I have been friends with her for about nine years, and we have always been close. We're still really good friends, get along really well, and hang out but....lately (the past few months) it seems that she's been putting her other friends first. This is not a jealousy, I-don't-want-to-share thing, I don't care that she has other friends. It's just I feel like I'm starting to becoming her second choice for everything. For example: we've gone trick-or-treating with each other for years. This year we both decided we didn't want to, and that we were going to hand out candy at home. Then on Halloween she went trick-or-treating with her group of friends. They even came to my house. I know I shouldn't be mad, but still... She just seems to be choosing them over me. I haven't said anything, because I don't want to seem like a *****, but... What should I do/say?