC8 years ago
  • How to make my Resume noticeable?No prior job experience?

    I just want to make my resume noticeable so I can get some calls or interviews.Any suggestions?


     Dedicated, service-focused professional seeking to transition into the medical field as a proficient health-care provider.


    Competent skills in Venipuncture

    Performed blood typing

    Examined lab specimens (Blood,Urine,etc.)

    Capillary sticks (Finger sticks for glucose and cholestoral testing)

    Urinalysis Testing (Examine the urine for sugar, blood etc)

    Hematocrit Testing (RBC’c)

    Administer Medications

    Patient scheduling

    Autoclaving (sterilizing instruments for surgical use)

    Handle outgoing/incoming calls (triage, re-scheduling appt’s, etc.)

    Documentation: Patient charts and EMR.

    Exercise Interpersonal Communication

    Acquire Vital Signs


    Absolute Medical Clinic

    Chiropractic and pain management therapy clinic

    May 2012-March 2012


    BLS Certification

    HIPPA certification

    Asthma Certification 2007

    Defy Drug awareness 2008


    Lighthouse Christian School 2008-2011 Student Council President

    Sanford Brown Institute 2011-2012 (3.6 GPA) Perfect Attendance Award 2011-2012

    Perfect Attendance Award 2011-2012 Medical Assisting

    2 AnswersHealth Care8 years ago
  • How is FarCry 3 so good?

    I've been looking into farcy 3 alot and it looks pretty fun.My thing is I've played ALOT of freeroam games completed everything and don't have a urge to play them Iike I did when I first got it.I've played Borderlands,Oblivion,Fallout,Skyrim,Dead Island,Mount and Blade:WarBand,Terriaria,MineCraft,you name it.What will make me want to come back and play this game.What is so fun about it that it sets itself apart from other freeroam games?How big is the replay value aspect?I really need legit anwsers this game is 48 dollars on sale and I want my money to be well spend

    7 AnswersVideo & Online Games8 years ago
  • Is pc gaming really that good?

    I have already Steam and a good bit of games..however i use a laptop while it somewhat gets the jobs done I'd like to build a rig that can run them more efficiently.I would think my budget would need to be 10000 or more for games nowadays..If there is a cheaper way then let me know.I also own a 360 and PS3,so my question is:is playing on PC really as good as these PC eilist claim it to be?Will the graphics of most mulitplaform games blow my mind or just look more polished?Will building 10000 dollar PC be worth it or can I build one for a lower price that's just as good?Or since I'm new to this should just customize one online and do it that way?

    5 AnswersPC8 years ago
  • Building a gaming rig?

    I need some help with this I plan on building a gaming pc in the near future...seeing as I've never done this it would be easier to buy a pre-built one..but many PC enthusiasts deter me from that.So basically I just want to build a PC and play a game without really worrying about specs,hardware, or adjusting visuals.I want be able to run games like Battlefied 3,Skyrim(becuase of the mods),and many other current titles out there.I would say that my budget needs do be atleast 10000 or more to achieve this. Am I wrong? Or can I build a good gaming PC without spending 10000? my actual budget ranges from 600 to like 750.

    3 AnswersPC8 years ago
  • Hitman noob is it a buy or pass?

    I'm at a crossroads right now.As you all know halo 4 is out.Seeing as I'm not a fan of halo at all I could care less even though it does look really cool.Anyway back on topic I have never played a hitman game ever and I'm looking at the game-play for absolution and it looks like the stealth that I've been looking for.So would you recommend that I get absolution even though I've never played?That being the case would you deter me from getting it since the hitman games are known for being difficult?Or should I move on and just buy max payne 3 and be done with it?

    2 AnswersVideo & Online Games8 years ago
  • Does anyone still play BattleField 1943? Bad Company 2 online pass?

    I've recently downloaded the trial and I gotta say I really enjoyed it.So my question is do people still play this game?Is it hard to find a server nowadays,is it laggy at all?It's 9.99 on the psn store so that's a pretty good deal.Secondly what's this online pass I've been hearing about with EA?Does this mean if I buy Bad Company 2 used I have go to the psn store to buy a online pass to access the multiplayer since someone already used the code before me?Or is this for extra content or with EA sport titles only?Thanks for your time people.

    5 AnswersVideo & Online Games10 years ago