• She's upset with me but it's not my fault. I'm also annoyed?

    My friend has a heart condition and goes once every 3 months to the city to see a specialist. The hospital she sees the doctor at is 2 hours away. She asked me if I wanted to go with her I said sure I even drove!!! She said she wanted to leave at 8:15/8:30 just to make sure she got there on time. Unfortunately, I wasn't ready till 8:45. I know... show more
    My friend has a heart condition and goes once every 3 months to the city to see a specialist. The hospital she sees the doctor at is 2 hours away. She asked me if I wanted to go with her I said sure I even drove!!! She said she wanted to leave at 8:15/8:30 just to make sure she got there on time. Unfortunately, I wasn't ready till 8:45. I know this was my fault!! Anyway, now she missed her appointment we hit a lot of traffic. They say they can squeeze her in but it will be awhile. She's really annoyed with me! I'm also really annoyed as I wasn't planning to spend my entire day off in a doctors office/hospital. I feel like she doesn't exactly have a right to be upset with me considering I drive. What do you think?
    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 10 months ago
  • I want to work in the resort/tourism industry but here's the catch.?

    I want to work as a travel agent or someone who helps people plan their vacations. I've always been interested in that line of work. I don't want to work in a hotel doing "reservations." I live in Charleston SC so it's a very touristy town. When I try to look for jobs such as travel agents etc I can't seem to find anything?... show more
    I want to work as a travel agent or someone who helps people plan their vacations. I've always been interested in that line of work. I don't want to work in a hotel doing "reservations." I live in Charleston SC so it's a very touristy town. When I try to look for jobs such as travel agents etc I can't seem to find anything? Is it a dead market? Working in the local visitor center involves working for timeshare companies. I'm not entirely sure what to do? Is searching "travel agent." the wrong way to go about it online? Do I need to use other key terms? Or do I need to consider relocation to an area like Orlando FL/Disney World? Will I have more opportunity there?
    2 answers · Other - Careers & Employment · 1 year ago
  • Insulted and kinda hurt by this?

    I graduated high school 10 years ago. My fiancé had never really seen too many pictures of me from my younger years. When I showed him some photographs of me from high school school he looked at them and said "wow! I expected you to be a lot hotter in high school." He looked at about 3 pictures then told me he'd seen enough. He said I... show more
    I graduated high school 10 years ago. My fiancé had never really seen too many pictures of me from my younger years. When I showed him some photographs of me from high school school he looked at them and said "wow! I expected you to be a lot hotter in high school." He looked at about 3 pictures then told me he'd seen enough. He said I looked anerexic in high school and thank God I look better now. I am a bit offended. Thoughts?
    2 answers · Primary & Secondary Education · 1 year ago
  • What does the bible say about praying to deceased loved ones?

    Sometimes I pray & talk to loved ones who have passed. I ask for guidance from them & comfort & healing. I know I only have one God& I should be praying to him but it brings me so Much comfort is this wrong? For Christians
    Sometimes I pray & talk to loved ones who have passed. I ask for guidance from them & comfort & healing. I know I only have one God& I should be praying to him but it brings me so Much comfort is this wrong? For Christians
    Religion & Spirituality · 2 years ago
  • What can I do for my daughter?!?

    My daughter is 26 years old. She was abused growing up by her peers. Picked on, beat & bullied very badly. She moved away at 18 had her own place, graduated college etc. Recently, she lost her job & was forced to move home. She's so miserable. She can't find work, she's afraid to leave our house, I've been told on two different... show more
    My daughter is 26 years old. She was abused growing up by her peers. Picked on, beat & bullied very badly. She moved away at 18 had her own place, graduated college etc. Recently, she lost her job & was forced to move home. She's so miserable. She can't find work, she's afraid to leave our house, I've been told on two different occasions that she was being made fun of while out around town by former classmates. What can I do? I'm very concerned My husband & I can't support her & pay for her! Help!!! Suggestions?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Is this worth it?!?

    I lost my job. I'm now working a temporary job it's a one month job it's full time at a marketing firm. The pay is decent. I was also going to work a seasonal job to pick up some extra money during the holidays. The seasonal job wants me to work from 5-11pm. I'm available everyday except Saturday's. The pay is $8.50/hr & even... show more
    I lost my job. I'm now working a temporary job it's a one month job it's full time at a marketing firm. The pay is decent. I was also going to work a seasonal job to pick up some extra money during the holidays. The seasonal job wants me to work from 5-11pm. I'm available everyday except Saturday's. The pay is $8.50/hr & even with 5+ years experience working a cash register, they won't give me any more money. They told me I need to buy specific shoes & specific pants that I need to pay for & they will not reimburse me for. The cost is around $50.00 total. They also want me to work at the customer service desk. I'm not sure if I should take it or try to find something else. My family thinks I should find work elsewhere & the pay is not worth it for a job ending Jan 1st. Thoughts?!
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Take the job or no? Need advice?

    Recently lost my job. I'm working a full time job but it's a temp job only lasting a month. The pay is "ok" not great but not terrible. It's expected to end Dec. 1st I also got an offer for a part time seasonal job at a department store. I was supposed to go to orientation Tuesday but was sent an email last night telling me to... show more
    Recently lost my job. I'm working a full time job but it's a temp job only lasting a month. The pay is "ok" not great but not terrible. It's expected to end Dec. 1st I also got an offer for a part time seasonal job at a department store. I was supposed to go to orientation Tuesday but was sent an email last night telling me to come today instead. I would have to buy a certain type of pants & certain shoes which will likely cost me close to $50.00. The company does not reimburse me for that.The pay is $8.50 per hour. It's not negociable at all. I'd be working my full time job from 7:30-3:30 then 5-11pm at my other job. I'm not sure what to do? Will that be too much? Should I just look for a different job that's say, 5-9.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Am I an awful person to feel this?!?

    My older brother was very close to our father. Our father was his hero. He looked at dad like he did no wrong ever. He was so protective of my father. He had a TERRIBLE relationship with my mother. They never got along. There was constant fighting between the two of them. It was REALLY REALLY REALLY BAD My sister & I used to talk about the day... show more
    My older brother was very close to our father. Our father was his hero. He looked at dad like he did no wrong ever. He was so protective of my father. He had a TERRIBLE relationship with my mother. They never got along. There was constant fighting between the two of them. It was REALLY REALLY REALLY BAD My sister & I used to talk about the day dad would die. We always worried about how hard my brother would take it. For years, we talked about it. We worried about it. I used to secretly wish mom would die first so my brother wouldn't be in pain or suffer. Unfortunately, dad died from cancer. My brother shut down for a long time. I didn't even feel pain for my fathers death. I knew he was suffering for 5 years he suffered! I felt so much more pain for my brother. I think I grieved my brothers pain more then I did my fathers death. It's been 2 years today since he died. our mother is still alive & well. My brother doesn't talk much to her. I still think he hurts so badly. He's trying to hide it but I know it kills him inside. Am I a terrible person to wish death upon my mom before my dad? I feel horrible for ever feeling that way. I love my mother just as much as my father. Am I a terrible person? Has anyone else ever felt this?
    3 answers · Family · 3 years ago
  • Do I need to buy winter clothes? IS it cold here?

    I work in downtown Atlanta. I've lived here my whole life! I'm being transferred to one of our satellite offices in New Jersey next week until the end of May to train all of our new employees. The company agreeded to allow me to stay at our "company apartment" so my living expenses are paid for. I'm not sure what to expect.... show more
    I work in downtown Atlanta. I've lived here my whole life! I'm being transferred to one of our satellite offices in New Jersey next week until the end of May to train all of our new employees. The company agreeded to allow me to stay at our "company apartment" so my living expenses are paid for. I'm not sure what to expect. Do I need to purchase winter clothes?! I have SOME but not a lot? Does it get cold? What is it like? Is the cost of things food etc similar to Atlanta? What is there to do? I've been told I'm 1 hour train ride to NYC! I'm so excited to see NYC around the holidays!!! Are people nice? I have heard people are really rude is this true?
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • When you loose a parent....?

    When you loose your mother or father, does it ever get easier? I see people who seem to be ok. Especially the older folks people in their 80's & 90's. They seem to not be phased by death. I know they say you have to "move on" but do you ever truly "move on." When I lost my grandparents it was sad. I think about them... show more
    When you loose your mother or father, does it ever get easier? I see people who seem to be ok. Especially the older folks people in their 80's & 90's. They seem to not be phased by death. I know they say you have to "move on" but do you ever truly "move on." When I lost my grandparents it was sad. I think about them on occasion & miss them sometimes & wish they were her occasionally But with your mother & father I feel it is much much harder. Have you moved on? Or accepted it
    5 answers · Family · 3 years ago
  • My mom pays all my bills & I'm tired of it!?

    Im 26 years old. I graduated college 2 years ago. Now, this may make me sound like a spoiled b*tch but, for 2 years my parents have paid my rent for me & basically paid all my bills while I lived on my own In another state. I recently moved home. My parents said they wouldn't & couldn't afford to pay for me anymore. I don't want their... show more
    Im 26 years old. I graduated college 2 years ago. Now, this may make me sound like a spoiled b*tch but, for 2 years my parents have paid my rent for me & basically paid all my bills while I lived on my own In another state. I recently moved home. My parents said they wouldn't & couldn't afford to pay for me anymore. I don't want their money!!!! I wish they would just STOP!!!! I have a temp job in an office for the next month I also picked up a seasonal part time job. I'm working 2 jobs to save my own money!!! My mother has talked me out of taking the seasonal job saying it will be too much on me & how this office job might lead to more & I should only focus on that & that she doesn't like me coming home around midnight every night from the bad part of town. This is not the first time she's talked me out of jobs. She convinced me to quit my full time job back in March where I was making good money because I wasn't happy with my boss. I'm so tired of this! I'm honestly not sure what my mother wants from me!!! All she does is complain about having to pay for me & how she hasn't been able to fix up HER house & can't do this & can't do that & how all I want is her money!!! So, if I don't take the seasonal job come Dec 1st I have no job & no money. I Know the seasonal job is only until Jan 1st but its one more month of some type of income I don't know what my mom wants from me. I'm becoming frustrated.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 4 years ago
  • What job do I pick to hold me over?

    I lost my job my company closed I've been struggling to find work as its the holidays & not many companies are hiring. I'm trying to just get money for Christmas gifts etc for the holidays I have 3 offers on the table. None can I live on none are great offers. None do I want to do the rest of my life!! #1. Target Seasonal Until Jan... show more
    I lost my job my company closed I've been struggling to find work as its the holidays & not many companies are hiring. I'm trying to just get money for Christmas gifts etc for the holidays I have 3 offers on the table. None can I live on none are great offers. None do I want to do the rest of my life!! #1. Target Seasonal Until Jan 1st. $8.50/hr (25 hours per week estimated) #2. NY & Company Seasonal I think? $7.25/hr (10 hours per week estimated) #3. Temporary 3 week office job $11.00/hr (40 hours per week) I'm not sure which one to choose Thoughts?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 4 years ago
  • Where are my math wizards at?!?

    My company just closed so I lost my job. It's close to the holidays so I'm kinda desperate for money. I have 2 offers on the table. Job #1. Full time 40hrs per week It is only a 3 week job. Pays $11.00 per hour Job #2. Is a seasonal job 25-30 hours per week. It's a 7 week long seasonal job The pay is $8.50 per hour. Which am I... show more
    My company just closed so I lost my job. It's close to the holidays so I'm kinda desperate for money. I have 2 offers on the table. Job #1. Full time 40hrs per week It is only a 3 week job. Pays $11.00 per hour Job #2. Is a seasonal job 25-30 hours per week. It's a 7 week long seasonal job The pay is $8.50 per hour. Which am I better off going with for now?
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 years ago
  • Is this my fault? Should I known better?

    My friend is constantly late for things. She has absolutely no consideration for time. My biggest pet peeve is ppl who can't be on time!!! Today she asked me to lunch. It's 1PM we agreeded to meet at 1. She's still not here & it's 1:10 she still hasn't left her house. Would it be rude of me to go get a table? And order a soda... show more
    My friend is constantly late for things. She has absolutely no consideration for time. My biggest pet peeve is ppl who can't be on time!!! Today she asked me to lunch. It's 1PM we agreeded to meet at 1. She's still not here & it's 1:10 she still hasn't left her house. Would it be rude of me to go get a table? And order a soda while I wait. I'm just annoyed because I need to leave around 2. I like to be early for things. Am I totally overreacting here? She's ALWAYS late to EVERYTHING
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 years ago