• Why do my relationships with girls fail?

    I've watched some tv and I watched how beautiful relationships formed from childhood friends, meeting them at some point in life, or even by chance and as someone who never even had a close friendship with girls, it's kinda getting to me. I thought of reasons why my relations with girls fail: 1) Different interests: I'm someone who... show more
    I've watched some tv and I watched how beautiful relationships formed from childhood friends, meeting them at some point in life, or even by chance and as someone who never even had a close friendship with girls, it's kinda getting to me. I thought of reasons why my relations with girls fail: 1) Different interests: I'm someone who likes b-ball, f-ball, anime, cartoons, action, comedy, gaming, & certain music. I've yet to meet someone who shares the same passions as me as most want to be within science/business/fashion compared to me with sports/entertainment. Looks somewhat matter but I've talked with all types of people. 2) I never had someone close enough where I can turn for advice: besides my mother I have no friend that I can turn for advice so I'm kinda relying more on my own experiences and most are negative.I'm always in this chain where I meet someone, we're friends for some time and it's over. I wonder where I'm wrong but I never know cause no one talks to me. 3) Can't relate: Simple: There are certain girl issues that I can never relate to no matter how much I try to sympathize. From relationships (Never had one) to even looks. 4) Maybe it's just not time yet or it's not in the cards for me: I know GOD has a plan with this for me and this feeling's temporary. I still have my goals and I know according to the bible a man is supposed to lead and provide and I have to learn that. Still sometimes I feel like giving it up and just throw in the towel.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • If I live in the city that a gaming tournament's held, do I still have to go stay in the hotel or I can just travel to the location?

    I'm thinking about going to a gaming event, TFC, and it's close to where I live. I see that it's not a lot of money to register but I'm hoping that it doesn't become a big expense because I have to stay at the hotel. I'd prefer to just travel to the location, since I live in the location that it's held.
    I'm thinking about going to a gaming event, TFC, and it's close to where I live. I see that it's not a lot of money to register but I'm hoping that it doesn't become a big expense because I have to stay at the hotel. I'd prefer to just travel to the location, since I live in the location that it's held.
    2 answers · Video & Online Games · 2 years ago
  • Was this the worst season/playoffs in NBA history?

    I highly think so. I mean almost every season as a knicks fan is a misery but even by that, I wanted a competitive season/playoffs. Nothing about this season was competitive. I felt that this was just Team USA in GS dominating the whole league cause one player made a decision that change the whole balance of the league. Now I'm assuming someone... show more
    I highly think so. I mean almost every season as a knicks fan is a misery but even by that, I wanted a competitive season/playoffs. Nothing about this season was competitive. I felt that this was just Team USA in GS dominating the whole league cause one player made a decision that change the whole balance of the league. Now I'm assuming someone will be joining the Cavs to make Team USA B or something and we'll have another run through of teams that just get dominated til the finals. Even by Russ triple doubles, Harden's crazy year, IT, or whatever, it doesn't shadow the fact that cause a top 3 player joined an already dominant team, there's no competition. And the 2 only series I thought would've been competitive, Zaza happened to one, and LeBron vs Team USA A happened. I'll probably get hate for this but I wonder what are your thoughts on this. Was this Season/playoffs the worst in NBA history?
    5 answers · Basketball · 2 years ago
  • Am I wrong for not being able to relate to this generations issues?

    Now not to say that the issues themselves I don't relate because some I do. But some of the context of the issues and where most of these people lie within these issues I can't relate. Here are 2 examples: 1: Education. While there are those who are struggling with paying for school or even attending and those two I can relate and... show more
    Now not to say that the issues themselves I don't relate because some I do. But some of the context of the issues and where most of these people lie within these issues I can't relate. Here are 2 examples: 1: Education. While there are those who are struggling with paying for school or even attending and those two I can relate and sympathize with, anyone complaining because its hard or you just wanna party and do nonsense I can't relate. They don't even do their work, they pay for others to do it for them and get the credit for it. I'm not saying school is amazing but I feel that if you're going to school just for the parties and not even focusing on getting a quality education, you're wasting the space for those who truly want to advance themselves. 2: Relationships. 1st I have yet to be in a relationship. But even if I was, looking at the stupidity on both sides I can't relate. Whether it's "I can't find a "Nice Guy"", "All guys are douches", "Girls don't like nice guys", whatever its stupid. 1st. I never believe in a "nice guy" or "bad guy" but I believe in the "right guy". And even if, maybe instead of bashing these "nice guys" because they're "boring", maybe actually give them a chance. And any guy that declares themselves a "nice guy" really isn't cause they're only being nice for their own pleasures which is just as bad. You should be doing nice things cause you truly want to and she's worth it for real. Opinions?
    1 answer · Other - Society & Culture · 2 years ago
  • Is it fair to say that society doesn't like dreamers?

    Idk if its just me but as of late I just feel that people don't like pursuing their true passion or those who still do. I feel that now I'm still trying to follow my dreams (of which include athletics, film, music, CEO management, entrepreneur, and/or traveling) but every time I do get into those topics people seem to shoot it down or show... show more
    Idk if its just me but as of late I just feel that people don't like pursuing their true passion or those who still do. I feel that now I'm still trying to follow my dreams (of which include athletics, film, music, CEO management, entrepreneur, and/or traveling) but every time I do get into those topics people seem to shoot it down or show fake love because its "not realistic". Now I'm all for setting realistic goals, but to give it all up I can't do because I don't see myself doing anything else outside of those things I have interest in. Also I feel that going for a career because it's the most realistic opportunity for success has its cons that for me outweigh the pros. I just feel that society don't like those who dream big and because of that people lose that aspect and to me its unfortunate. I feel you can do both but not everyone thinks the same. Is this a fair analogy?
    3 answers · Other - Society & Culture · 2 years ago
  • Is it possible that a person can have a versatile personality from the myers-brigg assessment?

    I have taken the myers-brigg test multiple times and I can honestly say that I get different results every time. I feel that for someone like me, depending on the scenario and experience that I have, my personality changes to suit that scenario. I've gotten INFJ, ENFJ, ENFP, ESTP, etc. And evaluating the personalities, I feel that I can relate... show more
    I have taken the myers-brigg test multiple times and I can honestly say that I get different results every time. I feel that for someone like me, depending on the scenario and experience that I have, my personality changes to suit that scenario. I've gotten INFJ, ENFJ, ENFP, ESTP, etc. And evaluating the personalities, I feel that I can relate to every personality type. I'ma conduct an experiment on myself where I will be the total "opposite" of myself. Right now I was INFJ. My "opposite" is ESTP. I'ma experiment to see how easy or difficult it is for me to attain a ESTP personality. What are your thoughts on having multiple personality results from the Myers-brigg assessment? Bonus: What are the pro's and cons of having multiple personalities in comparison to having one?
    1 answer · Psychology · 2 years ago
  • What's the difference between a two-way player and all-around player?

    I know Kawhi Leonard's regarded as the best two-way player and LeBron the best all-around player. I wonder if the difference revolves around stats and effort as the main difference component. Opinions?
    I know Kawhi Leonard's regarded as the best two-way player and LeBron the best all-around player. I wonder if the difference revolves around stats and effort as the main difference component. Opinions?
    3 answers · Basketball · 2 years ago
  • How do I use the assessed spiritual gifts with my talents to align my desires with GOD's?

    I recently asked how do I use my talents to glorify GOD if my situation wasn't best suited for those talents as I felt my talents were going to waste. I received an answer saying to understand my talents I should also look into my spiritual gifts. I looked into some assessments for what spiritual gifts I may possibly have and the ones I got were... show more
    I recently asked how do I use my talents to glorify GOD if my situation wasn't best suited for those talents as I felt my talents were going to waste. I received an answer saying to understand my talents I should also look into my spiritual gifts. I looked into some assessments for what spiritual gifts I may possibly have and the ones I got were craftsmanship, exhortation, leadership, administration, help, mercy, & pastor. My talents include sports (basketball, football, training), film (acting, interviewing, making tv shows), music (baritone singing & writing raps), math, dinosaur paleontology, writing, and some science. I wonder how these talents with the spiritual gifts I was assessed to have can be used to glorify GOD and make him proud while I also pursue my dreams and aspirations? I know I'm only 21 but I only have 1 life and I don't want it to go to waste. I want to be the best I can be and to glorify GOD by example. Bonus question: I also looked into spirit animals and I got tiger. This may be a different religion but how can this tie into my spiritual gifts and talents?
    4 answers · Religion & Spirituality · 2 years ago
  • How do I use my basketball, acting, and music talents to inspire if I'm not in a career field for those talents?

    I have been reading the bible and I'm trying to understand GOD better. I came upon a scripture in Matthew where it talks of three people obtaining certain talents and two utilized their talents and their abilities doubled while the third did nothing and not only gained nothing but lost something too. I don't want to be the third person but I... show more
    I have been reading the bible and I'm trying to understand GOD better. I came upon a scripture in Matthew where it talks of three people obtaining certain talents and two utilized their talents and their abilities doubled while the third did nothing and not only gained nothing but lost something too. I don't want to be the third person but I feel that the talents I have are near-useless because I feel that unless I'm some big shot, I can't use my talents to inspire or for good purpose. So I'm just wondering how do I use my talents for good and to glorify GOD.
    1 answer · Religion & Spirituality · 2 years ago
  • Is it weird that a black guy is interested in these things?

    I have many interests. I like pokemon (and I'm hyped cause Ash finally got an official girl.), dinosaurs, star wars, kingdom hearts, and other things that I can't put on a full list. My issue is that people feel that I'm not the "stereotypical" black guy and I do like basketball & hip-hop music along, again with other... show more
    I have many interests. I like pokemon (and I'm hyped cause Ash finally got an official girl.), dinosaurs, star wars, kingdom hearts, and other things that I can't put on a full list. My issue is that people feel that I'm not the "stereotypical" black guy and I do like basketball & hip-hop music along, again with other things, but I don't drink/smoke (I have sickle cell) and I don't strive to have sex with just any girl. Heck I still don't have a 1st girlfriend and I think that would be more crucial. I feel that I'm 21, I wanna achieve my goals and be settled. But I had a nightmare where I do get killed because I'm not of the status quota. Do you think that its weird for me to have interests in many different tv shows/movies (cartoons, anime, & others), plenty of genres of gaming, plenty of sports (b-ball, f-ball, v-ball), & different music (hip hop, rap, pop, daft punk, linkin park, etc..) cause I'm not "embracing" my culture as few have said?
    5 answers · Other - Society & Culture · 3 years ago
  • Why are people mad about Cam Newton?

    I don't understand the reason. Anybody that says Cam turned his back need to shut the hell up. This dude does more charity work than most football players, if not all in my eyes. I don't think there's much wrong about what he said because even if he did take a neutral position on Colin K. not standing up he's also right because on... show more
    I don't understand the reason. Anybody that says Cam turned his back need to shut the hell up. This dude does more charity work than most football players, if not all in my eyes. I don't think there's much wrong about what he said because even if he did take a neutral position on Colin K. not standing up he's also right because on one end Colin is right on the black community issues but on the other hand people are also right that Colin shouldn't be disrespecting what makes America great. If you wanna bash Cam, that's fine. Where's the bashing for people like Kanye & Kim, who wanna sell thousand dollar shoes because they're "in debt". Not even Jordan does that. Nobody bashes Jordan either (although he does his work in silence and now he took his position for real.) Maybe Cam wants to do his work in silence. Nothing wrong with that. And Cam said that it's a community effort that everybody has to take part of. Similar to everybody else quotes and unlike most, he does make community effort. Thoughts?
    2 answers · Football (American) · 3 years ago
  • Why are people so mad about Cam Newton?

    I don't understand the reason. Anybody that says Cam turned his back need to shut the hell up. This dude does more charity work than most football players, if not all in my eyes. I don't think there's much wrong about what he said because even if he did take a neutral position on Colin K. not standing up he's also right because on... show more
    I don't understand the reason. Anybody that says Cam turned his back need to shut the hell up. This dude does more charity work than most football players, if not all in my eyes. I don't think there's much wrong about what he said because even if he did take a neutral position on Colin K. not standing up he's also right because on one end Colin is right on the black community issues but on the other hand people are also right that Colin shouldn't be disrespecting what makes America great. If you wanna bash Cam, that's fine. Where's the bashing for people like Kanye & Kim, who wanna sell thousand dollar shoes because they're "in debt". Not even Jordan does that. Nobody bashes Jordan either (although he does his work in silence and now he took his position for real.) Maybe Cam wants to do his work in silence. Nothing wrong with that. And Cam said that it's a community effort that everybody has to take part of. Similar to everybody else quotes and unlike most, he does make community effort. Thoughts?
    2 answers · Community Service · 3 years ago
  • A lot of ignorance in this world. Why is it so?

    A lot of ignorance and divide has been going on in this country. Coming off playing casual games and this troll wants to call me n***** and criticize what I say but when I came at him with straight facts and I also played mind games with him as we went along because he said I'm "assuming" he was being racist. So all I said was... show more
    A lot of ignorance and divide has been going on in this country. Coming off playing casual games and this troll wants to call me n***** and criticize what I say but when I came at him with straight facts and I also played mind games with him as we went along because he said I'm "assuming" he was being racist. So all I said was "Ignorance is Bliss", regardless of who I was saying it to, he was raging. And I shut down that rage real quick and the other dude who was trying to support him. The last thing I said which he stayed silent about was "Since we cannot change reality, let us change the eyes which see reality." If you want respect, you earn it. Regardless of race. Ignorance is still in this world. Despite all the advances we make. Not even trying to go all political about it but I'm just wondering what's up with all this ignorance and divide?
    1 answer · Other - Society & Culture · 3 years ago
  • SPOILER WARNING:What do you think of the recent pokemon episode?

    SPOILER WARNING. I don't really like the latest episode. I'm not a fan of Ash losing over and over and that stinks but thats only partially why I dislike this. The main reason is the reaction to him losing. There comes a point where losing should hurt, especially when you're so close finally and were just 1 move away from winning and... show more
    SPOILER WARNING. I don't really like the latest episode. I'm not a fan of Ash losing over and over and that stinks but thats only partially why I dislike this. The main reason is the reaction to him losing. There comes a point where losing should hurt, especially when you're so close finally and were just 1 move away from winning and you lose. The fact that Ash smiles it off yet again irritates me. I get it, winning isn't everything but losing ever since the 90's and he doesn't even flinch over this?? Also this could have been the perfect opportunity for Amourshipping to develop. Every successful relationship has something bad that happened. Zoey 101: Chase's Grandma dies, Kim Possible: crush betrays her, And Avatar: well the whole story. It would have been more powerful to see Ash finally break down (for real) and see Serena comfort him. I'm not a huge fan of any shipping, I kinda want a reunion of all characters when Ash finally finishes but if this is your biggest storyline outside of the other aspects, they fell short in making a possibly huge shipping moment. We'll just have to wait and see what the new episodes have for us (and for the english version to come out), but until then this is my opinion. Your's?
    3 answers · Comics & Animation · 3 years ago
  • How to change a set shot into a jump shot?

    Although there are some successful set or late jump shooters (for me meaning you jump after you have your shot in the air) I feel that a jump shot is better for me. Especially since I'm 6'0. I shoot better flat-footed but I move faster with a nice jump shot. And sometimes as I try to practice my jump shot, my set shot interferes. I wonder... show more
    Although there are some successful set or late jump shooters (for me meaning you jump after you have your shot in the air) I feel that a jump shot is better for me. Especially since I'm 6'0. I shoot better flat-footed but I move faster with a nice jump shot. And sometimes as I try to practice my jump shot, my set shot interferes. I wonder how to at least be more consistent with a jump shot instead of a set foot shot.
    1 answer · Basketball · 3 years ago
  • What should 2k improve most heading into 2k17?

    My list are as follows: 1) Improved computer AI (AI defensively sucks. They help when they aren't supposed to and don't help when needed. Every game I lost its because dumb AI lets the open Cavs/Warriors player open) 2) Make players not dunk as often (Unless you're Shaq and even he doesn't dunk for 48 minutes straight.) 3) Improve... show more
    My list are as follows: 1) Improved computer AI (AI defensively sucks. They help when they aren't supposed to and don't help when needed. Every game I lost its because dumb AI lets the open Cavs/Warriors player open) 2) Make players not dunk as often (Unless you're Shaq and even he doesn't dunk for 48 minutes straight.) 3) Improve pack odds 4) Improve shooting (Curry should only hit at max 3 3's from the NBA logo. Not a whole game. They talk about shot fatigue. You know how exhausted he would be if he shot that all game.) 5) Get rid of the swinging (I'm tired of games where I'm winning by x amount of points and it's diminished because 2k wants to help someone comeback. And it's unrealistic. The day I see Dellavedova hit 7 facial three's is the day I die.) 6) Improve endorsements. (Nike deal only 100 VC???) 7) Improve my team (better packs, repayable domination for those who don't buy vc, better rated players, etc.) 8) Improve mycareer (Better endorsements, make badges more of a choice between buying and earning, better AI, better story, etc..) 9) Improve my park (Get rid of park cards 2k ain't yu-gi-oh, get rid of monstars, improve 21 court check up cheese, etc.) 2k doesn't suck when played right. But when 2k is cheesy it becomes quite unbearable as this continues to go on. Thoughts and what else you want to see improved?
    2 answers · Basketball · 3 years ago
  • What do you think of this "To catch a cheater" show that's coming up on youtube?

    I personally disagree with the show. 1st off, to anyone who does get tempted male or female is stupid, childish & shouldn't be in relationships period. This is kinda an obvious statement so I won't get into that fully. Here's my issue with this. The concept. If you don't trust your spouse have some show bait them into temptation.... show more
    I personally disagree with the show. 1st off, to anyone who does get tempted male or female is stupid, childish & shouldn't be in relationships period. This is kinda an obvious statement so I won't get into that fully. Here's my issue with this. The concept. If you don't trust your spouse have some show bait them into temptation. Its almost equivalent to finding an excuse to break up with them and I disagree with them. If you don't trust the person or love them as much anymore, don't be with them. If I was caught in this situation I might lose it to be honest. Instead of coming to me head on and finding a real resolution, have a show invade my right to privacy (which is against the law I might add I don't care if the girl agrees) and attempt to tempt me. It's childish and ridiculous. We bash D'Angelo Russell for baiting Nick Young into admitting he cheats (which is wrong anyways on both ends) and applaud this. This gives the fake feminists more reason to say ALL men are cheaters (though curry, Russell Wilson, LeBron, etc are proven examples that this is a lie). This proves why I'm still waiting for a true relationship that I can truly build. I don't have time for silly bs like this. Assuming this is real. If not then well its for my entertainment. What are your opinions? Assuming it's real. Here's the link: https://www.facebook.com/tocatchacheater... https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChATWdA...
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Create a starting 5 with any 5 99's as your franchise player, Another diamond that's not 99, amethyst player, gold player, and a silver?

    The 5 99's are 96' Jordan, this year Curry, this year Kobe (somehow I would have said 06 or 09), this year LeBron, & 71' Kareem Mine is: PG: 2011 Derrick Rose SG: 96' Michael Jordan SF: 2013 leBron PF: 98 Tim Duncan C: Karl Anthony Towns http://2kmtcentral.com/16/players/positi... for if you need help to choosing.
    The 5 99's are 96' Jordan, this year Curry, this year Kobe (somehow I would have said 06 or 09), this year LeBron, & 71' Kareem Mine is: PG: 2011 Derrick Rose SG: 96' Michael Jordan SF: 2013 leBron PF: 98 Tim Duncan C: Karl Anthony Towns http://2kmtcentral.com/16/players/positi... for if you need help to choosing.
    1 answer · Basketball · 3 years ago
  • How would rank the 99's of 2k16?

    Between Jordan, Curry, LeBron, Kobe, & Kareem how would you rate or rank each of the 99's? Mine is: 1) Jordan 2) Kareem 3) LeBron 4) Kobe 5) Curry
    Between Jordan, Curry, LeBron, Kobe, & Kareem how would you rate or rank each of the 99's? Mine is: 1) Jordan 2) Kareem 3) LeBron 4) Kobe 5) Curry
    1 answer · Basketball · 3 years ago
  • Why do I feel like I encounter a lot of trolls in 2k recently on PS4?

    I just went back to back (Drake voice) on having to shut up some idiots on 2k. First I had to deal with a closet racist (He called me a *** and I know what it is but he didn't want to spell it so he isn't viewed fully as racist) who said I gang-bang, get shot by the cops, have no basketball IQ, & have no education although I'm... show more
    I just went back to back (Drake voice) on having to shut up some idiots on 2k. First I had to deal with a closet racist (He called me a *** and I know what it is but he didn't want to spell it so he isn't viewed fully as racist) who said I gang-bang, get shot by the cops, have no basketball IQ, & have no education although I'm possibly attending Duke University (as a part-time student I just moved to NC), I study theatre and did plays when I was younger, Just came off a recital performing U remind me and the closer I get to you, volunteer coach youth basketball and played varsity basketball where if not for my sickle cell I would have had more success (Not at all finding excuses). I come at him with those and he tries to brag about making 6 figures (which is a bold lie) attending top class colleges and all this nonsense that I don't care about because if you were really about that life, you wouldn't brag on 2k about it. So that's one. After, I play with a stereotypical black man whom justifies the guy mentioned earlier, talking that I'm a bum and again I put out my accolades and the best he comes up with is "I graduated from H.S." (Yes he really said that). So I shut this dude down real quick and he ends up quitting. I don't talk trash. I come in the game chill and out-going. But recently, I feel that I've been encountering a lot of trolls recently. Is it the election, the bad stuff going on, KD leaving OKC? I just want to know?
    2 answers · Other - Cultures & Groups · 3 years ago