met him in May and we began talking otp regularly. I told him my intentions were to just date casually b/c I was fresh out of a 4 year emotionally & physically abusive relationship and wish to remain single until I finish college this spring so I’ll have no distractions. He seemed to have understand, but we still did couple things, such as talk/text all day, dates, sleepovers, etc.
Honestly, if he was the type of guy I felt comfortable with, I maybe would’ve took a chance. He’s 26, (I’m 22).. he has two babies with two women, and a “stalker ex-girlfriend”
He spent months trying to convince me to be in a relationship,.. took me on nice dates, spent a great amount of time with me but I just didn’t trust him yet. he didn’t even know my real name for months and haven’t been invited to my home until a few weeks ago. I told him to keep things strictly sexual, but he insisted on being more than that.
One day while hanging out, we were having a great time until he told me that he loved me, just when I was about to respond, his “stalker ex” came over banging on the door and throwing rocks at his window, screaming and calling him numerous times. This type of drama turns me off and makes me run away
Since then he’s changed his #, but whenever I see him there’s still a mysterious # calling him 20x in a row. He’s been steady asking for a relationship and I keep denying because I don’t feel comfortable yet. Last night on IG, I see that he went out with the “stalker ex”