my ex boyfriend and I broke up a few months ago as I found him talking to someone else and some of the things that were said I found inappropriate, I stopped talking to him for a few weeks and then we saw each other for the first time. I decided to forgive him again. We hung out a few times in the past month and he stayed at my place, we went on dates and stuff and it really felt like things were okay again. Recently, he has become distant. He said he doesn’t feel happy and he said it’s not cause of me he just doesn’t feel happy in general. He said it could be because of Christmas and it’s making him feel down. He said he doesn’t feel like he’s in the mood to see me at the moment but his mood will change. I feel left in the dark but I want to give him space. Am I wasting my life trying to make him care or is it possible he’s just in a dark place at the moment?