• Would you leave him?

    I have been with my husband for 12 years. We have been married for almost 3 years but together for 12. Ever since we had our 3rd child he has been very mean. He yells at us for no reason. Sometimes as soon as he gets out of bed or gets home from work he will just start yelling at us. He always wants the kids to be quiet and we can't really... show more
    I have been with my husband for 12 years. We have been married for almost 3 years but together for 12. Ever since we had our 3rd child he has been very mean. He yells at us for no reason. Sometimes as soon as he gets out of bed or gets home from work he will just start yelling at us. He always wants the kids to be quiet and we can't really be ourselves around him because he either gets mad or makes fun of us. He will tell people one thing and then complain about it to me and make it out to be my problem or fault when the other person is not there. He doesn't help with housework or the kids unless I beg him and then he acts like it will kill him or like he has conquered the world after doing it. He wants praise for it. I work a full time job as well and we both get home around the same time each day so its not like I sit at home and do nothing. He says that he makes more money then me so he makes the rules. I want to leave him so that my girls have a better chance of not turning out like him and his sister. It will be hard because I won't have the income to help and the kids will hate me at first. Is this a reason to leave someone? What would you do in this situation?
    19 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 3 months ago
  • How do I get rid of these fleas?

    I have an indoor cat that never goes outside so when I saw a flea crawling on me I was surprised. I treated my carpets and furniture with a store bought spray and bathed the cat. I asked the woman I sit for if she had noticed any on her pets at her home and she replied that her house is crawling with them...so bad you cannot sit on the floor!...So... show more
    I have an indoor cat that never goes outside so when I saw a flea crawling on me I was surprised. I treated my carpets and furniture with a store bought spray and bathed the cat. I asked the woman I sit for if she had noticed any on her pets at her home and she replied that her house is crawling with them...so bad you cannot sit on the floor!...So since she wont do anything about her house it seems that mine is doomed. I cannot afford to buy the spray every day and bomb my whole house everyday. Is there any cheap or home remedies to try and control them on my end?...I have an infant and she is starting to crawl last thing I need is her all flea bitten up. We need HELP!
    3 answers · Other - Pets · 5 years ago
  • Can I start them Now?

    I recently had a baby and I am starting birth control pills. I got the pack today and it says to start them on the first day of your period which has already passed or on the first Sunday after your period starts, which has already passed, so my question is can I start them today since yesterday was the last day of my period or can I start them... show more
    I recently had a baby and I am starting birth control pills. I got the pack today and it says to start them on the first day of your period which has already passed or on the first Sunday after your period starts, which has already passed, so my question is can I start them today since yesterday was the last day of my period or can I start them this Sunday?...Or do I have to wait for another period...my DR is closed right now or I would call them, but I wanted to see if anyone else could shine some light on the situation
    1 answer · Women's Health · 5 years ago
  • Should I Call My Doctor or Wait?

    This is my second baby and I am due tomorrow....this morning I was laying in bed and was very uncomfortable. I finally gave up and got up. When I did my panties were wet and I didn't wet myself. So I took a warm shower to try and help the fact that I was really uncomfortable. It has helped so far I still have a lil pressure but no... show more
    This is my second baby and I am due tomorrow....this morning I was laying in bed and was very uncomfortable. I finally gave up and got up. When I did my panties were wet and I didn't wet myself. So I took a warm shower to try and help the fact that I was really uncomfortable. It has helped so far I still have a lil pressure but no pain....and so far I haven't had the wetness again. I can feel the baby moving and I didn't think that she would move if she was ready to come out. Also my right hand is completely numb. Should I go ahead and call my dr or wait to see if the wetness comes back or if I start getting any pains.
    3 answers · Pregnancy · 5 years ago
  • How Can I make her behave?

    My daughter who is six has always been a well behaved child. I mean yeah she has always had an attitude, but for the most part she was well behaved. Lately she has become a total different little person and not for the better. Her attitude is out of control...she back talks everyone and even when punished continues to back talk. Im not one of... show more
    My daughter who is six has always been a well behaved child. I mean yeah she has always had an attitude, but for the most part she was well behaved. Lately she has become a total different little person and not for the better. Her attitude is out of control...she back talks everyone and even when punished continues to back talk. Im not one of those people who let her do what she wants and she is punished accordingly, but nothing works!....We recently moved and since then she has had this obsession with me laying in her room until she falls asleep...she will stay up all night, not an exaggeration, if I do not do this and its very aggravating. I am 31 weeks pregnant and I am alone at night so bed time is the worst, but she is disrespectful and horrible during the day as well. I need some advice, like I said I have tried all forms of punishment and nothing works!
    5 answers · Toddler & Preschooler · 5 years ago
  • Would this work? (serious answers only plz)?

    I am contemplating breast feeding with my second child. I did not do it with my daughter but this time I just feel like maybe I wanna try it. Now this past year I have had a few Friends give breast feeding a try and it has ended badly in both cases. Ending with pain and emotional tear on mama and tummy troubles for baby. I know each situation is... show more
    I am contemplating breast feeding with my second child. I did not do it with my daughter but this time I just feel like maybe I wanna try it. Now this past year I have had a few Friends give breast feeding a try and it has ended badly in both cases. Ending with pain and emotional tear on mama and tummy troubles for baby. I know each situation is different and I know all the statistics and the health benefits and the bonding benefits and all that. I have done my homework. I also have heard of people doing both Formula and Breast feeding so my question is on this topic. Doing both sounds like something that would work well for my family. How does that work? I mean I am not a wuss or anything but if you choose not to pump and breast feed like only at night and supplement formula for dad and babysitter and during busy times of the day would your breasts hurt? I mean would you produce only enough milk to feed when you normally feed or would it produce as much as a baby who breastfeeds all day and night? This is the stuff the experts wont tell you b/c naturally they want you to pump and not use formula at all. For some people that is just not possible. so plz serious answers only and I do not need preached at about the nutritional value of breast milk and all that like I said I have done my homework. I am just trying to make up my mind. I am due in April.
    6 answers · Newborn & Baby · 5 years ago
  • Is it to Early for this?

    I am 24 weeks pregnant....I work in a non climate controlled factory as an assembly worker. I stand all day and get a few 10 min breaks and one 30min break to sit down. We are currently working 10hrs a day and 7 days a week. Is it too early to ask my doctor to reduce my work hours?....I know a few other girls that were pregnant there went down to... show more
    I am 24 weeks pregnant....I work in a non climate controlled factory as an assembly worker. I stand all day and get a few 10 min breaks and one 30min break to sit down. We are currently working 10hrs a day and 7 days a week. Is it too early to ask my doctor to reduce my work hours?....I know a few other girls that were pregnant there went down to strict 40 the last month or two of pregnancy. I dont want to be on a strict 40 but should I ask for a little bit of a reduction or suck it up and wait for the doctor to suggest it.
    1 answer · Pregnancy · 5 years ago
  • Can I make her slow down?

    I have a five year old and she is a little over weight. Its not that she eats junk food its the amount she eats. I portion it out and she is always hungry I give her healthy snacks and balanced meals but she always seems to be hungry....any suggestions?
    I have a five year old and she is a little over weight. Its not that she eats junk food its the amount she eats. I portion it out and she is always hungry I give her healthy snacks and balanced meals but she always seems to be hungry....any suggestions?
    5 answers · Grade-Schooler · 6 years ago
  • Would this be a weird wedding color scheme?

    I have always wanted a fall wedding, but when my fiance decided he wanted to get married before that I began planning my summer wedding I chose a light orchid color purple as my main color. Due to some medical issues and other things we have now pushed our wedding back to the fall....now I have most things planned around this light purple which is... show more
    I have always wanted a fall wedding, but when my fiance decided he wanted to get married before that I began planning my summer wedding I chose a light orchid color purple as my main color. Due to some medical issues and other things we have now pushed our wedding back to the fall....now I have most things planned around this light purple which is not a fall color, but would it be tacky to put black with it? That would make the purple stand out...the guys are wearing black and the girls could wear black dresses and have purple toes and nails and purple flowers and Accessories. Does this sound good or would it be totally tacky just seeking a few other opinions.
    12 answers · Weddings · 6 years ago
  • How do I go about this?

    So I live in this little town with a what use to be a big wonderful town park. Over the years the park as gone down in safety and in appearance. As I mentioned before our town is very small and so is the budget. How would I go about maybe doing a fundraiser for something like this. Or if someone knows of a contest or something that I can enter... show more
    So I live in this little town with a what use to be a big wonderful town park. Over the years the park as gone down in safety and in appearance. As I mentioned before our town is very small and so is the budget. How would I go about maybe doing a fundraiser for something like this. Or if someone knows of a contest or something that I can enter the park in far a free makeover please let me know. I really want to do this for the children of our town so that our kids have as much safe fun there as we did when it was brand new. Any information would be helpful thank you.
    1 answer · Languages · 6 years ago
  • Could my miscarriage not be complete?

    Three weeks ago I had an incomplete miscarriage. They called it that due to the fact that I didn't have to have a D&C. I have stopped bleeding but I have a heavy mucus discharge with odor and starting yesterday I have had abdominal pain and have had three fevers since last night. Could my miscarriage not be all gone or is this something else?... show more
    Three weeks ago I had an incomplete miscarriage. They called it that due to the fact that I didn't have to have a D&C. I have stopped bleeding but I have a heavy mucus discharge with odor and starting yesterday I have had abdominal pain and have had three fevers since last night. Could my miscarriage not be all gone or is this something else? Oh yeah I had diarrhea yesterday morning but it is gone now.
    2 answers · Pregnancy · 6 years ago
  • Is this safe and effective?

    I saw an ad in a parenting magazine for some shampoo that you use on kids everyday and it is suppose to keep them from getting lice! Does anyone know what it is called...I lost the magazine LOL ...and also if it is effective and more importantly safe?
    I saw an ad in a parenting magazine for some shampoo that you use on kids everyday and it is suppose to keep them from getting lice! Does anyone know what it is called...I lost the magazine LOL ...and also if it is effective and more importantly safe?
    5 answers · Alternative Medicine · 7 years ago
  • Where did these come from?

    I have pumpkins growing in my yard!....We redid the land scaping this spring ad bought a decorative bridge for our yard. Apparently the bridge had been in a pumpkin patch and now there is a very healthy plant growing in my yard. All I know about them is that they need ALOT of water. Other than that I am lost. Can anyone help me or give me any... show more
    I have pumpkins growing in my yard!....We redid the land scaping this spring ad bought a decorative bridge for our yard. Apparently the bridge had been in a pumpkin patch and now there is a very healthy plant growing in my yard. All I know about them is that they need ALOT of water. Other than that I am lost. Can anyone help me or give me any kind of info on growing healthy pumpkins?
    2 answers · Garden & Landscape · 7 years ago
  • How did they get this answer?

    My nephew brought home some math homework that I can't figure out!...Sad as it may be I need help!...The problem Reads...Find a number between 2 and 3..... the parent cheat sheet says the answer is 2.6 how in the heck did they come to the conclusion of this answer? He is in 5th grade!...Am I missing the equation somewhere
    My nephew brought home some math homework that I can't figure out!...Sad as it may be I need help!...The problem Reads...Find a number between 2 and 3..... the parent cheat sheet says the answer is 2.6 how in the heck did they come to the conclusion of this answer? He is in 5th grade!...Am I missing the equation somewhere
    3 answers · Homework Help · 7 years ago
  • Is this normal behavior for a cat?

    I have a 7year old calico Female cat. Recently I noticed she was messing with her ears and a vet friend said she prolly had ear mites and that over the counter meds would work. So I bought her some today and I followed the directions on the package...after using the drops she started itching her ears even more and made them red and irritated. Is... show more
    I have a 7year old calico Female cat. Recently I noticed she was messing with her ears and a vet friend said she prolly had ear mites and that over the counter meds would work. So I bought her some today and I followed the directions on the package...after using the drops she started itching her ears even more and made them red and irritated. Is it normal for cats to mess with their ears after using an ear drop or no?
    8 answers · Cats · 8 years ago
  • Has anyone had this problem before? (Female Problem...Kinda Long)?

    It started in October when I missed my period. Thinking the obvious I took a pregnancy test. It was negative. Thinking that maybe I had taken it too soon I waited until the end of November to take another one. It was also negative. Over the next couple months I took a total of 10 pregnancy tests including one done by an RN at a free clinic...I... show more
    It started in October when I missed my period. Thinking the obvious I took a pregnancy test. It was negative. Thinking that maybe I had taken it too soon I waited until the end of November to take another one. It was also negative. Over the next couple months I took a total of 10 pregnancy tests including one done by an RN at a free clinic...I don't have health insurance. The RN told me I was not prego and that if I do not have a period soon that I should go and see my gyno. Well at the end of January I had a light period. I thought it was over and I would go back to my old schedule, but here it is the last day of February and I haven't had another period. I do however have a yellowish dishcharge..I have to wear panty liners at all times....and a not so pleasant odor most of the time. I duesch twice a week and wash daily trying to keep the peace down there. I was wondering before I go spend buko bucks at the gyno if anyone h as had this problem or anything similar to it and what was going on. Here is a little background to help if you think you may know what is going on. I am 24 and I have a three year old. My pregnancy was normal and I found out I was pregnant at just 8 weeks. I have had only one sexual partner for the past 6 years and this is the only problem I have ever had like this. Hopefully someone can shine a light on what I have to look forward to at the gyno. Please only answer if you are serious.
    4 answers · Women's Health · 8 years ago
  • How much is this card worth?

    My mom was cleaning out an old box she found and she came upon an old baseball card. Now it may not be worth anything but we would like to know if it has value. Can anyone tell me or tell where I can find out if this 1951 Jayne Krick card has any value? Thank You!
    My mom was cleaning out an old box she found and she came upon an old baseball card. Now it may not be worth anything but we would like to know if it has value. Can anyone tell me or tell where I can find out if this 1951 Jayne Krick card has any value? Thank You!
    3 answers · Card Games · 9 years ago
  • Does my nephew have Autism?

    My nephew just turned two, and he is developing alot slower then other kids his age. I understand that kids develop at different stages but there is just something different about him. He does not understand what you tell him. He has no feeling of pain..I mean if he falls or something he cries for like 2 seconds and then he is over it. Even if... show more
    My nephew just turned two, and he is developing alot slower then other kids his age. I understand that kids develop at different stages but there is just something different about him. He does not understand what you tell him. He has no feeling of pain..I mean if he falls or something he cries for like 2 seconds and then he is over it. Even if he really hurts himself. He does not speak well. He just learned to put two words together, and when he does speak you cannot understand it. He repeats what people says, but it is not clear. There is alot more i guess you just have to be around him to get the full effect, what I want to know is if someone can give me the signs of Autism to look for in a toddler. Thank You
    8 answers · Other - Diseases · 9 years ago
  • How do you handle temper tantrums?

    I have a very Intelligent two year old little girl who is throwing her first ever temper tantrum...throwing stuff, and screaming and yelling. It all started because she told me she didn't want me and to get away from her and I told her not to talk to me like that. It has been going on for like five minuets....so far I have ignored her and she... show more
    I have a very Intelligent two year old little girl who is throwing her first ever temper tantrum...throwing stuff, and screaming and yelling. It all started because she told me she didn't want me and to get away from her and I told her not to talk to me like that. It has been going on for like five minuets....so far I have ignored her and she isn't liking it at all....what do you suggest?
    8 answers · Toddler & Preschooler · 9 years ago