• Alpha males and alpha females;Am I a tomsissy because of this?

    I would cry in the classroom and my teachers supported me and never invalidated me, i also had the chance to express anger/aggression. I was basically raised bigenderly because girls are taught to repress their rage and boys are taught to repress their crying(none of them happened to me as a child). And I'm not trying to brag cuz I'm pretty... show more
    I would cry in the classroom and my teachers supported me and never invalidated me, i also had the chance to express anger/aggression. I was basically raised bigenderly because girls are taught to repress their rage and boys are taught to repress their crying(none of them happened to me as a child). And I'm not trying to brag cuz I'm pretty sure there other men and women who had the chance to express both:grief and anger (as children). Hence, I wouldn't be who I am today?
    3 answers · Gender Studies · 4 days ago
  • Is it good that I have empathy for self proclaimed alpha males and kinda understand why they do the things that they do?

    I mean I understand, I just have no other option other than understanding them with a hint of sympathy instead of cringing. They say"let the child live his superman fantasy".
    I mean I understand, I just have no other option other than understanding them with a hint of sympathy instead of cringing. They say"let the child live his superman fantasy".
    2 answers · Gender Studies · 4 days ago
  • Are feminists going to stop trying to justify their hatred for boys with the claim that boys are bullies?

    When I was in elementary school I was mostly bullied by verbal female bullies and you know who white knighted me from them?a male antisocial, he was the most sociopathic guy on the school and yet he defended me, even when the female bullies tried to question his masculinity by calling him gay.
    When I was in elementary school I was mostly bullied by verbal female bullies and you know who white knighted me from them?a male antisocial, he was the most sociopathic guy on the school and yet he defended me, even when the female bullies tried to question his masculinity by calling him gay.
    3 answers · Gender Studies · 4 days ago
  • What's with some self identified straight guys giving me dirty looks?

    There's this self identified straight guy on college, he's friends with so many gays and some of them even like me, however he gives me anger/resentful stares at me and whenever he looks at me I stare away so he doesn't get angrier. Shouldn't he be staring at me with friendliness since many of his gay male friends like me?i... show more
    There's this self identified straight guy on college, he's friends with so many gays and some of them even like me, however he gives me anger/resentful stares at me and whenever he looks at me I stare away so he doesn't get angrier. Shouldn't he be staring at me with friendliness since many of his gay male friends like me?i don't get it. I'm not gonna generalize straight guys but I have seen much more self identified straight men/guys doing this, they even flirt with gay guys especially when they know those gay guys like me. Who knows, maybe they're just gay due to the fact that they're so concerned with gay stuff most of their goddam time.
    2 answers · Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered · 5 days ago
  • How do I deal with this guy?

    I'm a college student, when I'm free I tend to sit closer to the museum. As a surprised I saw this big tall soldier staring at me weirdly, by that time I wasn't that much suspicious but when days later I went to the library to a table he set in the same table as me spreading his legs as it If was in his home(again creeping me out). And... show more
    I'm a college student, when I'm free I tend to sit closer to the museum. As a surprised I saw this big tall soldier staring at me weirdly, by that time I wasn't that much suspicious but when days later I went to the library to a table he set in the same table as me spreading his legs as it If was in his home(again creeping me out). And the most creepiest act he did, I was eating on the college's launch room and he came to me saying"hey, what up, are you going to greet or do you lack manners", then I had to hold hands to be polite but that was still creepy because he was expecting me to pay him attention. I also fear he might hack me as well since he's a soldier and you know soldiers are taught in their military schools how to hack. Not gonna lie, he's very handsome and charming,funny,etc but falling for a soldier isn't my thing because they'll most likely die in the army and god forbid, why should I engage to a guy who's going to risk himself in a war????I would have no problem with a cadet, but a soldier?sorry but c'mon.
    5 answers · Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered · 6 days ago
  • Why do some people try to rationalize their entitlement with a victim complex?

    Example, a self proclaimed alpha guy telling how he deserves the praise and the title (because of how tough he had it as a child with a father repressing his feelings,ect) expecting me to feel bad for him(yeah, look at how guilty i feel https://gfycat.com/gifs/detail/reasonableunknowngrassspider). Thats just an example. And if was the case then dont... show more
    Example, a self proclaimed alpha guy telling how he deserves the praise and the title (because of how tough he had it as a child with a father repressing his feelings,ect) expecting me to feel bad for him(yeah, look at how guilty i feel https://gfycat.com/gifs/detail/reasonabl... Thats just an example. And if was the case then dont come near me. I know it would suck to be born in a very uncomfortable environment, but dont expect me to feel bad because thats just tiresome.
    2 answers · Psychology · 1 week ago
  • Why do some people try to stick their agenda by talking and revealing personal information behind others backs?

    If I want to destroy someone I would do it face to face. Anyone who takes the easiest play is the weakest.
    If I want to destroy someone I would do it face to face. Anyone who takes the easiest play is the weakest.
    3 answers · Polls & Surveys · 1 week ago
  • Is this name fancy?

    I'm just thinking about changing my name from Jakiss to Ogreh.
    I'm just thinking about changing my name from Jakiss to Ogreh.
    5 answers · Polls & Surveys · 1 week ago
  • What are the things that you find to be so cowardly?

    I personally think it is cowardly to pick on someone's perceived insecurity, especially physically or mentally. Have I done that? yes of course let's not take that for granted. And what comes is shame, that's why I find it unnecessary and very weak. Just imagine an autistic person being mean towards a normal person and the normal people... show more
    I personally think it is cowardly to pick on someone's perceived insecurity, especially physically or mentally. Have I done that? yes of course let's not take that for granted. And what comes is shame, that's why I find it unnecessary and very weak. Just imagine an autistic person being mean towards a normal person and the normal people picking on his condition, the normal person is a total coward because he's taking the easiest play, I mean?what are you going to do if the ahole wasn't autistic?
    5 answers · Polls & Surveys · 2 weeks ago
  • Is there a gay specific BDSM app for iPhone?

    I haven't found one, I'm about to become again an SJW fighting BDSM heterosexism if I don't find one.
    I haven't found one, I'm about to become again an SJW fighting BDSM heterosexism if I don't find one.
    3 answers · Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered · 2 weeks ago
  • What type of make up do you wear?

    I have adapted to buy and wear make up. My mother and her boyfriend has no problem with it. 2 days ago I buy facial female perfume, powder and liquid along with a creamy stick and god forbid, it looked perfect.
    I have adapted to buy and wear make up. My mother and her boyfriend has no problem with it. 2 days ago I buy facial female perfume, powder and liquid along with a creamy stick and god forbid, it looked perfect.
    3 answers · Makeup · 2 weeks ago
  • Is an ambivalent attachment style typical for PDDs(pervasive developmental disordered people's)?

    Being prone oppositional defiant behavior,clingy with adults and having superficial attachments for food and personal gain was my thing ever since a toddler. I never had history of chronic trauma, so I guess my behavior might be more of a result of my pdd. I'm just guessing, anyone who has done research correct me?eh
    Being prone oppositional defiant behavior,clingy with adults and having superficial attachments for food and personal gain was my thing ever since a toddler. I never had history of chronic trauma, so I guess my behavior might be more of a result of my pdd. I'm just guessing, anyone who has done research correct me?eh
    1 answer · Psychology · 2 weeks ago
  • Why are gay men more powerful than closet cases?

    Because we ARE kings, duh ;-p.
    Because we ARE kings, duh ;-p.
    3 answers · Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered · 2 weeks ago
  • What do you have to say about this topic?

    Overconfident people are perceived to be delusional because they have a strong belief in themselves. You know how you distinguish an delusional overconfident from a non delusional overconfident? A delusional overconfident will remain overconfident even when provide with evidence that they're not competent. A non delusional overconfident person... show more
    Overconfident people are perceived to be delusional because they have a strong belief in themselves. You know how you distinguish an delusional overconfident from a non delusional overconfident? A delusional overconfident will remain overconfident even when provide with evidence that they're not competent. A non delusional overconfident person will stop being confident when provide with evidence(all external). I'm very overconfident at times and even though I can sustain my overconfidence, an evidence of the opposite can make me under confident. It is not so delusional(call it microdelusion if you want). Just a philosophical perspective πŸ€“.
    1 answer · Polls & Surveys · 2 weeks ago
  • What's the word when a person puts on double masks?

    Like for example, a person telling truth but with a sarcastic manner or tone to make it seem like they're not exposing themselves. Or even worse, when they put on a triple mask by lying then telling the truth and then lying, just to confuse people. Because you know, these behaviors are done with the goal to confuse peoples. πŸ‘ΏπŸ‘ΏπŸ‘ΏπŸ‘ΏπŸ‘ΏπŸ‘ΏπŸ‘ΏπŸ‘ΏπŸ‘ΏπŸ‘ΏπŸ‘Ώ
    Like for example, a person telling truth but with a sarcastic manner or tone to make it seem like they're not exposing themselves. Or even worse, when they put on a triple mask by lying then telling the truth and then lying, just to confuse people. Because you know, these behaviors are done with the goal to confuse peoples. πŸ‘ΏπŸ‘ΏπŸ‘ΏπŸ‘ΏπŸ‘ΏπŸ‘ΏπŸ‘ΏπŸ‘ΏπŸ‘ΏπŸ‘ΏπŸ‘Ώ
    2 answers · Psychology · 2 weeks ago