• Women, what should I say if you asked me how you look?

    I don t know how you look. Let s pretend you look terrible. Perhaps the outfit you re wearing does make you look fat. Perhaps the color does not suit you. I m an honest guy. I m not the cold kind of honest, either. How do I answer that kind of question honestly without causing problems? Are you typically fishing for compliments, and I should say... show more
    I don t know how you look. Let s pretend you look terrible. Perhaps the outfit you re wearing does make you look fat. Perhaps the color does not suit you. I m an honest guy. I m not the cold kind of honest, either. How do I answer that kind of question honestly without causing problems? Are you typically fishing for compliments, and I should say something nice about you, or is there a way you like the truth to be told? I know saying "You look like crap" wouldn t be something you want to hear. Would it help if I suggested a different outfit or different hairstyle, or make suggestions as to what make up you should wear, if any? You know what you like, so how to I answer that question without hurting you but still being honest?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 year ago
  • What just happened? Possibly medical?

    I don't think it's serious. It's just weird. At first, it seemed like time just stopped. The air around me suddenly got heavier, my ears started popping, how it usually feels when air temperature changes for me. Then I started seeing flashes of light, my mind became blank, I just lied down and stared at the ceiling for a few moments. I... show more
    I don't think it's serious. It's just weird. At first, it seemed like time just stopped. The air around me suddenly got heavier, my ears started popping, how it usually feels when air temperature changes for me. Then I started seeing flashes of light, my mind became blank, I just lied down and stared at the ceiling for a few moments. I was just walking around my room and talking to myself as if I'm two different characters, as I usually do. Then suddenly this. It didn't hurt. It was just weird. Getting a Doctor appointment is hard, so I would rather not go unless I really need to. It's just weird. My ears are still popping as I'm typing this.
    1 answer · Other - Health · 1 year ago
  • What does my dream mean?

    Please give me an easy to read interpretation. I'm 20 and male. Prior to having this dream, I prayed for God to show me why I was created and what my purpose is. Maybe it has something to do with that? Maybe it doesn't? I don't know. Note: I have never seen a sheep nor a wolf in real life. In my dream, I was a shepherd, and by the... show more
    Please give me an easy to read interpretation. I'm 20 and male. Prior to having this dream, I prayed for God to show me why I was created and what my purpose is. Maybe it has something to do with that? Maybe it doesn't? I don't know. Note: I have never seen a sheep nor a wolf in real life. In my dream, I was a shepherd, and by the looks of it, there were a lot of sheep. Well in the hundreds. The sheep seemed to like me and followed me. A wolf tried to attack the sheep, but I chased the wolf away. None of the sheep were harmed, but one was missing. I knew that the wolf didn't eat the sheep. After I chased the wolf away, I searched through the forest near where I lived looking for the sheep until I found it. I led it back home safely. I then groomed the sheep until I woke up.
    3 answers · Dream Interpretation · 1 year ago
  • Is this story idea overdone?

    I already made the outline and am working on the book. If it's overdone, I an only pray/hope that I do it in a unique way. Basically, in a dystopian future, a group of people form a secret group to rebel against the over-controlling government which leads to war. There is also a romantic subplot between two characters who have to go against... show more
    I already made the outline and am working on the book. If it's overdone, I an only pray/hope that I do it in a unique way. Basically, in a dystopian future, a group of people form a secret group to rebel against the over-controlling government which leads to war. There is also a romantic subplot between two characters who have to go against all odds to be together. I know it's been done. Is it overdone? The summary of the story is far more detailed. I will tell you the summary if you want me to. I'm still going to write the book either way.
    5 answers · Books & Authors · 1 year ago
  • Am I straight or bisexual?

    I'm male. I appreciate the aesthetics of both men and women. I think men are attractive, and I think women are attractive. I cannot see myself with a man, though. The thought of being with a man is nothing to me. I find men to be attractive, but in the handsome sense, not the sexual attraction sense. Does that make me straight or bisexual?
    I'm male. I appreciate the aesthetics of both men and women. I think men are attractive, and I think women are attractive. I cannot see myself with a man, though. The thought of being with a man is nothing to me. I find men to be attractive, but in the handsome sense, not the sexual attraction sense. Does that make me straight or bisexual?
    7 answers · Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered · 1 year ago
  • What can I do if I'm the only one who knows someone is lying?

    My mother is a pathological liar. When I confront her, she denies it. My father believes her lies, too. In fact, I'm the only one who can tell when she's lying. I hate liars, and I can easily spot a liar. It's a gift and a curse. Since I'm the only one who knows that my mom is lying, I'm the one in trouble, and she gets away with... show more
    My mother is a pathological liar. When I confront her, she denies it. My father believes her lies, too. In fact, I'm the only one who can tell when she's lying. I hate liars, and I can easily spot a liar. It's a gift and a curse. Since I'm the only one who knows that my mom is lying, I'm the one in trouble, and she gets away with her dishonesty. She hurts us with her lies. Her lies are causing a lot of problems in the family. I can't just ignore it and let her destroy us. Is there anything I can do? I'm alone on this. No one believes me. They side with her. When my brother and sister lived at home, they couldn't see it, either. My sister was more aware, but even she was deceived several times.
    1 answer · Family · 1 year ago
  • What kind of stories would these be?

    I'm writing short stories about the Seven Deadly Sins. All of the stories contain death as a result of each deadly sin. For example, Ethan's pride gets in the way of his judgement, and he ignores his own safety so he can win a car race, and he ends up losing control and crashing. Another example: Peter loves to eat, and his desire for... show more
    I'm writing short stories about the Seven Deadly Sins. All of the stories contain death as a result of each deadly sin. For example, Ethan's pride gets in the way of his judgement, and he ignores his own safety so he can win a car race, and he ends up losing control and crashing. Another example: Peter loves to eat, and his desire for food causes him to be impatient. He eats raw meat and ends up dying from food poison. These stories are not for children: They all include death, and one includes a lot of sexual themes (Lust.) What category/genre would these stories fall under?
    4 answers · Books & Authors · 1 year ago
  • How do you resist the urge to masturbate at night time?

    I'm a recovering masturbation addict. So far, I'm doing great. I can typically deal with the urges, and I haven't relapsed yet this time. (I attempted several times before and failed, but this is a record.) Cold showers, exercising, and find a hobby all help, but I can't do those things when I am trying to sleep. It's also... show more
    I'm a recovering masturbation addict. So far, I'm doing great. I can typically deal with the urges, and I haven't relapsed yet this time. (I attempted several times before and failed, but this is a record.) Cold showers, exercising, and find a hobby all help, but I can't do those things when I am trying to sleep. It's also hard to sleep when I'm horny. I try to keep my mind off of it, but it's not as easy as it sounds. No, having sex and just masturbating are not acceptable answers. First, I'm celibate. No sex. Second, I'm recovering from masturbation addiction. I can't risk just masturbating once. I thought I could, but I returned to my addiction. Any tips? I have nothing against sex. I'm just deciding to not have it. I'm not waiting for marriage. I don't want to get married. I'm not waiting for anything. I plan to remain a virgin my entire life. That's my personal choice.
    4 answers · Other - Society & Culture · 1 year ago
  • Is this a paradox, or is it solvable?

    There are two gods. One is the god of truth, who never lies. The other is the god of lies, who never tells the truth. One of them said "I am not the god of truth." Who said it? It's either the god of truth or the god of lies.
    There are two gods. One is the god of truth, who never lies. The other is the god of lies, who never tells the truth. One of them said "I am not the god of truth." Who said it? It's either the god of truth or the god of lies.
    4 answers · Jokes & Riddles · 1 year ago
  • Christians, how can eternal suffering exist?

    Romans 6:23. "For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord." Matthew 25:46 "Then they will go away to eternal punishment, but the righteous to eternal life." The first verse implies that the punishment is death. The second would be contradicting itself if everyone got eternal... show more
    Romans 6:23. "For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord." Matthew 25:46 "Then they will go away to eternal punishment, but the righteous to eternal life." The first verse implies that the punishment is death. The second would be contradicting itself if everyone got eternal life. Why would it say that the righteous gets eternal life if we all get eternal life? Revelations 20:14 "Then they will go away to eternal punishment, but the righteous to eternal life." That implies that even though they will rise, they will die once again. That means there isn't eternal suffering. If the suffering was eternal, they wouldn't die again. So, with that, why do you believe in eternal suffering? It doesn't say "Eternal life with God." It says "Eternal life."
    8 answers · Religion & Spirituality · 1 year ago
  • Why do some Atheists mock Christians for believing in God without proof when they believe in aliens?

    I'm obviously talking about the atheists who mock Christians for believing in God when there is no proof while also believing in aliens. If that doesn't apply to you, you're fine. I do not use my religion to hurt others. In fact, hurting others is against my religion. Should I be blamed because some people claim to be Christian when... show more
    I'm obviously talking about the atheists who mock Christians for believing in God when there is no proof while also believing in aliens. If that doesn't apply to you, you're fine. I do not use my religion to hurt others. In fact, hurting others is against my religion. Should I be blamed because some people claim to be Christian when they are doing the opposite of what Jesus wanted? No, I shouldn't. While my religion has been used to harm others, even though it shouldn't, I don't use it to harm others, therefore, I shouldn't be blamed. That means keep your "Christianity is the cause of many wars" to yourself. Christians are supposed to feed the hungry, help the homeless, and love one another. If a lot of them don't do that, it doesn't mean Christianity is about refusing to help others and hate. Now that I got that out of the way, why is it that when I cannot give you proof that God exists, you think I'm stupid for believing in God. At the same time, you can't prove aliens exist. I'm not saying aliens aren't real. The belief that aliens exist makes sense. The universe is big, and it wouldn't make any sense for life to only be on this one planet. To me, God existing makes sense. How could life exist without God? (I don't mean complex life, evolution is the answer, but life itself.) The first organism, how it was able to evolve into extremely complex organisms over time. How this tiny organism was able to survive long enough for it to even evolve in the first place.
    13 answers · Jokes & Riddles · 1 year ago
  • What should I expect in an Episcopal church?

    I have only been to two types of churches: Church of Christ and Methodist. Do all Episcopal churches allow casual clothes? The local one doesn t seem to specify attire. The website doesn t have much information on it. Websites for other churches say they allow casual clothes like shorts and jeans, though. I heard it s similar to Catholic Mass,... show more
    I have only been to two types of churches: Church of Christ and Methodist. Do all Episcopal churches allow casual clothes? The local one doesn t seem to specify attire. The website doesn t have much information on it. Websites for other churches say they allow casual clothes like shorts and jeans, though. I heard it s similar to Catholic Mass, but I have never been to one, either. There s a lot of sitting, standing, and kneeling. How do I know when to do which? How do I do the body language stuff? (crossing, bowing, kneeling, etc.) I tried looking at a website, but the pictures wouldn t load. What should I expect? Will they be OK if I mess up a lot on the first day?
    8 answers · Religion & Spirituality · 1 year ago
  • Am I a misogynist?

    For the most part, I support women rights. I think women should be treated equal to men. Women should have the same pay-rate, rights, and freedoms as men. Now, here's where I may be a misogynist. I'm pro-life. I'm against abortion except when it comes to rape or if the mother's life is at risk. My reason isn't to control women.... show more
    For the most part, I support women rights. I think women should be treated equal to men. Women should have the same pay-rate, rights, and freedoms as men. Now, here's where I may be a misogynist. I'm pro-life. I'm against abortion except when it comes to rape or if the mother's life is at risk. My reason isn't to control women. I don't see women as nothing but breeders. I just don't think it's right to kill someone because they're unwanted. No, I'm not against birth control. In fact, if you don't want children, you should use a condom at the very least. If you're having vaginal sex, I would recommend another form of birth control as well. Follow the directions when using birth control. The biggest factor in birth control not working is people not following the directions. If you live in a place where birth control is illegal, I'm still against abortion, but for a different reason. Most likely, abortion is illegal as well. That means abortion is VERY risky. Actually, if you live in a place where birth control is illegal, avoid vaginal sex or anal sex if the woman is facing down. (I include anal in that circumstance because sperm can leak from the anus and into the vagina.) Pulling out is not an effective method! For the most part, I'm for women's rights. Am I still a misogynist because I'm pro-life? I'm not pro-fetus. I'm pro-life. I don't think life is important until it's born. I think life is important inside and outside the womb.
    7 answers · Gender Studies · 2 years ago
  • What story does this sound like, if any?

    I'm going to be as general as possible. The story revolves around a character (gender not specified, but I'll use female pronouns since the story idea I have is centered around a female character.) who starts out as a dick. She's very disrespectful to the dead and is a jerk to people who lost a loved one. She mocks dead people and... show more
    I'm going to be as general as possible. The story revolves around a character (gender not specified, but I'll use female pronouns since the story idea I have is centered around a female character.) who starts out as a dick. She's very disrespectful to the dead and is a jerk to people who lost a loved one. She mocks dead people and those who lost someone. Her behavior led to the being in charge of the dead to be upset. He curses her with immortality. She loses people who were close to her over and over until she ends up not getting close to anyone. She attempted suicide, but no matter how sure she was that something would kill her, her body would always rebuild itself. She eventually realizes that she was a dick and works on changing her ways. She's more respectful to the dead and try to help people who are grieving. Finally, she is able to die. I don't want to just rewrite a story with different characters.
    1 answer · Books & Authors · 2 years ago
  • Would you rather life comfortably or free?

    Imagine there are two cities. One city has extremely strict laws, but as long as you obey the laws, you're safe and comfortable. You don't have to worry about hunger, the air is clean, you don't need to worry about anything as long as you obey the law. You have no freedom, but you are safe and comfortable. Another city is the... show more
    Imagine there are two cities. One city has extremely strict laws, but as long as you obey the laws, you're safe and comfortable. You don't have to worry about hunger, the air is clean, you don't need to worry about anything as long as you obey the law. You have no freedom, but you are safe and comfortable. Another city is the opposite. While there are laws, they are not strict at all. You have a lot more freedom. There is more crime here, though. The quality of life isn't that great. You have to work hard for food and shelter. You have freedom, but it's more uncomfortable. When I say free, I don't mean having things handed to you. I mean freedom. Your speech is restricted in the first example, you can't where what you want, have the job you want, or anything. If the government tells you to be a miner, you have to be a miner. In the second example, you can say the government sucks all you want and stay up late, work where you want, but you wouldn't feel near as safe.
    8 answers · Polls & Surveys · 2 years ago
  • How can I stop being so girly.?

    I like girly things like My Little Pony, Supernatural, Littlest Pet Shop, Harry Potter, butterflies, baking, and a lot of traditionally feminine things. My favorite color is purple. I don't have any interest in cars, sports, or violence. I know how to apply make-up for God's sake! I'm surprised I like girls. I am NOT a girl. I... show more
    I like girly things like My Little Pony, Supernatural, Littlest Pet Shop, Harry Potter, butterflies, baking, and a lot of traditionally feminine things. My favorite color is purple. I don't have any interest in cars, sports, or violence. I know how to apply make-up for God's sake! I'm surprised I like girls. I am NOT a girl. I don't identify as one, either. I am not a transgender woman. No one likes feminine men (Except for a few women who just want to use them and control them.) There is no girl who would be willing to be with a man who's feminine and dominant. I will never have sex anyways. Short, pale, tiny dick, no balls, a geek... I will die a virgin, and I accept that. I know I will never be attractive, and I accept that too. No matter how much I work out and groom myself, the fact that I can't grow disqualifies me from being attractive. I just hate being so feminine! How can I be a real man and stop acting like a fag? How can I enjoy sports, fighting, and cars rather than shows for girls or with high female audiences (My Little Pony is for girls, the other two, I'm not sure if they're for girls, but most fans are girls.) Don't say "Don't change" because if I want friends and for people to like me, I have to. No one likes men who act like women. When I say no one, I mean VERY few people.
    2 answers · Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered · 2 years ago
  • Why should I bother continue living?

    I have no reason to live. First, I'm sterile. I can't have children, so my existence does nothing for humanity. Second, I'm mentally ill and don't talk to people, so I have no impact on anyone's life. Third, since I'm extremely mentally ill, I can't work and won't contribute to society. In fact, I'm just a... show more
    I have no reason to live. First, I'm sterile. I can't have children, so my existence does nothing for humanity. Second, I'm mentally ill and don't talk to people, so I have no impact on anyone's life. Third, since I'm extremely mentally ill, I can't work and won't contribute to society. In fact, I'm just a burden to society. Sometimes I believe that life is worth living, but that's my schizophrenia talking. It's a delusion and nothing more. There is no reason for me to be alive. I don't contribute anything, and I am truly just a burden. I tried being optimistic, but what's the point of optimism if it's probably just a delusion. For those who ask if I believe in God, I do, but that's my schizophrenia talking. He's not real. Nothing is real. I'm probably in an asylum and not really using the internet. I don't know. For those who suggest therapy, they won't help. They never have. The voices tell me to keep living, but we all know you shouldn't listen to auditory hallucinations. If I could work, if I could change someone's life, or if I could reproduce, I have a reason to live. Since I can't do any of those, why should I continue?
    6 answers · Mental Health · 2 years ago
  • Atheists, if free will is an illusion, why do people believe in God?

    I know that many Atheists do believe in free will, despite it possibly contradicting science. (I said possibly!) Most people believe in a higher power, and even Neanderthals supposedly believed in a higher power as well. What do you think is the reason so many people believe in a higher power, whether it's God, Allah, Hindu gods, whatever?... show more
    I know that many Atheists do believe in free will, despite it possibly contradicting science. (I said possibly!) Most people believe in a higher power, and even Neanderthals supposedly believed in a higher power as well. What do you think is the reason so many people believe in a higher power, whether it's God, Allah, Hindu gods, whatever? If it's truly just a delusion.. a mental illness... then what would cause the majority of people to have this particular mental illness? I'm not discrediting atheism. I'm trying to know what Atheists who don't believe in free will think about the belief of God. I'm not saying murdering is OK because free will doesn't exist. Most people aren't murderers. That's different. If there's no reason to believe in God, why do you think some people are hardwired to believe? Atheists who do believe in free will would believe that people believe in God for other reasons while atheists who are ***** would say the do because they're stupid and uneducated. (I like to think most Atheists don't actually care what others belief as long as they aren't harming others.) I get that. If you're a theist who doesn't believe in free will, (I figured not only atheists are going to read this question) Why are there atheists? Why does your god/goddess/gods make people atheists? If free will is real, it would make sense. Some people believe in a higher power or higher powers, others don't. They may or may not have their reasons.
    15 answers · Religion & Spirituality · 2 years ago
  • How can I tell if a man is into men?

    Whether he's gay, bisexual, or pansexual, it really doesn't matter. Most men are straight, so if I just go up and flirt with a random attractive man, he's most likely going to be straight. Are there signs that a man is interested in men? I'm only 20 and live in a small town, so clubs and gay bars are out of the question. Bars in... show more
    Whether he's gay, bisexual, or pansexual, it really doesn't matter. Most men are straight, so if I just go up and flirt with a random attractive man, he's most likely going to be straight. Are there signs that a man is interested in men? I'm only 20 and live in a small town, so clubs and gay bars are out of the question. Bars in general are out of the question.
    2 answers · Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered · 2 years ago
  • Am I left handed or right handed?

    I write with my left hand. I eat with my left hand. I drink with my right hand. I pretend to hold a sword with my right hand. I hold my phone with my right hand. I throw and catch with my right hand. I kick with my right leg. My dominant eye is my right eye. I wave with my right hand. I use scissors with my right hand. When I put... show more
    I write with my left hand. I eat with my left hand. I drink with my right hand. I pretend to hold a sword with my right hand. I hold my phone with my right hand. I throw and catch with my right hand. I kick with my right leg. My dominant eye is my right eye. I wave with my right hand. I use scissors with my right hand. When I put my hands behind me and one hand grabs my wrist, it's my right hand. My left thumb is on top when I intertwine my fingers. So am I left handed or right handed?
    8 answers · Other - Science · 2 years ago