• Ex bf is confusing me?

    I broke up with my bf a month ago but we were still seeing each other for a few weeks. He told me that he didn’t feel the same and feels stuck? so we stopped speaking but last night I got sad and messaged him telling him that I miss him, we spoke for a bit about random stuff then he said to me “I’m just seeing how I cope with the decision” what does... show more
    I broke up with my bf a month ago but we were still seeing each other for a few weeks. He told me that he didn’t feel the same and feels stuck? so we stopped speaking but last night I got sad and messaged him telling him that I miss him, we spoke for a bit about random stuff then he said to me “I’m just seeing how I cope with the decision” what does that even mean?
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 weeks ago
  • I reached out to my ex..?

    and my ex broke up a month ago but had still been seeing until 5 days ago, we broke up because I found him talking inappropriately with another girl and stuff. Last night something really awful happened, my best friends boyfriend tried to have sex with me and wouldn’t let me leave the room. I went home crying and in the moment I called my ex... show more
    and my ex broke up a month ago but had still been seeing until 5 days ago, we broke up because I found him talking inappropriately with another girl and stuff. Last night something really awful happened, my best friends boyfriend tried to have sex with me and wouldn’t let me leave the room. I went home crying and in the moment I called my ex boyfriend. He spoke to me for like 20 minutes and I explained to him what happened. It’s the next day and I feel so angry at myself that I would seek comfort from him. He was horrible to me. I wish I could take back contacting him because I know it’ll give him satisfaction that I had done so:/
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 3 weeks ago
  • Why did my ex unfollow me?

    okay so my ex that I had been on and off with for three years and I broke up a month ago. We were still occasionally seeing each other but recently things didn’t feel right and he said he didn’t feel like seeing me at that moment in time but he would eventually cause his mood will change but then he said he didn’t feel the same? he’s done this... show more
    okay so my ex that I had been on and off with for three years and I broke up a month ago. We were still occasionally seeing each other but recently things didn’t feel right and he said he didn’t feel like seeing me at that moment in time but he would eventually cause his mood will change but then he said he didn’t feel the same? he’s done this before and come back a few months later. I can admit I’ve broken up with him before too a few times and we have gotten back together. Why did he change from not wanting to see me to not the same feelings. He said to me “you’re making it feel like I either have to say I don’t like you or be with you” also we haven’t talked but I recently uploaded a mirror selfie to Instagram with a skirt and crop top on when my body was in great shape and he unfollowed me after this?? why did he do that?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 weeks ago
  • How long does it take a boy to get over their first real relationship?

    my boyfriend and I are both 18 and started dating when we were 15. We have grown up together and went through so much. The good, the bad and we have broken up a few times in between but the longest it had been was 2/3 months. He said he doesn’t feel the same but he’s said this before and come back. Why does he do this and will he always remember... show more
    my boyfriend and I are both 18 and started dating when we were 15. We have grown up together and went through so much. The good, the bad and we have broken up a few times in between but the longest it had been was 2/3 months. He said he doesn’t feel the same but he’s said this before and come back. Why does he do this and will he always remember me?? Or will he forget?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 weeks ago
  • My boyfriend and I ended?

    my boyfriend and I had been together for 3 years but broke up a month ago as I caught him flirting with someone else. I forgave him (like always) and we went on a few dates but a few weeks ago he started being blunt and said Christmas’s makes him feel down but then he said he just doesn’t want to see me. I told him maybe we should end things and he... show more
    my boyfriend and I had been together for 3 years but broke up a month ago as I caught him flirting with someone else. I forgave him (like always) and we went on a few dates but a few weeks ago he started being blunt and said Christmas’s makes him feel down but then he said he just doesn’t want to see me. I told him maybe we should end things and he he said he doesn’t feel the same. I still love him, I did everything for him and I explained to him I only said that cause I’m sad he didn’t want to see me and saw it as the only option. Then he said he didn’t feel the same:( my boyfriend has broken up with me before but came back into my life 3 months later and he always comes back. Will he come back? And will he miss me? It breaks me knowing I did everything for him and it wasn’t enough. How can I get over this so if he comes back I can say no. I feel broken
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 3 weeks ago
  • Why is he being distant?

    my ex boyfriend and I broke up a few months ago as I found him talking to someone else and some of the things that were said I found inappropriate, I stopped talking to him for a few weeks and then we saw each other for the first time. I decided to forgive him again. We hung out a few times in the past month and he stayed at my place, we went on... show more
    my ex boyfriend and I broke up a few months ago as I found him talking to someone else and some of the things that were said I found inappropriate, I stopped talking to him for a few weeks and then we saw each other for the first time. I decided to forgive him again. We hung out a few times in the past month and he stayed at my place, we went on dates and stuff and it really felt like things were okay again. Recently, he has become distant. He said he doesn’t feel happy and he said it’s not cause of me he just doesn’t feel happy in general. He said it could be because of Christmas and it’s making him feel down. He said he doesn’t feel like he’s in the mood to see me at the moment but his mood will change. I feel left in the dark but I want to give him space. Am I wasting my life trying to make him care or is it possible he’s just in a dark place at the moment?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 4 weeks ago
  • Feel so depressed about dropping out of college?

    Im 18 and was studying health and social care at college. I dropped out stupidly as I stopped attending college for a month and fell majorly behind and the lecturers recommended I drop out. It’s only been a week and I feel so upset. I’m currently working full time until I can re-join in 7 months. 7 months feels too long and I know there’s nothing I... show more
    Im 18 and was studying health and social care at college. I dropped out stupidly as I stopped attending college for a month and fell majorly behind and the lecturers recommended I drop out. It’s only been a week and I feel so upset. I’m currently working full time until I can re-join in 7 months. 7 months feels too long and I know there’s nothing I can do and I messed up but I feel so awful about it. I really miss college and I can’t go back for another 7 months :(
    3 answers · Higher Education (University +) · 1 month ago
  • So I dropped out of college and I feel a bit guilty?

    I’m 18 and was at college studying health and social care for around 4 months. I was really struggling with personal problems and fell really behind on work. I met with my college tutors and they actually recommended I drop out. I decided to withdraw from the course and I’m going to work full time from January- August so around 7 months and then... show more
    I’m 18 and was at college studying health and social care for around 4 months. I was really struggling with personal problems and fell really behind on work. I met with my college tutors and they actually recommended I drop out. I decided to withdraw from the course and I’m going to work full time from January- August so around 7 months and then re-apply and give it my best shot. I’m already dying to start the course again but all my assignments were due and I missed the deadline which is why I dropped out. Is working full time for 7 months and getting myself a car in that time the worst idea I could have had? I feel really guilty for dropping out of education and I also feel really sad About it but I know this is a great opportunity to finish my driving lessons and hopefully get mtself a car. The tutors said I’d have no issue getting back into the course next year so that’s a plus
    1 answer · Higher Education (University +) · 1 month ago
  • Not sure what to do?

    Okay so I’m an 18 year old student and am studying health and social care which enables me to progress to university to study mental health nursing which is the career I’d like. I haven’t attended college for a few weeks/ possibly a month due to lack of motivation, stress, personal problems and I honestly just lost all motivation to study and keep a... show more
    Okay so I’m an 18 year old student and am studying health and social care which enables me to progress to university to study mental health nursing which is the career I’d like. I haven’t attended college for a few weeks/ possibly a month due to lack of motivation, stress, personal problems and I honestly just lost all motivation to study and keep a basic routine. There’s nothing I want more now than a normal routine but I am so far behind it on my studies. I currently work in a nursing home and am thinking about dropping out of college and working there full time for a year to save money then re- apply next year icky college allow me to do so. In this case, I’d be 23 nearly 24 when I graduate. Is this really bad or does it even matter?? Advice please. What to do.
    5 answers · Higher Education (University +) · 1 month ago
  • Stayed off college due to bad mental health?

    I have been off college for nearly a month and have missed sooo many assignments and work. This Is due to my poor mental health, I’ve found it really hard to go as I constantly feel anxious and depressed. I don’t have a doctor diagnosis as I haven’t been to the doctor about it as I don’t even know how I’d begin to explain it and I’m not sure if I... show more
    I have been off college for nearly a month and have missed sooo many assignments and work. This Is due to my poor mental health, I’ve found it really hard to go as I constantly feel anxious and depressed. I don’t have a doctor diagnosis as I haven’t been to the doctor about it as I don’t even know how I’d begin to explain it and I’m not sure if I actually have any mental disorders. I just know I’ve been feeling extreamly down, lack of energy and really confused. Idk what to do now, I have a meeting with my college tomorrow and I’m so scared and I’m scared to return to class as I feel like I’ll be judged for staying off so long. Soo anxious idk if I can do this
    4 answers · Mental Health · 1 month ago
  • Very stressed about life?

    hello, I’m very stressed. I’m an 18 year old female which is in college at the moment studying health and social care which would then lead on to university next year to study nursing. I have been off college for around 3/4 weeks now. At first it was because of sickness then it became something more, a horrible cycle of me not going and feeling too... show more
    hello, I’m very stressed. I’m an 18 year old female which is in college at the moment studying health and social care which would then lead on to university next year to study nursing. I have been off college for around 3/4 weeks now. At first it was because of sickness then it became something more, a horrible cycle of me not going and feeling too anxious to go in since I had stayed off too much already (bad, I know). I have a meeting with my college tomorrow and I’m going to be honest with them but I’m unsure if I’ll be able to catch up. I currently work in a care home and I could possibly work there full time for a year then re apply next year but realistically the only reason I’d do that is because I feel so far behind and also because i want more money for a car and stuff. Im really interested in studying nursing at uni and really don’t know what to do..
    2 answers · Higher Education (University +) · 1 month ago
  • I’m so far behind on college I don’t know what to do?

    I’m so far behind on all my college work. Like a month behind!! I have so many assessments coming up and I haven’t even started them and barley know what I’m doing. I stayed off college for a few days and it soon became a month. I was having issues with my mental health and now I feel so lost and like there’s no hope. I really wish I could just go... show more
    I’m so far behind on all my college work. Like a month behind!! I have so many assessments coming up and I haven’t even started them and barley know what I’m doing. I stayed off college for a few days and it soon became a month. I was having issues with my mental health and now I feel so lost and like there’s no hope. I really wish I could just go back in time and attend college but I can’t. I am meant to be applying for uni this month but idk if there’s point anymore:( is there anyway I can help myself and manage to make it through the year or should I drop out and re apply next year. I’m sick sad and want to die because of this
    5 answers · Higher Education (University +) · 2 months ago
  • I broke up with him, why is he speaking to me?

    I broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago because he treated me poorly and was flirting with other girls. We had a concert booked in another city for tomorrow and I was meant to be saying at his friends halls but he said I couldn’t as it would be awkward so i can’t go anymore. I accepted that despite being annoyed for wasting £40. He then messaged... show more
    I broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago because he treated me poorly and was flirting with other girls. We had a concert booked in another city for tomorrow and I was meant to be saying at his friends halls but he said I couldn’t as it would be awkward so i can’t go anymore. I accepted that despite being annoyed for wasting £40. He then messaged me like a day later trying to make random conversation?? What the hell is he doing
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • I am overthinking my break up.?

    me and my boyfriend were together for 3 years almost but we broke up a few times and got back together. We argued quite a bit because of some factors such as him not showing much appreciation towards me- he didn’t reslly understand this. Another major issue was a few people told me he was too close with other girls and one even questioned if we were... show more
    me and my boyfriend were together for 3 years almost but we broke up a few times and got back together. We argued quite a bit because of some factors such as him not showing much appreciation towards me- he didn’t reslly understand this. Another major issue was a few people told me he was too close with other girls and one even questioned if we were still dating. My best friend saw him too close with another girl from work but I trusted him. A few weeks later on Facebook he was telling her that she’s not that important to him yet implying that she will be and was talking to her in detail for weeks like he does with me. When I broke up with him over this he said he thinks I’m over thinking it and taking it too far but nobody else thinks I am. I need some opinions, he’s making me feel like I’m being unreasonable and it hurts as I still love him
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • Me and my ex boyfriend have tickets for a concert in Glasgow in two days?

    so me and my boyfriend bought tickets for royal blood but he was flirting with other girls so I broke up with him. The concert is a few hours away from home and I was really looking forward to it and both of us have invested money into it and don’t have time to sell. Should I go and be civil or forget about it and move on
    so me and my boyfriend bought tickets for royal blood but he was flirting with other girls so I broke up with him. The concert is a few hours away from home and I was really looking forward to it and both of us have invested money into it and don’t have time to sell. Should I go and be civil or forget about it and move on
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • How do I get over him?

    ok so I have been with my boyfriend since I was 15 and now I’m 18, I caught him being flirty with a girl from work. My friend said she saw them a few weeks back being ‘too close’ and I saw him messaging her saying “you’re not that special to me yet” and other things that were just not ok. I feel like my heart is broken because I thought we would be... show more
    ok so I have been with my boyfriend since I was 15 and now I’m 18, I caught him being flirty with a girl from work. My friend said she saw them a few weeks back being ‘too close’ and I saw him messaging her saying “you’re not that special to me yet” and other things that were just not ok. I feel like my heart is broken because I thought we would be together forever. How am I meant to get over this and will he regret treating me this way??. It’s sad because everyone told him I was too good for him and he agreed so why would he do this?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • Too sad to function?

    yesterday I found out my boyfriend of 3 years has been speaking to other girls and I’m heart broken. I broke up with him but I’m still in love with him and I can’t bring myself to get out of bed as I feel so low and like I will cry in public. What do I do:(
    yesterday I found out my boyfriend of 3 years has been speaking to other girls and I’m heart broken. I broke up with him but I’m still in love with him and I can’t bring myself to get out of bed as I feel so low and like I will cry in public. What do I do:(
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • What to do?

    so a few weeks ago my boyfriend was on a work night out with a small group of people and my best friend happened to be out at the same time and told me that she saw him and some girl talking and they looked far too close for comfort. I asked my boyfriend about this and he said nothing was going on and jokingly said “I just won’t talk to females... show more
    so a few weeks ago my boyfriend was on a work night out with a small group of people and my best friend happened to be out at the same time and told me that she saw him and some girl talking and they looked far too close for comfort. I asked my boyfriend about this and he said nothing was going on and jokingly said “I just won’t talk to females then” I took his word for it despite feeling uneasy as this kind of situation has happened before, anyway, my bf accidentally kept his Facebook open on my laptop and I wanted to see if he had been talking to the girl from work so I had a little look and they had been talking constantly for months. there were a few things said that made me really uncomfortable like my bf said to her “you’re not tht important to me yet” and he kept constantly asking when she was in work and telling her to come to different clubs. The girl said to him “you have a gf” and he said “yeah I know”. I want to break things off with him. Would this be reasonable? I don’t know whether to tell him I’ve been snooping or not though...
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • What to do?

    so a few weeks ago my boyfriend was on a work night out with a small group of people and my best friend happened to be out at the same time and told me that she saw him and some girl talking and they looked far too close for comfort. I asked my boyfriend about this and he said nothing was going on and jokingly said “I just won’t talk to females... show more
    so a few weeks ago my boyfriend was on a work night out with a small group of people and my best friend happened to be out at the same time and told me that she saw him and some girl talking and they looked far too close for comfort. I asked my boyfriend about this and he said nothing was going on and jokingly said “I just won’t talk to females then” I took his word for it despite feeling uneasy as this kind of situation has happened before, anyway, my bf accidentally kept his Facebook open on my laptop and I wanted to see if he had been talking to the girl from work so I had a little look and they had been talking constantly for months. there were a few things said that made me really uncomfortable like my bf said to her “you’re not tht important to me yet” and he kept constantly asking when she was in work and telling her to come to different clubs. The girl said to him “you have a gf” and he said “yeah I know”. I want to break things off with him. Would this be reasonable? I don’t know whether to tell him I’ve been snooping or not though...
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • How do I tell my boyfriend I read through his messages?

    so a few weeks ago my boyfriend was on a work night out with a small group of people and my best friend happened to be out at the same time and told me that she saw him and some girl talking and they looked far too close for comfort. I asked my boyfriend about this and he said nothing was going on and jokingly said “I just won’t talk to females... show more
    so a few weeks ago my boyfriend was on a work night out with a small group of people and my best friend happened to be out at the same time and told me that she saw him and some girl talking and they looked far too close for comfort. I asked my boyfriend about this and he said nothing was going on and jokingly said “I just won’t talk to females then” I took his word for it despite feeling uneasy as this kind of situation has happened before, anyway, my bf accidentally kept his Facebook open on my laptop and I wanted to see if he had been talking to the girl from work so I had a little look and they had been talking constantly for months. there were a few things said that made me really uncomfortable like my bf said to her “you’re not tht important to me yet” and he kept constantly asking when she was in work and telling her to come to different clubs. The girl said to him “you have a gf” and he said “yeah I know”. I want to break things off with him. Would this be reasonable? I don’t know whether to tell him I’ve been snooping or not though...
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago