• Feeling discouraged about working out? Help?

    I've been working out or 5 months now and started taking it more seriously in the past 2 months, I have seen a lot of growth in my glutes but it's still so small it really discourages me. I work out my glutes 2 times a week and do deadlifts, squats, isolation exercises like single leg romanian deadlifts and lunges, as well as leg presses and... show more
    I've been working out or 5 months now and started taking it more seriously in the past 2 months, I have seen a lot of growth in my glutes but it's still so small it really discourages me. I work out my glutes 2 times a week and do deadlifts, squats, isolation exercises like single leg romanian deadlifts and lunges, as well as leg presses and other machines. All my friends and family see improvement on my physique but it's nowhere near my goal. I'm just feeling a discouraged that my bottom still looks quite small even though I've been working out hard. Any words of encouragement or tips? I know it takes years to build a great body but I just want a little boost right now, thanks.
    2 answers · Diet & Fitness · 1 month ago
  • Why don't guys talk to me anymore?

    I use to get a lot of guys hitting me up, asking me out, and generally received a lot more attention from guys than I do now. I really don't want to sound like a desperate hoe but it really bothers how literally NO guy has asked me out or even showed interest in months. I've been really working on myself lately. I've been working out... show more
    I use to get a lot of guys hitting me up, asking me out, and generally received a lot more attention from guys than I do now. I really don't want to sound like a desperate hoe but it really bothers how literally NO guy has asked me out or even showed interest in months. I've been really working on myself lately. I've been working out for 6 months now, dress well (to flatter my body), do my make up well (I'm literally going to makeup school), I get good grades and go to a great university. I'm also outgoing and I'm experienced (aka not a prude) so what the hell is wrong with me? I've been depressed and insecure for months now and I'm finally starting to love myself and feel confident again. It really brings me down when I get absolutely no advances, and always feeling like ****. People say I'm attractive and to an extend, I know I am, but at the same time, the actions of people show that I'm NOT attractive, which is why I'm so baffled. thanks I'm 17f btw
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • How long until I can get abs?

    I'm 17 and really want a toned stomach. I don't necessarily want a 6 pack but I do want a flat and defined core for when I wear crop tops and ****. I've been a vegetarian for 2 years and a vegan for 6 months now so I eat quite healthy. I just started cutting 3 days ago and started focusing on abs the same as well, here's my plan:... show more
    I'm 17 and really want a toned stomach. I don't necessarily want a 6 pack but I do want a flat and defined core for when I wear crop tops and ****. I've been a vegetarian for 2 years and a vegan for 6 months now so I eat quite healthy. I just started cutting 3 days ago and started focusing on abs the same as well, here's my plan: 1) eat clean (I don't eat fast food, junk food, soda, meat, dairy or eggs) by eating vegetables with carbs like rice noodles, as well as protein like tofu and beans (I am vegan primarily for ethnical reasons so going on a omnivore diet to slim down is not an option for me ) 2) do daily high intensity short interval ab workouts for 15 minutes a day, everyday since I do not want to increase my waist size, and my goal is to tone, how long will it take to start seeing results? thank you I also work out about 3 times a day, primarily focusing on legs and glutes, but I also do upper body occasionally, I'm knew to the gym so yeah
    2 answers · Diet & Fitness · 2 months ago
  • Inner bicep script tattoo tips/suggestions?

    F/18 this is my first tatoo, I have a lot of piercings but no tattoos 'cause I wanted to wait until I wouldnt regret it lol I want arabic script on my inner bicep as my first tattoo, but another place I'm considering is the back of my neck I plan on paying an arabic calligrapher for my design, but I have no experience with tattoos and would... show more
    F/18 this is my first tatoo, I have a lot of piercings but no tattoos 'cause I wanted to wait until I wouldnt regret it lol I want arabic script on my inner bicep as my first tattoo, but another place I'm considering is the back of my neck I plan on paying an arabic calligrapher for my design, but I have no experience with tattoos and would love all the tips and suggestions I could get from tatted up ppl thanks :) piercings I have to gauge pain level: toungue, 4 lobes, rook, tragus, conch, naval (rejected), helix (rejected)
    5 answers · Tattoos · 7 months ago
  • I stopped finding anyone attractive?

    before getting to know someone, I can find them very cute and attractive, but once I talk to him for even a couple times, the attraction is almost completely gone, or at least, not enough for me to want to date them or anything (i might still find them pretty good looking, but that's it). all the guys in my life (and even freaking celebrities)... show more
    before getting to know someone, I can find them very cute and attractive, but once I talk to him for even a couple times, the attraction is almost completely gone, or at least, not enough for me to want to date them or anything (i might still find them pretty good looking, but that's it). all the guys in my life (and even freaking celebrities) whom I used to find attractive, are meh to me now. I am both a very insecure and a confident person, it's weird but yeah, maybe that's a factor? also I dated a guy for 4 months whom I didn't find attractive, maybe that has something to do with this? im still a teen btw
  • I'm 5'6" and 15, will I grow any taller?

    I turn 16 in a couple months and I'm a girl btw I'm pretty happy about my height right now, but I want to be about an inch taller. My dad side is very very tall, my dad is 6ft2 and my grandpa is 6ft3, my grandmother was about 5ft8 when she was younger and my aunt is around there as well. My mom's side is average height, around 5ft4 for... show more
    I turn 16 in a couple months and I'm a girl btw I'm pretty happy about my height right now, but I want to be about an inch taller. My dad side is very very tall, my dad is 6ft2 and my grandpa is 6ft3, my grandmother was about 5ft8 when she was younger and my aunt is around there as well. My mom's side is average height, around 5ft4 for the girls and about 5ft9 for the guys. I grew over an inch this past year and I just want to reach 5ft7 before I stop growing. What are your thoughts? Thanks
    1 answer · Teen & Preteen · 2 years ago
  • He broke up with me but hasn't changed his fb relationship status to single?

    We brope up 4 days ago and I already changed my status... why hasn't he? He's been on facebook a couple times, and I KNOW he cares about relationship statuses, he mentioned them the day we went on our first date, and even during our relationship (for reasons that I'm too lazy to mention). I want to show him that I've moved on and... show more
    We brope up 4 days ago and I already changed my status... why hasn't he? He's been on facebook a couple times, and I KNOW he cares about relationship statuses, he mentioned them the day we went on our first date, and even during our relationship (for reasons that I'm too lazy to mention). I want to show him that I've moved on and that I won't want to linger on someone who doesn't appreciate me enough to stay with me (he broke up 'cause he wanted to focus on school and getting into college). He said he still loved me, and cried when we broke up. I don't know what to think of this, thanks!
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • My boyfriend broke up with me because of school, says he still loves me?

    I really really love my boyfriend, he is not perfect but he makes me feel very happy, warm and loved. He is always there when I need him, and I've been going through a hard time recently... he's been helping me but now he wants to break up. He said he's been thinking about this for a long time now, but has been trying to continue this... show more
    I really really love my boyfriend, he is not perfect but he makes me feel very happy, warm and loved. He is always there when I need him, and I've been going through a hard time recently... he's been helping me but now he wants to break up. He said he's been thinking about this for a long time now, but has been trying to continue this relationship, until today: he's under a lot of pressure from his parents, money, and college. He is going into his senior year of highschool and his grades aren't good. He thinks I will distract him from his studies, and nothing I say will change his mind. We have had a couple pretty bad fights, but we pulled through. He said it was real this time. He said a multiple times during our talk, that he still loved me, and that I am important to him. He also cried. I really really don't want this to end, how do I convince him? We lost our virginities to each other and have been dating for 4 months now. Thank you.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • I talk to a lot of people but never get invite to anything?

    I talk to a lot of different people, but I am never extremely close to them, even if we talk often :/ Even the people that I AM extremely close to, don't invite me to anything! It honestly gets me soooo frustrated :/ I tried asking people to hang out too, but they say they're busy with other plans. I mean if they disliked me, I don't... show more
    I talk to a lot of different people, but I am never extremely close to them, even if we talk often :/ Even the people that I AM extremely close to, don't invite me to anything! It honestly gets me soooo frustrated :/ I tried asking people to hang out too, but they say they're busy with other plans. I mean if they disliked me, I don't think they would be my friend, so I don't think that's the reason. Ugh what do I do? ??? I used to hang out with lots of different people but I don't know what happened, I just have no one to hang out with anymore. :(( I only hang out with my boyfriend and I feel so lonely :/
    3 answers · Friends · 2 years ago
  • Feeling suicidal? Going to a rough time?

    Since last winter, I've been suffering depression. I self harm but I stopped for a couple months now. I used to have break downs every single day where I just leave the classroom and cry in the washrooms. I had so many break downs at the beginning of this year (january - february). I got a boyfriend in march and I think my depression got a lot... show more
    Since last winter, I've been suffering depression. I self harm but I stopped for a couple months now. I used to have break downs every single day where I just leave the classroom and cry in the washrooms. I had so many break downs at the beginning of this year (january - february). I got a boyfriend in march and I think my depression got a lot better, but it is definitely still there. I constantly feel sad and very very lonely. I always think of killing myself, every single day, especially these past couple weeks. I am also constantly paranoid about being pregnant and it's giving me so much stress that I just want to cry. I am also on birth control so it's making feel very sick all the time. I lost a lot of friends this year so I am always just at home, I really only hangout with my boyfriend. I thought that maybe this up comming school year will be a fresh start, and that it will finally get better, but I'm becoming more and more hopeless every single day. I used to cry almost every single day but I stopped doing that recently. Now it's more of a numbing pain and sadness. I honestly just feel like ending my life everyday, constantly thinking of when I should kill myself. I am so insecure and feel very very unattractive, even though many people call me pretty, I only focus on the ones who call me average. I constantly compare myself to other girls and I always end up feeling like ****. I really don't know what to do, please someone help?
    3 answers · Mental Health · 2 years ago
  • Dad says I'm fat? 5'6" and 115lbs?

    My dad called me fat and chubby when I told him I weighed 115lbs at 5'6". I personally think I'm fine but he's always calling me fat. He's also overweight himself so I don't understand. It pisses me off cause he expects me to be 100lbs at my height. I just got over an eating disorder last year where I only ate one meal a day... show more
    My dad called me fat and chubby when I told him I weighed 115lbs at 5'6". I personally think I'm fine but he's always calling me fat. He's also overweight himself so I don't understand. It pisses me off cause he expects me to be 100lbs at my height. I just got over an eating disorder last year where I only ate one meal a day and weighed 93lbs at 5'5"... Am I fat??
    4 answers · Diet & Fitness · 2 years ago
  • Pregnant or birth control side effects?

    Started having sex first time ever on May 26 and had sex a lot of times after that until now. Used a condom every time and pulled out as well. No rips or tears. I got my period a little bit earlier in June though, about a week earlier than usual, but I am pretty irregular. I started taking the pill about 10 days ago and threw up on the first day.... show more
    Started having sex first time ever on May 26 and had sex a lot of times after that until now. Used a condom every time and pulled out as well. No rips or tears. I got my period a little bit earlier in June though, about a week earlier than usual, but I am pretty irregular. I started taking the pill about 10 days ago and threw up on the first day. I've had very little appetite and just have stomach problems. I also occasionally get dizzy, but that happened a little before birth control as well. What are the chances of being pregnant? Thanks! (I'm only a teen so I don't want a kid right now)
    2 answers · Pregnancy · 2 years ago
  • Friend don't invite me to hang out?

    It's so frustrating, basically I lost a lot of friends this year and don't have a "friend group" anymore, so no one ever invites me to things. I talk to a lot of people from different groups, so I don't really belong anywhere, even my close friends don't really invite me, ever. I really only hangout with my boyfriend, which... show more
    It's so frustrating, basically I lost a lot of friends this year and don't have a "friend group" anymore, so no one ever invites me to things. I talk to a lot of people from different groups, so I don't really belong anywhere, even my close friends don't really invite me, ever. I really only hangout with my boyfriend, which I love, but I really want to hangout with friends too, ugh this sucks :// what should I do? Should I try making new friends this school year? I'm honestly tired of jumping around people/friends ughhh (I'm gonna be a junior this year) I lost so many of the friends that I used to hang out with last year, maybe it's because of my depression/self harm (I don't do it anymore) ?? I have no idea :( Advice ? Thank you!
    3 answers · Friends · 2 years ago
  • Dad flipped out 'cause I asked about hair in the veggies?

    During lunch, my dad made us noodles with some veggies inside. I found 6 hairs in the food, but kept eating until I lost my appetite. We came to a conclusion that it was the veggies that had hair in it when he pulled a strand of hair out of them. Then, for dinner, he prepared the same veggies. I wasn't pissed, or annoyed, or trying to insult... show more
    During lunch, my dad made us noodles with some veggies inside. I found 6 hairs in the food, but kept eating until I lost my appetite. We came to a conclusion that it was the veggies that had hair in it when he pulled a strand of hair out of them. Then, for dinner, he prepared the same veggies. I wasn't pissed, or annoyed, or trying to insult him. (we're not very close since I only see him 3 months out of a year. he's usually in asia, but not for work, just to have fun, he does not work/provide for the family). I respect him as a father, but not as a person. Anyway, back to the story. So I asked, "oh are those the veggies with the hair?", to a normal human being, that questions is completely harmless, but to him, it was very offensive. He got very irritated and yelled at me. I was getting pissed too, because he was also very irriated at me during lunch due to the hairs. I tried to be as respectful as possible, but I just don't want to eating ******* hair. I don't understand why it will be my fault????? So I talked back, which I shouldn't have, that was my fault. But his reaction was completely out rageous. I said "then why won't you eat the hair?", because he seemed to be really pissed that I won't eat food with hair in it. He then slammed the table and yelled at me at full volume. He also started hitting my mother and pushing her to the floor. I was disgusted by this **** of a human. "He had a bad day" what an excuse, was what I did that bad? Thanks
    2 answers · Family · 2 years ago
  • Blood shot eyes? Possiblity pregnant? Or just tired?

    I've been having sex with a condom (no birth control pills) for about a month and got my last period a week early this month. It seemed like a normal period but it was weird I got it early.. I'm a teenager so I heard this can happen since my body is still adjusting to sex. But recently I've noticed that my eyes have been blood shot,... show more
    I've been having sex with a condom (no birth control pills) for about a month and got my last period a week early this month. It seemed like a normal period but it was weird I got it early.. I'm a teenager so I heard this can happen since my body is still adjusting to sex. But recently I've noticed that my eyes have been blood shot, which I heard can be a symptom of pregnancy? But it usually happens at later stages.. so I'm not sure. I don't think I'm pregnant, but I'm just wondering. I HAVE been sleeping very late, around 4am - 6am so I think that's the reason.. your insight? Thanks I just got birth control pills today so yeah!
    1 answer · Pregnancy · 2 years ago
  • Am I pregnant? 15, use condoms!?

    I've only recently started having sex with my boyfriend (lost our viriginity to each other), I'd say since early May. We have sex quite often and we always use a condom. Our sex isn't very rough so the condom never broke, he also pulls out whenever he comes. I only use condoms and I am not currently on the pill, but I am booking an... show more
    I've only recently started having sex with my boyfriend (lost our viriginity to each other), I'd say since early May. We have sex quite often and we always use a condom. Our sex isn't very rough so the condom never broke, he also pulls out whenever he comes. I only use condoms and I am not currently on the pill, but I am booking an appoinment to start the pill this week. I'm only 15 so I really don't want to be pregnant. My period came early last month, it came June 12 instead of June 19, and was a couple days shorter than usual, it lasted 5 days instead of 7-8 days. I don't think it's spotting, since it was quite heavy and seemed like a normal period to me. I haven't been taking the pill these two months and do you think it was a bad idea? I will try to take the pill starting July, thanks!
    1 answer · Pregnancy · 2 years ago
  • I'm 120lbs and 5'6" I think I'm fine but my dad keeps calling me fat?

    It's ******* annoying 'cause he doesn't understand that I recently overcame an eating disorder that lasted a year. I was 93lbs and had a BMI of 15.6, I lost my period and was anorexic looking. I only ate a meal a day and life was hell. I was around 5'5" at the time so I gained a lot of weight since then. I'm actually pretty... show more
    It's ******* annoying 'cause he doesn't understand that I recently overcame an eating disorder that lasted a year. I was 93lbs and had a BMI of 15.6, I lost my period and was anorexic looking. I only ate a meal a day and life was hell. I was around 5'5" at the time so I gained a lot of weight since then. I'm actually pretty comfortable with my body, but of course there are things that I would like to change (but who doesn't?). The thing is, nobody considers me fat except for my dad. It's so frustruating 'cause he reminds me about it every single day and tells me to eat less because of it. I'm asian and I guess being skinny IS weighing 90lbs at like 5'7". My mom thinks I'm perfectly fine, so does my boyfriend and everyone else. I am not going to lose weight because of my dad, but how the **** do I deal with this situation and get through his thick skull? He's overweight himself so that makes me ever more angry. He also insults my friends who are on the chubbier side and it makes me upset too. I'm 15, female.
    5 answers · Diet & Fitness · 2 years ago
  • Exponents subtract each other by division, but...? [BEST ANSWER 10 POINTS]?

    WHY IS THE ANSWER A AND NOT B?? I thought the three should subtract the other three?? thanks!!
    WHY IS THE ANSWER A AND NOT B?? I thought the three should subtract the other three?? thanks!!
    6 answers · Mathematics · 2 years ago
  • How to find the angle for this triangle?

    I'm studying for an exam and I have no idea how to do this problem ;a; It's grade 10 foundations of calc btw
    I'm studying for an exam and I have no idea how to do this problem ;a; It's grade 10 foundations of calc btw
    5 answers · Mathematics · 2 years ago
  • What would you rate me out of 10? [PICSSSSS]?

    hehe everyone's curious about this you know? thanks ! (im 15 btw)
    hehe everyone's curious about this you know? thanks ! (im 15 btw)
    9 answers · Polls & Surveys · 2 years ago