We been together 18months, I love him so much and he does me, yet atm things are crappy, i hardly see him due to work so i spend alot of time with friends. He ses hes working for our future n wants to make a good go of it but im unhappy cos im hardly seeing him n we becoming distant.
One of my male friends fancies me, ses he loves me and wants to be with me n wud treat me right n all the stuff id like to hear. But hes abit of a snake, i think he just wants any old gf. I am kinda attracted to him , but i dont think i cud trust him or any thing, he makes stuff up n seems a player, but wen we tgever we do click n he is good looking. I just get the feeling he will use me n then blow me off n then ive lost the man who really does love me and have potential future with.
But then i might have a future with this other guy, we do have history, but he didnt want me when i was single, im confused on whether hes being genuine or not? what do you think? Cos like, he ses i have a choice, be friends n he goes in army or i get with him n have a life tgeva.
I think my main issue is the 7 year age gap between me n my bf, im scared tht if it dont work out , il have lost my younger years n like opportunitys with other boys. Hes ready to settle, and I am too, but things are getting boring :(
I dunno what to do.