• How old do I look?

    some people think I'm like 20, and some think I'm 16 what do you think? I'm 16 btw http://i59.tinypic.com/153wn0o.jpg http://img0.ask.fm/assets2/084/053/510/9...
    some people think I'm like 20, and some think I'm 16 what do you think? I'm 16 btw http://i59.tinypic.com/153wn0o.jpg http://img0.ask.fm/assets2/084/053/510/9...
    10 answers · Polls & Surveys · 2 months ago
  • He ignored me for a week then texts me?

    last time we talked was on valentines day, we hung out (with a group of friends) and we cuddled then we haven't spoken for a week, no text, no nothing, completely ignored then all of a sudden he texts me, should I ignore him or reply? I'm not gonna reply for at least a day for sure, or should I just ignore him completely? we use to talk... show more
    last time we talked was on valentines day, we hung out (with a group of friends) and we cuddled then we haven't spoken for a week, no text, no nothing, completely ignored then all of a sudden he texts me, should I ignore him or reply? I'm not gonna reply for at least a day for sure, or should I just ignore him completely? we use to talk every single day and he was super interested, but recently not so much
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • Having the worst week ever?

    one of my close friends is all of a sudden avoiding me/acting distant, I am currently failing a class, I feel like everyone is annoyed or dislikes me, (some even say it, or show it through actions), feeling hella lonely recently and my world just all of a sudden crumbled, only in the span of 7 days. what do I do??
    one of my close friends is all of a sudden avoiding me/acting distant, I am currently failing a class, I feel like everyone is annoyed or dislikes me, (some even say it, or show it through actions), feeling hella lonely recently and my world just all of a sudden crumbled, only in the span of 7 days. what do I do??
    3 answers · Psychology · 3 months ago
  • GUYS: does he like me?

    this guy that I only met this week added me on facebook, snapchat and texts me every single day (he texts first), he always touches my head and hair, he always gives me hugs and he gave me a piggy back ride, what do you think?
    this guy that I only met this week added me on facebook, snapchat and texts me every single day (he texts first), he always touches my head and hair, he always gives me hugs and he gave me a piggy back ride, what do you think?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 4 months ago
  • Why did he suddenly started takling to me?

    so me and this guy are in the same friend group, but not everyone talks to each other in the group, and some are closer to another etc. anyway, I've never really spoken to him prior to this month; probably about 3 sentences in the span of three years haha, he's always kinda ignored me but suddenly this month, he's been constantly asking... show more
    so me and this guy are in the same friend group, but not everyone talks to each other in the group, and some are closer to another etc. anyway, I've never really spoken to him prior to this month; probably about 3 sentences in the span of three years haha, he's always kinda ignored me but suddenly this month, he's been constantly asking me about english hw (because that's pretty much the only thing we have in common), like every single lunch, he will ask about it he also looks at me a lot in class. the thing is, he doesn't really flirt with me, he's really close and kinda flirty to all the other girls but me, I honestly feel like something's up, but I don't know what, any ideas
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 7 months ago
  • Really hot senior guy, how do I start talking to him?

    so pretty much I've crossed out everyone on my "cute guy list" and he's probably the only guy I want to date rn. he's my ex's friend, and I talked to him once or twice when I was still dating my ex (I wasn't interested in him at the time). the thing is, I have no way of talking to him, I have no classes with him, I only... show more
    so pretty much I've crossed out everyone on my "cute guy list" and he's probably the only guy I want to date rn. he's my ex's friend, and I talked to him once or twice when I was still dating my ex (I wasn't interested in him at the time). the thing is, I have no way of talking to him, I have no classes with him, I only have a couple mutual friends with him (and they're not even that close), plus he's older than me. I'm pretty confident that I'll get him to at least find me cute, but idk. HOW DO I START TALKING TO HIM??? should I add him on fb? LOL or is that weird
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 7 months ago
  • I get hit on a lot, but I still think I am unattractive?

    so today I went to the mall and about 5 guys hitted on me, one even followed me into the mall trying to get my number (the guy was pretty hot tbh LOL). the weird thing is, things like this don't really boost my self esteem, it makes me feel even more insecure. I'm only 15 but most people think I look a lot older (about 18?), so all the guys... show more
    so today I went to the mall and about 5 guys hitted on me, one even followed me into the mall trying to get my number (the guy was pretty hot tbh LOL). the weird thing is, things like this don't really boost my self esteem, it makes me feel even more insecure. I'm only 15 but most people think I look a lot older (about 18?), so all the guys who hit on me are in their twenties. anyway, I just find myself very unattractive, and I have pretty low self confidence. I have quite a bit of friends, but I also feel like no one likes me, why am I like this to myself? like I am constantly sad and beating myself up, I just want to be happy and confident for once, thanks
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 7 months ago
  • I stopped finding anyone attractive?

    before getting to know someone, I can find them very cute and attractive, but once I talk to him for even a couple times, the attraction is almost completely gone, or at least, not enough for me to want to date them or anything (i might still find them pretty good looking, but that's it). all the guys in my life (and even freaking celebrities)... show more
    before getting to know someone, I can find them very cute and attractive, but once I talk to him for even a couple times, the attraction is almost completely gone, or at least, not enough for me to want to date them or anything (i might still find them pretty good looking, but that's it). all the guys in my life (and even freaking celebrities) whom I used to find attractive, are meh to me now. I am both a very insecure and a confident person, it's weird but yeah, maybe that's a factor? also I dated a guy for 4 months whom I didn't find attractive, maybe that has something to do with this? im still a teen btw
    2 answers · Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered · 7 months ago
  • I'm 5'6" and 15, will I grow any taller?

    I turn 16 in a couple months and I'm a girl btw I'm pretty happy about my height right now, but I want to be about an inch taller. My dad side is very very tall, my dad is 6ft2 and my grandpa is 6ft3, my grandmother was about 5ft8 when she was younger and my aunt is around there as well. My mom's side is average height, around 5ft4 for... show more
    I turn 16 in a couple months and I'm a girl btw I'm pretty happy about my height right now, but I want to be about an inch taller. My dad side is very very tall, my dad is 6ft2 and my grandpa is 6ft3, my grandmother was about 5ft8 when she was younger and my aunt is around there as well. My mom's side is average height, around 5ft4 for the girls and about 5ft9 for the guys. I grew over an inch this past year and I just want to reach 5ft7 before I stop growing. What are your thoughts? Thanks
    1 answer · Teen & Preteen · 9 months ago
  • Thinks I'm attractive but doesn't like me? [10 POINTS!!]?

    ok sorry about the bold title, but I just want to attract attention so I get more answers LOL anyway, I'm pretty sure he finds me attractive, but I'm also pretty sure he doesn't fully like me. Like he compliments me quite a bit (said I look nice today, said my eyes are pretty etc.), but he's also a very nice guy so that might be part... show more
    ok sorry about the bold title, but I just want to attract attention so I get more answers LOL anyway, I'm pretty sure he finds me attractive, but I'm also pretty sure he doesn't fully like me. Like he compliments me quite a bit (said I look nice today, said my eyes are pretty etc.), but he's also a very nice guy so that might be part of why he compliments me. He also really engages in our conversations, but not enough for me to suspect anything you know? He also does little touchy-feely things like asking me to sit on his lap then placing his head onto my back etc. Also when we hung out in a group a couple days ago, he was talking to me about 85% of the time, and was walking beside me and talking to me the entire time, even though he's friends with everyone else there. He's really popular, nice and good looking so a lot of girls find him cute LOL anyway, I'm just wondering what I should do to maybe get him to like me? I mean to get out of that "oh she's cute" phase and into that "let's date right now" phase LOL he liked a girl before who a lot of people say looks like me, like two people thought I was her, and a lot of my friends say we look a like.. so yeah thanks!
    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 9 months ago
  • He asked me to sit in his lap? What does that mean?

    We're friends but we never flirt, we message each other on fb but it's never flirty or anything, it's always about school or work, but today when we were at an amusement park, he was talking to me the whole time (he was friends with everyone there) and asked me to sit on his lap: I was standing and he asked if I wanted to sit in his... show more
    We're friends but we never flirt, we message each other on fb but it's never flirty or anything, it's always about school or work, but today when we were at an amusement park, he was talking to me the whole time (he was friends with everyone there) and asked me to sit on his lap: I was standing and he asked if I wanted to sit in his laps, I said sure (I didn't think much of it idk I guess I'm stupid) but it was weird, since we don't flirt or anything and yeah. My friends thought he liked me or something, but one of his guy friends were like "don't jump to conclusions!!" so I don't know, why would a guy ask a girl to sit in his lap?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 9 months ago
  • Had dreams about past friends and dark hands grabbing for me?

    I had drifted away from all my friends and now I am very very lonely. I used hang out with my ex, but he recently broke up with me so now I don't even have him. The thing is, I used to have these friends where I would hang out with very often, but don't anymore because of a fight. I dreamed of hanging out with them and it was weird to me in... show more
    I had drifted away from all my friends and now I am very very lonely. I used hang out with my ex, but he recently broke up with me so now I don't even have him. The thing is, I used to have these friends where I would hang out with very often, but don't anymore because of a fight. I dreamed of hanging out with them and it was weird to me in my dream, that I was friends with them again. I also dreamed about looking at a bowl or something round, then these smokey black hands will come out and try to grab for me. It happened multiple times and I don't understand what this would mean. Thank you. p.s. I am having a very positive outlook on things now, and plan to turn things around this up comming school year :) I will be much more grateful for the things that I have from now on
    2 answers · Dream Interpretation · 9 months ago
  • Does it really get better? Because so far it's getting worse..?

    I've suffered through all of it, eating disorders, depression, self harm etc. I used to be extremely extremely thin, got over it, then lost all my friends. I developed depression and I still have it. I used to have break downs in class, and cry every day. I self harmed for months but don't do it anymore. My boyfriend who I thought cared and... show more
    I've suffered through all of it, eating disorders, depression, self harm etc. I used to be extremely extremely thin, got over it, then lost all my friends. I developed depression and I still have it. I used to have break downs in class, and cry every day. I self harmed for months but don't do it anymore. My boyfriend who I thought cared and loved me, and the ONLY person I had left, broke up with me because of school/college. I have no one except for maybe one friend. I used to have dozens of friends and was happy. All I did this summer was sleep at home, because all the jobs and volunteering positions I tried out for didn't want me. Plus I don't have any friends to hang out with. Why the hell is this happening to me? I think I'm nice, I am easy to talk to, I am decently attractive.. I used to have horrible horrible self esteem issues, so at least I got over that. I don't know what to do anymore. My life has been too shitty for too long, I'm starting to think more positive (a very very big improvement from the past). Does it really get better? 'Cause I am really tired of life, honestly, it's seriously so not fair. I'm 15 and female.
    4 answers · Mental Health · 9 months ago
  • He broke up with me but hasn't changed his fb relationship status to single?

    We brope up 4 days ago and I already changed my status... why hasn't he? He's been on facebook a couple times, and I KNOW he cares about relationship statuses, he mentioned them the day we went on our first date, and even during our relationship (for reasons that I'm too lazy to mention). I want to show him that I've moved on and... show more
    We brope up 4 days ago and I already changed my status... why hasn't he? He's been on facebook a couple times, and I KNOW he cares about relationship statuses, he mentioned them the day we went on our first date, and even during our relationship (for reasons that I'm too lazy to mention). I want to show him that I've moved on and that I won't want to linger on someone who doesn't appreciate me enough to stay with me (he broke up 'cause he wanted to focus on school and getting into college). He said he still loved me, and cried when we broke up. I don't know what to think of this, thanks!
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 9 months ago
  • He broke up with me and I'm confused...?

    We dated for 4 months and our relationship had ups and downs but we were very very close. We were doing great but he acted strange at times, I didn't really mind but he told me two days ago that he was thinking about his future and college, and that we should break up. He thinks I will distract him, and not giving me enough attention during his... show more
    We dated for 4 months and our relationship had ups and downs but we were very very close. We were doing great but he acted strange at times, I didn't really mind but he told me two days ago that he was thinking about his future and college, and that we should break up. He thinks I will distract him, and not giving me enough attention during his studies will hurt me. He cried and said he loved me, but he also said he would talk to me later that night.. he didn't. He still hasn't changed his relationship status on facebook and I'm just so confused what is going on right now. I didn't talk to him and don't plan to either, I don't know what to do since this is my first break up... any ideas ?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 9 months ago
  • My boyfriend broke up with me because of school, says he still loves me?

    I really really love my boyfriend, he is not perfect but he makes me feel very happy, warm and loved. He is always there when I need him, and I've been going through a hard time recently... he's been helping me but now he wants to break up. He said he's been thinking about this for a long time now, but has been trying to continue this... show more
    I really really love my boyfriend, he is not perfect but he makes me feel very happy, warm and loved. He is always there when I need him, and I've been going through a hard time recently... he's been helping me but now he wants to break up. He said he's been thinking about this for a long time now, but has been trying to continue this relationship, until today: he's under a lot of pressure from his parents, money, and college. He is going into his senior year of highschool and his grades aren't good. He thinks I will distract him from his studies, and nothing I say will change his mind. We have had a couple pretty bad fights, but we pulled through. He said it was real this time. He said a multiple times during our talk, that he still loved me, and that I am important to him. He also cried. I really really don't want this to end, how do I convince him? We lost our virginities to each other and have been dating for 4 months now. Thank you.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 9 months ago
  • I talk to a lot of people but never get invite to anything?

    I talk to a lot of different people, but I am never extremely close to them, even if we talk often :/ Even the people that I AM extremely close to, don't invite me to anything! It honestly gets me soooo frustrated :/ I tried asking people to hang out too, but they say they're busy with other plans. I mean if they disliked me, I don't... show more
    I talk to a lot of different people, but I am never extremely close to them, even if we talk often :/ Even the people that I AM extremely close to, don't invite me to anything! It honestly gets me soooo frustrated :/ I tried asking people to hang out too, but they say they're busy with other plans. I mean if they disliked me, I don't think they would be my friend, so I don't think that's the reason. Ugh what do I do? ??? I used to hang out with lots of different people but I don't know what happened, I just have no one to hang out with anymore. :(( I only hang out with my boyfriend and I feel so lonely :/
    3 answers · Friends · 10 months ago
  • Feeling suicidal? Going to a rough time?

    Since last winter, I've been suffering depression. I self harm but I stopped for a couple months now. I used to have break downs every single day where I just leave the classroom and cry in the washrooms. I had so many break downs at the beginning of this year (january - february). I got a boyfriend in march and I think my depression got a lot... show more
    Since last winter, I've been suffering depression. I self harm but I stopped for a couple months now. I used to have break downs every single day where I just leave the classroom and cry in the washrooms. I had so many break downs at the beginning of this year (january - february). I got a boyfriend in march and I think my depression got a lot better, but it is definitely still there. I constantly feel sad and very very lonely. I always think of killing myself, every single day, especially these past couple weeks. I am also constantly paranoid about being pregnant and it's giving me so much stress that I just want to cry. I am also on birth control so it's making feel very sick all the time. I lost a lot of friends this year so I am always just at home, I really only hangout with my boyfriend. I thought that maybe this up comming school year will be a fresh start, and that it will finally get better, but I'm becoming more and more hopeless every single day. I used to cry almost every single day but I stopped doing that recently. Now it's more of a numbing pain and sadness. I honestly just feel like ending my life everyday, constantly thinking of when I should kill myself. I am so insecure and feel very very unattractive, even though many people call me pretty, I only focus on the ones who call me average. I constantly compare myself to other girls and I always end up feeling like ****. I really don't know what to do, please someone help?
    3 answers · Mental Health · 10 months ago
  • Dad says I'm fat? 5'6" and 115lbs?

    My dad called me fat and chubby when I told him I weighed 115lbs at 5'6". I personally think I'm fine but he's always calling me fat. He's also overweight himself so I don't understand. It pisses me off cause he expects me to be 100lbs at my height. I just got over an eating disorder last year where I only ate one meal a day... show more
    My dad called me fat and chubby when I told him I weighed 115lbs at 5'6". I personally think I'm fine but he's always calling me fat. He's also overweight himself so I don't understand. It pisses me off cause he expects me to be 100lbs at my height. I just got over an eating disorder last year where I only ate one meal a day and weighed 93lbs at 5'5"... Am I fat??
    4 answers · Diet & Fitness · 10 months ago
  • Pregnant or birth control side effects?

    Started having sex first time ever on May 26 and had sex a lot of times after that until now. Used a condom every time and pulled out as well. No rips or tears. I got my period a little bit earlier in June though, about a week earlier than usual, but I am pretty irregular. I started taking the pill about 10 days ago and threw up on the first day.... show more
    Started having sex first time ever on May 26 and had sex a lot of times after that until now. Used a condom every time and pulled out as well. No rips or tears. I got my period a little bit earlier in June though, about a week earlier than usual, but I am pretty irregular. I started taking the pill about 10 days ago and threw up on the first day. I've had very little appetite and just have stomach problems. I also occasionally get dizzy, but that happened a little before birth control as well. What are the chances of being pregnant? Thanks! (I'm only a teen so I don't want a kid right now)
    2 answers · Pregnancy · 10 months ago