• Can I get a refund for a medical Pre-tax deduction if I’m going to part time and no longer eligible for insurance ?

    So i started my job in October and I signed up for medical insurance, I recently just dropped down to part time which will take effect on 2/18 but my medical pre tax was deducted from my wages on 2/9 is their any way I can get a refund seeing as I won’t be getting the insurance
    So i started my job in October and I signed up for medical insurance, I recently just dropped down to part time which will take effect on 2/18 but my medical pre tax was deducted from my wages on 2/9 is their any way I can get a refund seeing as I won’t be getting the insurance
    7 answers · Insurance · 8 months ago
  • Trying to introduce using the potty to my 20 month old need Potty training tips?

    So I first introduced the pot to my daughter at about 18 months only because she kept pulling off her diapers and urinating on the floor. So I bought a pot and I’ll take her in the bathroom when I go. She’ll sit there for 5-10 minutes and won’t do anything and as soon as I put a diaper on she goes. It’s not at the point where she takes off wet... show more
    So I first introduced the pot to my daughter at about 18 months only because she kept pulling off her diapers and urinating on the floor. So I bought a pot and I’ll take her in the bathroom when I go. She’ll sit there for 5-10 minutes and won’t do anything and as soon as I put a diaper on she goes. It’s not at the point where she takes off wet diapers so I’m assuming she doesn’t like to be wet. So i bought underwear and I’ll put them on when we’re at home and I’ll do the same thing put her on the pot and she does the same thing won’t go and than go inside the underwear. I’m at a standstill and don’t really know what else to do I’m not rushing her or forcing but to me she’s hinting she’s ready but I don’t know what else to do. Anyone have any advice or tips I would appreciate it.
    4 answers · Newborn & Baby · 10 months ago
  • My daughter won't play with other kids at daycare, is something wrong ? Is their anything I can do ?

    So my 17 month old daughter just started going to daycare a week ago. For the first almost year and a half she was being watched by a relative so she's never really been around other kids only me (her mom) now she cries when I drop her offf which I expected but they told me she kind of does it all day, wants to be held all the time. Also I... show more
    So my 17 month old daughter just started going to daycare a week ago. For the first almost year and a half she was being watched by a relative so she's never really been around other kids only me (her mom) now she cries when I drop her offf which I expected but they told me she kind of does it all day, wants to be held all the time. Also I noticed when I pick her up she's just kinda standing there while all the other children are playing with one another. Is this something that will change once she gets comfortable or is there something else possibly wrong. I'm a first time mom so I don't really know what to expect or do about these kind of things
    7 answers · Toddler & Preschooler · 1 year ago
  • Still involved with Ex-boyfriend who's married, and I'm trying to stop Help! What do I do ?

    So me and my ex were together six years and we have a 2 year old son together. We were having problems in our relationship so he started talking to his now wife in January and we broke up the next month 2 months later he's telling me he's getting married I was hurt, sad, and confused because I never expected that. We stopped all sexual... show more
    So me and my ex were together six years and we have a 2 year old son together. We were having problems in our relationship so he started talking to his now wife in January and we broke up the next month 2 months later he's telling me he's getting married I was hurt, sad, and confused because I never expected that. We stopped all sexual relations until the night before his wedding I gave in and I felt Like ****. I was going good only communicating about our daughter until the other day he called and I gave in again. I feel like trash even though she was sleeping with him while we were together I don't wanna hurt her but he won't go away and I still love him so I give in so easy but I don't wanna do this
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 year ago
  • Ex-Boyfriends wife doesn't wanna be bothered with his kids, should I be mad ?

    So me and my ex of 6 years split 5 months ago in that time he met someone and got married. Now she herself has 5 children ranging from ages 20 to 6. My child's father has 3 children by 3 different woman ages 10, 3, and 1 he only gets the 1 and 3 year old because they live in the area. He'll come and get the a day or 2 out of the month only... show more
    So me and my ex of 6 years split 5 months ago in that time he met someone and got married. Now she herself has 5 children ranging from ages 20 to 6. My child's father has 3 children by 3 different woman ages 10, 3, and 1 he only gets the 1 and 3 year old because they live in the area. He'll come and get the a day or 2 out of the month only because he says his wife doesn't wanna be bothered with any kids. Too me that bullshit you knew he had 3 young children when you married him so you also took them in as well. I'm getting to the point where I wanna say **** that an never let my daughter go back over there again and I can't believe he's cool with that. In my eyes if you can be bothered with my children than I can't be bothered with you. Am I wrong ?, should I be angry ? I just can't for the life of me understand this
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 1 year ago
  • I'm struggling to move on and let go, what do I do ?

    So I was with my Ex for 6 years, and we have a 13 month old daughter together. We were having a lot of financial issues mainly due to him not wanting to work and not wanting to pay bills which in turn caused arguments. So he decides to go seek comfort in another woman (which he says my complaining led him too) he was seeing her behind my back for a... show more
    So I was with my Ex for 6 years, and we have a 13 month old daughter together. We were having a lot of financial issues mainly due to him not wanting to work and not wanting to pay bills which in turn caused arguments. So he decides to go seek comfort in another woman (which he says my complaining led him too) he was seeing her behind my back for a month before I found out out of nowhere he's coming up with all these excuses as to why we can't be together when just a week before that he made all these promises on how he was gonna change. He tells me he just wants to be single and work on himself. 2 weeks after we broke up he's in a relationship with her HOW ? After that I was crushed, angry a month later I found out she tattooed his name on her than 2 months after our break up he's telling me he's engaged to her. My ex officially got married 3 months after we broke up. How could he do this to me I don't know how to feel, I don't know where to go from here, I'm trying to stay strong and focus on my daughter but I'm miserable and I have to see him everyday because we live in the same area. How can I completely move on when I can't completely remove him from my life
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 year ago
  • How to get over being heartbroken ?

    Me and my child's father broke up 3 months ago and in that time frame he's found a new gf and now their getting married. My mind is so ****** up right now I haven't had time to get over the break up now I have to deal with him getting married. I gave him 6 years of my life that I can never get back. Some days I'm fine other days... show more
    Me and my child's father broke up 3 months ago and in that time frame he's found a new gf and now their getting married. My mind is so ****** up right now I haven't had time to get over the break up now I have to deal with him getting married. I gave him 6 years of my life that I can never get back. Some days I'm fine other days I'm so sad and depressed. I can't wrap my mind around how someone I was with for 6 years and been through so much with can up and leave me and our child and not give one Care in the world about it. I don't want to be sad I don't want a guy that's happy with someone else to cause me to be unhappy. I've tried everything writing, long walks, venting to friends, but it's seems as though I'm losing my my mind. Anyone been here before and got through I know it takes time but I don't wanna feel like this anymore
    9 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 years ago
  • Should I take my child's father to child support ?

    So me and my child's father ended things a month ago he told me we weren't working out and he wasn't happy but I later found out he's messing with another girl who has 5 children we had just moved into a new apartment which by myself I can't afford he told me he would still give me money but I've been asking for 2 weeks and... show more
    So me and my child's father ended things a month ago he told me we weren't working out and he wasn't happy but I later found out he's messing with another girl who has 5 children we had just moved into a new apartment which by myself I can't afford he told me he would still give me money but I've been asking for 2 weeks and haven't gotten it. Now I have to somehow get out my lease to get me and my daughter something I can afford. He doesn't work he just rides around all day in her car, and she's buying him shoes, phones whatever he wants but he's not thinking of his daughter at all he didn't even wanna buy her pampers. I'm hurt because he doesn't care if his child becomes homeless or doesn't have the necessities she needs he needs to grow up he's 29 years old and does nothing. He ignores my texts and calls because he knows I'm asking about the rent money it hurts because I did so much for him but also because it's like he saying **** my daughter we've been together 6 years. I don't care what he does to me but it becomes personal when it's my child half of me wants to put him on child support the other half wants to come him out completely. I'm trying to give him a chance but I don't know what else to do HELP
    6 answers · Family · 2 years ago
  • How do you move on and deal with being left for someone else ?

    So my Ex-boyfriend/baby's father were dating for 7 months but we've been messing around for 6 years. We argued and fought a lot because of him being financially irresponsible and not wanting to help around the house or with our daughter and old girls calling and textin him. I've always believed he could fix those things that's why I... show more
    So my Ex-boyfriend/baby's father were dating for 7 months but we've been messing around for 6 years. We argued and fought a lot because of him being financially irresponsible and not wanting to help around the house or with our daughter and old girls calling and textin him. I've always believed he could fix those things that's why I never gave up on our relationship and was so hard on him. About a month ago he was always going by his moms house and it was not normal to me so I asked him was there a woman that he's seeing his said no. Then I seen in his phone he was talking to another female but he blamed it on my complaining he says I drove him to someone else. We than discussed we would fix things but than a week later he tell me he's unhappy and we're not working out which I don't understand I should be the one stressed and unhappy because I had to carry all the weight. The next day after breaking up with me he's with the girl that was textin his phone i was crushed my heart feels like it's been ripped out of my chest. So he moved in with her and her 5 kids and left me and my daughter now I have to find a different apartment because I can't afford the one I'm in alone. How could he do this to me I've always had his back when friends and family said I shouldn't. I'm trying to be strong but it's tearing me down. I need help advice anything to get me through Anyone been here before
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • Ever felt like you were never gonna move on from ex but you did ? And how?

    So my ex-boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago he just all of a sudden claims he was unhappy, but I knew there was something to that the next day I found out he was with another girl. It devastated me because I was nothing but good to him, we also have a 9 month old daughter. We had just moved into a new apartment and I had been out of work for... show more
    So my ex-boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago he just all of a sudden claims he was unhappy, but I knew there was something to that the next day I found out he was with another girl. It devastated me because I was nothing but good to him, we also have a 9 month old daughter. We had just moved into a new apartment and I had been out of work for health issues I feel like **** he's abandoned me and my daughter and now I have to give up my apartment because I can't afford to pay he's moved in with her and her 4 children and basically said F**k me and my kid. I can't believe he's done this it's been 6 years how can he just leave me for another woman now he's acting like he's so happy and he doesn't care about me. How can you let go of the only guy you've known for 6 years. I haven't eaten properly, slept and just all around depressed. Anybody ever been here before and felt like me but got through this I really don't wanna let him go but I know I have too but don't know how.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • How to handle being dumped/heartbroken, ways to move on?

    So my ex whom I was dating for 6 1/2 months but been involved with for 6 years broke up with me a week ago. He s immediately moved out and started staying with another girl he s been lying about he was talking too. He blames me and said my complaining led him too another woman. He is someone who never sees his faults to him he does nothing wrong in... show more
    So my ex whom I was dating for 6 1/2 months but been involved with for 6 years broke up with me a week ago. He s immediately moved out and started staying with another girl he s been lying about he was talking too. He blames me and said my complaining led him too another woman. He is someone who never sees his faults to him he does nothing wrong in the relationship he says he so stressed and it wasn t working. He was the one lying and textin other girls so how is he stressed. We also have a 9 month old daughter and I m hurt because he just basically said forget us and left me to figure out how to pay for my apartment and other bills on my own while he s with this new girl whom knew about me. I don t know where to go I ve been involved with him for 6 years how could he just let that go HELP I NEED ADVICE
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • I need help to fix my relationship?

    So me and my boyfriend have been together 5 1/2 months but we've been messing around for almost 6 years recently he's told me he's not happy he says I complain and nag too much and I'm always going through his phone and accusing him of cheating recently I did go through his phone and he was talking to a girl he says he's only... show more
    So me and my boyfriend have been together 5 1/2 months but we've been messing around for almost 6 years recently he's told me he's not happy he says I complain and nag too much and I'm always going through his phone and accusing him of cheating recently I did go through his phone and he was talking to a girl he says he's only done it because of me. I'll admit I do complain and nag a lot but he never tries to understand why he doesn't do anything I ask than he never spends time with me only when he comes home at night he wants to other than that he's gone all day. I want to make him happy but I don't know how to stop nagging and complaining I need some advice on what to do to fix things
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • Is it time to move on ?

    So me and boyfriend have been messing around for 5 years and in a relationship for 5 months we have a baby together and another one on the way as we also live together. There this girl who is 19 years old almost 10 years younger than us and he was messing with her before we got in a relationship but he promised once we got together it would stop... show more
    So me and boyfriend have been messing around for 5 years and in a relationship for 5 months we have a baby together and another one on the way as we also live together. There this girl who is 19 years old almost 10 years younger than us and he was messing with her before we got in a relationship but he promised once we got together it would stop well it didn't he cheated with her and he begged for my forgiveness and took him back I told him to tell her stop calling he did but he told her it was because I made him do it I'm just tired of repeating myself and telling him to stop communicating with her it's getting old and I just don't know wat to do anymore
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • How to move on from someone I'm having a child with ?

    So my baby's father just got into a new relationship and I'm 5 months pregnant with his child. We were still messing around just up until a couple of days ago and I did something I shouldn't have now he's not talking to me. I've been crying and depressed ever since I can't eat, sleep and I don't want it to effect my baby.... show more
    So my baby's father just got into a new relationship and I'm 5 months pregnant with his child. We were still messing around just up until a couple of days ago and I did something I shouldn't have now he's not talking to me. I've been crying and depressed ever since I can't eat, sleep and I don't want it to effect my baby. I've been trying to reach out but he doesn't wanna talk to me because he doesn't wanna ruin his relationship. I just feel that if I weren't pregnant it would be easier to move on but I can't so I need help on what to do.
    3 answers · Pregnancy · 3 years ago
  • Started bleeding (lasted for 10 minutes) not enough to fill a panty liner went to ER cervix still closed WHATS WRONG 8 weeks 4 days pregnant?

    I'm about 8 weeks 5 days (according to last period) but 8 weeks 4 days (according to ultrasound) yesterday night I took a bath and when I got out I laid in my bed for 15 minutes I got up and blood was dripping down (no pain or cramps whatsoever) and when I wiped there was blood it wasn't enough to fill a panty liner though. It stopped... show more
    I'm about 8 weeks 5 days (according to last period) but 8 weeks 4 days (according to ultrasound) yesterday night I took a bath and when I got out I laid in my bed for 15 minutes I got up and blood was dripping down (no pain or cramps whatsoever) and when I wiped there was blood it wasn't enough to fill a panty liner though. It stopped bleeding after 2 minutes and spotted for another 20. I went to the emergency my blood levels matched my weeks and my cervix was very closed and there was no more bleeding. I had an ultrasound 6 days before this And my baby measured fine and heartbeat was great. I'm really confused. My mother bled with me for 4 months before she knew she was pregnant could that be what's happening to me.. PLEASE HELP I NEED ANSWERS. (I also have not had any bleeding today)
    2 answers · Pregnancy · 3 years ago
  • I'm pregnant and don't know how to tell him ?

    So there's this guy we've been messing around for 4 years I was pregnant by him in 2012 but ended up losing the baby he wasn't to happy than about it. So we still continued to mess around even though he was in a relationship(not anymore) and they have a 1 year old together well my point is I'm 8 weeks pregnant and I don't know... show more
    So there's this guy we've been messing around for 4 years I was pregnant by him in 2012 but ended up losing the baby he wasn't to happy than about it. So we still continued to mess around even though he was in a relationship(not anymore) and they have a 1 year old together well my point is I'm 8 weeks pregnant and I don't know how to tell him. I know he's gonna be pissed and I really don't need the stress because that's all he's gonna bring so I need some advice on what to do
    3 answers · Pregnancy · 3 years ago
  • I've been trying to conceive after a miscarriage in 2012 for the past 3 years and have not been pregnant one time since what's wrong ?

    I have regular periods they come on time every month I have not been on birth control. My partners been checked and there is nothing wrong with him I talked to my gynecologist but he said to try another year honestly it's been 3 and I've done everything possible that you could do. I'm only 25 and he says I still have time but I really... show more
    I have regular periods they come on time every month I have not been on birth control. My partners been checked and there is nothing wrong with him I talked to my gynecologist but he said to try another year honestly it's been 3 and I've done everything possible that you could do. I'm only 25 and he says I still have time but I really wanna give up so I'm open to any suggestions anyone has
    2 answers · Trying to Conceive · 3 years ago
  • What should I do ? Boyfriend wants to move in with a friend who's a girl?

    Ok my boyfriend has to move out of his apartment and he told me he's moving in for a month with a friend who's a girl he says their strictly friends I don't know her and I don't trust it. He doesn't wanna come live with me because he said I live far from his work but I have a car and told him I'm willing to pick him up and... show more
    Ok my boyfriend has to move out of his apartment and he told me he's moving in for a month with a friend who's a girl he says their strictly friends I don't know her and I don't trust it. He doesn't wanna come live with me because he said I live far from his work but I have a car and told him I'm willing to pick him up and drop him off but he's just shooting down all of my offers. I told him if he does move in with Her were done was that the right thing to say HELP!!!!!
    3 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 4 years ago
  • Is he still considered my baby's father ?

    I had my baby last January at 41 weeks and she passed away an hour 1/2 later due to a placental abruption. A lot of people always tell me that I cant be considered a mom or consider her dad my baby's daddy if thats how you wanna say it. I don't understand it our child was here even if she came out deceased we still created a child... show more
    I had my baby last January at 41 weeks and she passed away an hour 1/2 later due to a placental abruption. A lot of people always tell me that I cant be considered a mom or consider her dad my baby's daddy if thats how you wanna say it. I don't understand it our child was here even if she came out deceased we still created a child together. It hurts my feelings some people have no morals. Am I missing something or overreacting PLEASE HELP!!!
    5 answers · Family · 5 years ago
  • Sent my ex a text telling him my feelings was he interested ?

    Me and my ex who just so happens to be the father of my only child broke up 2 years ago. I been thinking about him non stop but we havent been having the best relationship, we argue all the time just like when we were together. To make a long story short I decided I want him back and wanna work things out. I told him how I still loved him and always... show more
    Me and my ex who just so happens to be the father of my only child broke up 2 years ago. I been thinking about him non stop but we havent been having the best relationship, we argue all the time just like when we were together. To make a long story short I decided I want him back and wanna work things out. I told him how I still loved him and always will and I cant luve without him. He hasnt seen our baby in over a year. He text me back and all he said was I dont know what to say but I do miss you but before anything I wanna see my son. Does that mean he's interested in getting together too ? HELP!!!
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 6 years ago