now she was a good friend... but when i started taking her home from work once she expected it every time and then stopped to do her home shopping. Now she will call me for lifts to places but makes up a excuse it seems like. She will say to go somewhere then make other plans... how do I stop meeting her? or how can I still be friends with her and not do these things? then she will say its nice to help people? how do I even reply to that statement?