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  • I need an advice guys only?

    so basically,i knew a guy when I was 16 he pursued me a lot on social media but never initiated a conversation until we were 20.in between, it was quite hard and not the right time.now that I'm in London and he's in china for studies, we started texting a lot and he seemed really interested.was acting very flirty and sending a bunch of heart emojis.and then fast forward 3 months after he distanced himself so much.i have a feeling he took a break from me to analyse the situation and think about what he's doing.i thought that I would have never heard from him again.but 1 month after he contacted me and we started taking things very slowly.

    he stopped flirting so much and being very obvious about liking me.but he still keeps the conversation.the conversation is definitely more mature and he seems to be in better place in his life.he had uni issues and after that one month he spoke to me about the fact that he's changing uni and was very keen to share things with me.

    but I'm so confused by the sudden change in behaviour and we never send heart emojis anymore.and we do speak but the conversation is very much different but might be in a better way but not sure.

    what do u guys think about what's happening rn.is he leading me on and stringing me along?I know that my guard is up since he disappeared without saying anything.btw he's an Aquarius lol

    Singles & Dating2 months ago
  • I need an advice guys only?

    so basically,i knew a guy when I was 16 he pursued me a lot on social media but never initiated a conversation until we were 20.in between, it was quite hard and not the right time.now that I'm in London and he's in china for studies, we started texting a lot and he seemed really interested.was acting very flirty and sending a bunch of heart emojis.and then fast forward 3 months after he distanced himself so much.i have a feeling he took a break from me to analyse the situation and think about what he's doing.i thought that I would have never heard from him again.but 1 month after he contacted me and we started taking things very slowly.

    he stopped flirting so much and being very obvious about liking me.but he still keeps the conversation.the conversation is definitely more mature and he seems to be in better place in his life.he had uni issues and after that one month he spoke to me about the fact that he's changing uni and was very keen to share things with me.

    but I'm so confused by the sudden change in behaviour and we never send heart emojis anymore.and we do speak but the conversation is very much different but might be in a better way but not sure.

    what do u guys think about what's happening rn.is he leading me on and stringing me along?I know that my guard is up since he disappeared without saying anything.btw he's an Aquarius lol

    Singles & Dating3 months ago
  • I need an advice.guys only.?

    so basically,i knew a guy when I was 16 he pursued me a lot on social media but never initiated a conversation until we were 20.in between, it was quite hard and not the right time.now that I'm in London and he's in china for studies, we started texting a lot and he seemed really interested.was acting very flirty and sending a bunch of heart emojis.and then fast forward 3 months after he distanced himself so much.i have a feeling he took a break from me to analyse the situation and think about what he's doing.i thought that I would have never heard from him again.but 1 month after he contacted me and we started taking things very slowly.

    he stopped flirting so much and being very obvious about liking me.but he still keeps the conversation.the conversation is definitely more mature and he seems to be in better place in his life.he had uni issues and after that one month he spoke to me about the fact that he's changing uni and was very keen to share things with me.

    but I'm so confused by the sudden change in behaviour and we never send heart emojis anymore.and we do speak but the conversation is very much different but might be in a better way but not sure.

    what do u guys think about what's happening rn.is he leading me on and stringing me along?I know that my guard is up since he disappeared without saying anything.btw he's an Aquarius lol

    Singles & Dating3 months ago
  • I need an advice.guys only.?

    so basically,i knew a guy when I was 16 he pursued me a lot on social media but never initiated a conversation until we were 20.in between, it was quite hard and not the right time.now that I'm in London and he's in china for studies, we started texting a lot and he seemed really interested.was acting very flirty and sending a bunch of heart emojis.and then fast forward 3 months after he distanced himself so much.i have a feeling he took a break from me to analyse the situation and think about what he's doing.i thought that I would have never heard from him again.but 1 month after he contacted me and we started taking things very slowly.

    he stopped flirting so much and being very obvious about liking me.but he still keeps the conversation.the conversation is definitely more mature and he seems to be in better place in his life.he had uni issues and after that one month he spoke to me about the fact that he's changing uni and was very keen to share things with me.

    but I'm so confused by the sudden change in behaviour and we never send heart emojis anymore.and we do speak but the conversation is very much different but might be in a better way but not sure.

    what do u guys think about what's happening rn.is he leading me on and stringing me along?I know that my guard is up since he disappeared without saying anything.btw he's an Aquarius lol

    Singles & Dating3 months ago
  • I need some advice.mature ones?

    so basically,i knew a guy when I was 16 he pursued me a lot on social media but never initiated a conversation until we were 20.in between, it was quite hard and not the right time.now that I'm in London and he's in china for studies, we started texting a lot and he seemed really interested.was acting very flirty and sending a bunch of heart emojis.and then fast forward 3 months after he distanced himself so much.i have a feeling he took a break from me to analyse the situation and think about what he's doing.i thought that I would have never heard from him again.but 1 month after he contacted me and we started taking things very slowly.

    he stopped flirting so much and being very obvious about liking me.but he still keeps the conversation.the conversation is definitely more mature and he seems to be in better place in his life.he had uni issues and after that one month he spoke to me about the fact that he's changing uni and was very keen to share things with me.

    but I'm so confused by the sudden change in behaviour and we never send heart emojis anymore.and we do speak but the conversation is very much different but might be in a better way but not sure.

    what do u guys think about what's happening rn.is he leading me on and stringing me along?I know that my guard is up since he disappeared without saying anything.btw he's an Aquarius lol

    Singles & Dating3 months ago
  • What does this mean?im so confused?

    So ive been talking to this guy for 3 months now..we knew each other 4 years ago but we never really spoke.he texted me one day and now we've been talking for 3 months..he told me about his exes and a best friend of his who was in love with him but he had no feelings for her. So he ended up breaking up with her.he is single for 2 years now however he still likes his best friend’s photos on instagram. I know the guy likes me cause for new year he ended up sending my happy new year with thousands of hearts 10 minutes after midnight. He sent a bunch of hearts that night.however, he stopped liking her pics but today he liked one of her pics which had some of his old friends in it too. But did not respond to my text. Does he like her or am i overthinking?we texts a lot and he hasnt replied to my text and its been 5 hours now.i honestly dont want to get hurt!! 

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating7 months ago
  • Just give me your opinion about this and i dont have great relationshio experience so dont know what to think..?

    So i’ve been talking to this guy for 2 months and a half and we like each other and chat consistently.i know him ages ago but we never really spoke before.i really like him but we are still getting to know each other. We only texted for  2 months but never talked or video called. We are taking things slow. At the same time i dont know if we will actually last or meet one day. We have a lot going on in our lives right now and we are not ready for a relationship or handle one right now. We are both freshers and he’s in china and im in uk.i know he’s a great guy but im unsure. Ive never met him or dont know how he actually is.i just want some advice and i like this guy a lot and i know he does too but our situation right now is making it hard for us to actually get to know each other a lot or be in a relationship. We do get along but i dont know if he honestly take me for granted. Ive been talking to him for nearly 3 months now and i still fear to lose him. We both know we like each other but we dont wanna show it. We act like things are just friends between us but we know we like each other. Its weird , ive never had a feeling like this for a guy before nor spike to someone like this before.i just want to know from your experience if i’m doing the right or wrong thing by keeping my hopes up that we’ll date one date?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 months ago
  • my guy friend hasn't texted me for 6 days.why is that so? guys help please?

    So i just started talking to a guy who was in my class for 4 years and we never actually spoke. 2 years ago he added me on facebook and likes all my pics and views all of my insta stories.i know he really wants to be friends first and date me! I just feel it. Last week we started talking and we texted for like 2 whole days. I was the one to initiate the conversation first and now i’m not texting again and wants him to text me first. I cant always be the one texting , i dont know if he likes it or not but when i do text he clearly response and keeps texting until its its really late in his country. Btw we are off to college and there is a 7 hr difference between uk and china. Yesterday i posted a story on insta, he did view it but did not text.its been 6 days he did not send a text.

    Why is that so?

    I dont want to force things on him but i dont get it!

    Why does he act sooo interested when we texted but now he isnt sending a single text! the first time we texted we were so into each other, he even sent a red heart emoji when he said goodnight. the next day I texted him and we spoke for a whole day.he told me had to go to sleep since it was 4 am at his place.after that he never texted and sent a single text.i did not send me either because I don't know if he's interested or not.i texted him first and can't be the only one doing it.he views all of my stories on insta.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating10 months ago
  • Why will my ex post a meme about “i”ll upload an ex photo” and then delete the post after 15 mins?

    And he is dating his ex the one before me. Its been 7 months since we broke up but i find it disgusting he is still posting stuffs like this.i laugh as why would he delete the post? Lol

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating12 months ago
  • Why would he send me a message just like that?

    Yes my bf and i we ended on bad terms. He went back to his ex,tried to show off but i dont even care.blocked me on whatsapp , i did not even care,and now after 4 months he texts me “there’s lots of music at your place’ .btw we are neighbours. I replied very uninterested. Why would he try to send me a message if he’s in a relationship, and he already introduced her to some of his family members.the girl is very over friendly . She adds everyone on facebook.he texted 4 times since our break up . Why?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating1 year ago
  • Why is my brother’s girlfriend like this?

    She never likes her own bf’s pic but is loving mine and other family members. He asked me about this, this morning but im unable to reply. She literally adds all my family members and all of his friends , she likes all of their pics but never my bf’s. Its so weird. They broke up 5 months ago , my brother was in a rebound with an amazing girl but the girl dumped him and i understand. He does drugs and can barely keep a job.he is 34 and always like to be with friends and bad influence. She was smart for doing that. But when then after his relationship failed he went back to his ex. I woudnt say ut was a rebound as he really wanted a future with her. The girl is so smart, rich as heck but knows her worth.so his ex took him back and befriends everyone and wants to be the limelight . She wants everyone to get to know her. When ahe came to find out that he qas fating this awesome girl , she was like a leech trying to get him back. My brother doesnt even love her to death for them to be together and im honestly surprised why they stay together. What do i tell him?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating1 year ago
  • Whats your opinion on my ex?

    He is 24, was rusticated from about 3 schools because of his drug use.did a levels at 24 and failed his exams. Is always at home and can barely keep a job. He is very manipulative and does not even have good manners.we once went on our first date and he made me wait 45 minutes before taking the bus. Literally looked at a disabled boy awkwardly and it made my heart sink.i acted as if it was nothing just to see his behaviour. He literally ws telling me to speak english with the waitress and acted foreigners which was weird and made me so uncomfortable. I still did not say anything because it was pur first date .bare in mind my native language is french. He was walking like a gangster and those doing drugs. He once overdosed before dating me and lied to me about it. He smoked weed and lied to me about it and was just over his one year relationship and went back to her after i broke up with him. I completely removed him from my life after the break up.blocked him from social media and just eliminated him.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating1 year ago
  • I need some nice advice and some good mature words.i really need someone’s support right now?

    I know i ignored everyone with my questions but today i actually accepted the fact that my bf is not the right person for me. Even though i was the one who broke up with him ,i still had some hopes that he might change and we might get back together. I waited for 5 months for him to change, to actually be someone responsible at the age of 24 and someone whom i might have an actual mature conversation with.but no he is worst. He went back to his ex , was posting pictures with her and still did not block me on whatsapp for me to see, still does drugs and left his job. He knew it would be hard for me to get over him.he had some great times together and some amazing late night convos. But its been 5 month and today he deleted my number.i know cause i still had some hopes and this morning checked his profile pic. And today at night i was blocked. He deleted my number today and i hit hard. I did not realise how i was keeping hope despite ignoring it the whole time.it sucks when you love someone but he is not what you expected. Today i relised that we are actually over and he might never change.i know its wrong to stalk an ex but its my heart. I really need some nice advice. Im not in a good mood and its hard now that its all real.he was never real about our relationship but kept leading me on; he just got out of a yr of relationship , overdosed and lied to me, smoked weed an lied, called me crazy and immature for breaking up and still i was so nice.

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating1 year ago
  • What does his behaviour indicate?

    So when i broke up with my boyfriend because i was just done.he started lying about his overdose drug use, his weed use and his friends were just bad influence. If i dont talkto him for a day, he is out, he needs constant attention to be able to maintain a relationship with him, everything is just about him. He is 24, does not have a job, and talks about his life goals about being a pilot but is already 4months and he is still not in his course for pilot. I dont know if he is acting too good too be true. I know he constantly thinks of his ex and he is the kind of guy who always needs attention. He is so insecure that he barely have a good relation with his family. At start he is the amazing guy, but know while getting to know him he is not like i thought.so i just could not and broke up.he was like okay no problem. And thats it. Seemed as if its not a big deal for him.i even asked hm if he could work things out instead of breaking up and he was like no its your choice. He lied so much that i could not even talk to him about me his habits ,that im not appreciating.and one day after the break up be was acting so clingy and manipulative. He simply was so impulsive with his question that it made me uncomfortable. He called me once and i did not pick up as i just needed time. A lot was going on in my mind and i sinoly told him that im really tired and call me tomorrow. He never called again and was so egoistic about it and simply texted me and treated me as ceazy and immature

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating1 year ago
  • How its like to live in a city university?

    Im going to university in london and its not a campus uni. Im quite sad about ut because people quite critise city universities because it does not have any campus.is it that bad? And im going to a top business school which is cass business school.

  • So im a doing a degree in acc and finance? What job can i do?

    So im doing acc and finace as my degree. However, later in life i wish to do a job that relates to clients and interacting with people. What job is appropriate?

    1 AnswerOther - Education1 year ago
  • Why do some guys end up having a grudge against me?

    So im quite a friendly person, very respectful and very noce to guys. Its because my personality is like this. A lot of guys end up having a crush on me and starts asking for my number . But im not the type to play around. I want only long term relationship and want to date a guy i really like.but at some point while being kind to a guy, they tend to start liking me. And at some point im very reserved when it comes to dating.they might ask for my number , but instead of leading them and playing around, im very clear about being only friend on facebook and in real life. When it reaches that point of me not wanting to date them, they end up either hating me , ignoring me all of a sudden and simply is rude to me. Im dont give my number easily. So when i refuse , they start being rough and very rude about it. Why?

    Is there a problem about me?

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating1 year ago
  • Why do some guys end up having a grudge against me?

    So im quite a friendly person, very respectful and very noce to guys. Its because my personality is like this. A lot of guys end up having a crush on me and starts asking for my number . But im not the type to play around. I want only long term relationship and want to date a guy i really like.but at some point while being kind to a guy, they tend to start liking me. And at some point im very reserved when it comes to dating.they might ask for my number , but instead of leading them and playing around, im very clear about being only friend on facebook and in real life. When it reaches that point of me not wanting to date them, they end up either hating me , ignoring me all of a sudden and simply is rude to me. Im dont give my number easily. So when i refuse , they start being rough and very rude about it. Why?

    Is there a problem about me?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating1 year ago
  • my best friend is in a relationship but I find it unhealthy .so I really want to help her and whats your opinion on the situation?

    so my best friend allowed her ex back into her life after dumping him.however, fast forward its been 5 month now since they got back together and I've realised that the guy would never add her back on insta or facebook unless she would do it.lately I've noticed that they unfollowed each other on insta however they are still dating . he is however following following other girls on insta.in addition, my best friend's cousin is quite friendly and familiar to him however, while adding her on insta after she requested him he simply allowed her to follow her but does not have any interest in following her back.what's his problem?

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating1 year ago