• Should I socialize?

    I feel depressed and left out if people don't talk to me or include me in their conversation. But I socialize I feel embarrassed and so worried that I might have said something weird, inappropriate or embarrassing. What is my problem. Help please.
    I feel depressed and left out if people don't talk to me or include me in their conversation. But I socialize I feel embarrassed and so worried that I might have said something weird, inappropriate or embarrassing. What is my problem. Help please.
    1 answer · Mental Health · 3 years ago
  • JFK to central park New york?

    I need to get to Central park East side 67th St. (Playground) I believe. Which trains should I take? Where do I buy tickets and where do I get off so it is the shortest walk to the play ground?. Thanks
    I need to get to Central park East side 67th St. (Playground) I believe. Which trains should I take? Where do I buy tickets and where do I get off so it is the shortest walk to the play ground?. Thanks
    3 answers · New York City · 3 years ago
  • Electric outlet on damped wall?

    My mother lives in monsoon climate. Her cement wall in the laundry room is damped all summer. The electric outlet she uses for washing machine is installed on that damped wall. How dangerous is this outlet on damp wall whether I used or not? It is 220 V. Thanks
    My mother lives in monsoon climate. Her cement wall in the laundry room is damped all summer. The electric outlet she uses for washing machine is installed on that damped wall. How dangerous is this outlet on damp wall whether I used or not? It is 220 V. Thanks
    2 answers · Other - Electronics · 3 years ago
  • Vagina itching for months?

    The opening of my vagina (not vulva) has been itching for about 3 months. There is no discharge. I also lost about 13 pound in weight unintended but have been stable for about a month now. I feel healthy but the itching is killing me. I saw a gyno she said nothing serious just a mild fungal infection. I wash myself everyday but the itching has not... show more
    The opening of my vagina (not vulva) has been itching for about 3 months. There is no discharge. I also lost about 13 pound in weight unintended but have been stable for about a month now. I feel healthy but the itching is killing me. I saw a gyno she said nothing serious just a mild fungal infection. I wash myself everyday but the itching has not subsided. Anyone experiences such itching?
    1 answer · STDs · 4 years ago
  • Unexplained weight loss?

    Three month ago I loss 13 pounds within two months without dieting or exercise. I have been stable at 51kgs for about one month now. I got a random blood sugar test and my number was 133. I wonder if I should worry and go for more test? Thanks you
    Three month ago I loss 13 pounds within two months without dieting or exercise. I have been stable at 51kgs for about one month now. I got a random blood sugar test and my number was 133. I wonder if I should worry and go for more test? Thanks you
    5 answers · Diet & Fitness · 4 years ago
  • How to invite a friend to Bhutan?

    I am an Indian citizen. I have been to Bhutan and made some friends. My husband is US citizen and my friends would like to invite us both to Bhutan but they don't know how to start. Our friends are ordinary Bhutanese citizens. Please guide.
    I am an Indian citizen. I have been to Bhutan and made some friends. My husband is US citizen and my friends would like to invite us both to Bhutan but they don't know how to start. Our friends are ordinary Bhutanese citizens. Please guide.
    2 answers · Other - Asia Pacific · 4 years ago
  • Feeling ashamed and embarrassed after drinking?

    I have no idea why I always feel ashamed after drinking. Last night I went to friend's house and end up staying for dinner. Her husband whom I just met for the first time pulled out a bottle of wine and poured a tiny bit for me. I took my time to finish that and then he poured another full glass. I took my time to finish that too and then he... show more
    I have no idea why I always feel ashamed after drinking. Last night I went to friend's house and end up staying for dinner. Her husband whom I just met for the first time pulled out a bottle of wine and poured a tiny bit for me. I took my time to finish that and then he poured another full glass. I took my time to finish that too and then he poured another glass. By the time I finished my last glass I started to feel the effect but was not drunk, did nothing crazy or embarrassing. I am feeling embarrassed and guilty right now because I fear that my friend and her husband would think that I drank too much or that I am an alcoholic. What is wrong with me?.
    2 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 4 years ago
  • What to write on a condolence card?

    My sister who does not like me that much is very happy that her husband died. She was tired of him and his illness and wanted to just get on with her life. I am struggling to find the right words to write on the condolence card. Please help.
    My sister who does not like me that much is very happy that her husband died. She was tired of him and his illness and wanted to just get on with her life. I am struggling to find the right words to write on the condolence card. Please help.
    1 answer · Other - Family & Relationships · 4 years ago
  • Should I sell my house for a profit and rent?

    Our house is in a nice neighborhood. We bought it when the market was down about 5 years ago, got a really nice price and put about $110,000 for improvement. Our mortgage is about $1200. If we sell our house right now we would make $250,000 in profit. We can use that money in buying another rental property or pay off other mortgages on other rental... show more
    Our house is in a nice neighborhood. We bought it when the market was down about 5 years ago, got a really nice price and put about $110,000 for improvement. Our mortgage is about $1200. If we sell our house right now we would make $250,000 in profit. We can use that money in buying another rental property or pay off other mortgages on other rental properties which would result in increase of income and cash flow. My husband who looks at houses as a business is excited to sell and buy again maybe in 4-5 years when the market is down again. While I am nervous of selling our family home because 1. I am not sure if we can find a house in that same neighborhood again in 5 years. 2. We have kids and the schools in our neighborhood are the best in the city. 3. Our rent would be much higher than our mortgage. 4. Market may not be down in 5 years. 5. All our rental properties produce much more than $1200/mo so it does not make sense for us to move in to one of them.
    2 answers · Yahoo Real Estate · 4 years ago
  • Is my husband autistic?

    My husband is bright and successful. He is a good father and good husband. Yet he has the following behaviors that make me wonder if he has some kind of condition that can be treated by professionals. He steps, bumps and brushes people unintentionally. He is very argumentative and defensive. He plays with our kids on the floor and steps on them.... show more
    My husband is bright and successful. He is a good father and good husband. Yet he has the following behaviors that make me wonder if he has some kind of condition that can be treated by professionals. He steps, bumps and brushes people unintentionally. He is very argumentative and defensive. He plays with our kids on the floor and steps on them. They get hurt but I know he doesn't mean to hurt them. Sometimes he gets so RUDE and arrogant and a know it all. He also gets very incompassionate sometimes. He is a good helpful person most of the time and it puzzles me where these unpleasant behaviors come from.
    1 answer · Mental Health · 4 years ago
  • What do you do to keep friends?

    I thought I am a kind person, smart and happy until I lose friends. I make friend so easily, I charm people when I see them for the first time. I laugh and have fun at parties. People love me until they know me pretty well then they start to call me crazy and then leave me, hide their face book from me and call me crazy behind my back. I have no... show more
    I thought I am a kind person, smart and happy until I lose friends. I make friend so easily, I charm people when I see them for the first time. I laugh and have fun at parties. People love me until they know me pretty well then they start to call me crazy and then leave me, hide their face book from me and call me crazy behind my back. I have no idea why they call me crazy. I have the feeling its my facial expression. its just a guess....I must look crazy and weird when I laugh a lot or when I listen and focus on someone talking to me I must have frown and looking very sad. I think that the reason that people like me the first few times they meet me is because I am still able to act formal. But once I feel comfortable I start to feel relaxed, I have fun and laugh a lot and I think this is when my facial expression appears insane. Please advice. I have never failed a personal job interview. I can really charm an interviewer I can also charm everyone in the office for the first few months. But again once I get comfortable with everyone......I become lonely because they all call me crazy and they don't want to hang out with me. What is wrong with me?
    1 answer · Friends · 4 years ago
  • What does Airbnb think of host hidden fee?

    I booked and paid an apt in Spain for a one month stay. A few days after I paid the host sent me an email telling me that I will have to pay 60-100 euro more on key fee. Not a deposit but a key delivery fee. This fee is never mentioned on the listing. When I asked the host why the key fee was never mentioned on the listing his answer was because he... show more
    I booked and paid an apt in Spain for a one month stay. A few days after I paid the host sent me an email telling me that I will have to pay 60-100 euro more on key fee. Not a deposit but a key delivery fee. This fee is never mentioned on the listing. When I asked the host why the key fee was never mentioned on the listing his answer was because he didn’t know where I would meet with the person who delivers the key. (airport or half way to the apt).I apid for everything including cleaning fee that was mentioned on the lisiting but I don’t key fee that was never mentioned on the listing just doesn’t seem right. He told me that if I don’t agree to pay the key fee then I should go ahead and cancel the reservation. Who is responsible for Airbnb if I have to cancel. How would Airbnb resolve hidden fees like this? Thanks in advance.
    3 answers · Other - Spain · 4 years ago
  • Dads only. What would be your reaction?

    If your wife told you calmly that she was afraid that you might have/would touch your pre-schooler inappropriately?
    If your wife told you calmly that she was afraid that you might have/would touch your pre-schooler inappropriately?
    2 answers · Adolescent · 4 years ago
  • Can we change some terms of prenup signed years ago without an attorney?

    Wife and I would like to change some terms of prenup to make it more fair for both of us. We signed it about 20 years ago. Would it be legal with just a notarized signatures at the embassy (we currently live out of the country) or do we have to hire two attorneys?
    Wife and I would like to change some terms of prenup to make it more fair for both of us. We signed it about 20 years ago. Would it be legal with just a notarized signatures at the embassy (we currently live out of the country) or do we have to hire two attorneys?
    2 answers · Law & Legal · 4 years ago
  • Flu or allergy to white wine?

    We had a delicious salmon dinner and decided to open a bottle of white wine. Husband and I shared the wine probably half half. The next day I got up my whole body was achy as if I have been kicked and beaten. My head aches and I get the chills. Sometimes I feels so hot and sometimes I feel so cold. It has been two nights and two days now and... show more
    We had a delicious salmon dinner and decided to open a bottle of white wine. Husband and I shared the wine probably half half. The next day I got up my whole body was achy as if I have been kicked and beaten. My head aches and I get the chills. Sometimes I feels so hot and sometimes I feel so cold. It has been two nights and two days now and nothing has improved. I have been taking tylenol extra strength 2 each time. Other than chills, feeling hot, headache, body ache, fatigue, decrease in appetite and a bit of dizziness I don't have any other symptoms of flu. no running nose, no cough, no sore throat. My question is is this flu or allergy to wine. I have had white wine before never experience anything like this. Been resting and drinking lots of water.
    1 answer · Infectious Diseases · 4 years ago
  • Do you and your husband go to parties together?

    I am a full time mom and hang out with moms and kids most of the time. Sometimes there are family parties but I have avoided to take my husband to any of those parties. Reasons: He eats like a pig. He has almost zero social skills. He is too outspoken about politics, his words and opinions hurt people's feeling's. He is too... show more
    I am a full time mom and hang out with moms and kids most of the time. Sometimes there are family parties but I have avoided to take my husband to any of those parties. Reasons: He eats like a pig. He has almost zero social skills. He is too outspoken about politics, his words and opinions hurt people's feeling's. He is too opinionated. He is always right. Quite patronising and arrogant. I love my husband but I don't like how his acts talks in public. He is the most loving husband one can ever ask for but his personality is embarrassing. He is nice to me because he loves me and don't want to lose me so things at home are decent. But when it comes to socializing I walk on eggshells so I thought I better leave him at home and enjoy myslelf. What would you do if you were in my place: Divorce him? Accept him completely and stop going out? Take him out and keep losing friends?
    8 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 4 years ago
  • Stay or leave for the kids?

    My husband and I are worlds apart in raising our toddlers. He lets them pee next to a public pool I want them to use the bathroom. He lets them use people's property without asking permission from ownerr. When a child screams at a restaurant I take him/her to a quiet place and calm him/her down my husband feels that everybody has seen a child... show more
    My husband and I are worlds apart in raising our toddlers. He lets them pee next to a public pool I want them to use the bathroom. He lets them use people's property without asking permission from ownerr. When a child screams at a restaurant I take him/her to a quiet place and calm him/her down my husband feels that everybody has seen a child screams it is no big deal to just let the child screams at the restauarant. I care so much for my kids and I want to raise them to good be citizen with fine social skill. My husband and I have been arguing every single day because we disagree on how to raise our kids. I am wondering if it is more damaging to the kids to just let their dad raise them half of the time and we get divorce or should I stay and keep arguing with the dad everyday in front of the kids. The husband does listen and folow my guidance sometimes. But most of the time he thinks he knows best and he has zero social skills. He is also not a good listener, so when a child cries he often doesn't pay attention which I feel will hurt the child emotionally in the long run. Today we were out and our son cried for his dad. I asked husband why was our son crying, his answer was 'oh maybe he wants me to carry him'. He didn't ask he just assume that the child wanted to be carried. When I asked him to ask the child, the child answered , 'Daddy, I want water'. I am sad and fear that his insensitivity is damaging to our kid's future.
    5 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 4 years ago
  • How would it affect my divorce if I keep the money?

    I am a stay at home mom and can't wait to go back to work. But have to wait about 16 months more when the kids join school full time. Contemplating divorce. Married for a dozen years with prenup that stated I get nothing. We own a home together. I own some property worth about 20k I bought with the money I earned pre kids. We just can't... show more
    I am a stay at home mom and can't wait to go back to work. But have to wait about 16 months more when the kids join school full time. Contemplating divorce. Married for a dozen years with prenup that stated I get nothing. We own a home together. I own some property worth about 20k I bought with the money I earned pre kids. We just can't stand each other anymore. We have a different way of raising kids and he yells at me in public. I just can't tolerate it anymore. What I worry about is the period before the divorce is settled. I have no saving but some money that husband transfered to my account for some business that didn't go though. Now, I want to keep that money to support me and the kids during separation. I think we can live on that money for about 6 months and then I will have to find a way to pay our rent and food. Question is how would keeping that money affect my divorce settlement. I do fear a little that husband may get physical when I tell him of my plan to keep that money. He has been asking me to transfer it back to his account. Thanks.
    2 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 4 years ago
  • Can I wear swimsuit in Indonesia?

    I am going to jungle park water park, Bogor. Can I wear swimsuit? I ask bcause Indonesia is predominently a Muslim country. Thanks
    I am going to jungle park water park, Bogor. Can I wear swimsuit? I ask bcause Indonesia is predominently a Muslim country. Thanks
    3 answers · Other - Cultures & Groups · 5 years ago
  • Is this what you call social anxiety?

    About 11 years ago I remember the urge to slap a friend while we were sitting talking and drinking beer. I wasn't drunk at all I wasn't even tipsy so drinking wasn't the factor. I could feel the stress of being there though and for me itching on my arms and legs is the sign of serious stress. Fast forward to today. My new friend and I... show more
    About 11 years ago I remember the urge to slap a friend while we were sitting talking and drinking beer. I wasn't drunk at all I wasn't even tipsy so drinking wasn't the factor. I could feel the stress of being there though and for me itching on my arms and legs is the sign of serious stress. Fast forward to today. My new friend and I visited a new born of a woman I just knew a few months ago. I didn't know the women well yet but I thought they were very interesting people, I thought I was comfortable with them and I was very excited to see them, the baby and talk about our life and work. The conversation went very well the first 20 minutes but after that I started to feel sick. I was shaking inside, I felt like I was losing control as if I would drop the baby on the floor (I was holding the baby then). All I wanted to do is hide, I almost excused myself to the bathroom. Then I feared that the women would notice what was going on with me and how I felt inside. Is that what you call social anxiety? When you have that kind of an attack that comes up out of the blue how do you deal with it? Is there any medication fot this kind of attack but how do you take medication when you don't get attacked very often? Thanks a lot
    2 answers · Mental Health · 5 years ago