I want to tell a girl how I feel regardless of her perspective and own feelings of me but I’m really scared ?
Scared of others around me and her, mockers, trolls the like. But I feel like the only way I can escape this pain regardless of the final outcome is to tell her. I’ve already made my mind up around our working position. It feels so different when I’m around her in real life like I gravitate to her so much but I’m talking to her and I’m thinking to my self “do I like her???” But I think I’m just picking out her flaws easily. So yeah; does anyone have any methods. She works on a pharmacy area of our store and moved from our department on checkouts. How should I approach her if getting her alone is close to impossible. I did kinda delete my socials and snapchat because I’m just happier without those expectations in life. I feel one of the only routes is asking for advice through one of her best work friends who I also consider to be mine who I also really trust who’s my exact age and going through other similar things. What do you think this this worth it or could turn out worse for me before I leave in this next year or so.2 AnswersSingles & Dating6 days ago
By the time I eat some food I can’t if I’m up early before 10am-12pm because I feel to sick and couldn’t stomach anything like a long car journey. Then by 10-12am I’m ******* ravenous. It must be my food cycle that’s screwed and food still sitting in my stomach from the night before because of comfort evening food when watching shows in the evening. Not too sure how to deal with it I can’t sleep if I’m starving.3 AnswersDiet & Fitness2 weeks ago
So I’m finally leaving my awful job soon after five years. There was someone I met who I grew feelings for. Is this a good idea?
Or is it best left alone.
I am in love with this girl. This one situation is looming over me. Some days after work I think about her; how yet again I know how she subtly has shown me how she felt. She would always approach the other hot guys. I think I was a consideration; but nothing more.
I feel I could be set free from the constant not knowing and agonising torture of knowing if she ACTUALLY was intimately feeling for me too. Because I think that’s what she craves. She knows I can provide that. But I’m not fun for her. That’s what she’s really interested in.
I’m starting to finally move on from all of my past altogether by leaving this job I joined years ago. But I feel if I just told her how I felt over a text on my last day or something.. would i feel better or worse the months leading from that decision? I don’t think I would care for her reaction whether it be mocking/hostility at the very worst. Best case scenarios would be respectful and hopefully not telling anyone or to many people. Absolute best case is obviously her own confession. But a little cowardly to do it this way would you think? I just don’t want the extra weight going to work everyday having to deal with the fact I told her this with every other reason I want to leave work so any advice would be appreciated. I feel much lighter at the thought of these two actions that I feel hounding at me every night need to be taken.Singles & Dating2 weeks ago
I’m a guy. 22. Never had a relationship. Nothing ever changes. Girls will never Be interested in me. I’d love to get some understanding from a. Girls perspective. And to the guys that have beat the incel life. I would love some motivation because this is getting dangerously triggering to my suicidal senses and I am worried I might need to call the Samaritans9 AnswersGender Studies4 weeks ago
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Today I turned up half an hour late for work. I show up just to be bored in a dead end robot working for a store managers financial gain and a puppet to a store. I suffer from sleep inertia and insomnia. The lockdown and heat are not helping at all. I take sertraline, kind of helps me sleep more peacefully. It’s just falling asleep and waking up. Being asleep is never a problem. But it’s been a battle for many many years; I’m turning 22 and people are like what the **** is wrong with me. The days I am on time are never mentioned but when I’m late once 5 months later it’s like “you’re always late”. It’s not just for work even on my days off. Mornings are the worst thing in human existence. By the evening I’m loving life and want to do everything I want to do at 8am at 12pm. How the **** do I fix this to finally improve the punctuality, professionalism and happiness in my lifestyle.Other - General Health Care1 month ago
I have extreme amounts of anxiety of people noticing if I am wearing a different colour clothes. I love designer brands, experimenting with anything, but in public it's a huge no no. Mainly just end up wearing low key nike outfits and expensive trainers. I really wish I had the courage to wear bright vivid colours but I start sweating at the thought and the best I got to was green then navy. I am also very pale in skin so different colours of clothes is a nightmare. I am also small and broad from training and not the best looking.1 AnswerFashion & Accessories1 month ago
I delay going to sleep and do anything else but try to because I get sleep inertia in the morning every morning without fail even if I sleep healthily and i get the same repetitive negative emotions and hounding thoughts of the past and the present over and over and over again every night before I sleep. Because I just can’t. It disrupts my entire discipline for things day to day. Because I can’t get up or fall asleep. Sometimes I comfort eat and want to watch films very late and most nights I fall asleep between 12-2am and wake up between 8am-12pm. It varies day to day and I don’t know what to do about this anymore. Nobody wants to help2 AnswersOther - General Health Care1 month ago
It feels so hard everyday the more I try to forget the more I think11 AnswersSingles & Dating2 months ago
I am 22 and I am unsure why this is the last couple of years; even though it doesn’t matter if I eat at 7pm or 10pm. Maybe it’s just too late a time to eat. Because by the time the morning comes round I can barely handle my breakfast. I have sleep inertia also so the combination is a possible reason why I ******* well despise mornings that much more. Is there a way of overcoming this1 AnswerOther - General Health Care2 months ago
facing the mirror I have always parted it (femininely) to the left however my swirl I believe goes anticlockwise, even though I've been told I have a double crown so now I am just left confused, I take pics and feel for them but i still cant tell the directions as my hair is dark and covering them --_-- I mean, one way feels natural, however it's now harder to brush it that way, and looks odd on the ends, however on the other side, where I normally brush it, feels more natural however gets more muffled and unruly the longer it gets? It's pretty short now around a 4-52 AnswersHair2 months ago
Women: If a guy has cheated on you, or guys have cheated on you, have you not stopped to think that maybe the problem is not them -- but YOU?
I feel a little bias around this argument and I know I would get a lot of salty answers from this. But almost every guy I've noticed who meets a girl, who I'm interested in, and never even get a glance from, I know within an INSTANT whether or not the guy is going to cheat on them. But because hey, I'm "too boring" (do nothing different from your boyfriend I'll ******* tell you that) or "too ugly". But no, those handsome, bad boys you keep picking.. it can't possibly be MY fault that a guy has cheated on me!!!! GET A GRIP8 AnswersSingles & Dating2 months ago
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